Leggysandy Stepping Out

[kaskap79]

He's got two small kids of his own (one of them being my student!). So, it just seems silly and irrational to me that he wouldn't want to keep it completely discreet.

We agree on that, but some humans got a different kind of logic. They can be difficult for us to understand.

[skoot1958]

You are absolutely correct, it would just be confusing for the kids and exposing you to community comment l, that you do not need

What is he thinking about, you are absolutely gorgeous, if I was 1/2 my age I would do anything you asked to spend time with you

[afagehi7]

What fuknutz would turn down discreet nsa hot pussy? He's lost his mind. Its almost like he's making some kind of power play. Cocks are in high supply and low demand while hot nsa pussy is in extremely low supply and very high demand so the laws of economics state she is more valuable than he therefore he should be making the majority of concessions... Now if he's brad pit hot and hung like a elephant's nose then...

[Sexilexi]

Yea that will be super tricky to find a middle ground. He’s vanilla, you have to remember that. Also, he probably doesn’t feel right just sleeping with a woman without it being “dating” status. IMO.

Unfortunately I think you’ll have to move on and drop him. But also, “un día a la vez” (one day at a time) - I mean, it’s been a year! Haha

Whatever happened with George and his French guy???

-Lexi

[leggysandy]

Yea that will be super tricky to find a middle ground. He’s vanilla, you have to remember that. Also, he probably doesn’t feel right just sleeping with a woman without it being “dating” status. IMO.

Unfortunately I think you’ll have to move on and drop him. But also, “un día a la vez” (one day at a time) - I mean, it’s been a year! Haha

Whatever happened with George and his French guy???

-Lexi

I told him he was vanilla, and he seemed a bit offended about it I think I'm letting go of the whole idea, his point of view just turned me off. Seems like he still wants to talk about it, but I don't really have any desire.

Last time I saw George, it wasn't quite as great as other times (it's tiny details/feelings and I am very particular). Then I took a break. We stayed in touch for a bit, but I think he eventually gave up, so I never had a chance to meet that friend of his!

[Sexilexi]

Whatever happened with George and his French guy???

Last time I saw George, it wasn't quite as great as other times (it's tiny details/feelings and I am very particular). Then I took a break. We stayed in touch for a bit, but I think he eventually gave up, so I never had a chance to meet that friend of his!

Oh man! I’m sorry to hear this. I’m happy you are particular regarding guys though! That’s what’s neat about this LS, is we can be very picky because we already have an amazing hubs to come home to! And everyone else is just for fun!

-Lexi

[leggysandy]

Whatever happened with George and his French guy???

Last time I saw George, it wasn't quite as great as other times (it's tiny details/feelings and I am very particular). Then I took a break. We stayed in touch for a bit, but I think he eventually gave up, so I never had a chance to meet that friend of his!

Oh man! I’m sorry to hear this. I’m happy you are particular regarding guys though! That’s what’s neat about this LS, is we can be very picky because we already have an amazing hubs to come home to! And everyone else is just for fun!

-Lexi

exactly!!

[ugcp]

I don't understand how this dude is going to pass up such an opportunity. I also don't understand how he can be so ignorant of the obvious social concerns that a woman in leggydandy's position has to navigate. What a wasted opportunity for something that could have been extremely win-win! Having someone so sexy as leggysandy within walking distance and interested in an ongoing dynamic like that seems like an ideal situation for him, with only the very slightest of effort and accommodation by him to make it work safely for everyone.

[sandy691196]

This is one of the best threads per my book! I love this couple. They are loving, committed, responsible. With very clear, non-negotiable priorities and policies on how to go about things. They put themselves and their relationship first. Leggysman is 100% on board with leggysandy's kicks scenario. He makes it a part of his own kicks. They kinda jointly own it! So no one is doing a favour to the other. They have no drama (after the initial adjustment in the early days), no dissonance. Whatever little perspective-variations there are between the two, is expected in real life, flesh and blood people!..

Maybe the student's dad guy left a bad taste in the mouth? Talked around? Wanted a more committed relationship? Maybe he wanted something totally different (break them up as a couple?)..

Anyways do let us know how things are now.

[leggysandy]

This is one of the best threads per my book! I love this couple. They are loving, committed, responsible. With very clear, non-negotiable priorities and policies on how to go about things. They put themselves and their relationship first. Leggysman is 100% on board with leggysandy's kicks scenario. He makes it a part of his own kicks. They kinda jointly own it! So no one is doing a favour to the other. They have no drama (after the initial adjustment in the early days), no dissonance. Whatever little perspective-variations there are between the two, is expected in real life, flesh and blood people!..

