Reasons for our wives to made us into cuckold?

[little sissy Benita]

Reasons for our wives to make us into cuckolds? To start cuckold lifestyle the reasons are of course different and of course the further developments.

Before we started cuckolding, I never hear from it - And if someone had told me back then that I would let my wife have intercourse with someone else, I would have said that I would never allow that - and especially not impregnate her.
Letting another man move into the house was unthinkable for me, and wearing female clothes and so on was out of the question. I would describe myself as a jealous and dominant husband at the time.

The reasons?
We wanted to spice up our sex life and made a complete difference as before after the second son was born.
My (former) wife tells me about cuckolding and that she wants to try it and I don't know why, I say yes. Maybe curiosity. But I thought it would only be a few weeks.

How did she come up with this idea? Well, she read something about it in a women's forum and found it interesting and exciting

Of course also to get to know real men, because my willie was rather tiny even then - maybe 3 inches (stiff) - and I was usually finished after two minutes - but it also happened that I didn't even penetrate.

I was surprised to hear her moaning during intercourse and to see her passion - it was like I was seeing/hearing a completely different woman. Men with bigger willies as mine , made me feel insecure and I was afraid that she might leave me because of it.
To see and experience that men are persistent and have sex several times in a row and also come inside her is unbelievable. For me, if at all, it was over after one time

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[submissivedanny]

My wife's reason was that my cock did nothing for her because it was only about 3" erect when we first met now it's only about 2" erect.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife begain cuckolding me because I never satisfied her and she wanted to get together with men who did satisfy her.

[Johnann2227]

My wife has never fucked other men because I am inadequate. Right from our late teens our sex has been amazing. But we started swinging with friends when we were 20 and 19 and immediately loved the high it gave us.

Nothing was off limits and the excitement of new lovers was addictive. My wife loves getting attention and flirting. I love to make her happy. Seeing her getting pleasure gets me off. So I am happy if she fucks someone new and have even gone to extent of allowing her boyfriend to move in with us.

[Thebestdays1]

My wife had already cheated on her previous boyfriend and she'd also had a few foursomes with two different couples that her boyfriend knew. She was also bi and was having a sexual relationship with her elder sister as well as her best friend. She loved the variety of the feelings she felt with other people as well as the thrill of doing something that most people wouldn't understand.
She enjoyed having different people show an interest in her, even though she's never considered herself to be pretty or sexy; being wanted sexually excited her.
Once we were a couple and I'd encouraged her to go with a colleague she'd long fancied, she said she felt closer to me.
She also enjoyed telling me about it afterwards, saying how she enjoyed being seen undressed by him and fucking him, especially as he was married. We hadn't fucked by this point, I just got blowjobs from her so she couldn't compare him to me but she did tell me how different he felt to her previous boyfriend and my arousal was obvious.
Once I saw her go down on one of her colleagues from her new job, not long after we were married and she passed his cum into my mouth, she realised the sort of power she could have over me. She wasn't normally dominant in any way, especially in the bedroom but when I admitted I'd enjoyed the humiliation of swallowing his cum after she'd just sucked him off, she knew she could get me to do what she wanted.
After several years and she was seen with a boyfriend by a neighbour, she felt quite proud that people knew that she was having a good sex life, probably better than them, and that people fancied her. I was proud of her too and enjoyed showing my love for her around other people.

[Unknowingcuck]

It was my idea. I ran across cuckold porn and found it very arousing. From there she shared stories about her past lovers and named her toy collection after them. Several dildos larger than my 4in. Each of them haves names of who they represent in size.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

I am not 'inadequate', I am on the better end of average and my wide has told me that if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me near her, so that wouldn't be it. She *does* enjoy locking my cock up, and the power it gives her by not letting me fuck and not letting me cum for long periods. She also likes making me lick cum out of her pussy.

Unfortunately, she prefers the real thing to dildos, and if she is keeping my cock caged and not letting me fuck her she isn't getting fucked. Eventually she came up with the idea of fucking other guys, the solution to getting everything she wants. She gets to fuck, while keeping me caged and not able to fuck her. She gets to make me lick her cum-filled pussy, without having to let *me* come first. She gets the benefit of being able to keep me horny with teasing and denial, making me more 'agreeable to the things she wants to do, and less 'argumentative', more eager to please her in order to eventually be allowed some pleasure and an orgasm.

[SissyGail]

Ours proceeded in a couple of stages.

First of all, my wife had two "slutty periods" in her life before she met me, and when she met she had decided to "go straight." She was used to a lot of sex, and to being desired by her partner.

Second of all, we are 17 years apart in age. When we got together we were 32 and 49, and the sex was off the charts spectacular. Then a few years later I began to have second thoughts about staying with her. I kept thinking I should be with someone younger, and kept comparing her to women my age or younger (in my mind, not verbally). She began to feel neglected, and then cheated on me.

