Be Careful What we Wish For-I Tried for 10 yrs, Now She Loves It.

[aurora36dd]

I registered here about 12-13 yrs ago when I got hit with the Hotwife/cuckold itch. However after a while of trying to convince her it just wasn't something she was really interested to pursue for real.
A quick back story on us. Been married 33 yrs and she is 10 yrs younger that myself, 2 kids now finally grown an out of house. She has been in menopause for the past 8-9 months as we estimate. I stay vigorously in maximum physical shape and she does best she can (battling changes her body is undergoing at this time in her life)
We have been playing with the"fantasy of the Hotwife/cuck lifestyle" but never really could she actually do it for real. We both have been previously into the bdsm lifestyle where she was mainly sub and myself Dom. She is certainly submissive in the bedroom, however things have been evolving and changing in some respects. As I/we have also used chastity belts for me for play and when we would "play the Hotwife/cuck fantasy thing" this most of the time would end up with me playing role of caged sub/cuck to her however at the last moment she would let me out and we would fuck hard to both of us having satisfying climaxes as she assumed her female submissive role being thrashed around to her climaxes.
Mind you she still is a very good looking & very well gifted woman. So about 1-2 yrs ago I bought her some very nice sexy casual clothes and suggested to her to maybe head to her favorite little spot for lunch times on Saturdays for a basic fun lunch and couple drinks. She liked that and she began to go a couple times a month and she felt comfortable doing so. She got to know the female bartender and just relaxed. When she would get home I would massage her and we would play into the evening with her being Dominant and I submit to her as being my Naughty Dominant Hotwife fantasy.
After a few months of her going to lunch her comfort level increased with meeting other people as she was out in a safe environment however she stayed in constant text communication with me.
Then came a day when she went dark on the texting for a longer time than usual and then I finally get a text "Get yourself strapped into your chair, I will be home soon"
I'm a pretty good design engineer and some yrs ago I built a remote control waiting chair that is quite comfortable and has leather straps to hold me in place. The closet is equipped with multiple cameras all viewed by her phone app so she may watch me and talk to me and she can control the locking mechanism for my hands to give her complete control of everything from anywhere, all done from her phone (yes there is a panic/emergency release I may use to escape if needed)
Anyway back to her latest text of telling me to strap myself in. Her "I will be home soon turned into about an hour and 1/2. As I was sitting there all that time not hearing a word and wondering, she finally comes home. At this point my mind is racing and she says nothing at 1st to me. She climbs onto me and immediately I sensed her different energy/ complete dominant attitude and because I was in chastity she rode my legs to multiple orgasms like a wild woman. She was soaked and a completely different woman.
She met someone that day and obviously clicked although nothing really sexual happened between them, something happened to her for sure and she was empowered being able to process the reality to become a naughty Hotwife.
Soon after that about 3-4 months later she became more interested in going out all dressed up sexy more during the evenings to a nicer classy rest/club where she can dance and we both know the head bartender so she is comfortable. She is not keen on the idea of online searching for dates rather she likes the thrill of hunting in the "wild"
About 6 months ago she went out all dressed nicely and came home shortly after midnight again with myself locked down in the chair awaiting her return and when she got home she was sexually giddy and I could definitely sense mens cologne and her face/lips had stubble feel and I could tell she had been at least kissing.....well long story short even though I was locked in chastity I prematurely exploded with how hot she made me. Even though that was not the intended plan I felt bad (mad at myself) I told her to give me the keys to the belt as I needed to reclaim her properly, which we did.
We have since moved up to a much more secure chastity belt a custom made Cararra 2.0 full belt to alleviate any type of "accident" so she regains full control without issues. She requested this because she wants to be able to ride my face when she gets home without worries of me losing it or PE from excitement.
Fast forward to today she is having a great time enjoying going out with a much more aggressive comfortable feeling of enjoying a variety of men on her terms knowing we both are having fun doing this and our own passion and sex life has evolved beyond what we expected. She has no interest of having a BF or steady rather she likes the attention and pursuit of just being naughty with other guys and the excitement when she gets home between us together.
I have no desire to see her with anyone as I am not that type. However she does now film her sucking cock or she will leave her phone on while she is being intimate which is just fine for both of us.

Anyway like the header says Be careful what we wish for!

