Wife's First Time? Hopefully.

[justlookin2day]

Justlook,
Just do what is comfortable for you and her. There is no right or wrong. There is only right and that is what you two decide.
It find it interesting that a few cucks have instructions for others on what they need to do. It is usually the same few.
I read your post and find it really hot. I understood that you didn't want to be there the first time and your wife didn't want you there. You were going to get a second room for them on another floor and you are going take care of the kids.
I love the whole hook up in the bar situation. I would love to sit in the back and watch that happen. I find that's exciting stuff. The hormones are running hot on both sides. It's fun watching the moves the guys are making to try and get in her panties.
I'll have to read your post again to see if you have plans on handling future dates.
Good luck. Be comfortable and have fun.

Hi Shiphead.
My preference is to watch my wife with other men, but she says she does not feel comfortable having an audience. In the future she believes she will be comfortable with me watching, but if I want her to do this, it must be alone.

[Pecannut]

That must be so hot that your wife joins the dinner after just being fucked by another guy and just yiu two know it.

[walter2000uk]

We need to read your Update as soon as possible
But more important is for you to both enjoy yourselves as your now very Hotwife tells you All the details.
And hopefully future dates are soon to happen?

[elina]

....... I'm hoping I can appear cool, calm and collected when she joins us for dinner.

Focus on sending warm, loving, longing gazes to your Wife while taking care of your children....
I am sure you can do it even if you will probably harbor an interesting mix of emotions at that time.

Sincerely
elina

[justlookin2day]

Well, as you all might have guessed, things did not work out as planned in NYC. In short, Samuel spoke with his significant other and she did not give him permission to proceed. Apparently this is her first veto and her reason was he mentioned my wife to her several times during their relationship and she did not want him seeing someone he had feelings for in the past.

My wife was of course disappointed and we stopped discussing her being with other men for about 6 weeks. Happily, once our children returned to school and we got back into our routine we started talking again, first during sex and then in the light of day about how we both wanted to move forward. Today she is getting her nails done, has a freshly waxed pussy and is scheduled to meet a man this Thursday for drinks and more. She also has dates with other men scheduled for this Saturday and 11/23. We live in a city that many people travel to for work and pleasure so all these men are from out of town. I will follow this post with some background of other meetings she has had in the last 6 weeks that have been exciting for both of us.
As before, I have not been present for her last two dates and am not going to be present for these future planned dates. Of course, I hope that changes soon!!

[venus-can99]

Perhaps it is for the best that the rendezvous with Samuel didn’t work out. Good to hear you are committed to taking steps in the LS. Looking forward to updates as things evolve

[justlookin2day]

Now for an update of what transpired since our NYC trip in July and mid-October.

In late August we started talking about the best way for my wife to meet men. We had not considered using dating/lifestyle apps for privacy reasons and because I am uncomfortable with my wife meeting a local man. I fear that a local could become a frequent lover, rather than someone that requires some effort to meet.

After more discussions we decided to put up a profile on Feeld to see if anyone interesting reached out. I took some pictures of her wearing sexy lingerie and after blurring out her face and recognizable tattoos, she posted them along with a profile. To make her as comfortable as possible I have not asked to view her profile or interactions on Feeld but she told me she received a lot of men reaching out. Through Feeld she has met with 2 men so far. Both were traveling to our hometown so met my criteria of not being local.

She had two dates with one man, but he could not get a STI test done before leaving. He is due to return later this year and has kept in touch, but my wife is unsure if she will meet him again. She says he would have been good for her first time having sex because he is nice and seems safe, but that he is not dominant, which she prefers.

She had two dates with another man a few weeks ago and was ready to have sex but her period started the day before their planned night out. With this guy she was out from 8pm until 1am. I had booked them a room, so after dinner they made out an she sucked his cock on and off over several hours. This was the first time I received any pictures from a date. Nothing crazy, just a picture of here sitting on the bed before they started. She looked very happy which is a huge turn on. The second was a picture of here lying in the bed with just her panties on. She was on her front so I could only see her nude back and her beautiful ass in panties (that she says she never took off because of her tampon). The bed was all messed up and she says it was because she was rubbing her pussy against his leg while they laid on the bed making out. She did not cum but was very close for a long time.

[justlookin2day]

Rather than writing "my wife" over and over I'll call her L from now on.

