My wife introduces me to hotwifing.

[zorro]

Very interesting tale of relationships… how did the monogamy with Linda end ? Did she initiate seeing a bf ?

Yes she did. I can tell that part of my story next if anyone is interested.

Actually, it was always the women I was in relationships with who proposed we open our relationship.

Absolutely interested! You have had some great adventures along the way.

[54321]

Please do go on!

54321

[Meghans Man]

Please continue

[Late]

Over 4600 views at this point. Yes, please continue.

Late

[isinlarsa]

I appreciate the views, but would love to see some comments.

[isinlarsa]

Our two nights with Karen had been our only escapade into non-monogamous sex.

We fell into normal life — having adventures like travel to foreign places, enjoying shows and concerts, and being busy with our careers.

Then Linda told me she wanted to take dancing lessons. At first I thought she meant like interpretive dance, or something like a form of exercise; but no, she meant social dances. I wasn’t much of a dancer, and I think Linda felt a little awkward dancing with me since she was taller.

The thought passed through my mind that she would be dancing with men, and I always thought that, in a way, dancing was proxy for sex. So she went off to dance class once a week.

After a while she started talking about one of the men in the dance class. Gradually she let me know she was attracted to him, and then that she wanted to go out with him. It progressed so slowly that I wasn’t shocked.

We talked a long time about what it meant, and how it would affect our relationship. She assured me that it wasn’t that she was dissatisfied with our relationship, but that she was thinking how little experience she really had. And she reminded me that I had been in non-exclusive relationship before. For my part, I told her I wasn't worried about another man getting into her panties, but was concerned if he got into her head.

Of course, her dating led to sex with him. She did keep me up-to-date as it progressed; and the angst I felt was mixed with excitement.

I returned to having the experience of sitting alone at home knowing another man was fucking Linda. She usually stayed overnight with him, so I didn’t get to reclaim her until the next night. The sex with her was hot, as I would imagine the other man fucking her. I wanted to ask her if she was thinking about him as I fucked her, but I guess I was afraid of the answer.

The next thing that happened did shock me. She told me that he wanted to go swinging with her. It turned out that he was heavy into the swinging scene, and proposed that she participate as well.

I guess that he was thinking that since Linda had a boyfriend (me), she would not be opposed to having other men, too. Also, since Linda was so attractive and sexy, I suspect he would use her a “bait” to hook up with hot swinging couples. (There is a saying in the swinging community that “Swans swing with swans and ducks swing with ducks.” He saw Linda as a swan he could use to connect with other swans,)

So, they started connecting with other couples in the swinging community.

I knew they had arranged a date with another couple, and I couldn’t wait for her to tell me how it went.

She told me that her boyfriend (his name was Gary) and she had gone over to another couples’ house. After some warm up time in their hot tube, they each part off with the other husband and wife. The other husband took her to a bedroom and began fucking her.

A funny vignette about her first time swinging. She told me how she always had a fantasy of being with a curly-haired man. This man had curly hair. As he was fucking her, she thought, “oh this is my chance, and moved her hands from holding on to his back to running her fingers through his hair.

After they finished, they joined Gary and his wife is their sheltered backyard, all naked.

I couldn’t wait for her to return and tell me about it. Fortunately she was in a good mood and regaled me with an account of what happened. The husband hadn’t “rocked her world” but she enjoyed the sex with him, and was looking forward to more encounters. She was seeing how sex could be fun for a woman, and not so serious.

Her getting into swinging did not give me the same angst as when she had started dating Gary. I guess it was because the swinging sex was clearly just for fun.

I must admit it was a cuckold dream for me that Linda was going out and getting fucked by other men while I waited at home.

I’ll end this account for now. Future episodes will probably be vignettes of different incidents that occurred during Linda’s swinging career.

[54321]

Future episodes will probably be vignettes of different incidents that occurred during Linda’s swinging career.

Do tell!

54321

[stevens4fun]

Sometimes what we find out afterwards is more exciting than any other thing that could happen to us!

My brain hadn’t registered that my wife had just had sex with another man. For some reason I couldn’t comprehend that. So I asked her if she really had sex with the other husband. She grinned at me and said, “He fucked the hell out of me.” It took a while for my brain to grasp that another man’s cock had been inside my wife, and that her cunt was filled with his cum. (This was a period after effective birth control and before concerns with STDs, so we alway fucked bareback.)

When my slow-working brain finally realized what had happened, I had to have my wife. As soon as we could get alone, I sunk my cock into her freshly-fucked cunt. Feeling how wet and sloppy she was about the most intense sexual feeling I ever had, knowing I was getting sloppy seconds, and I was feeling another man’s cum inside her.

