Reignite the Flame

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by BallSpanking » Thu Sep 19, 2024 9:25 am

Hi QH,

Nice to hear that Sophia is enjoying the DP fantasy, and you too.
I hope she is getting into it deeper, and considering further exploration.
Perhaps you would encourage her if you bought her some sexy clothes, and encourage her to flirt with guys she finds sexy.
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by silky nylons » Thu Sep 19, 2024 10:50 am

BallSpanking wrote:
Thu Sep 19, 2024 9:25 am
Hi QH,

Nice to hear that Sophia is enjoying the DP fantasy, and you too.
I hope she is getting into it deeper, and considering further exploration.
Perhaps you would encourage her if you bought her some sexy clothes, and encourage her to flirt with guys she finds sexy.
Yes! I agree.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by CuriousOne36 » Fri Sep 20, 2024 12:57 pm

I’m envious how well your situation is going. I can’t wait to see how things progress.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Tue Sep 24, 2024 10:20 am

Last night during sex, we had the dildos out which we now always do, and she mentioned a name that I didn’t know. A guy who works with her. I have never met him. What I love about this is the evidence that sex seems to be more on her mind. Or at least, she’s sharing it with me. Seems to be that she’s thinking about sex partners all the time now and she’s now letting me know.

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Fri Sep 20, 2024 12:57 pm
I’m envious how well your situation is going. I can’t wait to see how things progress.
Thanks and me too!
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Thu Sep 19, 2024 9:25 am
Hi QH,

Nice to hear that Sophia is enjoying the DP fantasy, and you too.
I hope she is getting into it deeper, and considering further exploration.
Perhaps you would encourage her if you bought her some sexy clothes, and encourage her to flirt with guys she finds sexy.
I have bought her lingerie and some sexier dresses before. Hit or miss. Things I think will look sexy sometimes miss the mark. But she dresses sexy on her own, in a classy way.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Wed Sep 25, 2024 7:43 am

I asked her about the guy from work and that led into a broader discussion of guys she thinks about. She mentioned a guy who attends her book club meetings. Honestly, I think he’s gay but she insists he’s not. Young guy, thin, fancy dresser. Apparently she thinks he’s sexy.

She also mentioned a guy from the rock climbing gym she frequents. I remember seeing him there when I’ve gone. Also young and thin but very muscular. Like a spider crawling up the wall. She told me that when I haven’t been around, they have spoken and he has given her tips including helping her with foot positioning etc against the wall.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Mumfred » Wed Sep 25, 2024 8:27 am

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Sep 25, 2024 7:43 am
I asked her about the guy from work and that led into a broader discussion of guys she thinks about. She mentioned a guy who attends her book club meetings. Honestly, I think he’s gay but she insists he’s not. Young guy, thin, fancy dresser. Apparently she thinks he’s sexy.

She also mentioned a guy from the rock climbing gym she frequents. I remember seeing him there when I’ve gone. Also young and thin but very muscular. Like a spider crawling up the wall. She told me that when I haven’t been around, they have spoken and he has given her tips including helping her with foot positioning etc against the wall.
Thanks for sharing your story QuietHope. It's a fun one.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by silky nylons » Thu Sep 26, 2024 2:13 am

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Sep 25, 2024 7:43 am
I asked her about the guy from work and that led into a broader discussion of guys she thinks about. She mentioned a guy who attends her book club meetings. Honestly, I think he’s gay but she insists he’s not. Young guy, thin, fancy dresser. Apparently she thinks he’s sexy.

She also mentioned a guy from the rock climbing gym she frequents. I remember seeing him there when I’ve gone. Also young and thin but very muscular. Like a spider crawling up the wall. She told me that when I haven’t been around, they have spoken and he has given her tips including helping her with foot positioning etc against the wall.
These little bits are very sexy. She must have a type. I bet its on her mind wondering what these types of men are like in bed from the size of their cock, how rough or gentle they would be with her in bed. She's a very sexy woman QHope.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Thu Sep 26, 2024 11:45 am

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Sep 25, 2024 7:43 am
I asked her about the guy from work and that led into a broader discussion of guys she thinks about. She mentioned a guy who attends her book club meetings. Honestly, I think he’s gay but she insists he’s not. Young guy, thin, fancy dresser. Apparently she thinks he’s sexy.