Our sex life now is the best it's been in years. L is exercising a lot and her already tight body is getting tighter each week. Her sex drive has also increased dramatically since she started seeing men here in our hometown.
A lot of our sex has become me licking her pussy while penetrating her with a large dildo. We have several dildos but the one we've exclusively used for the last 4 months has been a Vixen Outlaw. L cannot take it all or have me move it in and out but she goes crazy as it enters her and cums fast with it just inserted and me licking her clit. After she cums she spreads her legs and I fuck her for a few minutes during which she does not make much noise. Then L tells me she is sore and I jack off while she rubs my balls. If I'm lucky she will start talking about being with other guys and I cum fast.

I don't think any of the guys L is in contact now are going to be much larger than me but we do discuss how it will be if she finds a cock as large as the Outlaw (a real 9" long and 6" in circumference). Based on her reaction to the dildo I imagine she might cum over and over within minutes of her having it inside.

[Rogueuser1]

Nice! Glad to hear things are progressing so well, hopefully her monthly cycle will cooperate better next time

[justlookin2day]

Things are still looking positive for this evening. We are on the west coast so I plan to go to the hotel in a couple hours to check-in. L doesn't want to check-in with the guy standing with her. She says it would feel awkward and does not want to risk being seen at a hotel checking-in with someone other than me. My plan is to then pick up one kid from school and head home. My wife should be getting dressed, which I want to see and will leave around 5:30pm to meet the guy for the date. L thinks they will get to the room between 8pm and 9pm. I'll write an update when she leaves to meet her date.

[justlookin2day]

I did check-in earlier in the day so she has the key now and can go directly to the room when/if she is ready to play. I was upgraded to a very nice suite and went up to see the room before heading to school for pickup. This is the first time I've been in the room before she uses it which was kind of wild. It had a nice bed, several chairs and a couch so plenty of surfaces to fuck on. The bathroom has a tub for 2+ and a separate large shower that can easily fit them both. I took pictures so when she describes her evening I will be able to visualize it.

I just got a text from L saying that she has arrived and is with T. (the name of the date). Hopefully I get a message within the next hour or so letting me know if she will proceed with him. Earlier I asked how long after meeting him would she know if she would spread her legs for him. She said "Less than 5 minutes!"

Starting to feel some angst but I have to take care of the kids so I really will not be too focused on what L is up to for another 2 hours.

[justlookin2day]

I just checked the location of her phone as her last text update 45 minutes ago said she is in a bar with T. Her current location shows she is in the room. I'm a little annoyed because she has not met this guy before and I told her I want to know when/if she was going to the room as I am concerned about her safety during a solo meet with a guy we know little about. Also I've told her that on her previous dates I felt like the time between updates has been too long!!

[justlookin2day]

They are almost certainly having sex right now. About 40 minutes ago I received 3 pictures within a 15 minute period.
1. L sitting on the bed smiling.
2. L taking a picture as T eats her pussy.
3. L lying on her back, legs spread with a very wet pussy. Her arms are crossed over her chest so I can see her wedding ring. I'm sure this was unintentional but it is a real turn-on for me. A very satisfied look on her face with her eyes closed.

[elina]

Dear justlookin2day

Wow, this is really hot for us allowed to read about it, and must be 10 times hotter for you.
Hopefully your Wife will truly enjoy the experience!!

Looking forward to hear more from you

SIncere regards
elina

[UKDan]

Thank you for keeping us updated in real time. It gives us that only dream of this lifestyle a very small glimpse of what the husband experiences/goes through. I hope she had a wonderful night and remembered to check in with you.

[justlookin2day]

They are down in the bar talking. I'm a bit surprised L has not left yet as they have been in the bar for at least 45 minutes. One shock was after I received the 3 pictures I asked if I might have a picture or video of him penetrating her. I received an emphatic no at 10:45pm. Then while they are talking in the bar at 11:50pm I received a video clip of her bent over the bed and him rubbing his cock all over her pussy. No penetration in the video. But also no condom!!

[justlookin2day]

So they are still in the bar talking at 1:30am. I know they are not in the room because I can track her cell phone location. They've been talking for almost 3 hours and I am getting really upset. She's been saying she is leaving soon for the last 2 hours. 30 minutes ago I texted that it is either time for her to call me or come home. There's been no response. I don't know what to do.

Should I:
1. Call her?
2. In her last text she said to go to sleep and that she would wake me up when she returns home. I'm thinking of texting her "Don't bother waking me up".
3. Nothing and see how I feel when she wakes me up? I really want to know what happened and why she ignored me and refused to come home. So this is my most likely choice.