One afternoon, I got home before her. I don’t remember where the kids were, but they were not home. She came through the door all flushed. Just inside our front door she grabbed me and started kissing me. She was clearly aroused.
Obviously, the story didn’t end there, but this missive has already run on too long. I hope it kept your attention and didn’t bore you.

[isinlarsa]

The swinging community in the DC area in the 1970’s was limited to couples only. That was to assure that the sexes were evenly balanced. Also, the wives didn’t want a lot of hot single girls poaching on their men. The wive’s feeling was that single girls could get laid easily enough that they didn’t need to swing. (This was not a hard and fast rule. Sometimes a wife would bring along an extra man she had “tested out.”)

I don’t know if Gary had a partner before Linda, but since he was well-connected in the swinging scene that he must have.

Gary and Linda met with other couples they met on the network, went to swinger parties, and sometimes patronized the local swinger club, which was a regular restaurant that hosted special swinger events once a month. The restaurant had a third-floor room with the floor covered with mattresses, where only couples were allowed to enter.

I learned all this from Linda as time went along. As strange as it seems Linda’s swinging did not consume our lives. It mostly went alone as normal; but Linda went to swinging events with Gary maybe once during the week, or a weekend event that might go over the next day.

I think meeting other wives who were involved in swinging helped Linda get over any reservations she might have had. They were pretty much all middle-class, normal looking women. Their looks ran the gamut. Linda was definitely in the top tier.

Although I was absorbed with the angst of Linda getting fucked by a variety of men, I did start to feel left out. I got off on fucking her sloppy pussy on evening when she returned from a swinger date, but I wanted to be included more.

So I told Linda that I didn’t want her to stop, but I wanted to be involved. She agreed that sometimes she and I would go on swinger dates, or attend parties.

That led to our next phase of this adventure.

[zorro]

Oh, definitely go on! Exclusion jealousy is a mean fucker to put up with.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for sharing the start of your adventure with Linda. Looking forward to the next phase of your adventure.

[isinlarsa]

Oh, definitely go on! Exclusion jealousy is a mean fucker to put up with.

It was weird. I wanted the exclusion to end, and it did; but I was in a semi-aroused state all the time knowing Gary was setting up other men to fuck Linda. His motive wasn't to get her laid, but to use her as bait so he could fuck other women.

[Long Lurker 34]

Oh, definitely go on! Exclusion jealousy is a mean fucker to put up with.

It was weird. I wanted the exclusion to end, and it did; but I was in a semi-aroused state all the time knowing Gary was setting up other men to fuck Linda. His motive wasn't to get her laid, but to use her as bait so he could fuck other women.

IIL - May this have been (from what I understand of the swinging community) that couples (seemingly) are more acceptable than single males?

[isinlarsa]

Oh, definitely go on! Exclusion jealousy is a mean fucker to put up with.

It was weird. I wanted the exclusion to end, and it did; but I was in a semi-aroused state all the time knowing Gary was setting up other men to fuck Linda. His motive wasn't to get her laid, but to use her as bait so he could fuck other women.

IIL - May this have been (from what I understand of the swinging community) that couples (seemingly) are more acceptable than single males?

Very true, but as time went on Linda did meet single men. As I said, sometimes when one of the wives had a "solo" outside the swinging group, she could invite the single man to events to serve as an extra stud.

[isinlarsa]

Oh, definitely go on! Exclusion jealousy is a mean fucker to put up with.

It was weird. I wanted the exclusion to end, and it did; but I was in a semi-aroused state all the time knowing Gary was setting up other men to fuck Linda. His motive wasn't to get her laid, but to use her as bait so he could fuck other women.

IIL - May this have been (from what I understand of the swinging community) that couples (seemingly) are more acceptable than single males?

I think for many husbands in a swinging marriage saw single men as predators who were getting to fuck wives without offering anything in return to their husbands. Having said that, some of the wives would invite single men who had fucked them to parties (the club's policy was couples only). Linda did that once with a guy who was the male equivalent of a "dumb blonde" -- big with a well-toned body but not much between the ears. When he was being introduced to some people I saw Linda standing behind him making eye contact with a girlfriend of hers, and with a slight nod of her head and a smirk indicate to her girlfriend he's the one she was telling her about.

[isinlarsa]

It may seem to the contrary but our lives were not consumed with swinging. The events were spread out over time when we could fit them in to our busy lives.