She very soon confessed, ashamed of what she had done, but told me she had begun to feel neglected. I had a whole morass of different feelings about this. A couple months later she did it again. This time, after more soul searching, I told her it actually really turned me on. It had brought to life some fantasies I had kept very close to the vest about being dominated and cheated on. I didn't know the word cuckold at that time, or anything about this life style. But we made an agreement that she would seek sex outside our marriage and that I would hear about it.

About a year into it, my wife connected with a guy who was about two inches bigger than me. She said he was able to pleasure her in a way no one else ever had, and she became obsessed with this. A month or two after this, we stopped having sex with each other, mostly by mutual agreement. I enjoyed masturbating about her adventures and the power she now had, and she enjoyed being appreciated and seduced by younger and well endowed men. And so it went for many many years, to our mutual satisfaction.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum SissyGail. Older women know STUFF and if you get a chance to sample it it is amazing. She sounds like one desirable hot woman.

[sana9889]

My wife's reason was that my cock did nothing for her because it was only about 3" erect when we first met now it's only about 2" erect.

Cant relly penetrate with 2 inches. Its more like a rub.
My husband is less than 2inches but its only a head nonshaft.Its the perfect clit. But not made for fucking a pussy.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

My husband wanted it. I picked up that he wanted more than he could articulate, so I took him the rest of the way, and it's been fun

[isinlarsa]

My first wife got me hooked into a cuckold mindset. We had been swapping with another couple for some time, so it wasn't like she had never been fucked by another man while we were married.

However, she decided to cheat on me with a co-worker. As it happened, they were alone in the office in the afternoons; so they took advantage of the situation and would fuck before going home to they respective spouses.

One afternoon, I got home before she did, and our kids were not at home. She came through the door and immediately grabbed me at the door and made it clear she wanted sex. We never even made it up the stairs, but rather she ended up sitting on the stairs with her pants off, pushing my face into her crotch. I eagerly ate her out, not thinking about the fact she very wet -- indeed her pussy was flowing. I also didn't think about a different taste.

Much later she confessed that she had purposefully forced me to eat her lover's cum out of her. It was an act of dominance on her part.

We agreed she could continue with her extramarital sex with her co-worker. I can't come up with the words for how I felt, but I found it so hot she had taken the initiative to cuckold me.

[annsman]

We read my men’s magazines together and were both turned on by the wife sharing letters, so started fantasising about sharing her and it went from there.

[safado]

Wife caught me cheating. After she started talking to me again, she would make sure to tell me about every man who hit on her at work and the supermarket etc. Some pretty direct approaches. She was trying to make me jealous, and it worked but also turned me on in that cuckold way.

I got more and more into cuckold stories and amateur porn, and began to share it with her and encourage her to flirt back. I told her she could fuck any man she wanted as revenge for my cheating.

I was chatting with a "dom" from the old Yahoo Messenger cuckold chatroom. He was very intelligent and understood the psychology of cuckold and femdom and how it related to our situation. I introduced my wife to him and they had private chats. I don't know exactly what they chatted about, but I gather he explained to her how cucking me would give her power over me and prevent me from cheating again. I endorsed that idea and said that her fucking other guys would be way hotter than me fucking another woman again.

It took five years of this dialogue and encouragement but eventually she went out on a date with a much younger co-worker who was moving out of town and had a one-night stand with him. She made up her mind to fuck him before the date. After that, she moved on to a long-term lover she met in a singles' bar and fucked him regularly for three years.

[jguy]

My wife held it over my head the times I cheated on her. After 5 years of her not getting past it, I encouraged her to talk to, go out with, and have drinks with a man that made her laugh. She enjoyed being with him, so I encouraged her to kiss him. They never did much, so I took her to his house one night (after he was divorced and had his own place) and after much wine they started kissing. That night while they were kissing, he put his finger in her and played played with her pussy. She admitted she was wet even before we got there. After that night, it was all she could think about until two months later they had sex. Since then, I have never heard anything about me being with other women.

[dinoo]

My wife began cuckolding me because I never satisfied her and she wanted to get together with men who did satisfy her.

My wife and I had always great sex.
However, with other men she experienced a more "romantic" and "devoted" sex.
She really loved when I watched her.
A way to tell me my failings?
The more sex with other men became hornier, the more she showed the others my role as watcher and her cuckold.

Examples:
She was giving a guy a BJ meanwhile I was watching her with my cheek on hers.
After he came in her mouth, I expected that she would kiss me.
Instead she tongue kissed him and with purpose showed me how she adored to play with his cum while I was so very nearby.
A way to show me being her cuckold.

She loved giving BJ's. Especially to the end.
Often she would kiss me with her mouth full of cum.
‘In the beginning' she once said about it ’it is part of our lifestyle that you, as my cuckold, have to realize that a stranger just came into your wife's mouth. How onlookers can see your place in our relationship should be obvious to everyone, if not become so. "
She knew I did not like the taste at all. "I want to get you used to the taste" she made me clear.

