Size

[aztd]

She says what's the thing about man and size?

Yet she goes crazy when fucking a big dikdo. Cums as hard as ever. Race doesn't matter to her, but role play BBC put her over the edge fast.

Are you more turned on about size than your wife/ GF

[Pufferfish]

The reasons are different for men than for women. For me, a big part of hotwifing is so that she can experience more (or different) than what I can give her. You can't make your dick grow despite what advertisements tell you, so that is something you can't give her. Part of it is also an ego thing, if she was having mind blowing sex with a guy who has a smaller dick than you... that could be kind of soul crushing. Where as if it's a bigger dick than you, then it's more logical that she would enjoy and experience something she can't experience with you.

Immediately after my wife's first hotwife experience she started talking with a guy with a 10 inch dick and immediately wanted to jump on board that thing like a brand new toy. She only wishes it was more than a one time thing. She has sucked a couple guys who were smaller than me or same size, but she'll only fuck someone who is at least the same size or bigger. Her reasoning is "otherwise what's the point of fucking someone else?"

[bltn1966]

When my wife became a HW she knew there was a chance she would never be with someone that had my size. That didn’t stop her from having great mind blowing sex with other men. In some ways it was more exciting. I’ve seen her fucked, in sex positions, that she won’t do with me because it’s uncomfortable. She sometimes tense up if I go hard and/or fast. She has no problem getting jackhammered by smaller cock guys.

With that being said, My wife said I’m more worried about the guys size than her. She says that but I’ve never seen her cum more than when she had sex with this one guy. He had a skinny cock that was longer cock than mine. She would orgasm just from him holding himself deep into her and not moving a muscle. I actually feared she would pass out when he started fucking her from behind.

[zelman69]

Not sure, wife will never say it. But I am about 7.5 inches, she does well with me when it comes to orgasms. She has had a couple guy on the lower end of average struggle to orgasm from penetration and the two on the larger end she had huge orgasms and more frequent. It is a small sample size so could be coincidental but doesn’t seem like it.

[Tryagain]

My wife loves big cocks s much as I want her to have them. When he takes off his shorts and it springs out, she grabs a thick one right away and frequently exclaims wow. Then the way she sucks him, so lovingly and eager to get it as far down her throat as possible, reveals how much she is into the size and feel of it.

And as one above describes, I have seen her with a really big one halt the pounding – which may be a bit too much for her - and ask him to put it all in gently and not move. It is such a turn on to see them laying in an embrace, him not moving at all and her gently moving her hips up and down just a bit, and then moaning loudly as she cums.

Imagine that – all he has to do is put it all in !

[funfortwo]

My wife has been a hotwife for over a year now. She always joked that size matters, but honestly I think she enjoys the power of having another man, or men, that desire her. She loves that her BF desires her and there is some chemistry to enhance the experience. Initially, she told me that her BF wasn't much bigger than me, but when I finally was able to see pictures, it became apparent that he was much larger than me. I'm about 6 1/4" and she eventually took a measuring tape and he is somewhere between 8.5" and 9". I asked her about this and we looked at the pictures together and she admitted that he is a lot bigger and asked me "well that's what you wanted right?" Now, she admits that he is a lot bigger to tease me. I can still make her cum and she admits that she loves my dick, but she has multiple orgasms with her BF (with me too, but not as many). I attribute this to being with someone different, the dynamic, he really desires her, they are friends now, and that he has a huge dick (oh and he is a black gentleman that is a former NFL player and in great shape). I personally attribute her enjoyment to a combination of factors, but a big dick is one of the components.

[isinlarsa]

I think size does matter to me more than to my wife. She likes my size, because she can sit on me, with my cock completely inside her, and she can grind her pubic bone against mine, which gives her an intense orgasm. She can't do that with a longer cock. And if a cock is to thick, the stretching is painful, and she's not into pain of any kind. However, she does enjoy cocks of every size that are not too big or not too small.

