New here: Frustrated husband

[jared7577768]

I’m not really sure what I can hope to gain here other than solidarity with some of the members. My wife is very vanilla, very sexually repressed and uncomfortable discussing sex. She has very rare moments of sexual abandon, but I’ve been unable to facilitate a greater frequency of those. In addition to having a low libido, we recently leaned that she has low estrogen levels which have made her vagina dry and sensitive, so she experiences some pain from penetration which makes using penetrative toys not fun. She was prescribed medication for that but hasn’t started using it yet. I have a very high libido. We’ve been married for 32 years, and I’m the only man she has ever had. Additionally, she is extremely curvy and voluptuous with 38K breasts, and I have a micropenis that is almost incapable of penetration. I would love to see her enjoy sex with well hung men who know what they are doing in the bedroom. She deserves that kind of pleasure and validation, and it would please me to no end. I’m slowly, gradually trying to help her feel comfortable enough to discuss sexual things, but it really is baby steps at this point. We’re in our late 50’s and this has been the case for years. I’m realizing how short life is, and I really want to help us come to some kind of sexual fulfillment before too many more years go by. Again, there’s no easy answer to this…maybe no answer at all. I just needed to share.

[Lucky Dog]

Thanks for stopping by. I know this is so frustrating, but there are many other husbands in many different situations who are also very frustrated. Late 50's is not over the hill - there's a lot more to be enjoyed.

[sharedfantasy]

Hey there, if you are looking for more information that could help you along your journey, then you came to the right place.