bltn1966 wrote: ↑Tue Jul 23, 2019 10:19 am
My beautiful HW Marie has surprised me through the years with some of the guys she dated. .... .
.....Marie is still very picky with the guys she date. But every now and then she surprise me with the guys she had sex with.
My wife sure surprised me. She has never been into macho guys. She said that she fell in love with me, because I am a kind and sensitive gentleman. She has often been critical of guys who are obsessed with working out and bodybuilding. She has often called them self-obsessed macho assholes. She often refers to the patriarchy, and is often critical of guys that she says possess toxic masculinity. She often labels certain guys as misogynists. When I first met her, she had no trouble telling macho guys who acted aggressive, to fuck off and leave her alone.
So it surprised me, when she started playing, and has seemed to show a preference for pretty macho guys. She has tended toward very muscular and beefy guys who she has met at the gym. She has brought home a lot of guys who are generally taller and much more muscular than I am. She has played with guys who were involved in pretty macho activities like martial arts competition, and motocross motorcycle competition. They are very different from all the guys I knew her to date in college.
Since she has started entertaining the attention of more macho guys, she has begun to act more submissive with them. At the same time, she has acted more dominant over me.
Some of the guys have very intense macho energy, and I have found some of them to be pretty intimidating. She has never been able to verbalize why things changed for her. Some of the men have tended to act dominant toward me, and she has sort of encouraged it, in subtle ways. Sometimes by just ignoring some of their actions, not confronting them on it, or leaving the room, to leave me feeling vulnerable and alone with them.
I have yet to figure out what brought about this change in her.