Wives Dating

[slayveone]

What is your experience with your wives dating other men? As in being more than just fuck buddies or one night stands. Going out, texting, calling etc?

Good, bad, dangerous, harmful to the relationship, etc ?

[annsman]

My wife wants more than casual sex so enjoys sex so mostly has had proper boyfriend/girlfriend relationships where love making is just a normal part of their dating. However, she makes it clear to them that they are an addition to our marriage not a potential replacement.

I’m turned on by the intimacy between them, so it’s mostly been very good for both of us and I’m sure her boyfriends as well.

[hotwifelina]

Hey guys, wife dating It’s such a beautiful thing.My Gorgeous Hotwife Lina LOVES IT! She loves to go out, to get ready, go to the nail salon to get her manicure and pedicure get her hair all done, she likes to look good and smell good for her dates and she also loves to shop for naughty lingerie and CFM heels! Lina loves to dress very slutty out in public on her dates With extra short micro mini dresses with no panties most of the time so when she bends over, you can see her pussy lips hanging. Lina loves texting and chatting on the phone with her dates as she gets super wet as she has me down on my knees, licking her pussy clean as she’s chatting and texting naughty things to her dates. Lina also loves to get very intimate. She loves to deep tongue French kiss she likes to be very passionate and she wants her dates to all make love to her bareback and she loves the feeling of the hot warm, sticky creamy gooey cum loads inside of her married, fertile pussy and ass. She says it completes her as a slutwife, hotwife. from the very beginning, I’ve also encouraged and supported her in dating well hung guys on a regular basis. On average she’ll go out once or twice a week with different guys four or five times a month and I encourag & support her and I also help find well hung guys for her, we believe that a hotwife must date on a regular basis. It’s very important for the lifestyle and my self being her sissy, cuckold hubby for me. It’s also very important, because I have to stay on cleanup duty regularly. That’s my duty as her cuckold hubby to support my wife Lina

[parklife]

Well, certainly not as entertaining as Lina… but I get the impression that’s not exactly the kind of ‘dating’ you’re asking about.

My wife started with what we call, “friends with benefits”. Originally, my mind thought it was safer if she had multiple FWBs rather than just one. She also has only been with people she has had some type of pre-existing relationship with.. so, they’ve all been friends of one type or another. Eventually, she wound up with one guy that was already a “work husband” and they were close, did lunch, went on a work trip or two together…. That was all pre-physical relationship.

Eventually, at my wife’s urging, they had a sexual relationship and kept the friendship going as well. They chat on the phone, text daily and would go out to dinner every 6 weeks or so…. They’d golfed together, hit the driving range, had a few overnights…. General dating type activity. So, I think that’s what your getting at.

To be honest, from my perspective, it was great. There was little to no danger. I mean, all of her sexual partners she knew, so no strangers involved. And after those first couple of guys, I realized that none of this was taking away from ‘us’. My wife needs a connection, needs a closeness. I began thinking if she ever developed feeling (and she did) for someone else, it didnt mean she loved me any less. In fact, in ways it brought us closer. A couple of her girlfriends new but largely it created an “us against the world” feeling.. like we were in our own separate club her and I. It also created space for being completely open with each b other which I think is extremely important. I had space to share any thoughts and concerns and she never felt the need to hold back from telling me about her feelings.

I will say, the hardest part is that cause I, the husband, became such a confident that it can feel awkward or destabilizing when you’re the shoulder to cry on. She ultimately broke it off with that guy and it was a legit, down in the dumps, feel horrible for weeks/months kind of breakup. That’s not easy to go thru as the loving partner. One, it’s just hard to see your love suffer like that and second, it leaves you feeling quite helpless. It. An very much be like walking on eggshells because you’re the source of comfort yet also, in some sense, the cause since I was the one that pushed or at least asked for this arraignment. So, I’m complicit in the pain I some sense.

All in all, I loved the fact that my wife was able to express her feelings and emotions and explore her sexuality in a way that came with no concerns for “normal life”. It served as an escape for her… a time to be free of the thoughts/worries of everyday life. When she was in a date, she was able to just be present in that moment rather than when we’re on a date and talking about th Elida school, or bills or where to find the time for xyz…. It helped reset her energy levels and I often describe her date notes like the release valve on a pressure cooker…. Life is stressful and busy and overwhelming but every once in a while she’d have a date where the ONLY focus was on her engagement with another person and that allowed all that pent up stress of life to ease away and when she returned, she always did so like a breathe of fresh air.

I love when my wife has that. It filled me with content and joy. I guess that’s what they call compersion…. And I grave it.

[inivisibletwin]

my wife's boyfriend of 5 years lives with us. The two of them share the big bedroom, and I have the smaller bedroom. on average my wife, Jen spends 2 or three nights per week in my room with me, the rest of the time she sleeps in bed with her boyfriend.

we purposely wanted to arrange it so she had more sex with her boyfriend than with me.

