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MyBeautifulWife
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Hello New to Forum

Unread post by MyBeautifulWife » Sat Oct 19, 2024 6:00 am

I am new to the Forum and the Male half of a long time married couple. I am looking forward to learning more about the hotwife lifestyle and sharing what I learn with my wife. We have been on a 6yr journey starting with just fantasizing with my wife about sharing her to the last 2 years being open and honest about my deep desire to share her.

She has gone from a solid no to being very turned on by the idea of being shared under the right circumstances. She has some solid reasons for wanting to keep it a fantasy. I am happy to have a wife who is open to discussing it and is turned on by the fantasy. We keep it all light and fun with her having full knowledge I am open to taking it beyond fantasy if that becomes her desire.

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Unread post by armyguyot1 » Sat Oct 19, 2024 6:09 am

Welcome to the forum MyBeautifulWife. You can enjoy your time and the fantasy. Glad to have you.

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Unread post by MyBeautifulWife » Sat Oct 19, 2024 6:22 am

Thank you very much! Nice to be here.

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Unread post by trecital » Sat Oct 19, 2024 6:43 am

Hey, don't knock fantasy. It's better than real life.
And if it isn't then you are fantasising wrong!😀

I think your approach is a good one. Show your wife the possibilities, and leave her to decide whether to go further or not.

Welcome to the forum, and hope you find some things here to inspire some more fantasies.

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Unread post by MyBeautifulWife » Sat Oct 19, 2024 7:08 am

We have been having the hottest sex of our lives since we began fantasizing about sharing her. In the past year instead of just moaning along to my fantasy sharing she has opened up to verbalizing her fantasies. There is nothing hotter than hearing the words come from her mouth.

She finds it interesting and a huge turn on that she can make me that hard by just mentioning being with another man. If it never goes beyond fantasy you will hear no complaints from me. Her verbalizing her fantasies have given me insight on what turns her on. My primary fantasy involved us in MFM threesome where we have found her fantasy revolves around me being supportive and watching as she is enjoying another man.

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Unread post by armyguyot1 » Sat Oct 19, 2024 9:08 am

Don't be so sure it's only fantasy. Maybe with the right amount of alcohol and the right setting and the right guy that could change. A guy who will pursue and not just be maybe available could make all the difference with a sexy setting and a few drinks.

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Unread post by MyBeautifulWife » Sat Oct 19, 2024 11:32 am

I encourage her to enjoy her fantasies and that they turn me on. She worries one of us will have regret and affect our relationship. At times she expresses guilt for being so descriptive in her pillow talk and I tell her I love it and appeciate her for it. She knows how incredibly turned on it makes me and she is openening up to how turned on it makes her. In the moment she will say can I really have this and I tell her I would love for her to. In non-heat of the moment we discuss why it turns us on, her concerns about persuing it, how deep of a desire it is for me and how nice it is to be able to be honest with her about it.

Her interest is definitely piqued and I do think at some point the desire will grow within her that she decides she wants to try it.

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Unread post by trecital » Sat Oct 19, 2024 1:58 pm

MyBeautifulWife wrote:
Sat Oct 19, 2024 11:32 am
At times she expresses guilt for being so descriptive in her pillow talk
She's definitely a keeper!

Great that you can discuss things in "non heat of the moment" times.
Would it be worthwhile her joining the forum and reading some of the content here? Maybe join the 'Ladies only forum'?

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Unread post by MyBeautifulWife » Sun Oct 20, 2024 12:16 pm

I will tell her I found an interesting forum and ask her to check it out.

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