Does SHE call the shots??

[nextdoorbull]

Most of what I read here is from the point of view of the men. I rarely see what the wife thinks or feels about all this... Unless we're in the bedroom.

I ask because I recently met a couple online. (I'm a Bull.) We're scheduled for a coffee date soon... But I've only texted with the husband so far.

In our conversations, husband sends me a very hot amateur video.... A very Dominant wife is calling all the shots, while the husband films in first person.

The wife is completely humiliating the husband. There's a sick creampie scene which I could never explain through words. The wife is really enjoying it while the husband seems hypnotized and almost in shock.

The video is so well edited and even sounds scripted at times. But I'm so sure this is so amateur (audio and video quality sucks) that I think the wife wanted to cuck her husband for the pleasure of control. And she really thought about every word. I can't believe women like this exist out there! Even as an experienced Bull, I haven't seen a wife controlling her cuck like this in real life.

Back to real life, does your wife call all the shots? Does she really want more cock to humiliate and tease you? Does she like multiple creampies?

Or is it the cuck that pushes the wife into this madness?

I've been Poly and a Bull for years. But I've never seen this level of radical humiliation in person.... And now I wonder if this is what my potential new couple wants...

Finally, I've cum so many times in a row watching this video... And I've become a very lustful Bull who thinks about hotwives and how to please them. I've never been this aroused in a long time. To the point that I'm getting worried. This can be the peak sexual experience of my lifetime....

Then what?

[Cdncuck]

Sometimes the lady is in charge. Sometimes not. Depends on the people involved and the nature of the relationship. There are some as you describe. What seemed excessive to you might be perfectly normal for some people and even quite mild to others.

As to peak sexual experience, they change. People's tastes change over time. Way back in the beginning, watching as she let her first other man penetrate her was a peak sexual experience. Then it was things that happened at some swinger parties. Then it was her first gang bang.

I recall the first time I dropped her off at a motel. She had connected with a guy online. Things progressed. They exchanged pictures then phone calls. Finally they agreed to meet at a motel he was staying at when he came to town on business. Somehow sitting outside in the car while she went in was wildly erotic. There have been more. What other people might think, I don't know but we haven't peaked yet and we're getting old.

[kort677]

my wife ALWAYS has the final say on anything regarding her activities.

[Her number1]

I don't push my wife into anything, that would backfire drastically! She is her own person and chooses her own playmates/lovers, and when/how they meet.
For me, there is absolutely nothing humiliating about receiving a fresh hot creampie, or in being the husband of a hotwife. Rather, having her as my wife is a badge of honor!

[hotfreaks]

My wife has the final decision on anything lifestyle related. I may make suggestions, but ultimately, everything is up to her.
Who she fucks
How she fucks them ( bareback or condom)
Who she chooses to tell about our lifestyle
Anything

[sana9889]

My bf is mostly in charge.

[Experimenti3]

In our relationship it is me (the cuck husband) who does all the search and research regarding new bulls. I know her taste quite well, therefore I am authorized to find new bulls, do the initial communication with them, get some i formations about him and so and so. If I find him suitable for my wife, I tell her about him and give my opinion. After that, she usually asks for a face pic and makes her final decision if she wants to meet him or not.
Once we meet the guy she behaves quite dominant toward me, although she is very sub to her bull. And yes, she loves me to enjoy creampies

[sana9889]

As much as women like to feel like they r in charge.
Not having a dick makes all the difference.

At some point you need to spread your legs and let someone inside you. Unfortunately.. vaginas were made to provide pleasure.

My bfs wife is really dominant. She wont take creampies or do anal. Or bareback sex. She loves to wear the strapon and make young girls scream. End of the day she still needs to submit her pussy and get fucked.

[carolinacuck]

C has always had complete sexual freedom in her relationships...although she is married to me, basically she's "single" in terms of her sexuality. The only thing I ask is complete communication (no secrets). Often I have helped screen guys on AFF/SLS, but she makes all the decisions in terms of who she fucks, when/where, condoms or not, whether she wants me present, etc.

[stevens4fun]

By definition, isn't the "cuckoldress" in charge? Or can things be more subtle?

[trecital]

The video is so well edited and even sounds scripted at times. But I'm so sure this is so amateur (audio and video quality sucks)

It can be amateur, but scripted. And amateur and well edited. Maybe they just haven't developed good videoing skills.
And if it is scripted, my money would be on the husband as being the scriptwriter.

"Or is it the cuck that pushes the wife into this madness?"
Again, my money would be on the husband pushing it.

By definition, isn't the "cuckoldress" in charge? Or can things be more subtle?

I would have thought it rare that the cuckoldress was really in charge. Topping from the bottom, by the cuck, more likely.
Can things be more subtle? I would say that 99.9% of the time, yes, they are.

[AZPainter]

My wife always chose who she brought home or slept with at the guys place. When I was included, I watched and stroked myself in the corner while they used the bed. If I participated it was to guide her lovers cock into her sometimes. Other times it was to lick her clean and sometimes her lovers cock, and all of this I was told to do. There was no humiliation other than a little talk telling me what she or her lover wanted me to do, when I was involved.

[luvymayfly2]

Finally, I've cum so many times in a row watching this video... And I've become a very lustful Bull who thinks about hotwives and how to please them. I've never been this aroused in a long time. To the point that I'm getting worried. This can be the peak sexual experience of my lifetime....

You'll likely have many peaks.

As to your post about who calls the shots... There is a lot of topping from the bottom in cuck play. I've been both the Bull and cuck. I've been in a Dom phase now for many years and do not see that I'll ever be cuckolded again.

Cucks can go crazy. Cuckolding is a feverish sexual high for some. It is like the best drug. Their wives are their porn. Compersion.

