I first realised I wanted a Hotwife when...

[wordlover2000]

"Other." When I was 19 years old and fucked a 51 year-old woman while her husband watched the whole thing. She was so excited I thought she was going to set the bed on fire all by herself. After I was done the husband climbed on the bed, spread her legs, and plunged his cock into her while she said things to him like, "Did you like watching me get fucked? Did you see me take a load from this young stud?" He came in about a minute and a half.

I decided that was about the hottest thing I had ever seen, or been a part of. When I got married I knew I wanted to experience more of that, which did eventually happen.

[SRKnight]

My first wife Karen (R.i.P) and I were 19 when we married. Neither one of us were virgins but she said she had only been with one other guy, Danny. She was babysitter for the kids of Danny and his wife when they would go out on weekend nights. Danny was 21 years older than Karen and she had a great crush on him. One night when he gave her a ride home they stopped at a vacant parking lot and he took her virginity. They did this several times over the next few months, then Danny stopped it as afraid his wife might find out he was doing a high school student.

Just hearing that part before and after we got married was pretty exciting.

After we had been married 6-7 months we were fooling around one night and I found a kissmark on the back of her neck under her hair. After some questioning she admitted that her and Danny had fooled around that afternoon. She also admitted this was the 3rd time they had been together since we married. It was hot her telling about it and I couldn’t say I was jealous when I was so hard listening to her story. The image of my 20 year old wife with a 41 year old man was hot and they continued the affair for about five years. Amazing the outfits he would buy her to wear in public with him and the things he got her to do

So I knew I loved a hot wife and now on my third one.

[lanceHarden25]

"Other." When I was 19 years old and fucked a 51 year-old woman while her husband watched the whole thing. She was so excited I thought she was going to set the bed on fire all by herself. After I was done the husband climbed on the bed, spread her legs, and plunged his cock into her while she said things to him like, "Did you like watching me get fucked? Did you see me take a load from this young stud?" He came in about a minute and a half.

I decided that was about the hottest thing I had ever seen, or been a part of. When I got married I knew I wanted to experience more of that, which did eventually happen.

It’s interesting to hear from a young bulls perspective. I’d love to hear more of your story

[lanceHarden25]

I first realized I loved slutty girls when I brought a girl to a wedding and she disappeared for 40 minutes with a guy who was 5 years older who finger banged her and she sucked him off.

I was crazy jealous and so turned on.

[cucking88]

I first realized I wanted a hot wife was when my first girlfriend cheated on me with a common friend and fucked him. I broke up with her immediately but I couldn’t handle the pain of her cheating on me. But I was aroused at the same time and couldn’t stop jerking off thinking about how he would’ve eaten her.

[bltn1966]

When we’re started dating my wife was scared I wouldn’t want anything to do with her if I heard a rumor about her. With that, she tearfully confessed that she was involved in a foursome with her best friend and two guys. She was ashamed that she let it happen but worst of all, she enjoyed it. She thought she had just earned herself a once way ticket to hell. My dick was hard as a rock as I tried to comfort her. Right then and there I knew I wanted to see her with another man. I wanted a HW before I even knew what a HW was.

[Mgcouplemn]

I had an older boss (Roger) that had a party room where he and his wife had orgies. One day when I was 18ish, he invited me to one of their orgies. The first married women I ever had sex was Roger's wife Linda, Roger sat right next to his wife and I as I fucked her. It was exciting and embarrassing at the same time, mostly weird. After the first time it got easier and his wife asked me to keep coming to their orgies. I would come alone and be the first one to fuck Rogers wife each time. After a while Linda told me about swinging and told me I could attend the swing parties too, catch was that everyone there had a partner, she said unlike the orgies with everyone being single people, at the swing parties they were all couples and most of the couples there were married ones. It was exciting to me an 18 yo that I could fuck married women while their husbands watched. She told me if I could find someone to be a couple with I was welcome to join. The hard part was finding a partner to bring to the swing parties.