[UKDan]

I’d say ‘nothing’. Try and chill and let her work through this at her own pace. You gave her the freedom to enjoy herself, I’m sure it will be well worth it when she returns.

[FNQLivin]

You need to calm down and say nothing other than be supportive. Later, when calmer heads prevail, discuss.

[justlookin2day]

Thanks you two. Do you think I should pretend to be asleep when she returns? At this point it won't before 2:30am local time. Just so you know where my head is at: One of our young children wakes up most nights between 1am and 3am, gets upset and joins us in our bed. Is my wife stating out to make certain we don't have reclamation sex? That would be really upsetting.

[UKDan]

Just be yourself, the man she loves. Stop trying to act like someone you’re not, you don’t need to. Just be happy for her and enjoy your reward. Try not to overthink what might happen and enjoy what has happened (or is happening). Get reassurance here, don’t pester her with insecurities or you might make her regret her actions.

[UKDan]

You’re going through some ridiculously intense emotions right now, things the average (normal??) guy simply will never have to deal with. Try and hold it together just a little while longer. Lean on the members here and vent your frustrations and insecurities and you’ll get great advice from experienced couples who have been where you are now. Good luck Buddy.

[justlookin2day]

So I was able to control myself and did not call or text L after my text at 1am telling her to call or come home. She finally texted me at 2:10am saying she was leaving the hotel and her pussy was so sore. Once she was in the car she called and I found out that I was mistaken. They never left the room and the reason she didn't respond was because they were having sex. Other than a few ten minute breaks during which she did text me, they fucked for 5 1/2 hours. So at least they weren't ignoring me while chatting in the bar. Instead she was too busy taking his dick in her pussy to respond.

Some quick details:
1. She said she came a lot. I asked ,"How many times?" She said, "I don't know, a lot." So I said, "do you think 3, 4 or 10 times?" L responded with, "Maybe 6."
2. She said our cocks are about the same length but I am thicker.
3. Although L said I would not get any penetration videos, apparently T. talked her into it and took 3 videos of him fucking her from behind. She loves it from behind and the sounds she is making are almost primal.
4. She said he would be soft for less than 10 minutes after cumming. He came 4 times and had complete control. When she left the room just after 2am he was trying to start again. L said that she left before making any bad decisions and only because I wanted her to come home. Apparently he wanted to go in raw, and she thinks she would have let him if she had stayed. They both have recent test results but my wife is not on birth control. I also wouldn't have wanted her to take bare cock on her first time. That would have made a horrible precedent.
5. I asked if she could stop after this. She said that she would be able to keep herself from traveling to see Trent, but if he called saying he was in our hometown her pussy would need him. Really she is shocked by how good it was and really never expected to be or like being a hotwife. I think she thought she would do it a few times to satisfy my curiosity. Instead, it seems like she would need me to stop her doing this. In fact, as I wrote earlier, she has a date with another man on Saturday and has every intention of going.
6. I was able to fuck her for maybe 20 seconds before she said she was too sore. She does not want us to have sex before her Saturday date so hopefully I will get to really fuck her on Sunday. To be honest her pussy felt incredible for that 20 seconds.

I'll write more later. Thanks to UKDan and FNQLivin for helping calm me down last night. It would have been a disaster if I had called or sent a pissy text.

[elina]

Congratulations "more than justlooking2day"

It seems like your Wife had a wonderful experience, then came home to share it all with you.
It is very understandable that you became emotional and nervous, nobody left home in this situation can feel that they have any control of what is going on and jealousy is a strong and wonderful thing; it actually speaks to our fear of loosing something very dear to us.

Now support you Wife, the better you can support Her, the more She will be inclined to share and the better the opportunity to grow together.

So I was able to control myself and did not call or text L after my text at 1am telling her to call or come home. She finally texted me at 2:10am saying she was leaving the hotel and her pussy was so sore. Once she was in the car she called and I found out that I was mistaken. They never left the room and the reason she didn't respond was because they were having sex. .......

Never trust technology fully!!!

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I'll write more later. Thanks to UKDan and FNQLivin for helping calm me down last night. It would have been a disaster if I had called or sent a pissy text.

Lucky you had two guardian angels waking over you,
Probably next time you will be able to stay more calm and in control of yourself?

Sincerely
elina

[UKDan]

Sounds like she had a mind blowing time and she has you to thank for that. Well done for keeping your head (she doesn’t need to know you were struggling for a short while ). The anticipation of Saturday’s date must be wild (although it wouldn’t be my personal preference to be cut off until then).