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum aurora36dd. You kind of skipped over whether she fucked the guy when she came home with cologne smell or whether she fucked him before she came home. Is she fucking or giving head? Either way it's hot as hell we would just like more detail. She wants to be able to make you eat her while in restraint. Has she given you a creampie yet or sloppy seconds or thirds? You made the grade and have a hotwife. Tell us more.

[aurora36dd]

That one I mentioned was just the 1st breakthrough and then we had a life downturn with some sickness issues.. She did not actually fuck that guy as she admitted to me that she wasn't sure about my reaction afterwards would be in reality. However after she had seen how excited it made me with the PE orgasm and my reassuring her how proud she made me feel that she did what she did I believe that boosted her confidence.
She did get out at the end of June and she did meet a guy who she had a great time with and she ended fucking him, those video clips from her phone were priceless....so beautiful to see.
We went out to dinner last night and had great time. As we spoke she said she wants to go out next Saturday and keep locked in chastity all week leading up to her Saturday night and she mentioned she may have me clean her up orally only which means I may have to wait to fuck her afterwards.

[armyguyot1]

Sounds like a lot of fun. Make you eat her out and of course there with be enough cum left to have a wonderful sloppy seconds session as well. Keep us posted. I can't remember how big Aurora is? I mostly flew over the Aurora VOR rather than go there.

[aurora36dd]

Well we have been together since she was 21 so she has had only a few men in her. I think because of her age and the change she is going through combined with a couple bouts of cancer she has been fortunate to beat along with children's issues these past years she had fallen into a bummed out funk mentally. I explained to her I want her to feel desirable by me of course but I am her constant and love her no matter what. I explained I wish her to feel that confidence of being wanted and desired by every man in the room so she can have that inner feeling of good about her. Then experience that excitement of variety and experience that nervous energy getting kissed/fucked by another and always know I am at home to make her feel loved and content.protected. She is now starting to understand this can be fun for both of us.
BTW Aurora is her name as we are in the SE part of the country.

[armyguyot1]

My wife has always been a sexual woman and very good looking and hit on all the time. Menopause seems to either enhance or almost kill sex drive and for mine it enhanced it. She said having the kids leave was huge in that she no longer needed to be a Mommie and her sex drive went way up with menopause. She also began to feel mortal and if she was going to experience things fun she needed to get with it. My generation grew up thinking women had to be chaste or theu wouldn't find a husband and that sex and love were the same. It took both of us to realize sex is for fun and not at all the same as love. We love one another and that wont change. She realizes she can enjoy cock and cum without being in love as her love is always there. I married a slut disgised as a virgin. She was a virgin and I took care of that in the back seat of a 58 chev. She has only recently realized that she can be a slut and I still love her and even more. Life is good.

[aurora36dd]

"Menopause seems to either enhance or almost kill sex drive" I believe that more now that ever. When hers 1st started I was very concerned that it was going to go dead altogether. Aside from the hot-flashes that seem to be lesser now than previously she is climbing way up and getting more orgasms and willing to do more and more things outside of her previous comfort zone. Mine now loves the thought of being "My Naughty Slut" as she like to be refereed to as, she never really warmed up to the title Hotwife for some reason. But she sure is taking being Dominant and wearing the key to my chastity belt on her necklace everyday even at work now. Many changes have happened these past few months, all for the positive.

[armyguyot1]

Mine is turned on by the title Hotwife but doesn't admit it. The hotflashes were not fun but I think the fact that she can fuck unprotected and not get pregnant is a real turn on now and with her reality check of age she is thinking why not. Mine loves wearing her HW anklet as I love it also. I just text her and told her I am really needing a BJ from my Hotwife. Sexy texts always turn her on. I always get laid when I text. Last Sunday she blew me to a huge load in her mouth and I told her how hot it was and so was the deep kiss after. Mine is more tender now but loves to fuck anyway. Another downside of menopause but offset by her freedom to fuck unprotected and as much as she wants or can handle. She also cums more and I think because she no longer has to be a good girl and can let herself cum and cum and cum. I can't keep up obviously but am so turned on by her orgasms.