I attended a lot of the orgies and a few swing parties with a female friend named Mary (no attachment, just sex). One swing party I saw a beautiful tall thin blonde walk in with her guy. The first time I saw her naked she was being fucked by a partier. Out of all the women there she intrigued me. I watched her fuck four more guys before I had my turn with her. While fucking her I told her how much I liked watching her having sex, she smiled, her pussy contracted and I started to pull out as not to cum in her. she put her legs around me forcing me to cum in her. Afterward I asked her if all the guy would cum in her, she told me no and I was just lubrication for the other guys. At the end of the night we all gathered the partners we came there with. On the way out Laurie gave me her phone number. I called her the next day, we went out she asked if I wanted to watch her fuck, I said yes. I met and started swinging with Laurie at about 20. She says she started about 16, her married boyfriend was 22ish and would take her to swing parties he was cheating on his wife. I met Laurie and fucked her for the first time at a party he brought her to. we got married 4 years later and continued the sex with others to even now. We only pick up guys now, she fucks them while I watch and masturbate.

[vrmtr]

Would love to here how you went about finding the guy....i think my is close

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I blame her (lol). She got into the habit of riding me and fantasizing out loud about other people joining us...sometimes a woman, but usually a man. It started driving me crazy, so one time I just blurted out, "OK, I want to do it for real. I want to watch you suck another guy's cock." She stopped dead in the middle of grinding on me and said, "You're kidding." I assured her I wasn't. We finished fucking and she said, "Let me think about it." It must have been a tough decision (again, lol) because she came back less than 48 hours later and said, "OK, I'm ready." Took only a few weeks after that to locate someone to give her a fabulous first experience.
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[slenderfish]

With SW it was a culmination of several things. But the one that really hits my recollection was when we were dating seriously and although we had not yet had "the talk" she was essentially telling me she was exclusive to me. I was happy we had not yet had that talk, because I was not yet exclusive to her.

Well, one day I was visiting her (long weekend; she lived across the country and we were dating long distance) and walking back to her place. Actually, we were just leaving the little market around the corner from her apartment and I'd been bagging the groceries and she ended up walking out ahead of me. I no sooner turned the corner to catch up with her and saw she was talking with a relatively handsome guy. She saw me coming up and was visibly uncomfortable. She hesitated and then, because it was so obvious and awkward that I was waiting for it, turned her attention to me and made the introduction, but no mention of boyfriend or dating or anything. He took a look at the groceries and then her and then at the entrance to her apartment and then excused himself on his way.

She didn't say anything and I didn't ask.

I never really gave it much thought, just that perhaps they'd gone out before, etc. Turns out the had. Again, no biggie.

But I really got turned on when, a year or two into our marriage, she asked me to help her set up auto-backup of her phone. After checking on her setup, I showed her where her photos now also lived on her computer (my old computer). And I saw a series of photos with that guy! She was sitting right there and I clicked through them. It was of a date night out with her friends (couples) who I recognized. Over the course of the night SW and the guy started getting closer and more touchy. She was clearly into him. She was also clearly getting hammered. The last handful of images in the set were of the two of them in a limo and she was smiling at the camera laying across his lap, with tight whit jeans and her tight booty in his face. His hand was in a position just before the spank of her cheeks.

That was the one.

[isinlarsa]

Women have different reactions to their man going down on them after they've been fucked by another man and he's cum inside her. My first wife wanted me to eat her out after she was fucked. I think she got off having her husband tasting the result of her infidelity. My girlfriend had no issues in me eating her creampie, but didn't get my attraction. I've never had a woman who would refuse to let me eat her out.

[bjgirl]

My wife is a very attractive brunette, bearing a close resemblance to GIanna Michaels, the porn star. She gets a lot of male attention but only had one boyfriend in back high school before we met. Needless to say she was very inexperienced. When we started living together (early 20's) she started a new job and told me about a guy she worked with who was always flirting with her. She found him attractive and always came home wet and excited. I had always had a fantasy of watching her with another guy so we began talking about it during sex.
Eventually, one thing led to another and she ended up sucking him off during his lunch hour when day when she was home / off for the day.

[ucaneffher]

Surprised that there's no "OTHER" option.