She also mentioned a guy from the rock climbing gym she frequents. I remember seeing him there when I’ve gone. Also young and thin but very muscular. Like a spider crawling up the wall. She told me that when I haven’t been around, they have spoken and he has given her tips including helping her with foot positioning etc against the wall.
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- Now there is something one doesn't see a lot of when it comes to other activities HW's (or potential) get up to.
- It would seem like a good spot (the gym) to come across a guy with a similar interest and capable of giving pointers and other forms of 'assisting'. :o :lol:

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Thu Sep 26, 2024 1:25 pm

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Sep 26, 2024 11:45 am
- Now there is something one doesn't see a lot of when it comes to other activities HW's (or potential) get up to.
- It would seem like a good spot (the gym) to come across a guy with a similar interest and capable of giving pointers and other forms of 'assisting'. :o :lol:
She's very much into physical fitness and exercise. Says climbing is both a physical and mental challenge. And yeah, lots of guys who fit the description of what she likes although I don't know much about climbers. Strike me as an intense bunch
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Thu Sep 26, 2024 2:13 am
These little bits are very sexy. She must have a type. I bet its on her mind wondering what these types of men are like in bed from the size of their cock, how rough or gentle they would be with her in bed. She's a very sexy woman QHope.
...
I feel like we're zeroing in...
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Thanks for sharing your story QuietHope. It's a fun one.
Thanks but I really appreciate being able to share what's happening. I couldn't talk to anyone I know.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Thu Sep 26, 2024 3:47 pm

QuietHope wrote:
Thu Sep 26, 2024 1:25 pm
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Sep 26, 2024 11:45 am
- Now there is something one doesn't see a lot of when it comes to other activities HW's (or potential) get up to.
- It would seem like a good spot (the gym) to come across a guy with a similar interest and capable of giving pointers and other forms of 'assisting'. :o :lol:
She's very much into physical fitness and exercise. Says climbing is both a physical and mental challenge. And yeah, lots of guys who fit the description of what she likes although I don't know much about climbers. Strike me as an intense bunch
silky nylons wrote:
Thu Sep 26, 2024 2:13 am
These little bits are very sexy. She must have a type. I bet its on her mind wondering what these types of men are like in bed from the size of their cock, how rough or gentle they would be with her in bed. She's a very sexy woman QHope.
...
I feel like we're zeroing in...
Mumfred wrote:
Wed Sep 25, 2024 8:27 am
Thanks for sharing your story QuietHope. It's a fun one.
Thanks but I really appreciate being able to share what's happening. I couldn't talk to anyone I know.
QH
- Does she ever do a no carbs type diet? I would imagine with less body fat (not that I'm inferring she has too much) she would look pretty ripped. :up: :up: :D

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Fri Sep 27, 2024 5:12 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Thu Sep 26, 2024 3:47 pm
QH
- Does she ever do a no carbs type diet? I would imagine with less body fat (not that I'm inferring she has too much) she would look pretty ripped. :up: :up: :D
She basically manages the food in the house and she actually is pretty muscular, more so than me. I eat whatever she makes and I think its pretty healthy.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Sep 27, 2024 8:16 pm

Next time, as she is humming hard on a thick dildo in her pussy, whisper in her ear, in earnest, that you want this for her for real.
Then watcher intensely climax. The higher levels of adrenaline and oxytocin in her blood will burn-in that notion indelibly ,,,
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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Tue Oct 01, 2024 7:12 am

Excited because we’re going to Vegas this weekend. We’ll be with several other couples which may put a damper on things but I’m excited about the possibilities. Something about Vegas.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Tue Oct 01, 2024 11:41 am

QuietHope wrote:
Tue Oct 01, 2024 7:12 am
Excited because we’re going to Vegas this weekend. We’ll be with several other couples which may put a damper on things but I’m excited about the possibilities. Something about Vegas.


Qh
- Will going to Vegas allow her dress a bit more aggressively than normal or will being friends act more as an anchor?

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Wed Oct 02, 2024 7:41 am

Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Tue Oct 01, 2024 11:41 am
Qh
- Will going to Vegas allow her dress a bit more aggressively than normal or will being friends act more as an anchor?
So I have been listening to you all and I did make the effort to go out and buy her an outfit. Eye opening experience. Women's clothing is complicated!