For my part, I would desire to see her taking a really big cock that really stretches her, pushes deep inside her, leaving some still out of her so I can enjoy sight of it still protruding from her cunt, especially if it is black given me the pleasure of the contrasting colors.

[wildrollercoaster]

"Size doesn't matter", parrotted ad nauseam in popular culture/media, is in the same realm as "it doesn't matter whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game" (which sounds nice, but doesn't explain why winning athletes are the ones who earn $-billions from spectators for their teams and themselves).

Size preference is personal — no matter how many times we're told it doesn't matter. Different size suits different people, just like height.

That said, I've often known women to exude pride and excitement about a lover being well-hung, but never about a lover being ordinarily endowed. Same with other parts of a man's physique. Pretty common for a woman to enjoy fucking a guy more if he's strong and handsome.

My wife, for example, a few years ago met and slept with a hot guy who turned out to have an exceptionally large cock. Although some sex positions could be uncomfortable, she couldn't hide how turned on she was by his size. Not just about the feeling — also intrinsic to beautiful physique, and intoxicating thought and sight of his penetration into her.

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Hello, your supporting evidence is very well thought out and solid, that size does matter.

My wife and I fully agree, her preference is clearly for well endowed men, with all other attributes being held equal.

Thank you for your commentary

[kort677]

I am fairly small, when we began the venture my wife met a man with an above average sized cock, she has been a size queen ever since

[wildrollercoaster]

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(If posting link here is offside, someone please reply and I'll delete it.)

[Hima]

When my wife who was my gf and I 1st had sex, she was under the bed sheet sucking me. After a few minutes she poked her head out and asked " Doesnt it get any bigger"? Mind you, I was 19 with a hard as wood slim 7". Appearently she had seen bigger.
Sometime later watching The Newly Wed game Show, question was "If you could change sometime about your partner, what would it be"? My gf mumbled "I make his dick bigger"?
One day she asked if I would mind if she used her vibrator during sex. She said "It helps me cum".
We were having regular sex, enjoyed each other so I didnt mind.
After a few months we were talking and her xbf came up and convo turned to sex. Useing her hands she showed me "Your like this and hes like THIS". We figured he was near 9" and THICK. Even though her earlier comments about my size kinda bothered me, I knew she had seen dick pix and a porn or 2, but knowing she had hands on, mouth on, pussy FILLED experiance it was a shock.
Crazy thing too shes 5' 2" and was 105 lbs then.

Fast forward many years. Wed been married sometime. She always used her toys. Shed still make comments like " Is it in all the way"? "Maybe if I get on top I can feel you better"? " Just think if ypur penis was THIS big"! While using her hand to hold an imaginary BIG cock.
Then one day she said " Do you think those penis pumps work"? I said I dont know, Ive only seen them inback of mens magazines. She said "You should get one"!
I did and after trying many kinds, lots of practice. Success! It became a regular foreplay activity. She would say "Get your penis pump on and make it big for me"! Now, length didnt change much but my slim 5 3/4" gith can reach over 7 1/2" girth. She loves the results and even loves to help pump me while Im busy kissing, licking, and sucking her head to toe as she preps with her toy.
Yes, in my wifes case size matters.

[leo-cpl]

My take on this....for women who are a size Queen....they want what they want. For other women a good size cock (long and thick) is a plus if they are into the guy. My wife's not really a size queen but the first time she fucked a guy who was 8" plus and thick and uttered the words "God you are big" was one of the biggest turn on's for far for me in the LS!!!! Reckon its the entire package for most women and mind you this guy was reasonably fit (not a buff body, was a dad bod), shaved head and touching 50 but hes well mannered and a gentleman wife liked the guy and we still play with him once every 2-3 months.

[CTim]

.....Now, length didnt change much but my slim 5 3/4" girth...

There is nothing slim about a 5 3/4" girth. That's top 5% in just about all of the research.