I think that in my case, I started dating a very attractive girl who at that time was out of my league. We were friends for a while before we dated and during our friendship she was very vocal about her nympho desires in the future (she was still a virgin at that point).

She had several promiscuous girlfriends and promiscuous older sisters. Those 3 factors had me gripping on for life and realizing that I was just some nerdy looking guy with this hot chick who was being pressure by her older sisters and her hot friends, as well as her own sexual desires.

I stuck around as much as a could in order to preserve my relationship with this hot chick even if it meant getting cheated on (which I really expected to happen) I knew I would not be able to compete with two sisters, 2-3 of her girlfriends, and her own curiosity so I just accepted that it was inevitable.

I think I expected it so much that I ended liking it and after dating for a year and not happening, I ended asking her why she hadn't accepted the suggestions that her sisters' and friends had made, especially because they all would continually introduce different guys to her. Any how, I told her that I would understand if she was curious and I would be okay with it.

That's where my fantasy began...

[Bobs52]

I guess I came into it by accident of sorts. I always loved reading the Penthouse letters and stories even more than I enjoyed the photos. Early on the letters and stories that got me going were girl-girl stories. For years if you would have asked me what my favorite fantasy was it would have been that.

As time went on and I got married and the internet evolved and increased with access to essentially anything that turned you on, I found myself drawn to stories of wife sharing and wife cheating. I was quite jealous in the early days of my marriage. Accordingly as I read these stories I always fantasized they involved someone else’s wife not mine. These were not specific wives I knew, just not mine. I couldn’t bring myself to fantasize about my own wife fucking someone else.

Over time I realized that this was just some defense mechanism I built in my fantasies to protect me from admitting that it turned me on to think of my wife fucking someone else. Gradually I came to accept it and started fantasizing specifically about my wife doing this.

Eventually, I shared this with my wife. She took it pretty well and after years of helping me fantasize she even acted on it in real life. It’s only been the one time and it has been years ago, but I’m still thrilled by it and in fact still masturbate to it this day.

So the whole process took literally decades, but that’s how I finally arrived here.

[atl0707]

We were at a bar when a younger, taller guy walked up and took out his cock. My wife sucked it on the spot and swallowed. It was a little humiliating because we were in front of many others who knew we were a couple, but it was incredibly hot. She's been my little whore to this day.

[isinlarsa]

We were at a bar when a younger, taller guy walked up and took out his cock. My wife sucked it on the spot and swallowed. It was a little humiliating because we were in front of many others who knew we were a couple, but it was incredibly hot. She's been my little whore to this day.

What kind of bar was it that he could take his cock out and present it to your wife to suck without getting thrown out?

[Greg_N_Shelley]

I don't see "I caught her sending a pic of her tits to an ex-boyfriend"

I guess one of the 'caught her' cheating options is closest.

[BT2]

My wife becoming a hotwife was completely unplanned for. Neither of us had even heard of the word "hotwife" before this site's forerunner "Bianca". As such, I never had any fantasy about wanting a hotwife.

This was a second marriage for the both of us. We shared some sex stories about our past, read "Penthouse Letters" to each other and learned about what turned each other on, and even shared fantasies. We would go to an occasional adult movie, a strip club, the local nude beach, a remote hotsprings, she would flash occasionally, and go with me to dinner in a dress but no underwear, etc.

About that time bodyrub parlors were gaining some notoriety in our city, so we decided to try one for her. None would take female clients. But one place recommended a local adult newspaper. We tried it and found a guy. I was there when she eventually lay on her back on the massage table, full frontal naked, hard nipples and black bush fully exposed (I thought I would have a heart attack.) Anyway, part way through the massage she was pulling at his clothes for him to get undressed to. The first visit ended in a happy ending for her, the second visit included mutual oral, and the third visit ended in intercourse.

BTW, I found the first time I saw her enjoy herself sexually with another man was very difficult for me. But before long I loved watching her "in action". I always felt comfortable that she had good sense to know what the limits were, and she never gave me any cause to worry - I trusted her and she trusted me.

