Can a pussy free marriage work long-term?

[KWB1616]

We have just started with a pussy free lifestyle for the last two months and I am loving it!

We have sex way more now but our sex consists of me licking her pussy many times a day. My wife controls my orgasms so I only cum about once every two weeks and when I cum she feeds it all to me. Yes, we are very much a female led relationship.

My wife doesn't want me to cum in her anymore since she wants to keep her pussy fresh for other guys. But i do get to lick their creampies from her too.

[sana9889]

Its a nice bonding experience with your husband. Laying in bed together, both panties. Watching shemale porn with lots of dicks. Both of us rubbing our own clits up and down and around modestly covered like good girls. My panties soaked in pussy juoce. His panties leaking his clit milk.

You can still share a strong level of intimacy and orgasms without pussy. In a lot of ways, you can share a deeper connection and respect more by not letting your husband see your pussy beyond panties.

[pixwellguy]

You can still share a strong level of intimacy and orgasms without pussy. In a lot of ways, you can share a deeper connection and respect more by not letting your husband see your pussy beyond panties.

Absolutely correct. I've been fully denied for 6 years now, and she rarely lets me see her naked. Her lover and a few other men satisfy all her needs, and this marriage works very well!

[isharedmywifein2018]

NO

[Colliercuck]

I have been completely pussy free for 4 years now, the last time she allowed me inside of her, was when I asked if her lover turned her on sexually.
I’ve asked to be a cuckold for at least 29 years of our 38 years together.
And she made it clear from the first time that I was inside of her, that I was small and inadequate.
She had reminded me numerous times of my lack of size and that I never made her cum.
Well, I found out just over 4 years ago that she was seeing someone for over 8 months, she said it only ended because he moved away.
She also said she would not apologize or feel guilty about any of it, and that she feels that since I had been asking this for years, that she didn’t do anything wrong anyway, that if I want to blame anyone, look at myself.
I fucked her hard the morning after I found out, and she knew it turned me on (their affair)
We were about to have sex before leaving town, I was starting to enter her, and she said “hurry up and get it over, sex with you does nothing for me”, so I asked if Sabin turned her on……..she got pissed, and asked what did you say!
When I explained, she got up and said it’s time to get ready and that I lost my chance.
She told me a couple days later, that I was to approach her and tell her my thoughts, my fantasies, my desires….she said I will not approach you.
Well I took her to dinner, told her everything, which included permanent denial.
The next day, she said you love denial, I said yes…..she said good, I hope you enjoy it, you are denied, you will never be inside of me again, I will find a man to satisfy me, and I will look good for him.
I can’t explain it, but we are closer and I absolutely love her, I desire her pussy, but knowing I’m not allowed makes my hard on more intense……….and I get more out of denial.
She has told me that she thought after we would have sex, throughout our marriage, that afterwards she thought I didn’t treat her as good or nice as before, and that she never felt as close when we had sex.
She says I pay more attention to her, to her needs and do more for her with a better attitude

[pixwellguy]

The next day, she said you love denial, I said yes…..she said good, I hope you enjoy it, you are denied, you will never be inside of me again, I will find a man to satisfy me, and I will look good for him.
I can’t explain it, but we are closer and I absolutely love her, I desire her pussy, but knowing I’m not allowed makes my hard on more intense……….and I get more out of denial.

No need to explain it...those of us who live happily and completely denied in our marriages (like me) understand it completely.

I hope your wife finds a good man (or men) to satisfy her completely, and I hope you help her find him!