I presented it to her last night and she liked it! It fit perfectly, she looked fabulous. Its a pretty simple black dress. Mid-to-high thigh length, thin shoulder straps. All black. Sexy but not slutty (she wouldn't wear something too aggressive).

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by silky nylons » Wed Oct 02, 2024 9:10 am

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Oct 02, 2024 7:41 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Tue Oct 01, 2024 11:41 am
Qh
- Will going to Vegas allow her dress a bit more aggressively than normal or will being friends act more as an anchor?
So I have been listening to you all and I did make the effort to go out and buy her an outfit. Eye opening experience. Women's clothing is complicated!

I presented it to her last night and she liked it! It fit perfectly, she looked fabulous. Its a pretty simple black dress. Mid-to-high thigh length, thin shoulder straps. All black. Sexy but not slutty (she wouldn't wear something too aggressive).
Sounds elegant that screams sexy.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by silky nylons » Wed Oct 02, 2024 9:11 am

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Oct 02, 2024 7:41 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Tue Oct 01, 2024 11:41 am
Qh
- Will going to Vegas allow her dress a bit more aggressively than normal or will being friends act more as an anchor?
So I have been listening to you all and I did make the effort to go out and buy her an outfit. Eye opening experience. Women's clothing is complicated!

I presented it to her last night and she liked it! It fit perfectly, she looked fabulous. Its a pretty simple black dress. Mid-to-high thigh length, thin shoulder straps. All black. Sexy but not slutty (she wouldn't wear something too aggressive).
Sounds elegant that screams sexy.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Wed Oct 02, 2024 12:04 pm

QuietHope wrote:
Wed Oct 02, 2024 7:41 am
Long Lurker 34 wrote:
Tue Oct 01, 2024 11:41 am
Qh
- Will going to Vegas allow her dress a bit more aggressively than normal or will being friends act more as an anchor?
So I have been listening to you all and I did make the effort to go out and buy her an outfit. Eye opening experience. Women's clothing is complicated!

I presented it to her last night and she liked it! It fit perfectly, she looked fabulous. Its a pretty simple black dress. Mid-to-high thigh length, thin shoulder straps. All black. Sexy but not slutty (she wouldn't wear something too aggressive).
QH
- Now the trick is making note of the brand and the sizes and any other details and being able to reference this for the next time you buy her some clothing.
- If things work out, eventually, with continued acceptance and success with your selections, she will come too you even when she goes to buy any clothes. With a bit of time you may be able to have influence affecting her style of dress. Here's hoping. :up: :up: :D

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by QuietHope » Mon Oct 07, 2024 9:02 am

So no lines were crossed in Vegas but she’s getting very very close to the line.

We went with several other couples (five couples including us). We went to nice restaurants, cirque du soleil, a concert etc. Standard stuff. On Saturday night, very late, I was gambling with the other husbands when one of them suggested we hit a strip club. We decided to go and that’s when the wives came upon us. We told them our plan and all but one of the wives decided to go. Soph was looking amazing, wearing the little black dress that I bought her. (I will do some cropping and attempt to post a pic).

In the uber on the way over, an old song came on the radio that really hit me. Me and Soph, and this group of friends, are now hitting the empty nester stage of our lives. We’re on the cusp on change. The song “Games People Play” is by the Alan Parsons Project.

Where do we go from here, now that all of the children have grown up?
And how do we spend our time knowing nobody gives us a damn?

I don’t want to live here no more
I don’t want to stay
Ain’t gonna spend the rest of my life
Quietly fading away…


I can’t help but feel like opening our sex life together is to resist that “fade”.

I admit that I enjoy strip clubs but I do have a cuck take on them. I like being near these sexy women who are behaving so sexually. I like that the guys getting lap dances are likely hard. However, I don’t really care about getting lap dances myself.

The place we went to is well-known and ridiculously expensive but I’m not here to rate the place. When the wives heard the prices for lap dances, it put a damper on how much the guys were going to be able to blow. That’s when Sophia said she could do lap dances for nothing.

So she didn’t strip or anything like that but she did get between my legs and danced around and grinded and the guys all cheered. I got a serious erection from their reaction. I just loved knowing that even with these beautiful strippers around, they were lusting after my wife.

