Do you ever set goals - for example; A specific quantity of partners within a period of time?
IE; 10 guys in a weekend... 50 in a month... 100 in a year... or whatever is your fancy?
Do you ever play the "Quantity" game? Is it a kink?
Do you have goals to reach - a specific number or total you're aiming for?
For hubby and I it has become a very serious part of our dynamic.... and an enormous turn on.
This is something that comes from his personality. He has severe ADD and throughout his life he's used organization and statistics to help balance out aspects of his life. This has led to him collecting things, maintaining organized folders on his laptop, each set-up in various formats and categorized by subject, dates, size, quantity etc. He's a very neat and organized hoarder of completely benign things that take-up virtually no space. It's somewhat obsessive compulsive but doesn't interrupt our lives or anything. I'm not about to be buried under a mountain of junk.
We love to fuck and talk about the sheer quantity of cock I have COLLECTED with my holes.
I have to admit that over the years of this exploration I have become more and more aroused by the acquisition of partners. When I fuck a guy I literally think to myself "Knocked another one off" or "Notch for the bedpost". I know it's crude and really slutty but it's a huge turn on. I've been keeping my own count of what I have done "on the side" and I fantasize about the day that I tell him and feel his response.
I find I take pride in my numbers.
