How many HW's play solo?

[gwl9dta4]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.
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Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

[gwl9dta4]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.
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Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

I order of frequency....
1.) solo, but only with guys I've met before, and I knew beforehand it was going to happen (usual a text saying..."I'm going to see "xyz" today/tonight.
2.) with me present...sometimes with me participating, sometimes with me just watching. (this usually happens before solo play)
3.) without me knowing.....it's happened twice and she eventually told me about it after the fact.

3rd one is straight up cheating with no respect.

[Texas2Step]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.

Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

I order of frequency....
1.) solo, but only with guys I've met before, and I knew beforehand it was going to happen (usual a text saying..."I'm going to see "xyz" today/tonight.
2.) with me present...sometimes with me participating, sometimes with me just watching. (this usually happens before solo play)
3.) without me knowing.....it's happened twice and she eventually told me about it after the fact.

3rd one is straight up cheating with no respect.
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Definitely understand your viewpoint, it’s one I agree with, and I shared my feelings in an appropriately strong manner at the time. It was early on in our journey and I believe I got my point across. To my knowledge it’s never happened again.

[gwl9dta4]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.

Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

I order of frequency....
1.) solo, but only with guys I've met before, and I knew beforehand it was going to happen (usual a text saying..."I'm going to see "xyz" today/tonight.
2.) with me present...sometimes with me participating, sometimes with me just watching. (this usually happens before solo play)
3.) without me knowing.....it's happened twice and she eventually told me about it after the fact.

3rd one is straight up cheating with no respect.

Definitely understand your viewpoint, it’s one I agree with, and I shared my feelings in an appropriately strong manner at the time. It was early on in our journey and I believe I got my point across. To my knowledge it’s never happened again.
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That's excellent. Getting your point across early on is very important.

[gwl9dta4]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.

Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

I order of frequency....
1.) solo, but only with guys I've met before, and I knew beforehand it was going to happen (usual a text saying..."I'm going to see "xyz" today/tonight.
2.) with me present...sometimes with me participating, sometimes with me just watching. (this usually happens before solo play)
3.) without me knowing.....it's happened twice and she eventually told me about it after the fact.

3rd one is straight up cheating with no respect.

Definitely understand your viewpoint, it’s one I agree with, and I shared my feelings in an appropriately strong manner at the time. It was early on in our journey and I believe I got my point across. To my knowledge it’s never happened again.
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That's excellent. Getting your point across early on is very important.

[sana9889]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

[MarknSusan]

My wife”s favorite is MFM and she also loves to put on a show for me and is great with making eye contact and a smile.

However, she also enjoys solo which happens when the other guy doesn’t “ understand” how to do an MFM or can’t perform if I am there. I just asked Susan if there was any specific reason she enjoys solo and she told me “If I really have the hots for the guy there’s a special bit of chemistry with only two of us”

I know it sounds strange but at least in our experience, some guys are naturals doing an MFM and some don’t really know how to play with me there.

We are both straight and I’m not sure if some guys are just uncomfortable with me there naked or are afraid to touch my wife intimately. Looking back I never really asked them why they didn’t want to play in an MFM.

I’m curious to hear from others here thst have experienced guys that could flow with an MFM.

[54321]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

That sounds more like a cheating wife than a hotwife. Would you agree?
I'm not judging you. It's just that it doesn't sound very hotwifey.

54321

[MarknSusan]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

That sounds more like a cheating wife than a hotwife. Would you agree?
I'm not judging you. It's just that it doesn't sound very hotwifey.

54321

I thought the exact same thing, but wasn’t brave enough to say it..LOL

[Her number1]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

That sounds more like a cheating wife than a hotwife. Would you agree?
I'm not judging you. It's just that it doesn't sound very hotwifey.

54321

I thought the exact same thing, but wasn’t brave enough to say it..LOL

[trecital]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

That sounds more like a cheating wife than a hotwife. Would you agree?
I'm not judging you. It's just that it doesn't sound very hotwifey.

54321

I thought the exact same thing, but wasn’t brave enough to say it..LOL

I would have said that it doesn't "sound like cheating".

The statement is unequivocal.

She is 100% saying that she cheats.

My only question is, if her husband doesn't know about it, can it be described as 'hotwifing'?

[MarknSusan]

Its a secret life for me.
My husband doesnt know about it.
My dates and hookups have all been very discreet.

That sounds more like a cheating wife than a hotwife. Would you agree?
I'm not judging you. It's just that it doesn't sound very hotwifey.

54321

I thought the exact same thing, but wasn’t brave enough to say it..LOL

I would have said that it doesn't "sound like cheating".

The statement is unequivocal.

She is 100% saying that she cheats.

My only question is, if her husband doesn't know about it, can it be described as 'hotwifing'?

Maybe we need a new term to identify what’s going on there….lets say she is a “Cheating Hotwife Want to be” …haha.

[54321]

Unknowingly, he is being cuckolded in the classic manner.
I'm using the word 'cuckolded' with its original meaning.

Mm... a conversation about semantics - hot!

