Children in cuckold marriages

[ccklvr]

I pretended to not be bothered by his cavalier use of the word. I imagined what he’d feel like if he knew his father was a cuck…that his mother was taking another man’s dick two or three times a week (as I’d sit idly by and jerk off for their added entertainment).

i'm wondering how the logistics worked here. how did you manage to play up to three times a week with children at home?

[Robvanjan]

I have dated many couples over they years, several with kids. I was integrated into the family with a couple of the serious ones (poly) and maintained a very good relationship with the kids. One couple I dated were very open and naturists/pagan and lived on a few acres in WA. They had two kids and mother in law living with them in a smaller manufactured home. Privacy was at a minimum and the walls were thin. Our love making occurred in the tent during the summer months and in the home during the rainy months, which was often. I would come over and stay for the weekend and play with the kids, help around the farm and the three of us would make love overnight. Grandma knew all of this and supported her daughter. She would take the kids out during sessions when she could or would have slumber parties in the front room out of earshot which became a challenge. But, eventually we decided to have a family meeting and discuss with the kids that what they are hearing is natural, normal, beautiful and part of being a human and an adult. Someday, they will have the same experiences with someone or ones they love too. The children were not quite teens yet and once we came out and were honest, they accepted it. About two years into it, she became pregnant (hubby was fixed) and everyone understood what was happening and got excited for the family addition and welcomed my visits.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I pretended to not be bothered by his cavalier use of the word. I imagined what he’d feel like if he knew his father was a cuck…that his mother was taking another man’s dick two or three times a week (as I’d sit idly by and jerk off for their added entertainment).

i'm wondering how the logistics worked here. how did you manage to play up to three times a week with children at home?

Sure…

Short answer:
They’d fuck at his place after work.

Long answer:
She more or less targeted her boss, a never-been-married, no kids, financially stable, home-owning fairly handsome dude.

It was almost always at his house. There were a few times when (kids absent, of course) he fucked her in our marital bed. That was hot, and brought a new dimension to getting cucked. (He fucked her where we slept every night!)

But, because of scheduling and kids, I wasn’t able (or expected) to be there all the time.

Sometimes (about once a month?), I’d be invited to watch. They made me jerk off for their entertainment while they fucked. The idea was that I’d cum in my hand before he’d cum in my wife. There were a few times she stopped me from cumming and gave me sloppy seconds while sucking the last drops out of his shaft and nuts. (Still occasionally happens.)

Most of the time, they’d fuck alone and he’d send her home to me and the kids full of cum. (We loved it! She’d put her cum-soaked panties on my pillow to smell as we went to bed. I got to know his smell pretty well.)

That was 18 years ago. We’re still at it, though to a lesser degree, to this day.

[Gloria80]

Our daughter knows..we decided to be true and open at home to avoid lies and drama if getting caught

[PakiKinkyCouple]

Our kids are young. Sometimes, making them understand why mom is crying with another man becomes challenging.

[gruenberg]

Our daughter knows..we decided to be true and open at home to avoid lies and drama if getting caught

May i ask how she reacted to this?
I'm asking because we have a daughter who will come in this certain age.

[LongTermHubby]

We waited until our youngest child had gone off to college before entering the lifestyle.

[Johnann2227]

In our relationship, what we do in our personal lives is personal. In other words, the kids don't know and don't need to know. We would never put our children in a position where they knew their mother was sleeping with other men.

As for couples who have a live in arrangement, all I can say is that would be putting your personal kink ahead of property raising your children. That isn't a hallmark of good parenting.

We totally agree with you. Our kids are now 20 and 17 and have no idea that we are swingers and also into hotwifing. They have been brought up in a nudist household and take part in the nude pool parties etc we host with the other families in our swinger group. There is never anything remotely sexual if there are children in attendance. None of the groups kids know that their parents are swingers.
We explain my wife's Tuesday nights out (at her boyfriend's) as her book club night with some teachers she works with. Her Friday night sleepovers at her boyfriend's place are explained as her weekly girls' night out. She has never had a boyfriend stay overnight except if we have hosted a swinger party and the kids have been at their grandparent's house for the weekend. Family always comes first.

Everything has dramatically changed for us since this post. Our daughter started having suspicions about where Ann (my wife) was going on Tuesday nights. She had seen a couple of times what she was wearing when she left to go to her boyfriend's place and saw her arriving home around midnight. She knew Ann wasn't going to her Book Club dressed like that. She actually thought her mother was cheating on me and told me and then confronted her mother.

