Pregnant from another man? Effect on relation?

[PhilSwe Couple]

How many hotwifes got pregnant from another man? How did it affect your relation wife-husband? Great if you can both reply to the poll and reply with a short explanation.

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

[sana9889]

Very complicated.
I didn't know till quite some time after she was my bfs. Neither my husband or my bf know. My husband doesn't know about my bf.

[PhilSwe Couple]

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[PhilSwe Couple]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

Very nice reply, thanks for sharing. I think that good communication and to agree about the rules etc is important. Perhaps she wanted to tease you about her wanting to get preg with the lover?

[submissivedanny]

My first wife got pregnant from her boy friend and I thought about it a lot and told my wife we should get divorced and she should marry her boy friend so they can raise the baby together. She didn't want to get divorced and neither did I but I thought it was best for the baby to be raised by the mother and father.

[little sissy Benita]

After she fall in love with him and started to living as married couple in the house - she told me that she want also to get pregnant by him - because they was now husband and wife.

Of course she don´t permission from me, because i was living as her little daughter (and baby). and mommy don´t need permission from her little daughter when she want fo be pregnant, isn´t it.

She stopt to take birth control pills and he don´t use condoms and then she had her not her period , a test shows that she was pregnant.
The first few days I had trouble dealing with it, I slept badly and had stomachaches.
I tried to concentrate on being a well behaved little daughter (and baby) and I congratulated her and he (mommy and daddy) said I was very happy. I think that took a little of the pressure off everyone. It was fascinating for me to see how her belly (and breasts) got bigger and bigger over time.
Pregnant by a real man and luckily not by me, a sissy baby - that was the right way of thinking for me.
It was a little humiliating when she was about to give birth and I asked where the baby should sleep and so on. Hmm, well, I was a little surprised when they both said - well, where do babies sleep - in the baby room... as I said, it was a little humiliating that their babies should be in the same room.

Effects on the relationship?

As a family we have grown together - and accept the new relationships and roles in the family

I hope I expressed myself well, unfortunately I am not that intelligent -please don't be so strict on me

little Benita

[gruenberg]

My wife got pregnant from her boss while having a secret affair with him. That is how i learned about it. We were not in any hotwife activities at all and it hit me with full power. It was a very difficult time. We were at the edge of getting seperated, as one can imagine, but we worked it out.

Today I am very happy, we worked it out and now we are a little family. My wife, our daughter and me. I say "my daughter" because in our eyes I am her father. My wife`s boss didn`t interfer in any activities or anything else.

While being pregnant my wife started to be a hotwife with her boss. This is how our journey started.

[PANTIES]

She gave birth his baby August 11, she has moved in with him and their baby so they can bond. She moved in with him a month before their baby was due so he could take her to the hospital. He signed the birth certificate.

She told me a year ago she wanted his baby. Now that she’s living with him they want another baby. Currently my wife is not on any birth control because they want her to get pregnant again as soon as possible.

It was interesting watching her belly get bigger. We remain married but that’s on paper only. She belongs to him. She reminds me, this is what you wanted and now I want his babies.

sissy pauline

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

Very nice reply, thanks for sharing. I think that good communication and to agree about the rules etc is important. Perhaps she wanted to tease you about her wanting to get preg with the lover?

Hi PhilSwe thank you for the kind words. Unfortunately she was not doing it to tease me. My stance on pregnancy with a lover has been a no-no because it's very complicated and also puts a lot of strain on the relationship when it's not solid. I admit that my views have lightened up a bit and think that I am more open to the idea but only under the right conditions. I would not directly pursue it and deliberately work on her getting pregnant but I would not be as opposed if she was honest and told me she really wanted to give herself to her boyfriend to the point of giving him a child.

Going back to the tease comment. My girlfriend had been with her boyfriend for over 2 years when she confessed that she wanted to have a child with him. She was in love, making love, and openly dating him publicly without restrictions. She told me she wasn't trying to get pregnant intentionally but that she wasn't trying to prevent either. I think that my silent hug and light kiss on the lips were taken as both signs of my submission as well as support, even though I didn't want it.

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

Very nice reply, thanks for sharing. I think that good communication and to agree about the rules etc is important. Perhaps she wanted to tease you about her wanting to get preg with the lover?

Hi PhilSwe thank you for the kind words. Unfortunately she was not doing it to tease me. My stance on pregnancy with a lover has been a no-no because it's very complicated and also puts a lot of strain on the relationship when it's not solid. I admit that my views have lightened up a bit and think that I am more open to the idea but only under the right conditions. I would not directly pursue it and deliberately work on her getting pregnant but I would not be as opposed if she was honest and told me she really wanted to give herself to her boyfriend to the point of giving him a child.