For the wives, I feel like it is less drug like but more of a sexual satisfaction thing. Being sexually available and being desired... Having access to other cock. It is sort of like injecting new relationship energy into their lives.

I say, have fun out there. Enjoy this peak. But, be ready to be the one who tempers down desires for everyone's mental or physical safety.

And, if you could DM me the link for the video. I would appreciate it.

[St4gC7ck]

very hot and yeah I agree with what luvymayfly said!! Id also love if sharing the video is possible in DM's

[mattyg_2671]

Yep, would love to get the link for the video…! Thx

[a2malways]

In our conversations, husband sends me a very hot amateur video.... A very Dominant wife is calling all the shots, while the husband films in first person.

The wife is completely humiliating the husband. There's a sick creampie scene which I could never explain through words. The wife is really enjoying it while the husband seems hypnotized and almost in shock.

The video is so well edited and even sounds scripted at times. But I'm so sure this is so amateur (audio and video quality sucks) that I think the wife wanted to cuck her husband for the pleasure of control. And she really thought about every word. I can't believe women like this exist out there! Even as an experienced Bull, I haven't seen a wife controlling her cuck like this in real life.

[Snip]

I've been Poly and a Bull for years. But I've never seen this level of radical humiliation in person.... And now I wonder if this is what my potential new couple wants...

Finally, I've cum so many times in a row watching this video... And I've become a very lustful Bull who thinks about hotwives and how to please them. I've never been this aroused in a long time. To the point that I'm getting worried. This can be the peak sexual experience of my lifetime....

Then what?

I know it's an older post but I sure would like to see that video. Anyone have a link?

[SubSnuggler]

Why on earth are people wanting to see a video that a couple sends a bull? That stuff is private and it's understood we don't share these things.

As far as OP, sure I live in a Wife-led marriage, and cuckolding is all about domination and humiliation as that's our dynamic. We were into BDSM and D/s well before cuckolding. We just 'ended up' cuckolding as were chasing the dynamic to its logical end.

[little sissy Benita]

I have nothing to say - she and he make the rules

[masculinecuck]

Financially I"m in charge in the bedroom she is....

[masculinecuck]

Financially I"m in charge in the bedroom she is....

[carolinacuck]

In our relationship it is me (the cuck husband) who does all the search and research regarding new bulls. I know her taste quite well, therefore I am authorized to find new bulls, do the initial communication with them, get some i formations about him and so and so. If I find him suitable for my wife, I tell her about him and give my opinion. After that, she usually asks for a face pic and makes her final decision if she wants to meet him or not.
Once we meet the guy she behaves quite dominant toward me, although she is very sub to her bull. And yes, she loves me to enjoy creampies

This describes our relationship perfectly.

[nextdoorbull]

Why on earth are people wanting to see a video that a couple sends a bull? That stuff is private and it's understood we don't share these things.

The video is publicly available on certain adult sites.

I will never share private video or pics from a couple, wife, or anyone without their permission.

[SubSnuggler]

Why on earth are people wanting to see a video that a couple sends a bull? That stuff is private and it's understood we don't share these things.

The video is publicly available on certain adult sites.

I will never share private video or pics from a couple, wife, or anyone without their permission.

I'm sorry, I re-read your post and perhaps I misinterpreted it. I initially read it as 'he sent you an amateur video' as if he sent a video of the them playing privately. I think what you meant was he sent an amateur video of a some other couple he found exciting. If so I apologize. It's easy to attach either meaning depending on how it's read.

[ucaneffher]

Can't believe I hadn't seen this thread before so I'll add my bit.

I never realized that I wanted my GF to call the shots until she was already a hot GF and sleeping around with most of her guy friends. I always reminded her that she didn't have to ask for permission anymore, that if she wanted to do something and I wasn't around for her to consult with me then she should do it using her good judgement of course and tell me after.

After months of reminding her 'you don't need my permission" or " you don't need to ask me" she finally starting getting it and soon after I had unleashed a wild girl!

-she no longer asked for approval of new men- she went for it if she wanted them.

-she went out whenever she wanted and didn't ask.i would just come home to find her getting dolled up and sexy.

-she didn't ask when she was staying overnight with other men, she would just text me telling me she was spending the night or weekend.

-she didn't ask if she could move in with her boyfriend, she just gave me a 4 day notice that she signed a 12 month lease and needed me to help her move on Friday after work.

-one night after spending the entire day with her boyfriend, I tried to reclaim her and she notified me that the last time we had sex a few nights ago was officially my last time having sex with her as her pussy would now only fully belongs to her boyfriend.


A lot of these things her and I had discussed and hinted in the past while reading others' stories on ohw but we never discussed doing them ourselves even though we found some of them sexy but when she started calling the shots, by default I was just accepting what she did and while there was resistance, I eventually broke down and supported her decisions.

For example, being denied, I resisted and tried and tried to get in her for like 4 months with no success and that's when I accepted that it was his pussy. Funny enough it got to the point when I became supportive of her decision, that she would tell me she was really horny and instead of trying to seduce/convince her to have sex with me, I'd tell her to go see her boyfriend or go spend the night with him.

My current GF isn't a Hot GF but she has also called the shots many times .. like telling me that she's going to open dating profiles and she is going to start dating. The many times while out getting drinks, she has told me to wait while she goes to flirt with other men without even asking me.

I absolutely love a girl who takes initiative, especially when it comes to being promiscuous with little to no input from me and it's just a "hold on for dear life" moment because my woman is out there talking to men left and right while I'm there unable to do anything other than let it happen and roll with it. As long as she delivers the "blows" without coming off harshly, I am happy to abide by her freedom and choices.