We couldn't lie to her so we told her what she needed to know. We told her that we were swingers and we shared our love with others. We told her that we had been swinging since we were her age. I told my daughter that her mother was not cheating on me and I knew and approved of her having boyfriends.

To say our daughter was shocked would be an understatement. She was hung up on the confusion of love and sex. Eventually, and after her asking many questions which we answered honestly, she accepted what we were doing. She came to learn that Ann is bisexual, that our nudist friendship group is also our swinger group, that when we go out every Saturday night it is to a swinger party with our friends and most importantly that we were not going to stop.

When our son turned 18 we, with the help of our daughter, told our son. He too was shocked but accepted it easier as he had his sister to talk with too.

Our daughter fully accepted everything and even started helping her mother get ready for dates (which used to be my job). When Ann returned home they would get together and giggle together about what the date was like.

Now we are at the stage that Ann's boyfriend James has moved in with us and nightly shares our bed. Our kids, who are now 22 and 19 really like him and get on well. We all live nude together and they are used to seeing Ann kissing James and cuddling on the lounge. They hear Ann and James say, "I love you" to each other. There is never any sex in front of the kids but then there never was between Ann and I in front of the kids.

Our kids accept and enjoy our lifestyle. They themselves are now experimenting with the other adult kids in our swinger group. Our daughter has come out as bisexual and is dating one of the daughters in our group as well as regularly fucking one of the sons. Our kids understand that love and sex are two different things.

[isinlarsa]

Our daughter knows..we decided to be true and open at home to avoid lies and drama if getting caught

How old was your daughter when you told her that her mother was a hotwife?

Our daughter also found out her mother was a hotwife when she was a teenager. We didn't plan to tell her, but when she found out, we talked it out, and she quickly learned to accept the situation. "Mom likes to be with other men, and Dad is okay with it." (Actually, I'm a lot more than okay with other men fucking my wife, but there was no reason to get into that with our daughter.)

Our daughter started observing how much more attractive her mother kept herself than the mothers of many of her friends, and was proud of her mother.

[Johnann2227]

Our daughter started observing how much more attractive her mother kept herself than the mothers of many of her friends, and was proud of her mother.
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Our daughter realised that was the reason why GG er mother was always impeccably groomed when she left the house. Always wearing make-up, fortnighly mani/pedis, spraytans throughout winter, monthly hair appointments, always matching lingerie, only owning thongs, only owning suspender belts and stockings or thigh high stay ups (even for work), always wearing heels or wedges regardless of whether it was work, date night or grocery shopping. The only time Ann doesn't wear heels is for the gym.

She then commented on Ann always wearing an anklet oner right ankle which she googled and found that it can be a sign of a hotwife. The thumb rings, toe rings, the belly button piercing, the VCH piercing, the nipple piercings, all to advertise her sexuality and availability.

She told us that she now understood why when she was in high school some of her male classmates used to call Ann a milf anf her female classmates used to comment on how beautiful Ann was. None of the other school mums dressed like this.

[Long Lurker 34]

Our daughter started observing how much more attractive her mother kept herself than the mothers of many of her friends, and was proud of her mother.

Our daughter realised that was the reason why GG er mother was always impeccably groomed when she left the house. Always wearing make-up, fortnighly mani/pedis, spraytans throughout winter, monthly hair appointments, always matching lingerie, only owning thongs, only owning suspender belts and stockings or thigh high stay ups (even for work), always wearing heels or wedges regardless of whether it was work, date night or grocery shopping. The only time Ann doesn't wear heels is for the gym.

She then commented on Ann always wearing an anklet oner right ankle which she googled and found that it can be a sign of a hotwife. The thumb rings, toe rings, the belly button piercing, the VCH piercing, the nipple piercings, all to advertise her sexuality and availability.

She told us that she now understood why when she was in high school some of her male classmates used to call Ann a milf anf her female classmates used to comment on how beautiful Ann was. None of the other school mums dressed like this.
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JA2227
- Love it. Call me sexist. If I'd managed to be in the LS what i would have wished for my wife.

[Johnann2227]

Our daughter started observing how much more attractive her mother kept herself than the mothers of many of her friends, and was proud of her mother.

Our daughter realised that was the reason why her mother was always impeccably groomed when she left the house. Always wearing make-up, fortnighlty mani/pedis, spraytans throughout winter, monthly hair appointments, always matching lingerie, only owning thongs, only owning suspender belts and stockings or thigh-high stay ups (even for work), always wearing heels or wedges regardless of whether it was work, date night or grocery shopping. The only time Ann doesn't wear heels is for the gym.