Maybe the student's dad guy left a bad taste in the mouth? Talked around? Wanted a more committed relationship? Maybe he wanted something totally different (break them up as a couple?)..

Anyways do let us know how things are now.

awww, thank you for these lovely words

While ago I exchanged few more messages with him. He basically said something that this could have been great if I wasn't so secretive about it, but I told him that with both of us having kids of similar age in same village, I simply cannot understand that point of view. It's like he wanted to impose some of his rules because he doesn't want to follow "my" rules, even though they are here to protect us and our families. He told me he hasn't mentioned anything to anyone and that this whole "thing" will stay between us, but I basically completely stepped away and we are back to normal relationship where we only communicate about kids and school and stuff like that. He is just not the right person, and best to leave it at that.

[sandy691196]

This is one of the best threads per my book! I love this couple. They are loving, committed, responsible. With very clear, non-negotiable priorities and policies on how to go about things. They put themselves and their relationship first. Leggysman is 100% on board with leggysandy's kicks scenario. He makes it a part of his own kicks. They kinda jointly own it! So no one is doing a favour to the other. They have no drama (after the initial adjustment in the early days), no dissonance. Whatever little perspective-variations there are between the two, is expected in real life, flesh and blood people!..

Maybe the student's dad guy left a bad taste in the mouth? Talked around? Wanted a more committed relationship? Maybe he wanted something totally different (break them up as a couple?)..

Anyways do let us know how things are now.

awww, thank you for these lovely words

While ago I exchanged few more messages with him. He basically said something that this could have been great if I wasn't so secretive about it, but I told him that with both of us having kids of similar age in same village, I simply cannot understand that point of view. It's like he wanted to impose some of his rules because he doesn't want to follow "my" rules, even though they are here to protect us and our families. He told me he hasn't mentioned anything to anyone and that this whole "thing" will stay between us, but I basically completely stepped away and we are back to normal relationship where we only communicate about kids and school and stuff like that. He is just not the right person, and best to leave it at that.

You don't need to thank me ol' gal! Having you aroun' is a boon by itself, in these parts, babe!

Ya'll live in a smallish village. Compact community. He wants "less secretive" stuff = high risk of disclosure, talk, derision, humiliation, name calling, social shutting out.

To him it matters less. He is a single man dating- if found out. You are a married mother, cheating your husband with students dad - the worst amongst the species! All moms then start hiding their men from this predatory sinner!

THAT is what this guy was trying to get you into. I won't say "funny guy". I would say "irresponsible, narcissist" who can only bring pain in any relationship.

Now that he is out.. on to the next (good) guy!

[afagehi7]

This is one of the best threads per my book! I love this couple. They are loving, committed, responsible. With very clear, non-negotiable priorities and policies on how to go about things. They put themselves and their relationship first. Leggysman is 100% on board with leggysandy's kicks scenario. He makes it a part of his own kicks. They kinda jointly own it! So no one is doing a favour to the other. They have no drama (after the initial adjustment in the early days), no dissonance. Whatever little perspective-variations there are between the two, is expected in real life, flesh and blood people!..

Maybe the student's dad guy left a bad taste in the mouth? Talked around? Wanted a more committed relationship? Maybe he wanted something totally different (break them up as a couple?)..

Anyways do let us know how things are now.

awww, thank you for these lovely words

While ago I exchanged few more messages with him. He basically said something that this could have been great if I wasn't so secretive about it, but I told him that with both of us having kids of similar age in same village, I simply cannot understand that point of view. It's like he wanted to impose some of his rules because he doesn't want to follow "my" rules, even though they are here to protect us and our families. He told me he hasn't mentioned anything to anyone and that this whole "thing" will stay between us, but I basically completely stepped away and we are back to normal relationship where we only communicate about kids and school and stuff like that. He is just not the right person, and best to leave it at that.

Coming from a guy: he has to follow your rules here and he should. It sounds like some alpha male power play...

If I want ice cream and someone else has the ice cream then I have to play by their rules if I want ice cream...its that way with everything. I want money, my employer has money, so i play by their rules to get the money...

I'm glad you didn't sell yourself short for this bloke. (Now if he was brad Pitt with the 9 inch dong and rolls Royce then ... Hahahaha). Seriously, stand by your principles and the rest will follow... In this world the woman is the prize

[kaskap79]

Hello Leggysandy and Leggysman

Any news on the Hotwifing?

A beautiful Lady like Leggysandy needs a lot of fun.

[leggysman]

Any news on the Hotwifing?