Her boyfriend, Chris and I get along great! we are good friends, we have a lot in common, he is just also dating my wife!

they have a full on actual relationship, separate from her marriage to me. She is my wife, but she is also his girlfriend.

for us it was been a great experience! It's not been without it's rough patches, but we are all very happy with it, and would not change it for anything!

we don't see any reason to stop, either. We know, legally they cant get married because she's already married, so they are about as committed as they can get, but they are happy together and I am happy that they are together!

i love seeing them together, i support their relationship and constantly do anything i can to push them together!

this type of dynamic is not for everyone, but it works for us!

[hotwifelina]

Are you guys that’s super hot with an amazing lifestyle, so well appreciated by us guys. We also had a live-in boyfriend Lina was seeing for three years. He actually slept in our bedroom when they slept in the guestroom next to them and I was able to hear his ball slapping against her pussy as he fucked her all night long and shot his cum load inside of her Lina Would just call me over every time for cleanup duty. I would run in and clean up for about 45 minutes. Make sure she was ready for the next come load and then I was told to leave.

[luvwives999]

My wife had an out -of -town boyfriend, so they would go away together weekends, which meant breakfast, lunch, dinner as a couple. When she came home, we'd go back to our suburban life, it was never a problem.

[kort677]

women are prone to develop feelings for the man she is sleeping with.
to prevent this from happening we have agreed that she won't see a guy more than a few times.

[Wooster]

My wife and her boyfriend do a lot of normal "couple" things together (ie, dates, shows, trips, clubbing, camping).

Their relationship is not just sexual. She spends the night with him often, they talk on the phone every day, and they text each other throughout the day. I find the romantic connection between them wonderful. When she first started seeing other men, it was just FWB situations, but when she met him, it became so much more.

I'm very happy for them, and it works just fine for me.

[funfortwo]

When we entered this dynamic, my wife indicated that for her to do this, she would need some sort of emotional connection. For her, she admitted that she could never have random hookups with people she didn't know. As luck would have it, she found a great guy that, in her words, checks all the boxes. He is physically attractive, well spoken, hardworking, honest, non threatening to our relationship and has a big dick!! An all around win! She is attracted to him physically, loves hanging out with him and loves when they get together. She meets up with him about once a month and they spend about 4-6 hours on a date at a hotel. Initially, I was a bit of a wreck as I saw that they were close, but not necessarily in a romantic way. Over time, those insecurities faded and I truly enjoy our newfound friend. He would message a few times a month, but was respectful of our time and lives as a family. I became more confident over time and don't feel he is a threat to a life that we spent building together. In her words, I am her number one guy for life. We recently started talking about her having her first sleepover date with him while they go wine tasting together. She admits that it would be fun to go on a date with him, in public, with nobody else around. Rather than him rushing off after their hotel date, they could enjoy some cocktails, get to know each other better and do something different. She also seemed excited about the prospect of having sex multiple times over a couple of days (she loves morning sex). I'm okay with this arrangement, but we haven't finalized anything. It would be a new milestone for us and she is planning on doing something in February for their "anniversary" of their first meeting. She is a bit nervous, as she is worried about bathroom, morning breath and that sort of stuff, but I assured her that they're both adults and it isn't anything that you haven't done when you were single and dating. We shall see, but I get enjoyment from her enjoyment and happiness. Compersion??

[ucaneffher]

My girlfriend started with a bunch of fuck buddies, which I loved because she was constantly out on dates or at their place but after 2 years of sleeping over at many different homes and whatnot, she just got tired and started wanting more of a regular lover.

This led to having a regular, they got attached to each other and it turned into full on dating. I admit that I was not a huge fan at first but in no time she changed my mind and the rest was history. It was so incredibly sexy watching the transition, her gradual changes as she became more attached and more serious. Watching their relationship intensify was intoxicating. Her feeling son comfortable talking to me like a friend about her relationship with another man. Seeing and hearing him doing the same things with her that her and I did in the beginning was intense.

I found it so hot that It eventually led to finding myself in the mindset of actually preferring my GF/wife having a boyfriend instead of a bunch of guys on the side. Although I am certainly not opposed to her being promiscuous and having a bunch of guys on the side either.

My story is different to many here. I have evolved over the years and the most recent desire for me isls become a cuck again but with my girlfriend having an actual relationship with another man, not just sleeping around like a single woman.

My lifestyle desire for the the long term is to head in somewhat of a poly relationship but with a strong focus on cuckolding. Meaning that her relationship with the other man will eventually become her primary relationship, forcing me to become a secondary man. Naturally as primary he will get almost sexual exclusivity, mostly he will claim her as his when we are home so they sleep together at night, and I essentially am the spectating cuckold who gets the scraps from time to time while he has first dibs to her in everything. It's not for everyone but I have already partially lived a past relationship that way and it was intense and made me feel on edge 24/7 not being in control, not knowing when I would get my little slice of that sweet cupcake. Having lived it partially in the past, I think that I would be willing to give it another shot again but this time a little more involved just to see how the 3 like it and if it's something that I can see myself calling my life.

I'm sure not many men would be open to willingly become their partner's secondary man and live under the shadows of her new primary man while he gets full privileges and priority but here I am wanting to test the waters and see if I could see myself doing it long term.

