Is it possible for a woman to stop

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Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by GreekHWcpl » Fri Sep 06, 2024 2:00 am

I would like to hear your opinions in the question “Is it possible for a hotwife to stop the lifestyle long term"

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Sep 06, 2024 3:23 am

Of course it is possible.
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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by parklife » Fri Sep 06, 2024 7:31 am

Yes they can stop.. they can also start back up again.. and then stop a second time…. They can change their mind and then change it back.. shockingly, they aren’t all just sexbots waiting for Pandora’s box to be opened never to return again…. And yet, undoubtedly, some of them are exactly that.

Humanity is amazing…

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by trecital » Fri Sep 06, 2024 7:57 am

parklife wrote:
Fri Sep 06, 2024 7:31 am
Yes they can stop.. they can also start back up again.. and then stop a second time…. They can change their mind and then change it back.. shockingly, they aren’t all just sexbots waiting for Pandora’s box to be opened never to return again…. And yet, undoubtedly, some of them are exactly that.

Humanity is amazing…
I think you nailed it.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Cdncuck » Fri Sep 06, 2024 8:09 am

It's definitely possible.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Parsifal » Fri Sep 06, 2024 8:11 am

My wife and I made a pact early on that if either of us wanted to hard stop, we would. So three months into doing it, I got cold feet and exercised the veto with the intention it was over forever. She complied, and we stopped for the next three months. During that time, I retooled emotionally and the rest is history.

The endorphins become addictive, no doubt. But like with most addictions, it can be overcome with willpower, discipline, and fending off the inevitable cravings for the next fix. Indeed, her demonstrated capacity to wean off of it factored greatly into the sense of trust I developed to the point of inviting her to return to it.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Natatude » Fri Sep 06, 2024 8:30 am

Yes, I have. I have a sick grand daughter at this time. I do still pop on to here and AM to check for messages. Only one I am still talking with right now is my lover is 30 yrs. However no sex as of lately because I just can’t think about it and get into it. I am sure once we get her feeling good with treatments that I can relax I will get into it again. But I’d be able to stop forever if I wanted.
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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by enaira » Fri Sep 06, 2024 9:18 am

My wife and I have been doing it for 9 years now... And i'm pretty sure she would never be able to stop it.
And i'm pretty sur that, if , for some reason, we could get into a separation, she would not be able to stop even with a new partner.. I thbik she will continue to meet her bulls without telling her new boyfriend !

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by sana9889 » Fri Sep 06, 2024 11:29 am

Its not an easy one to stop..

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by NC-hotwife-hubby » Fri Sep 06, 2024 2:00 pm

My wife couldn't stop if she tried, lol. I wouldn't ask her unless hell froze over. She is a mature looking blonde skinny fake boobs slut. She likes big cocks and bbc and bi males. She loves every minute of the lifestyle

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Farmgirl » Sat Sep 07, 2024 8:04 am

I read this question as the female mind being weak. I can stop cold turkey. But I like a boyfriend and I'm not that interested in the random guy at the bar or at the party. I like to develop a relationship, and when something happens to end that relationship, it takes a lot of work and effort to find another. Sometimes, it's just not worth it. So yes, I can quit. Yes, I do have the freedom to start or stop. Don't underestimate the female mind because it's not weak.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Parsifal » Sat Sep 07, 2024 4:12 pm

Farmgirl wrote:
Sat Sep 07, 2024 8:04 am
I read this question as the female mind being weak. I can stop cold turkey. But I like a boyfriend and I'm not that interested in the random guy at the bar or at the party. I like to develop a relationship, and when something happens to end that relationship, it takes a lot of work and effort to find another. Sometimes, it's just not worth it. So yes, I can quit. Yes, I do have the freedom to start or stop. Don't underestimate the female mind because it's not weak.
I would have posed it as a question that challenged rather than offended you - like how difficult would it be to stop? I remember you saying hotwifing wasn't just a lifestyle but part of your identity. So would stopping necessarily mean shedding your persona? I can imagine shedding your Farmgirlness testing even your indomitable resolve.
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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by Anonymousrachel » Sat Sep 07, 2024 6:11 pm

Rob and I have stopped a couple of times before. Both mostly because of my mental health. But it was easy for me to take a break and say no more. It’s all about the communication when it comes to stopping and/or restarting. Making sure you are on the same page is key.
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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by sana9889 » Sat Sep 07, 2024 6:34 pm

Its not about being weak. Its more that we enjoy the freedom and power. Its unatural going back.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by carolinacuck » Mon Sep 09, 2024 6:32 am

If you're a modestly endowed man (like me), and you've got an attractive sexually experienced hotwife, if you allow her to have sex with well hung men there is close to a 100% chance she's going to REALLY like it. The only thing that slowed down C was aging and other priorities. She was wide open for 15 years in the lifestyle and bedded numerous guys and had zero interest in going back to a monogamous relationship with me.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by chard » Mon Sep 09, 2024 6:51 am

My wife managed to stop. It took her twenty five years with dozens of dicks but she got there in the end.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by BT2 » Mon Sep 09, 2024 12:00 pm

Yes.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by couplewhoshareher » Mon Sep 09, 2024 2:06 pm

From our experience no it isn’t

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by jesseejames29 » Mon Sep 09, 2024 8:17 pm

My wife will have a few weeks of really hot encounters then go cold for a year, so yes it's very possible.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by BrunetteLover » Sun Sep 15, 2024 7:09 am

My wife made the decision to retire from escorting some time ago so we could travel more. We like to wait until early in each month, look at the upcoming weather, and book weekend trips accordingly. Usually Thursday or Friday thru Sunday.

Her getting laid two to three times a month was getting in the way of that.

So she told her clients she was retiring.

And then she instantly got really sad.

So she decided to move her day job schedule around so she had more days off mid-week.

She texted her men, and told them she was available on a 'semi-retired' basis, Wednesdays and maybe Thursdays.

She is booked thru to the end of the year.
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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by SRKnight » Sun Sep 15, 2024 8:37 am

After 13+ years of HW lifestyle, I asked mine if she could quit. She said if I ever asked her to quit she would just be a cheating wife and not tell me anything. Says she loves the sexual freedom too much to quit.

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by venus-can99 » Sun Sep 15, 2024 11:59 am

SRKnight wrote:
Sun Sep 15, 2024 8:37 am
After 13+ years of HW lifestyle, I asked mine if she could quit. She said if I ever asked her to quit she would just be a cheating wife and not tell me anything. Says she loves the sexual freedom too much to quit.
13+ years - that is pretty impressive. If things are going well and both of you are happy and the relationship is strong why would you ask her to quit? :D

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Re: Is it possible for a woman to stop

Unread post by SRKnight » Sun Sep 15, 2024 12:23 pm

venus-can99 wrote:
Sun Sep 15, 2024 11:59 am
SRKnight wrote:
Sun Sep 15, 2024 8:37 am
After 13+ years of HW lifestyle, I asked mine if she could quit. She said if I ever asked her to quit she would just be a cheating wife and not tell me anything. Says she loves the sexual freedom too much to quit.
13+ years - that is pretty impressive. If things are going well and both of you are happy and the relationship is strong why would you ask her to quit? :D
I would not even consider asking her to quit. I was just seeing what hot answer she would give. LOL

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