[parklife]

Because I asked her to…. Don’t get me wrong, it took a long time and lots of back and forth but ultimately. If I hadn’t asked and we hadn’t used it as fantasy fodder in the bedroom for many years, she wouldn’t have gone done this road. She’s happy with our sex life, more than happy with my slightly lower than average size equipment but after talking, fantasizing and being open to adventure, she did it,

But she never would have gotten there on her own. It was my request and her being open to exploring that led us here,

[BiGalBrklyn]

I was introduced to the lifestyle by my first wife and I introduce the life style to my current wife. She deserve better

[SpicySaltnPepper]

The cuckolds I've encountered simply haven't been able to deliver to their wives the type of sexual experience that they desire...could be due to ED, libido, a tiny penis, lack of confidence (often coupled with submissiveness for a wife who desires someone to take control), lack of similar kinks, differing sexual attraction (bi, homo or asexual husband), or any other reason.

The best cuckold couples, in my opinion, are men who are submissive with women who are switches. The woman is often learning how to be a dominant over her husband while getting to let go and submit fully to her bull. It's the best of all worlds and such a fun dynamic to be a part of as a bull.

[SpicySaltnPepper]

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[DavaoMike]

My wife, Maricel, never “made” me a cuckold. We sort of evolved this way naturally together. Our marriage is very important to both of us. But I’d say the primary driver was my diminishing libido. My wife has a supercharged sex drive, while I’m happy with sex about once every 2-3 weeks. Maricel’s long term boyfriend, Adam, fills the gap. So, everyone is happy and fulfilled.

[olive2a]

It was my idea. I ran across cuckold porn and found it very arousing. From there she shared stories about her past lovers and named her toy collection after them. Several dildos larger than my 4in. Each of them haves names of who they represent in size.

wow, I think she did well. It's very exciting to hear about past boyfriends who have bigger cocks and fucked her good. women deserve big cocks to fill them. that's my point of view.

[olive2a]

The cuckolds I've encountered simply haven't been able to deliver to their wives the type of sexual experience that they desire...could be due to ED, libido, a tiny penis, lack of confidence (often coupled with submissiveness for a wife who desires someone to take control), lack of similar kinks, differing sexual attraction (bi, homo or asexual husband), or any other reason.

The best cuckold couples, in my opinion, are men who are submissive with women who are switches. The woman is often learning how to be a dominant over her husband while getting to let go and submit fully to her bull. It's the best of all worlds and such a fun dynamic to be a part of as a bull.

It seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do husbands also submit to you or just a kind of trickle down:
bull->HW->husband ?

[SpicySaltnPepper]

The cuckolds I've encountered simply haven't been able to deliver to their wives the type of sexual experience that they desire...could be due to ED, libido, a tiny penis, lack of confidence (often coupled with submissiveness for a wife who desires someone to take control), lack of similar kinks, differing sexual attraction (bi, homo or asexual husband), or any other reason.

The best cuckold couples, in my opinion, are men who are submissive with women who are switches. The woman is often learning how to be a dominant over her husband while getting to let go and submit fully to her bull. It's the best of all worlds and such a fun dynamic to be a part of as a bull.

It seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do husbands also submit to you or just a kind of trickle down:
bull->HW->husband ?

By the very nature of someone identifying as a cuck and not a stag, I think there's an implied submissiveness to the bull. Not in general necessarily, but at least within the dynamic of sex and his wife's body, and whatever ground rules have been established. Whether the wife is dominant over the cuck can depend. Some couples are both submissive and enjoy being submissive together. Some submissive wives can grow into dominating their cuck once they get a taste of the power their sexuality gives them. Some wives are already very dominant and become hotwives to have a place in their life where they don't have to be.

[olive2a]

The cuckolds I've encountered simply haven't been able to deliver to their wives the type of sexual experience that they desire...could be due to ED, libido, a tiny penis, lack of confidence (often coupled with submissiveness for a wife who desires someone to take control), lack of similar kinks, differing sexual attraction (bi, homo or asexual husband), or any other reason.

The best cuckold couples, in my opinion, are men who are submissive with women who are switches. The woman is often learning how to be a dominant over her husband while getting to let go and submit fully to her bull. It's the best of all worlds and such a fun dynamic to be a part of as a bull.

It seems like you really know what you're talking about. Do husbands also submit to you or just a kind of trickle down:
bull->HW->husband ?

By the very nature of someone identifying as a cuck and not a stag, I think there's an implied submissiveness to the bull. Not in general necessarily, but at least within the dynamic of sex and his wife's body, and whatever ground rules have been established. Whether the wife is dominant over the cuck can depend. Some couples are both submissive and enjoy being submissive together. Some submissive wives can grow into dominating their cuck once they get a taste of the power their sexuality gives them. Some wives are already very dominant and become hotwives to have a place in their life where they don't have to be.

thank you, it’s very interesting.

It will be necessary to open a psycho-sociological section in the discussion threads.

As a result, when we read and respond to forum messages, we tend to see it from a primary sexual point of view.
But sex is as much a means of having pleasure as a “control” over the husband or wife.
probably that the evolution of morals puts the place of women more at the center.
I think that many women hold the reins of their relationship but sometimes more in the privacy of the home.

Finally, it’s a very interesting subject.