[LongTermHubby]

My wife prefers vacationing with her lovers. They will go away for a couple of weeks and live as husband and wife far from prying eyes.

[hotwifelina]

SUPER HOT!!!!!!

[stubbyhubby]

There have been good and bad experiences for us. Mostly good though.

From going on dates with one guy he became borderline obsessed thinking she was eventually going to leave me. When he realized that wasn't going to happen he began demanding to see her and calling her at 2am to try and convince her to leave me. Luckily even though I am a cuck, I have a mean streak when it comes to protecting my family, and after a brief confrontation he realized he should redirect his energies elsewhere.

Outside of that it has been positive. Her current bull is also her boyfriend, but likes the "dating someone's wife" angle. He stays the night with her 2 or 3 nights a week, takes her on dates and does boyfriend stuff with her.

[hotwifelina]

There have been good and bad experiences for us. Mostly good though.

From going on dates with one guy he became borderline obsessed thinking she was eventually going to leave me. When he realized that wasn't going to happen he began demanding to see her and calling her at 2am to try and convince her to leave me. Luckily even though I am a cuck, I have a mean streak when it comes to protecting my family, and after a brief confrontation he realized he should redirect his energies elsewhere.

Outside of that it has been positive. Her current bull is also her boyfriend, but likes the "dating dungeons someone's wife" angle. He stays the night with her 2 or 3 nights a week, takes her on dates and does boyfriend stuff with her.
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Very Hot!!!!

[00rdster]

My wife is flying out on Friday to spend the weekend with her lover. They've been together for five years now.

[venus-can99]

My wife is flying out on Friday to spend the weekend with her lover. They've been together for five years now.

Sounds very interesting, Hopefully you can share more perhaps in a separate thread?

[KBZ69]

Have had a good scope of experiences from and almost boyfriend where they went away on weekends , she stayed over ( hotels and his place ). But it went sour when he became jealous.
A couple of guys she sees socially , 2 or 3 who she chats to regularly and 2 fwb who she overnites with on occasion
The unicorn is someone she can be in a bf/ gf relationship with for a looooong time . Including nights away ,shirt holidays and actually meeting his social circle as his partner.

[submissivedanny]

My wife won't have sex with another guy unless she has a connection to that guy. If she doesn't have any kind of feelings for the guy she's not going to sleep with him. Yes my wife goes out on dates with her BF. They go to clubs, dinner and even shopping dates. My wife also go away with her BF. They go away on weekends and they also go away for a couple of weeks every year. Some weekends she goes to his house for the weekend and sometimes he comes to our house and spend the weekends. They kiss a lot and tell each other I love you and I'm fine with that. She buys special sexy lingerie to wear. I never am allowed to watch them having sex because my wife says it's private between her and her BF. When they are fucking in our house I can hear them and they really sound like they do love each other. I'd rather have my wife love the person she's fucking than just fucking everyone in site.

[carolinacuck]

C has been on dates with other men. Usually out of town guys who are here on business. They would typically go out for dinner and drinks before heading back to the guy's hotel room. She always had a cover story if she ran into someone she knew....basically saying the other guy is a relative or friend. Of course that only works if she can keep her hands off him while out in public...which sometimes didn't happen!

[hotwifelina]

C has been on dates with other men. Usually out of town guys who are here on business. They would typically go out for dinner and drinks before heading back to the guy's hotel room. She always had a cover story if she ran into someone she knew....basically saying the other guy is a relative or friend. Of course that only works if she can keep her hands off him while out in public...which sometimes didn't happen!

ABSOLUTELY HOTTT!!!!!

[options311]

Super Hot !! So exciting to read and image with hopes it happens to me. A happy wife is a very happy life with her !!

[troilusand]

What is your experience with your wives dating other men? As in being more than just fuck buddies or one night stands. Going out, texting, calling etc?

Good, bad, dangerous, harmful to the relationship, etc ?

Definitely "good", and helpful to us. When I caught Cressida cheating the first time I asked the usual questions (how long? did you fuck him? who else knew, etc?, but when asked if she loved him I got an answer I wasn't expecting..."Yes!"

I came to realize that she was addicted not just to men, but being in love. So when the time came a few years later to turn this into a hotwife situation, I now WANTED her to fall in love with the men she was seeing. Anyway, whether cheating or hotwifing she always dated the men she was seeing. And once our lives turned cuckold, she would see the man she loved FREQUENTLY!

And this led to EVEN CLOSER relationships than she'd had before because the only thing In the way now was getting caught by the outside world. And we were ready to admit our LS if this happened.

Her dating always turned to love (she had only a few one-offs, and they were with men she knew and already had "feelings for") and I knew this meant the man was the man she loved most...but I was ALWAYS her primary relationship. That is, she EMOTIONALLY loved them more than me, but loved OUR LIFE TOGETHER far more than she would with anyone else.

hee hee, when she'd confide in me about the man she was in love with, she told me I was the best girlfriend she EVER HAD -- she could tell me anything and I didn't judge her! No, I didn't judge. I'd just go and jackoff when she was finished.

If you can stand your wife being in love with another man, then I wholeheartedly recommend dating!

Troilus