Going back to the tease comment. My girlfriend had been with her boyfriend for over 2 years when she confessed that she wanted to have a child with him. She was in love, making love, and openly dating him publicly without restrictions. She told me she wasn't trying to get pregnant intentionally but that she wasn't trying to prevent either. I think that my silent hug and light kiss on the lips were taken as both signs of my submission as well as support, even though I didn't want it.

[PhilSwe Couple]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

Very nice reply, thanks for sharing. I think that good communication and to agree about the rules etc is important. Perhaps she wanted to tease you about her wanting to get preg with the lover?

Hi PhilSwe thank you for the kind words. Unfortunately she was not doing it to tease me. My stance on pregnancy with a lover has been a no-no because it's very complicated and also puts a lot of strain on the relationship when it's not solid. I admit that my views have lightened up a bit and think that I am more open to the idea but only under the right conditions. I would not directly pursue it and deliberately work on her getting pregnant but I would not be as opposed if she was honest and told me she really wanted to give herself to her boyfriend to the point of giving him a child.

Going back to the tease comment. My girlfriend had been with her boyfriend for over 2 years when she confessed that she wanted to have a child with him. She was in love, making love, and openly dating him publicly without restrictions. She told me she wasn't trying to get pregnant intentionally but that she wasn't trying to prevent either. I think that my silent hug and light kiss on the lips were taken as both signs of my submission as well as support, even though I didn't want it.

Thats interesting. Did you live together with your girl? How often was she meeting her boyfriend? If she loved the other man how come she lived with you?

My girlfriend is meeting another man and like to do it skin to skin and no birth control. I dont mind, I just want her to be happy

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend missed her period or was late quite often shortly after going exclusive with her primary boyfriend. It did not help that she got off birth control shortly after going exclusive with him. It was anxiety inducing for me especially because she was very open about wanting him to get her pregnant.

I think that a couple has to be very solid and secure for the wife to carry another mans baby. I feel that it would be detrimental if the the couple is not in agreement as well as healthy. I know that if my then girlfriend would have decided not to take plan B and decided to let nature take its course, her and I would have likely ended faster than we did.

I know that you are asking for people who currently have a child with the other man, I apologize for chiming in and will remove my post if you would like.

Very nice reply, thanks for sharing. I think that good communication and to agree about the rules etc is important. Perhaps she wanted to tease you about her wanting to get preg with the lover?

Hi PhilSwe thank you for the kind words. Unfortunately she was not doing it to tease me. My stance on pregnancy with a lover has been a no-no because it's very complicated and also puts a lot of strain on the relationship when it's not solid. I admit that my views have lightened up a bit and think that I am more open to the idea but only under the right conditions. I would not directly pursue it and deliberately work on her getting pregnant but I would not be as opposed if she was honest and told me she really wanted to give herself to her boyfriend to the point of giving him a child.

Going back to the tease comment. My girlfriend had been with her boyfriend for over 2 years when she confessed that she wanted to have a child with him. She was in love, making love, and openly dating him publicly without restrictions. She told me she wasn't trying to get pregnant intentionally but that she wasn't trying to prevent either. I think that my silent hug and light kiss on the lips were taken as both signs of my submission as well as support, even though I didn't want it.

Thats interesting. Did you live together with your girl? How often was she meeting her boyfriend? If she loved the other man how come she lived with you?

My girlfriend is meeting another man and like to do it skin to skin and no birth control. I dont mind, I just want her to be happy

We lived together for many years and initially she would see him several times per week when they were just friends with benefits but when she started falling in love and officially became his girlfriend, she started seeing him every day. She never used a condom with him even from day one it was always unprotected and just relying on the pill to prevent pregnancy.

[stubbyhubby]

Cuckolding in general saved our marriage. We were headed for divorce until I suggested she try sleeping with other men to fill the gap I left in the bedroom.

Before getting married we had discussed wanting to have 4 or 5 kids, but as soon as she saw my dick on our wedding night that changed. She barely let me have sex with her for more than a minute or so and if she even slightly suspected I might cum in her she pushed me away immediately. The net result is I was never allowed to cum in her and only had sex with her maybe 9 or 10 times at that. Obviously something has to give if e we're going to have children.

The first guy to fuck her was my best friend and when he said he was about to cum she told him not to pull out. I was really jealous, but also smart enough to realize it went with the path I had sent us down. He continued to come over and fuck her almost daily and he always came in her. She wasn't on birth control so it didn't take a genius to figure out she was going to get pregnant and about 6 weeks after that first night she told me she was pregnant. She asked if I was upset and I lied and said I wasn't while in reality I was partly upset and partly turned on that she was pregnant by him.

I was there for the birth. We celebrated just like it was my child. My name is on the birth certificate and he has always been my son. We had two more after him the same way. They have completed our family and made us whole. I wouldn't change it if I could.