[Long Lurker 34]

I registered here about 12-13 yrs ago when I got hit with the Hotwife/cuckold itch. However after a while of trying to convince her it just wasn't something she was really interested to pursue for real.
A quick back story on us. Been married 33 yrs and she is 10 yrs younger that myself, 2 kids now finally grown an out of house. She has been in menopause for the past 8-9 months as we estimate. I stay vigorously in maximum physical shape and she does best she can (battling changes her body is undergoing at this time in her life)
We have been playing with the"fantasy of the Hotwife/cuck lifestyle" but never really could she actually do it for real. We both have been previously into the bdsm lifestyle where she was mainly sub and myself Dom. She is certainly submissive in the bedroom, however things have been evolving and changing in some respects. As I/we have also used chastity belts for me for play and when we would "play the Hotwife/cuck fantasy thing" this most of the time would end up with me playing role of caged sub/cuck to her however at the last moment she would let me out and we would fuck hard to both of us having satisfying climaxes as she assumed her female submissive role being thrashed around to her climaxes.
Mind you she still is a very good looking & very well gifted woman. So about 1-2 yrs ago I bought her some very nice sexy casual clothes and suggested to her to maybe head to her favorite little spot for lunch times on Saturdays for a basic fun lunch and couple drinks. She liked that and she began to go a couple times a month and she felt comfortable doing so. She got to know the female bartender and just relaxed. When she would get home I would massage her and we would play into the evening with her being Dominant and I submit to her as being my Naughty Dominant Hotwife fantasy.
After a few months of her going to lunch her comfort level increased with meeting other people as she was out in a safe environment however she stayed in constant text communication with me.
Then came a day when she went dark on the texting for a longer time than usual and then I finally get a text "Get yourself strapped into your chair, I will be home soon"
I'm a pretty good design engineer and some yrs ago I built a remote control waiting chair that is quite comfortable and has leather straps to hold me in place. The closet is equipped with multiple cameras all viewed by her phone app so she may watch me and talk to me and she can control the locking mechanism for my hands to give her complete control of everything from anywhere, all done from her phone (yes there is a panic/emergency release I may use to escape if needed)
Anyway back to her latest text of telling me to strap myself in. Her "I will be home soon turned into about an hour and 1/2. As I was sitting there all that time not hearing a word and wondering, she finally comes home. At this point my mind is racing and she says nothing at 1st to me. She climbs onto me and immediately I sensed her different energy/ complete dominant attitude and because I was in chastity she rode my legs to multiple orgasms like a wild woman. She was soaked and a completely different woman.
She met someone that day and obviously clicked although nothing really sexual happened between them, something happened to her for sure and she was empowered being able to process the reality to become a naughty Hotwife.
Soon after that about 3-4 months later she became more interested in going out all dressed up sexy more during the evenings to a nicer classy rest/club where she can dance and we both know the head bartender so she is comfortable. She is not keen on the idea of online searching for dates rather she likes the thrill of hunting in the "wild"
About 6 months ago she went out all dressed nicely and came home shortly after midnight again with myself locked down in the chair awaiting her return and when she got home she was sexually giddy and I could definitely sense mens cologne and her face/lips had stubble feel and I could tell she had been at least kissing.....well long story short even though I was locked in chastity I prematurely exploded with how hot she made me. Even though that was not the intended plan I felt bad (mad at myself) I told her to give me the keys to the belt as I needed to reclaim her properly, which we did.
We have since moved up to a much more secure chastity belt a custom made Cararra 2.0 full belt to alleviate any type of "accident" so she regains full control without issues. She requested this because she wants to be able to ride my face when she gets home without worries of me losing it or PE from excitement.
Fast forward to today she is having a great time enjoying going out with a much more aggressive comfortable feeling of enjoying a variety of men on her terms knowing we both are having fun doing this and our own passion and sex life has evolved beyond what we expected. She has no interest of having a BF or steady rather she likes the attention and pursuit of just being naughty with other guys and the excitement when she gets home between us together.
I have no desire to see her with anyone as I am not that type. However she does now film her sucking cock or she will leave her phone on while she is being intimate which is just fine for both of us.

Anyway like the header says Be careful what we wish for!

A36DD
- Awesome recounting of how you have arrived too this point and I am looking forward to future posts.
- By chance, your name isn't "Gord" is it?

[aurora36dd]

No I am not Gord.