[LongTermHubby]

I have been completely pussy free for 4 years now, the last time she allowed me inside of her, was when I asked if her lover turned her on sexually.
I’ve asked to be a cuckold for at least 29 years of our 38 years together.
And she made it clear from the first time that I was inside of her, that I was small and inadequate.
She had reminded me numerous times of my lack of size and that I never made her cum.
Well, I found out just over 4 years ago that she was seeing someone for over 8 months, she said it only ended because he moved away.
She also said she would not apologize or feel guilty about any of it, and that she feels that since I had been asking this for years, that she didn’t do anything wrong anyway, that if I want to blame anyone, look at myself.
I fucked her hard the morning after I found out, and she knew it turned me on (their affair)
We were about to have sex before leaving town, I was starting to enter her, and she said “hurry up and get it over, sex with you does nothing for me”, so I asked if Sabin turned her on……..she got pissed, and asked what did you say!
When I explained, she got up and said it’s time to get ready and that I lost my chance.
She told me a couple days later, that I was to approach her and tell her my thoughts, my fantasies, my desires….she said I will not approach you.
Well I took her to dinner, told her everything, which included permanent denial.
The next day, she said you love denial, I said yes…..she said good, I hope you enjoy it, you are denied, you will never be inside of me again, I will find a man to satisfy me, and I will look good for him.
I can’t explain it, but we are closer and I absolutely love her, I desire her pussy, but knowing I’m not allowed makes my hard on more intense……….and I get more out of denial.
She has told me that she thought after we would have sex, throughout our marriage, that afterwards she thought I didn’t treat her as good or nice as before, and that she never felt as close when we had sex.
She says I pay more attention to her, to her needs and do more for her with a better attitude

That's kind of how it was with us. Once my wife found someone who really satisified her, she made it clear there would be no more PIV sex with me.

[david3281]

From experience I believe a pussy free marriage can work wonderfully as long as your wife is getting satisfied elsewhere AND you are still intimate with her in other ways. We had been PIV free for 13 months before she let me inside of her back in March during a nice romantic trip. I haven't been back inside since and have no idea if or when I will be. I like it this way and I honestly don't think she even thinks about it as she gets all she needs from Jason. The only time it is brought up is when she is teasing me about it.
David

[CoupleFun555]

We have not had PIV sex in 9 months. When I brought this up this weekend, she said “how about we try for a year!” Crazy erotic.

We are happily married and enjoy sex with each but just in different ways.

[sana9889]

NO

Why do you think it cannot?

[Bnc63]

We celebrated on last Monday 3 years of piv free, bj free, hj free happy marriage.

We’re best friends and love as such!

[ucaneffher]

I've said it before and I will say it again. The only way that I am going 100% penetration-free is because she has a boyfriend, he lives with us, and she has made him her main/primary partner. If he takes over my role, then I accept becoming penetration -free because he is taking care of her needs at a full time level .

However, if she only goes out and plays with men once or twice a month then I refuse to give up penetrating her.

I can be reasonable and be flexible but there has to be enough justification for my denial, such as my lovely lady having:

1. Full time live-in main boyfriend.
2. Way more men on rotation than one can count with all 10 fingers
3. Less men but having sex nearly daily with another man/other men.

I prefer the first option because it would be taking place up close in our home. I'd be reminded every second of every day that I am a cuckold. The other options would as well but seeing your lady belong to another man up close inside your home is just a whole other level of extreme cuckolding, which I would like to experience.

[derekduvalle]

I am pussy free i have been for 10 years. My wife has always said I'm useless at sex, my cock was almost always too limp to penetrate her properly and if i was hard it would not stay hard for long and I'd go limp Inside her. So 10 years ago she told me i was not allowed to fuck her anymore, so I haven't had my cock Inside her for all that time. Over the years I was fucking her i only once ever made her orgasm from penetration.
I am now also denied blow jobs as well, it has now been 9 months since my cock was last sucked. I am very occasionally allowed to lick her pussy and arsehole, and occasionally wank over her, but that is it. She doesn't really need me as she has a long term lover that satisfys all her needs.
I am very happy with the situation and our marriage is still very strong.

[night owl]

I've been pussy free for the past 4 years. On occasions I'm allowed to lick my wifes anus and look forward to it as it's usually once a month that I'm invited in to enjoy a bit of her back end. I'll usually masturbate over her after and be satisfied. I'm still trying to introduce the idea of her getting serviced by a younger man, I guess like anything its about timing. Keen to chat with others in UK and northern EU.