Linda was progressing in her career. She was an ardent feminist, and took on some big banks discriminatory lending practices toward women, and had some real successes. I was doing well, too, and was a supervisory attorney.

There did seem to be a dichotomy between Linda’s career and her sex life. She intimidated men professionally. I’m sure they couldn’t imagine her on her knees sucking a man off while another man fucked her.

Even though she agreed to include me in her swinging activities, we never actually had a swinging date with another couple. However, she did include me in some of the swinger parties she attended.

As best as I can recall, we went to about six sex parties — a couple hosted by Gary, one Linda hosted, and others that we were invited to.

Her swinger dates with Gary also petered out. We fell into a routine where sometimes she spent the night with Gary and sometimes she spent the night with me. Sometimes she went to sex parties with Gary, sometimes with me, and sometimes with both of us.

I mentioned the couples only rule was relaxed if a wife wanted to bring an extra man. I think Linda enjoyed the notoriety of having two boyfriends. Of course that brought Gary and I together. He was a nice guy, so we got on okay. We never talked about the fact we were fucking the same woman (I would like to think if you and I were in that situation that we would talk about it.)

Linda also started to have solo dates with men she met at sex parties. I guess you could say she took control.

One of my hottest vicarious experiences was to watch her get ready for a date — seeing her trying on different outfits, checking herself out in the mirror, and observing the lingerie she selected. (When my wife started dating, I had the same experience with her.)

I’ll end this chapter with a vignette. She had met a man at a sex party who she enjoyed. He was kind of the male equivalent of a “dumb blonde”. Big, with a good body, but not the sharpest knife in the drawer. But he knew what he was doing in bed.

She didn’t want to waste too much time conversing with him, so she would go over to his house near bedtime and stay overnight. She would get her outfit for the next day together and go to work from his house. Watching her prepare and leave the house always left me with an erection.

One time she got to his house and he was hanging out with some of his buddies. She went through the room where they were hanging out and up to his bedroom.

After she got ready for bed, she got into bed to wait for him. However, he was still gabbing with his friends. So she called down the stairs, “Come up and fuck me.” He quickly ushered his friends out.

When she told me this story it made me laugh and hard at the same time.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the funny vignette with the fb. I love hearing the way Linda took control of her sexuality

[isinlarsa]

Thanks for the funny vignette with the fb. I love hearing the way Linda took control of her sexuality

I guess you could say she was a feminist both in and out of bed. She always was a feminist out of bed, but when I met her she was a rather conservative Jewish wife. Then during our time together she grew to wanting to try more and more things sexual.

[venus-can99]

I guess you could say she was a feminist both in and out of bed. She always was a feminist out of bed, but when I met her she was a rather conservative Jewish wife. Then during our time together she grew to wanting to try more and more things sexual.

With you she felt safe enough (in terms of a relationship) to explore her desires. Thats really wonderful to hear.

[isinlarsa]

I guess you could say she was a feminist both in and out of bed. She always was a feminist out of bed, but when I met her she was a rather conservative Jewish wife. Then during our time together she grew to wanting to try more and more things sexual.

With you she felt safe enough (in terms of a relationship) to explore her desires. Thats really wonderful to hear.

Yes, she knew I would support anything she wanted to experience.

[isinlarsa]

Seeing so few comments, even though there seem to be a lot of hits, makes me inclined to cease writing.

[Clement99]

Seeing so few comments, even though there seem to be a lot of hits, makes me inclined to cease writing.

I don’t often comment on things but I love this thread.

Keep posting…even if it’s just for me to enjoy.

[isinlarsa]

Seeing so few comments, even though there seem to be a lot of hits, makes me inclined to cease writing.

I don’t often comment on things but I love this thread.

Keep posting…even if it’s just for me to enjoy.

You may enjoy my thread, but I'm losing interest in a one-way commentary. I think I will just comment on other peoples' experiences, as I often do.

[venus-can99]

You may enjoy my thread, but I'm losing interest in a one-way commentary. I think I will just comment on other peoples' experiences, as I often do.

So sorry to hear that but completely understandable . I was looking forward to reading about your adventures with Linda. Hopefully some time in the future.

[leggysman]

"Yeah man, hot story brother!"

I read and enjoy a lot of threads, including this one. But I don't usually comment unless I think I have something useful to add (so, something better than ^^this^^).

I can totally understand the thirst for positive feedback, and I love to see replies in our threads, but OTOH it's awkward when the OP is begging for/complaining about the number of replies.

It's a hot story brother, please continue! Seriously