[NC-hotwife-hubby]

My wife can be considered a size queen now. I'm about 5 and I'm the smallest she has been with, at 6ft 3 I must have got short changed in the cock dept . Biggest is 10 .

[Sharemywife1968]

I'm exactly the same 5inches after 18yrs of lifestyle play,she finally was confident enough to tell me I have been and am the smallest she has had,,still loves and my small cock,but when stepping out of our marriage,,its needs to be bigger snd there fore better

[Luv2SucknSwallowFEM]

Not a size queen myself.
I go for quality and for me that's just a cock I am attracted to. Shape, cockhead... thickness, girth, vieny, uncut is huge plus for me!!!
4-8 is my range... hubby is the perfect cock for me... literally all of the above and 7.5 inches.
My thing is cum... size of his load means more than size of cock. Hubby's only drawback is he is an average shooter 2-4 spurts at best... a guy with volumonous loads is my thing... if you are 6+ thick creamy spurts I am drooling!!!!
I do identify as a cumslut.

I am also very into anal and I like a guy who can go very hard and fast. I find a 4-6 inch cock can not only go faster, but the full extraction - followed by insertion in rapid-fire mode LOL is mind-blowing. Cock above 6" just can't get that same motion.

My experience is that most guys with huge cocks have been rather disappointing.

[carolinacuck]

By the numbers, I'm in the bottom 20% of penis size. From my experience, it's pretty clear that very few women are looking for a guy with a small penis.

[MartasBoy]

My wife always told me that my penis was just right for her. She said large penises intimidated her. Since she has started playing with others, she no longer comments in any way about my penis. She has pretty much exclusively relegated me to oral sex for her. She politely declines to tell me the size of guys she plays with. She just doesn't talk about size with me at all.

[NC-hotwife-hubby]

My wife says my 5 inches is ok but she really needs bigger. She loves the 7 or 8 inch cock.

[Tank Turner]

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I am also very into anal and I like a guy who can go very hard and fast. I find a 4-6 inch cock can not only go faster, but the full extraction - followed by insertion in rapid-fire mode LOL is mind-blowing. Cock above 6" just can't get that same motion.

My wife thinks anal sex is normal sex, not taboo sex. Most of her sorority sisters did anal sex. I believe all of her adult girlfriends do anal sex.

My wife did a lot of anal sex long before I met her. Right after I met her, she offered anal sex to me. I declined. I'd rather fuck than do anal sex. She was incredulous because I wasn't into anal sex. She told me most of her boyfriends wanted anal sex, but not all of them got it from her. She submitted to anal sex for her boyfriends although it was sometimes pleasurable for her. She rubbed out orgasms while they fucked her ass.

She told me that size is important when it comes to anal sex. Smaller is better for anal sex.

She prefers girth to length when it comes to fucking. I'm a thick 7". She thinks I'm perfect size for her. Our friend is a thick 8 1/2". He has the biggest dick my wife has ever had. A few weeks after she initiated him into MFM sex with us, he tried to have anal sex with her. She could not do it. About a month ago, she was shitfaced drunk. We were at a hotel on Coronado Island. He tried it again. She was too drunk to feel pain. He managed to get his huge cock all the way inside of her ass. After he came and pulled out, she was in pain.

[mychubbyhotwife]

I'm not a psychologist but ... Size is a man thing. Women are generally more into emotions.

[TommoGB]

As they say: "horses for courses". Just like they say: "there's someone for everyone".

Most women like average to large. Some women like small, some women like large.

My wife is definitely a size queen. She's always said size doesn't matter, but from the things I've seen and heard from her... well, I don't think she's ever told any large jackhammers to stop or slow down or pushed them away - I've known some such men say or laugh in amazement at her that they can't seem to brake her pussy lol, like seriously. Actually, when she's on top then she struggles with the hung guys.