She then commented on Ann always wearing an anklet on her right ankle which she googled and found that it can be a sign of a hotwife. The thumb rings, toe rings, the belly button piercing, the VCH piercing, the nipple piercings, all to advertise her sexuality and availability.

She told us that she now understood why when she was in high school some of her male classmates used to call Ann a milf and her female classmates used to comment on how beautiful Ann was. None of the other school mums dressed like this.
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[Johnann2227]

JA2227
- Love it. Call me sexist. If I'd managed to be in the LS what i would have wished for my wife.
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Hi Long Lurker,
It definitely is not sexist to support your wife in her pursuit to look her best at all times. It is not sexist to be proud of your wife and enjoy all the looks she gets from other men. It can be bloody expensive though. $110 per fortnight on nails, $350 per month on hair, expensive make-up and perfumes, in winter $80 per fortnight on full body spraytans, lingerie where a thong can cost nothing less than $60, botox which was $1000 last visit for forehead and armpits, weekly massages at $90 per visit, regular purchasing of stockings as they easily run, and on and on.

Having a hotwife can be expensive but is a wonderful lifestyle to be in

[Daddy321]

I grew up in the seventies, and eighties, a lot of parents were into swinging. My mother was very promiscuous. Often when my father was away, my father's friends would stop by. They would say it was to mow the lawn or fix the sink. But soon, my mother would take them into the bedroom.
She was very loud.
Sometimes she would go to a bar and come home with different men. We had a great relationship. I would talk to her about it, she would tell me that my father couldn't satisfy her so she was taking care of her own needs.
I remember at a very young age I asked her what women like about.
Men, she would tell me that women like men with muscles and big pick penises.
My mother was very small, like 5 foot. But she loved big men with large penises.She was a size queen.

I guess this is why are you allowed? And encouraged my wife to f*** other men too. My mom and my wife look off in compare notes, my mom was very proud of me for allowing my wife two get pleasure from other men. My daughter grew up knowing her mom was a hot wife and that she went on dates. She thought it was cool. Sometimes she would talk to my mother about it, and my mother explained
How the dynamic worked

Daughter just got married and it's in the lifestyle.
And it's very active and I'm very proud of her. That tree is so confident and sexual that she doesn't mind that I know that she is a slut

[Magellanic29]

I grew up in the seventies, and eighties, a lot of parents were into swinging. My mother was very promiscuous. Often when my father was away, my father's friends would stop by. They would say it was to mow the lawn or fix the sink. But soon, my mother would take them into the bedroom.
She was very loud.
Sometimes she would go to a bar and come home with different men. We had a great relationship. I would talk to her about it, she would tell me that my father couldn't satisfy her so she was taking care of her own needs.
I remember at a very young age I asked her what women like about.
Men, she would tell me that women like men with muscles and big pick penises.
My mother was very small, like 5 foot. But she loved big men with large penises.She was a size queen.

I guess this is why are you allowed? And encouraged my wife to f*** other men too. My mom and my wife look off in compare notes, my mom was very proud of me for allowing my wife two get pleasure from other men. My daughter grew up knowing her mom was a hot wife and that she went on dates. She thought it was cool. Sometimes she would talk to my mother about it, and my mother explained
How the dynamic worked

Daughter just got married and it's in the lifestyle.
And it's very active and I'm very proud of her. That tree is so confident and sexual that she doesn't mind that I know that she is a slut

Wow! How often can people say 3 generations of their family are in the lifestyle? That's a rare sight.

[Daddy321]

I know it's great. Between the 3 generation they have fucked hundreds of men. And many women too. I like to think of it as a public service.

[Archie457]

Children do not need to know, and should not know, anything about their parents' sex lives. Does not matter if it's vanilla, alternative, deviant, or whatever. Not saying that they can't figure things out or that they will never actually never know anything. It's just that every person deserves the right to make that voyage of discovery for themselves. So, parents should take reasonable measures to preserve that for their children.

JMHO YMMV

[FamilyCuckold]

Needless to say, the (adult) kids know. ;-)
H.

[Redsoxguy1984]

We keep it very PC. Our kids have no idea about the “ins and outs” in that regard. They just know our friends as uncles. But from their perspective I’m sure we are just a normal family
We will never push our views or lifestyle to our children