[jrobb]

Little known to me at the time, my interest began within a few years of us being married.

Our sex life before marriage was always a good time, but it wasn't as hot after we tied the knot. More than anything, that was probably because living together as husband/wife vs occasionally having an opportunity to have sex revealed a disparity in our respective sex drives. I was always horny (still am), and she was happy with only a couple times a week.

That began my interest in finding stories in Penthouse Forum magazine about women who were comfortable being outwardly sexual. They reflected a life with fantasies and activities that only a flirtatious, sexually outgoing woman would exhibit. One that enjoyed teasing men with maybe innocent up-skirt views and "accidental" breast or hand bumps against crotches with men. All of those were quite far from the way my wife carried herself.

When the day arrived YEARS later that my wife expressed an interest in my friend's sexually charged story about a threesome, I wasted no time, and within about 30 minutes, she was floating in our hot tub with her pussy filled with my load and my buddy's.

JR

[early-kink]

Hi folks!! Back again after a long time off.

Regarding this thread title, I can share my own story that goes back some years. I told this story in another thread on here a few years ago - can't remember which thread. I was dating a girl for some time, and we were "going steady" sort-of. She had gone away on a trip with a bunch of friends for several weeks. When she got back, she seemed a tiny bit different - I didn't know why. After a few weeks had passed, I found some hard evidence she'd been with someone else during her trip. The guy had given her a few memento's (jewelry that was "new" to her sparse collection) to keep, along with a picture of himself. I found these memento's by accident when she left his picture where she could see it every day. When I confronted her about it, she confessed that she'd done some sexual things with him while on her trip. I was very hurt and angry, and so didn't talk to her for about a week, despite her calling me every day.

As more days passed, and the more I thought about it, the thought of her being with that other guy turned me on like an addictive drug. I knew what things she was capable of, and good at sexually, so mentally picturing her enjoying herself with him was intoxicating. I was hard all the time thinking about her & him. One day when she called me, I said we should talk - I missed her.

When we got together in person, we talked about her cheating on me on her trip. I told her how it hurt me and made me angry. I asked her if she had a good time and if she liked the experiences with the guy, and she said she did have a good time, and enjoyed their time together. I confessed that even though we were / and had been a "steady couple", my thoughts kept going back to her and him enjoying sex together - and that it turned me on like nothing else I've ever experienced. A slight smile flashed across her lips, and I asked her if she'd like to keep dating other guys "on the side" while we remained a committed "steady couple." Since we didn't want to break up at that time, she said with a smile, that yes, she would like that. I agreed to support her wishes, and by then we were both so turned on that we had scorching-hot sex that evening.

She began dating a couple guys "on the side", and when she'd return from her dates, she agreed to tell me all about what she and her date had done together. She told me every detail, and seemed to enjoy watching my size & hardness increase as she recounted all of her erotic fun. Seeing my physical reactions, it made her horny too, and we'd go crazy on each other. Her sexy side-dates were like throwing gas on our own relationship, and we continued like that for some time. We broke up later because of different life goals that required both of us moving to different states.

That was the beginning of my hotwife attraction, long before I ever heard the term "hotwife" - or knew what it meant. Those mental attractions are still with me today.

[54321]

One swing party I saw a beautiful tall thin blonde walk in with her guy.

Are there any pics of this gorgeous creature in the Hotties Forum?

54321

[Her number1]

As a teenager, I learned that many in our community were swingers and went to key parties. Many were my Mom's friends, and her brother and SIL, and sister. Combine that with stories in magazines of wife swapping, I was drawn to have my future wife do that.
When I met Farmgirl, she was in the 8th grade and played flute in the band. Learning that she changed into her band uniform in the back of the bus, set my wind to racing.
At the time, I didn't know the term "hotwife", but knew I was completely turned on by the thought of my girlfriend and future wife fucking other men. Standard societal indoctrination and normal jealousy kept me from admitting it to her for a while.

[matthewscott77]

I was with an ex at the time and had never heard of hotwifing. I caught her cheating and she confessed to it. After talking about it I said I would forgive her no matter what she told me, but I wanted to hear how it happened and what general stuff they did.