As for me, being 6" and kinda thick with it, been with about 100 women, some have said genuinely my cock feels big, sometimes like its too big for them. With some other women its been obvious they love the big dicks, I've only ever had one lady who I've had to look down to check if my dick was in her as I could feel almost nothing... albeit she was an amazing fit 27yo absolute 10/10 stunner half Russian/Chinese stripper-brothel girl in Prague who utterly and genuinely loved "working" there, she'd probably literally been through many many thousands of men, nymphomaniac would be an understatement.

[sana9889]

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I am also very into anal and I like a guy who can go very hard and fast. I find a 4-6 inch cock can not only go faster, but the full extraction - followed by insertion in rapid-fire mode LOL is mind-blowing. Cock above 6" just can't get that same motion.

My wife thinks anal sex is normal sex, not taboo sex. Most of her sorority sisters did anal sex. I believe all of her adult girlfriends do anal sex.

My wife did a lot of anal sex long before I met her. Right after I met her, she offered anal sex to me. I declined. I'd rather fuck than do anal sex. She was incredulous because I wasn't into anal sex. She told me most of her boyfriends wanted anal sex, but not all of them got it from her. She submitted to anal sex for her boyfriends although it was sometimes pleasurable for her. She rubbed out orgasms while they fucked her ass.

She told me that size is important when it comes to anal sex. Smaller is better for anal sex.

She prefers girth to length when it comes to fucking. I'm a thick 7". She thinks I'm perfect size for her. Our friend is a thick 8 1/2". He has the biggest dick my wife has ever had. A few weeks after she initiated him into MFM sex with us, he tried to have anal sex with her. She could not do it. About a month ago, she was shitfaced drunk. We were at a hotel on Coronado Island. He tried it again. She was too drunk to feel pain. He managed to get his huge cock all the way inside of her ass. After he came and pulled out, she was in pain.

Ive been anal only since the beginning of the year. Its hard to go back now. The pleasure isn't exactly orgasmic, but its a different deep sensation. Makes you bond like crazy too. Since I got circumcised, the sensations have doubled.

Girls that start anal early with their partners... like with arab, malay and indian girls become very attached to their partners from this.
Esp if the girl has been circumcised because the inner clitoris parts develop deeper into the anus.

[sana9889]

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I am also very into anal and I like a guy who can go very hard and fast. I find a 4-6 inch cock can not only go faster, but the full extraction - followed by insertion in rapid-fire mode LOL is mind-blowing. Cock above 6" just can't get that same motion.

My wife thinks anal sex is normal sex, not taboo sex. Most of her sorority sisters did anal sex. I believe all of her adult girlfriends do anal sex.

My wife did a lot of anal sex long before I met her. Right after I met her, she offered anal sex to me. I declined. I'd rather fuck than do anal sex. She was incredulous because I wasn't into anal sex. She told me most of her boyfriends wanted anal sex, but not all of them got it from her. She submitted to anal sex for her boyfriends although it was sometimes pleasurable for her. She rubbed out orgasms while they fucked her ass.

She told me that size is important when it comes to anal sex. Smaller is better for anal sex.

She prefers girth to length when it comes to fucking. I'm a thick 7". She thinks I'm perfect size for her. Our friend is a thick 8 1/2". He has the biggest dick my wife has ever had. A few weeks after she initiated him into MFM sex with us, he tried to have anal sex with her. She could not do it. About a month ago, she was shitfaced drunk. We were at a hotel on Coronado Island. He tried it again. She was too drunk to feel pain. He managed to get his huge cock all the way inside of her ass. After he came and pulled out, she was in pain.

Its a shame you didnt have anal with her. It would have truly made you hers.
Its actually very feminine. Her sorority sisters likely didnt even care about orgasms. The deep stimulation alone would have been enough. Not to mention the effect your sperm would have had on her. Getting absorbed more than in the pussy.
You may have missed out on a lot of pleasure for your dick too.