54321

[isinlarsa]

Unknowingly, he is being cuckolded in the classic manner.
I'm using the word 'cuckolded' with its original meaning.

Mm... a conversation about semantics - hot!

54321

Speaking of semantics, would your thread more properly be in the cuckold forum? Have you ever considered sharing your secret life with your husband? It might turn him on.

[hotfreaks]

My wife does play solo. We would mix it up, me watching and other times her playing solo. We found a mix of both extremely hot.

These days she primarily plays solo, just because of time and babysitter issues. Just makes it easier for her to get out

[Texas2Step]

Am always surprised by the seeming low numbers of wives who videotape or otherwise record for hubby[/color]

Two things. First I can't answer the poll because my situation is this: My husband is there probably 75 per cent of the time. He can't always be present for a variety of reasons but he is always aware of when I am playing even if he isn't there.

Second, when I go to play - I go to play. I have no interest in cameras at the best of time that is my husband's interest. When he is present and my flavor of the week doesn't mind, hub takes pics. If he isn't there I could care less about photography. I'm there to have fun. I am not about to break off every 15 min to text someone or change a camera angle. When my husband is present, there are blocks of time when he doesn't have much to do anyway so he can fiddle with a camera. Once I get into playing I am into playing and don't give a damn about pics or anything else. Perhaps that is why Wittold finds such a low number of wives who video tape or record. This is about sex not making movies.

Setting up a small table tripod takes 1 min and the camera angle is room wide. My wife has zero issues with this and likes it. She attends the camera maybe once every hour. Her bf takes his own cell shots for memory lol.

I order of frequency....
1.) solo, but only with guys I've met before, and I knew beforehand it was going to happen (usual a text saying..."I'm going to see "xyz" today/tonight.
2.) with me present...sometimes with me participating, sometimes with me just watching. (this usually happens before solo play)
3.) without me knowing.....it's happened twice and she eventually told me about it after the fact.

3rd one is straight up cheating with no respect.

Definitely understand your viewpoint, it’s one I agree with, and I shared my feelings in an appropriately strong manner at the time. It was early on in our journey and I believe I got my point across. To my knowledge it’s never happened again.

That's excellent. Getting your point across early on is very important.
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This is A here. C showed me this thread and I wanted to add a bit of context. Early on did I play a couple times without C’s knowledge….yes I did. Where we made the mistake was we didn’t fully discuss the parameters under which we were going to indulge in the LS. These two encounters resulted in the two of us really having a heart to heart discussion than lasted over a month (no play during that time) and we came out the other side with clear lines of communication and understanding of what was important to both of us. The two encounters I had without his knowledge were not done maliciously on my part but were a product of the two of us not being on the same page. That was 3.5 years ago and we have been of like minds and actions ever since.

[Treat yourself girl]

When Amy first started I was always in the room. Then at a party she disappeared with a guy and fucked him in one of the bedrooms. She told me she felt more relaxed, which allowed her to fuck with free abandon and she enjoyed the experience more. Since then I have only watched a few times, she mostly goes solo but I get a full and detailed account when I reclaim her.

[leggysman]

Leggysandy mostly plays solo. I do find that arousing in its own particular way -- having to use my imagination, based on what she tells me. And there's the proverbial angst, which gives it a bit of a fun edge.

A few times I've been involved, or nearly so. That's hot too! In a different way. I hope we can continue to mix it up a bit.

[Shadnaster]

I may have posted this here before but, my wife plays solo for the most part. It's just easier for her to go out and I stay home with the kids. Her going alone is hot in its own way too. Me home imagining what they're doing but, even when she comes home and tells me about it. She can tell me things about how she was feeling that I wouldn't notice if I were there watching. Like when she started getting wet. How many times she came. You can notice the big ones but, not all the little ones. When she knew she needed his cock inside her and things like that.

[Bryce 69]

After we have all met ( me my stag and the Bull)
Then I can be a cock slave alone with a Bull

[tiedyeHotwife]

I play solo.
I was too inhibited with my husband there.
and I've learned to make it fun for him, seeing me leave dressed sexy, well timed texts and pics, sometimes video.
Feel like a rock star when I get home.

Think I'm pushing towards being bad behind his back a bit .........

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I mostly play solo.

[Angsty Cuck]

I play solo.
I was too inhibited with my husband there.
and I've learned to make it fun for him, seeing me leave dressed sexy, well timed texts and pics, sometimes video.
Feel like a rock star when I get home.

Think I'm pushing towards being bad behind his back a bit .........

Hot! Would you tell him eventually?

[tiedyeHotwife]

Absolutely.

Husband describes all this as "its all 5% hotter than makes me jealous".
So I've come to enjoy tweaking his jealousy just a bit, as it makes him crazy hot for me - which leads to ..........

Thinking adding just a bit of "careful what you wish for".

[indianfuncpl]

She has played solo in the past when this all started, now she plays with me in the room as the camera man.. I sometimes participate if/when she wants a MMF experience, but i prefer watching her more!