[aurora36dd]

We had a very nice evening this past Saturday night. We got dressed up to go out for a nice dinner as we don't really go out but maybe once a month or every other month (although she gets out more often). She looked so very sexy and I was asked to assist her by clipping her stockings, attaching her HW anklets, zipping her dress. She looked and felt Great. We had great dinner, she had a couple drinks and all was great. Also the previous night Friday we did what she calls "prep night" where she did her facial routines, I was requested to paint her nails and toes etc. She also put me in the newer chastity belt and put the key on her necklace. She originally said that the chastity belt would be just for "a little while". This was expressed as just for Friday night and possibly Sat night.
When we got home from dinner Saturday she was feeling very sexy and allowed me to rub her feet and body when she started to get very wet after allowing me to play with her pussy. After about 20 mins of turning her on she climbed up into her standard position with her knee on my thigh when she likes me to finger her pussy to where she squirts, Damn she did squirt all over. After she came she excused herself to go into her dressing room area and I figured she was going to come back with the chastity key in her hand. Nope she came back dressed in nothing but my favorite pair of panties on and her sexiest tall platform heels. Stood over me as I sat on the edge of the bed as I had to look up at her while she said "keep your tongue in your mouth and I will kiss you only and no kissing me back" I did as requested and she lightly kissed my trembling horny lips. Damn I wanted her so much at that moment. Then out of the blue she said "good night and thanked me for a wonderful evening" She climbed into bed and drifted off to sleep. Needless to say I had a "hard" night lol.
Yesterday was a great lazy day and as last evening (Sunday) prior to bedtime I was thinking maybe she would want to fuck before the week started. Ha...not happening as I am still locked in chastity belt as I type this and I am teleworking all week.

She just texted me from work this morning asking me how I'm doing today and basic pleasantries. Then she sent a follow up text stating " FYI you will be staying in the chastity belt all week and Friday you will prep me for another Sat night out, however I will be going out alone and you shall stay home as I have plans. You will need to be very attentive this week to me and maybe I will allow you to clean me up when I get home Saturday night however as it stands at this point you will be kept in chastity until the following weekend 8/31 unless I change my mind, Understood!!!"

So Alrighty then! This text really blew my mind to say the least. I'm pretty sure because as she has been going out more often lately she will be hooking up with one of the guys she has been meeting with (I'm sure she will tell me in due time prior to Sat night). I'm still reeling from what has happened this past weekend and my hands are still shaking since I read her text 2 hrs ago. This appears to be a couple long weeks ahead.

[aurora36dd]

Mine is turned on by the title Hotwife but doesn't admit it. The hotflashes were not fun but I think the fact that she can fuck unprotected and not get pregnant is a real turn on now and with her reality check of age she is thinking why not. Mine loves wearing her HW anklet as I love it also. I just text her and told her I am really needing a BJ from my Hotwife. Sexy texts always turn her on. I always get laid when I text. Last Sunday she blew me to a huge load in her mouth and I told her how hot it was and so was the deep kiss after. Mine is more tender now but loves to fuck anyway. Another downside of menopause but offset by her freedom to fuck unprotected and as much as she wants or can handle. She also cums more and I think because she no longer has to be a good girl and can let herself cum and cum and cum. I can't keep up obviously but am so turned on by her orgasms.

I believe its that definition of Compersion we enjoy, as I also get very turned on by her excitement and many many orgasms.

[realcucklife]

Sounds like your both having fun with the dynamic.

[aurora36dd]

The amount of new high end make up, the super sexy lingerie and current collection of come fuck me heels she has acquired in the past few months just amazes me. She is watching her diet and exercising, keeping her hair done beautiful and above all her feeling of empowerment and motivated pursuit to get out more and flirt is Amazing!
She always says "I'm doing this for me but I'll always bring it home to share with you"

[armyguyot1]

I order stuff from Adore Me and Yandy a lot and sometimes Amazon. I love buying her slutty clothes. She is dressing more and more sexy/sluttu when she is away from home. She has drawers of stuff she has never worn but I love buying it anyway. I got her a summer LBD lately that is open shoulder and short. Hot. Several slutty lingerie pieces. She also has numerous HW anklets. What a fun toy a wife can be.

[armyguyot1]

Funny how I will buy her someth ing really slutty and think she won't wear it and she loves it and sometimes it's pretty mild and she won't wear it. I do have to say she is really good with fashion and that could be it. We tried crotchless panties and they just aren't practical and thou spark a wet pussy from the idea. Using them for what they appear to be for is not practicle. Better to remove and git them out of the way. She loves slutty dresses and linerie and loves to wear them frequently.

