How do I move forward

[forblkexp]

Hi there, I am in a postion that a maybe never thought would really arise. Will keep it simple, we always fantasised about my wife being with another guy preferably black but today it possibly moved on.

She has been down and its affected her self esteem, been coming on for ages really, the pressure of raising a child. Ttoday we chatted and I just came out with what was on my mind and surprised myself when I said if you want the honest truth you need a boyfriend. She looked a me and laughed nervously then said, you probably are right. It was so hot as this was not in the bedroom fantasising but as we were drving along talking.

I said she would be surprised how popular it is with married couples who love each other. I mentioned there are forums, not porn but I was thinking of this forum. She then said would you share this with me. I would like to read it . So I am going to show her this forum but wondered if anyone can recommend similar posts for me to share. She is shy but also has an inner confidence and she's very feminine.

If any posts come to mind that will help her please let me know, this actually feels a weird but exciting moment and I want her to be happy and feel comfortable.

[superb101]

My thought is to let her set up her own account here. Im unsure of the required hurdles, but at some point, she will be able to log into the ladies' lounge and interact with the ladies. I'm sure they can give her all the information and advice she needs.

[SpicySaltnPepper]

My thought is to let her set up her own account here. Im unsure of the required hurdles, but at some point, she will be able to log into the ladies' lounge and interact with the ladies. I'm sure they can give her all the information and advice she needs.

Yup. Of all the forums I've been in, this is the least "scary" I've encountered for newbies looking at getting started.

[leggysman]

My thought is to let her set up her own account here. Im unsure of the required hurdles, but at some point, she will be able to log into the ladies' lounge and interact with the ladies. I'm sure they can give her all the information and advice she needs.

Yup. My wife had been edging closer to saying yes for a little while, but when I discovered OHW I asked her permission to write about us. I wrote my first post (in my sig) as much for her to read as anybody else. She started reading and exploring, took over my original account, and became verified. Within a few short weeks - with support from the other VHW ladies - I had my very own hotwife.

I make sure to tip OHW (viewtopic.php?f=23&t=60970) every time she has a new man. This site changed our lives.

[Her number1]

I'll second what the others said about her joining with her own account. Interacting with us guys and especially the VHWs (Verified HotWives) will let her see this is indeed pretty normal for pretty normal folks.

[forblkexp]

Thanks for all your replies I wouldn’t have thought about getting her own account, I am going to do this I am slightly confused about the ladies lounge I didn’t even knew it was on the forum. To be quite honest would be nice to move from occasional viewer fantasising and hoping to moving on the journey. I know she would love to be a HW but as I expect with many women it’s getting to grip with feelings of guilt.

I will look for ladies lounge and I will also ask her to set up an account, I can update this post with progress and what happens.

[forblkexp]

Sorry this was a duplicate of above post, not sure how I did it - so I have deleted and posted this message.

Thanks again for advice

[bowlerlb]

My thought is to let her set up her own account here. Im unsure of the required hurdles, but at some point, she will be able to log into the ladies' lounge and interact with the ladies. I'm sure they can give her all the information and advice she needs.

I agree that this is the way to go. I also suggest she looks at opening an account on the blog "https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/". It has a selection of forums and I think some would suit her.

[bowlerlb]

Hi there, I am in a postion that a maybe never thought would really arise. Will keep it simple, we always fantasised about my wife being with another guy preferably black but today it possibly moved on.

She has been down and its affected her self esteem, been coming on for ages really, the pressure of raising a child. Ttoday we chatted and I just came out with what was on my mind and surprised myself when I said if you want the honest truth you need a boyfriend. She looked a me and laughed nervously then said, you probably are right. It was so hot as this was not in the bedroom fantasising but as we were drving along talking.

I said she would be surprised how popular it is with married couples who love each other. I mentioned there are forums, not porn but I was thinking of this forum. She then said would you share this with me. I would like to read it . So I am going to show her this forum but wondered if anyone can recommend similar posts for me to share. She is shy but also has an inner confidence and she's very feminine.

If any posts come to mind that will help her please let me know, this actually feels a weird but exciting moment and I want her to be happy and feel comfortable.

Just to clarify your thoughts, are you looking for her to become a HW or are you thinking more of her Cuckolding you with one or 2 regular boyfriends. Where do you see this going from your point of view. Do you want to see her going off to visit her friend or do you see both of you as a couple welcoming another man into your bed.

[leggysman]

I will look for ladies lounge and I will also ask her to set up an account, I can update this post with progress and what happens.

It's a hidden forum here; you have to be a verified lady (Verified Hotwife - the ones with the blue names) in order to see/access the ladies' lounge. Note that she doesn't have to actually be a hotwife (yet!), just a woman.

Once she has her own account, the instructions are here viewtopic.php?f=5&t=53838

[forblkexp]

Well I am not interested really in humilation, its more about her having a boyfriend to play alone or with me watching depends on the dynamics. I just love her very much and want other men to feel her special tenderness and sexual energy, No doubt she could easily be a slut with the right man. She does like balack guys. I suppose even though we have a very special bond I do have a small may 10% of me that worries she may fall in love

[Natatude]

I suggest she also join us and she can join the ladies lounge and we all talk there amongst ourselves.