Starting down no sex for me trail.

[Unknowingcuck]

Month 3 of just giving her oral sex then masturbating while she says I have a tiny penis.

[CuriousHusband91941]

No use of dildos? What makes you want to be pussy free?

[Her number1]

Month 3 of just giving her oral sex then masturbating while she says I have a tiny penis.

Is this more for you or for her?

[JaBe]

Month 3 of just giving her oral sex then masturbating while she says I have a tiny penis.

Why?

[sana9889]

So she ends up masturbating to get off.
Do you get to finish off yourself. Or she doesnt care less if you do or not?

[sana9889]

So she ends up masturbating to get off.
Do you get to finish off yourself. Or she doesnt care less if you do or not?

Do you think oral will be restricted too? And youll just be in the room with her while she masturbates?

[coastalkid]

Month 3 of just giving her oral sex then masturbating while she says I have a tiny penis.

Denial has always been a stumbling block for me. I've never felt like I've had as much sex (in whatever form) as I'd like to have. I have difficulty thinking what it would take to convince me that being denied would be satisfying. I get the whole "compersion" thing and wanting your wife to experience sexual thrills. Unfortunately "compersion" is a one-way street, at least from my observations on this website. It is very rare that you read a post about a wife having "compersion" for her husband and doing her best to provide a mind blowing sexual experience similar to her own, just because she loves him so much! I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm saying that either it's not worthy of mentioning, or not good masturbation material.

I never cease to be amazed by posts that have husbands giving up their sexual desires, wants and needs and how their wives do not recognize the potential consequences and outcomes. I'm sure that "in the moment" it works. I'm also sure that the impact of the situation will come to mind when it isn't a sexual situation resulting in an impossible way to reconcile it without help and assurances.

If there isn't a substantial benefit for both of you then what's the point? Let's say that you get relegated to being sexless. Let's say you give in completely and give up on seeking any satisfaction for yourself. Let's say your wife is fully aware of your expected compliance and your acceptance of "how things are". Won't she become bored with her accomplishment (and you) over time? If you never push back for yourself then she will assume that your input/needs/fears/self esteem aren't important enough for her to worry or think about. It always seems like it leads to an end that isn't good.

If my wife told me I would NEVER have sex with her again I would leave! It would be sad. It would be difficult. Now, if she denied me for a short or relatively short period then that's different. Even in that case it would difficult to not wonder if she is capable of providing enough balance for me to desire it.

Even if you have a "tiny penis" it doesn't mean you have no sexual needs! You just have to decide if you get enough of what you need.