We were laying in bed facing each, trying to establish an intimate and peaceful setting. When she first told about when they kissed for the first time my heart started to race. I thought I was just starting to get angry. Ha! She didn’t go into too many other details but when she talked about how they undressed each other and were making out naked, I started getting hard. Like really, really hard. She only gave him a blowjob but when she told me, I felt like I had to fuck her right then. I remember thinking that the urge to fuck her stemmed from the idea that I wanted to make sure she knew I forgave her. I know now that it was because her sucking his cock and swallowing his cum turned me on like I’ve never been turned on before.

[Cgb29]

My wife and I started dating as teenagers. She was the type to have more friends who were boys than girls. From the very beginning, I enjoyed seeing her interacting with guys.

She made clear early on that she'd always be friends with guys and anyone who wanted to date her could deal with it. Even before we discussed the idea of sharing, we both had an understanding that she enjoyed attention from boys and I enjoyed seeing her get attention from boys.

One night when I was 17 and she was 15, I went to her house to hang out and one of her guy friends who was also 15 was there. She and I were cuddled up in an oversize chair and he was on the couch. She got up to get something from the kitchen and when she came back in the room he said "I'm jealous no one's cuddling with me." So she went over to the couch, he put his arm out and she cuddled up to him. She ended up laying in his lap. I was about to go crazy with excitement and I knew from that night that I wanted her to eventually have sex with other guys. I kind of always knew it, but that confirmed it for me.

[hornedhubby]

I'm a 67 yo wannabe, married since 1981 to a truly wonderful wife. Even without fruition on the HW front, I think this is a fun story.

It was our first road trip together in the summer of 1980, to Columbus, Ohio to look for jobs while staying with my aunt and uncle. N and I had been living together for three months, starting to learn each other sexually to the point where several times it had become absolutely electric between us. And we were fucking like bunnies, as well, 2-3 times a day. But only all about us.

So my uncle and aunt were childless. Their apartment was filled with stacks of Penthouse, Playboy, Playgirl and Viva mags. It felt like a very naughty place to be staying. One afternoon we were alone there, and N asked for an erotic massage (a pleasure I had introduced just a month or so before to extend our preludes and my best sex idea ever).

I found some baby oil and just before we climbed into bed, N asked me to grab an ashtray and bring a couple Penthouse mags. Both ideas were new additions to our evolving massage ritual and hit me in my kink bullseye. The scenario was so hot it took my breath away, and my cock was throbbing. She laid on her belly, lit a cigarette, spread her legs just bit and started reading the PH Letters section. I sensed she wanted to tease this out as long as possible, so I took my time, oiling and massaging her feet, calves, the back of her thighs, her ass, then her back. Finally she flipped over on her back with me sitting between her legs, kept reading and lit another cigarette. With my eyes transfixing on her crazy-hard nipples, I oiled and rubbed the top of her legs, inside of her thighs and then her gorgeous tits. When I finally touched her pussy, it was soaked. I probably ate her for 40 minutes, ending in the 69 position and finally with me mounting up, sliding in and doing my damndest to last as long as possible.

She told me when we finished it was just one continuous cum for her.

When we left to drive home the next morning, we pinched one of the Penthouse mags and she read it most of the way home. By that point, I had realized that her sexual capacity and sense of adventure were way higher than I had understood it to be. I was intrigued and obsessed. And I had certainly noticed that the HW and group sex letters were her favorites.

My desires flowed from there.

Given every opportunity to do so, N has never gone down the HW slide, but she has given me everything else a woman can give and continues to do so.

I had a bad seizure on Aug. 15, spent two days in a coma and came home feeling like the luckiest guy on the planet because of my wife, kids, friends. It was fun sharing this story.

Best wishes to all you folks.

[wifelver]

My option is not on your list.

I first started thinking about it when my gf became aroused by knowing and hearing of my sexual tryst with another beautiful woman. It drove her wild with passion, not anger.

That gave rise to my thinking of the situation being flipped and her with another guy.

I didn’t have to introduce the topic to her. She already understood from experience.