Question from a prospective hotwife

[alan137]

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! Friday night went great, we met our “prospect” for drinks, and after that went well we invited him back to our hotel room. After a little more visiting we made our way into the bedroom, and before I knew it the clothes were off and we were having passionate sex while my supportive husband looked on. After our friend left, Mr. R and I stayed up all night enjoying MULTIPLE rounds of very passionate reclaiming sex, talked, drank wine and had a hell of a great time together.



Fantastic news. My wife became a HW after in our mid 50s. Like you guys we had never been closer and communicating so openly.Even though she stopped seeing other men for sex we are still together and in love. I live on the exciting memories. Thank you both for sharing your story.

[54321]

Post by felixNZ » Thu Oct 10, 2024 5:49 pm

I hope you both come back ... my partner and I have been doing his for about 4 years now, and we have gone through ups and downs. The key to it is open and honest communication. And remember, cuckold "angst" is totally normal. And it is also normal for most women to get an appetite for being a Hotwife once the gates have been opened. So there is a lot to work through, but it is so worthwhile. How many couples are truly honest with each other? Cuckolding and Hotwifing builds a lot of trust and the intimacy is incredible, but there are hurdles to go through.

Thank you for sharing. Do you have a thread?

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[felixNZ]

Post by felixNZ » Thu Oct 10, 2024 5:49 pm

I hope you both come back ... my partner and I have been doing his for about 4 years now, and we have gone through ups and downs. The key to it is open and honest communication. And remember, cuckold "angst" is totally normal. And it is also normal for most women to get an appetite for being a Hotwife once the gates have been opened. So there is a lot to work through, but it is so worthwhile. How many couples are truly honest with each other? Cuckolding and Hotwifing builds a lot of trust and the intimacy is incredible, but there are hurdles to go through.

Thank you for sharing. Do you have a thread?

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Sorry to say no, I don't. Our story has evolved slowly, over a long time!

[54321]

Sorry to say no, I don't. Our story has evolved slowly, over a long time!

I would love to know more but no pressure

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[discreetlys husband]

Crazy how similar we are to the Ranchwaters. A lot of what Discreetlynow and I have gone through and said was the same. We could have almost posted the same thing.

[Adri_Albert]

These comments are a bit old, but the story described was pretty similar to ours. My wife also needed some time to get it all sorted out. While it was initially just a thrill to have sex with another man, her priorities changed fundamentally over the years. As we have children, we've had to constantly adapt to their ages so they don't notice anything. My wife, of course, grew into the role of hotwife over the years, and we've been pursuing this lifestyle for 20 years now. It became a part of our marriage. The hardest part was and still is finding the right candidate from the many applicants. As my wife prefers a stable extramarital relationship, it's a bit more complicated.

[RHotwife1981]

Any new developments?

[SouthernRail]

Hi guys, Mrs. Ranchwater here. Happy to report that I have officially gone from “prospective” hotwife to actual hotwife! Friday night went great, we met our “prospect” for drinks, and after that went well we invited him back to our hotel room. After a little more visiting we made our way into the bedroom, and before I knew it the clothes were off and we were having passionate sex while my supportive husband looked on. After our friend left, Mr. R and I stayed up all night enjoying MULTIPLE rounds of very passionate reclaiming sex, talked, drank wine and had a hell of a great time together.

We both agree it was a fun, memorable night :-). Where do we go from here? Not sure, but what we do know is we’ve never had a tighter bond or better communication in our relationship - so we’re going to take a breath, keep processing Friday night and any decisions we make will be made as a team. I’m grateful to Mr. R for the gift of this experience, and if it’s even possible to love him more I do

What happened to this couple?
Anyone know?
They gave me some ideas know how to approach MrsSR