Sadly, nothing to report yet

I think it's only matter of finding the right guy. I think we're both ready for her to resume dating! She's keeping a lookout on her dating site, and is occasionally showing me the most promising candidates. I do think she's looking at slightly different types of men, perhaps with more of an emphasis on location.

One recent evening in bed she said to me "I should find a young local guy, who's always ready to fuck me". Agree, agree!

And Thursday evening in bed she kinda hinted about maybe wanting to have an adventure on our upcoming anniversary. Did I interpret that correctly, honey?

She actually scheduled (but then cancelled) a M&G with a guy, not too far from us, with whom she'd been chatting previously, even though she was never really all that into him. I choose to take that as a promising sign

[leggysman]

I think we should try to convince leggysandy to meet up with Anthony, for "old time's sake" - you know, just to get back in the 'swing' of things! (also: enormous cock!) Who's with me?!?!

[afagehi7]

I think we should try to convince leggysandy to meet up with Anthony, for "old time's sake" - you know, just to get back in the 'swing' of things! (also: enormous cock!) Who's with me?!?!

I don't think my opinion matters but I certainly agree with you... Also should get some good pics for confirmation (hey you miss 100% of the shots you don't take)

[Her number1]

I think we should try to convince leggysandy to meet up with Anthony, for "old time's sake" - you know, just to get back in the 'swing' of things! (also: enormous cock!) Who's with me?!?!

Would I could get her to listen to me , I agree with you completely. I would love to see and hear more of her adventures.

[regular3]

I'll happily put my name to the petition. Also for a new photo please.

[Jamesparistoo]

I concur with everything that is being said! Leggysandy is too hot not to play. And you are being so generous with us for sharing leggy’s and your exploits. Must have read the thread a 100 times; simply the best on here since many years (with Playboyfan’s story at a close distance (mostly because of the pics… :-))

[sandy691196]

Any news on the Hotwifing?

Sadly, nothing to report yet

I think it's only matter of finding the right guy. I think we're both ready for her to resume dating! She's keeping a lookout on her dating site, and is occasionally showing me the most promising candidates. I do think she's looking at slightly different types of men, perhaps with more of an emphasis on location.

One recent evening in bed she said to me "I should find a young local guy, who's always ready to fuck me". Agree, agree!

And Thursday evening in bed she kinda hinted about maybe wanting to have an adventure on our upcoming anniversary. Did I interpret that correctly, honey?

She actually scheduled (but then cancelled) a M&G with a guy, not too far from us, with whom she'd been chatting previously, even though she was never really all that into him. I choose to take that as a promising sign

"local young guy" translates into college going? Ain't there no colleges nearby handy? Bars and hangouts near colleges are great pick up joints for cougars. And guys that age are ALWAYS ready to fuck.. can go multiple times in the course of one evening / afternoon.
And these guys come with no complications or baggage.
Only problem is their propensity to brag.

[leggysman]

"local young guy" translates into college going? Ain't there no colleges nearby handy?

Probably not that young. I'd think that was great, but she's always had a thing for older guys.

For leggysandy, I think anyone 30ish would be a "young guy"

Don't worry, I'll keep trying to convince her how much fun a 20ish guy might be.

20-somethings might be difficult to relate to when you're a bit older, but they sure are fun to fuck. Just my opinion of course

[leggysman]

This weekend is our 10th anniversary.

Wouldn't it be fun if leggysandy wanted to make it a naughty sort of anniversary?

There's nothing (nobody) planned or arranged per se. But we will be going out, and hopefully trying to get ourselves into some kind of situation.

Fingers crossed for us, please!

[Her number1]

This weekend is our 10th anniversary.

Wouldn't it be fun if leggysandy wanted to make it a naughty sort of anniversary?

There's nothing (nobody) planned or arranged per se. But we will be going out, and hopefully trying to get ourselves into some kind of situation.

Fingers crossed for us, please!

Congrats on your anniversary! And.....your thought would be a great way to celebrate.

[kaskap79]

This weekend is our 10th anniversary.

Wouldn't it be fun if leggysandy wanted to make it a naughty sort of anniversary?

There's nothing (nobody) planned or arranged per se. But we will be going out, and hopefully trying to get ourselves into some kind of situation.

Fingers crossed for us, please!

Congratulations with your 10 year anniversary.

You can send Leggesandy to San Francisco, I can show her what the city can offer.

Enjoy your weekend and I hope it brings what you both want.

[Jamesparistoo]

Congratulations on your anniversary indeed. I am sure it will be a wonderful time together.

And yes, it would be hot if you can bring in something naughty. I am pretty convinced I am not the only one who can’t wait for gorgeous Sandy riding again!