[aurora36dd]

A little news today. She texted me around 10am this morning and said that this Saturday night she is meeting up with a guy she met this past June. I remember she came home that night very wet however they didn't get to fuck. She said today that she plans to fuck him this time for sure. I guess he doesn't live locally and is here in town this week. She said they are doing drinks, dinner and going back to his hotel.
She seems to be very excited for this as she had a real spring in her step last night I could tell but she didn't say everything. She said he confirmed it with her this morning. Wow!

[aurora36dd]

She came home today with her hair done at the salon and looks stunning! I had ordered a new bra and garter set from Secrets and she asked me to clean up her red bottom platform heels. Painted her toes about an hour ago. Tonight is "prep night" to get some of the details done so she can focus on her bath, shaving, make up tomorrow night for her night out. She is Full of energy and yes she happily locked me in chastity for the entire week last Sunday and she informed me that I should plan on another week however I may have clean up duties tomorrow night.
This is happening for sure it seems.

[elina]

Dear Aurora36DD

Thank you for this wonderful update.
Incredibly hot to see that your Wife is now really looking forward to, and preparing Herself to seduce Her new lover, and at the same time locking you up for a significant lenght of time to ensure you understand your new position in the relationship.

Cannot wait to hear how Her date today evolves,

Sincerely
elina

[Rogueuser1]

Amazing - I hope it goes well tonight and that you fully enjoy your clean up duties!

[aurora36dd]

Well it's Saturday late afternoon 4:30pm and she is just getting ready now. I was just allowed to shave her sweet pussy from behind as she finished up her shower, damn she is swollen tonight! As I was shaving her she said to me "This is your last time to see it until after another man has it" This woman knows how to get to me!!! She's confirmed to meet him at 8ish.

[Rogueuser1]

SO HOT! I hope it all went well and look forward to hearing more!

[aurora36dd]

What a night! Picking up where I left off. She spent about 2 hours in her dressing area playing with her make up and doing her hair a certain beautiful way all tie up with her bangs all down framing her face. about 7pm she calls me to bring her a drink to relax her a bit, I respond immediately and when I open the door she is standing there all done up like a Goddess in an all black lingerie outfit (one I had bought her a while ago but never worn it until last night) I was mesmerized in awe. She instructs me to kneel and present her that drink. She was feeling very sexy yet very Dominant. She reaches under her vanity and grabs a leather collar and buckles on my neck. " Now were both dressed for the evening & this matches your steel chastity belt" she says. She then says to me that it's my job to clip her stockings correctly on her garter.

As I'm trembling at this point she finally says to me to "get my ass into the closet into the chair and strapped in" I'm still stunned by how Hot she looked and smelled so damn good but I did as she asked without hesitation. 15 or so mins later she comes into closet and begins to tease me and as she slowly climbs on me a little (of course I cannot touch her as my hands are bound) She says to me "I want you to fluff me for my date as I want to show up already wet for him". She used her Hitachi vibrator to get herself off a few short times using my thighs to rub her sweet pussy on. No kissing me to preserve her fresh face and lipstick. After about 15 mins of her moaning and cumming what I figured was 3-4 short climaxes she got up and walked out of the closet. A few minute later she comes back in all finished dressed in a beautiful black low cut dress. My mouth was watering and I had trouble forming words from the excitement. She then says "I am going to leave now and I fully intend to fuck this guy tonight, you will sit here for a while and I will contact you with an update after I meet up with him and have a drink"- I love you g-bye". I'm now sitting there alone and turned on past belief and feeling all those cuck emotions and my sexy wife is on her way to another lucky guy.

[elina]

Thanks Aurora

Wonderful.
The name of this thread is obviously so correct!!

And from your writing, I think you love it as well?
I can only imagine the feelings as She command you to kneel, serve Her the drink and then puts the collar on your neck....

Can't wait to hear how this evolved...

Sincerely
elina

[aurora36dd]

Thanks Aurora

Wonderful.
The name of this thread is obviously so correct!!

And from your writing, I think you love it as well?
I can only imagine the feelings as She command you to kneel, serve Her the drink and then puts the collar on your neck....

Can't wait to hear how this evolved...

Sincerely
elina

Heck yes I love it! We both love it now finally. It took what seemed to be forever to reach this point with her actually doing it and actually having fun with it.