[Hubby2myHW]

When I was younger, this would have been amazing. The only “birth control” would have been me trying to slurp his cum out of her pussy. Lol
It would have been hot to watch his seed grow inside her until she popped! They I could have been their babysitter whole-while they worked on the next baby. So got
But that ship has sailed.

[Mkliny442015]

My wife and i already had young kids when we started the hotwife journey. She had one night stands and short flings using protection but eventually found a long term boyfriend and fell in love. She had an IUD at this point and they did start having unprotected sex multiple times a week. She said as they fell deeper in love there was an urge to get impregnated by him and he had the urge to get her pregnant too, but logistically and practically this wasn’t happening. We have always agreed that the idea may sound hot but using innocent children as part of our kink was off limits no matter how properly the child would be raised. But when discussing the “what-if’s” we agreed that if her IUD failed and she ended up pregnant we would keep the baby since it was made out of love, or if things were different and we couldn’t have kids then we would be ok with him as our natural insemination donor.

[Mkliny442015]

My wife and i already had young kids when we started the hotwife journey. She had one night stands and short flings using protection but eventually found a long term boyfriend and fell in love. She had an IUD at this point and they did start having unprotected sex multiple times a week. She said as they fell deeper in love there was an urge to get impregnated by him and he had the urge to get her pregnant too, but logistically and practically this wasn’t happening. We have always agreed that the idea may sound hot but using innocent children as part of our kink was off limits no matter how properly the child would be raised. But when discussing the “what-if’s” we agreed that if her IUD failed and she ended up pregnant we would keep the baby since it was made out of love, or if things were different and we couldn’t have kids then we would be ok with him as our natural insemination donor.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

[Long Lurker 34]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

MRS HWC
- Would you be able to share what happened?

[sana9889]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

I am sorry about what you had to endure. But Im glad it worked out for you.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

I am sorry about what you had to endure. But Im glad it worked out for you.

Sorry? Complicated emotions don't mean anything bad. Nothing to be sorry about.

[Angsty Cuck]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

I am sorry about what you had to endure. But Im glad it worked out for you.

Sorry? Complicated emotions don't mean anything bad. Nothing to be sorry about.

Were you ever worried he would react badly when once the baby was actually born?

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I got pregnant from another man. Complicated emotions at first, but it improved our marriage, husband accepted the baby as his own, and improved our sex life.

I am sorry about what you had to endure. But Im glad it worked out for you.

Sorry? Complicated emotions don't mean anything bad. Nothing to be sorry about.

Were you ever worried he would react badly when once the baby was actually born?

No. Again, we had already talked about it. We were both comfortable that if it happened it was ok.

[gruenberg]

I wonder when it started in our evolutionary history that the offspring must necessarily be genetically descended from the maintainer of the small community called family. Of course, the development towards a sexually monogamous relationship plays an important role. Or the idea of it. Because let's be honest, especially here in the forum, it's obvious that there is no broad consensus on sexually monogamous marriage over decades.

You only have to take a look at our genetic relatives, the other primates, to see how we actually tick.

Especially in times when there is more and more equality between the sexes, at least in the western world, and women are therefore financially independent, they no longer need men to survive and no longer have to give up their most valuable asset, their uterus ready for reproduction, to the man who brings home the food and provides the roof over their heads. No, they are free to choose whose genes they want.
This does not necessarily have to be the one they once chose in an exceptional emotional situation and with whom they walked down the aisle.

[best_friend]

I wonder when it started in our evolutionary history that the offspring must necessarily be genetically descended from the maintainer of the small community called family. Of course, the development towards a sexually monogamous relationship plays an important role. Or the idea of it. Because let's be honest, especially here in the forum, it's obvious that there is no broad consensus on sexually monogamous marriage over decades.

You only have to take a look at our genetic relatives, the other primates, to see how we actually tick.

Especially in times when there is more and more equality between the sexes, at least in the western world, and women are therefore financially independent, they no longer need men to survive and no longer have to give up their most valuable asset, their uterus ready for reproduction, to the man who brings home the food and provides the roof over their heads. No, they are free to choose whose genes they want.
This does not necessarily have to be the one they once chose in an exceptional emotional situation and with whom they walked down the aisle.

Very interesting post.

What is also important to consider in this context is the fact that in a free world, women choose who they give their uterus to. For a woman, pregnancy and raising offspring is much more physically demanding than for a man when he squirts his sperm. He can do this several times a day. With different women.
But a woman can only get pregnant once and then it takes three to four years before she has the energy and time to get pregnant again and look after the child. During a human lifetime, she can do this perhaps eight or nine times.

A man, on the other hand, can give birth to eight or more children in one or two days when he is young. That's why men aren't so picky when it comes to sex. Women are.

If all women were now free to choose who they wanted to have children with, many men would probably fall by the wayside.