Then, the guy whose wife didn’t come asked for a dance. He’s mid-50’s, mostly bald with a white ring of tightly cropped hair. A belly. Not tall. Financially successful from a tech sales job. She looked at me and I nodded yes. I could see that the others were a little uncomfortable as Sophia slid over to him and started dancing. She let the straps fall down off her shoulders and she leaned in to him and I saw his nose in her upper cleavage. She then turned and did some grinding of her ass down on him and I’m certain I could see the shape of his erection. She also leaned into him and whispered something which just looked so fucking sexy.

The other guys were all quick to ask for their turns but with their wives beside them, that didn’t go anywhere. On the ride back to our hotel, we all laughed it off as all of us being too drunk.

When we were alone in the room, she told me he definitely had an erection and she did feel it against her knee and ass. She admitted to intentionally rubbing it. She also said he was pretty good at hiding it from me but his hands got some quick feels of her ass and chest. At one point, when his hand was on her ass, she knew that he slid a finger forward and felt her wet panty. When she leaned in to whisper to him, she told him he was naughty and he told her that he was only being a fraction of how naughty he’d be if I wasn’t there. He also kissed her ear, sucking on her earlobe for a moment. She’s pretty sure that while he was hiding it from me, the others got an eyeful. She told me all this while she was laying on the bed and masturbating herself. I just watched and took care of myself, too.

Next morning, we had brunch before flights out and we were all hung over and bleary eyed. That guy didn’t show up but his wife did and she said he was too hung over. She also said she heard he was a bit wild at the strip club and hoped he didn’t do anything inappropriate. She was looking at Sophia at the time. I believe she was worried about her husband’s behavior more than Sophia doing something wrong. We all shrugged it off as being drunk.

Games people play, you take it or you leave it
Things that they say, honor bright
If I promise you the moon and the stars, would you believe it?
Games people play in the middle of the night


I would be so down with it if she fucked this guy. He’s obviously interested although I don’t think he’s really her type.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Dream Weaver » Mon Oct 07, 2024 10:48 am

Oh man, what a great little story, talk about hitting the cuck buttons, I’m sure that guy is a little embarrassed, but he has no idea how great it is for you.

You say no lines were crossed, fuck that, that dude felt your wife’s pussy through her panties. It’s fucking awesome and a line was crossed. Then she masturbates to the thought as she tells you the story, because you know you have your view of him, but it sounds like she’d fuck him.

I think you’re right, just a matter of time…..

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Tryn » Mon Oct 07, 2024 11:37 am

Fantastic update!! It’s not often that a post on here gets me hard, but your description of what your did and what your friend did back sure did! I hope you will continue to replay that experience in your play time with Sophia, helping her to relive it and move forward with new experiences. I don’t recommend trying to move forward with more experiences with him because his wife likely won’t approve and it could backfire big time!

Perhaps you and Sophia go to a strip club just you two and maybe she can do the same thing with someone new? Damn would that be hot!!

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Re: Reignite the Flame

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by aztd » Mon Oct 07, 2024 8:29 pm

She is thinking about, the fact that she willing to share names and dreams.
Hope to hear more soon

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by silky nylons » Mon Oct 07, 2024 9:02 pm

QuietHope wrote:
Mon Oct 07, 2024 1:40 pm
viewtopic.php?f=9&t=73486&start=50

Soph in Vegas
She is fucking hot!!! Prepare for the day she cuckolds you.

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Re: Reignite the Flame

Unread post by Mumfred » Tue Oct 08, 2024 11:03 am

QuietHope wrote:
Mon Oct 07, 2024 9:02 am
Then, the guy whose wife didn’t come asked for a dance. He’s mid-50’s, mostly bald with a white ring of tightly cropped hair. A belly. Not tall. Financially successful from a tech sales job. She looked at me and I nodded yes. I could see that the others were a little uncomfortable as Sophia slid over to him and started dancing. She let the straps fall down off her shoulders and she leaned in to him and I saw his nose in her upper cleavage. She then turned and did some grinding of her ass down on him and I’m certain I could see the shape of his erection. She also leaned into him and whispered something which just looked so fucking sexy.
That is a great story. So hot!

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