coastalkid wrote: ↑Tue Oct 29, 2024 6:04 pm
Is there anyone here who is pussy free and their wife DOESN'T have a bf or extramarital sex of any kind?
Yeah, me. My current wife is free to do it with someone else but to my knowledge she's only done it only once. She knew that my previous girlfriend had sex with a friend of ours, and she liked the idea. She was soaking wet after I told her what it had been like. The following day she admitted that she had farewell sex with a fb of hers after we were already engaged. She would never have told me otherwise. Cool!
After we got married she was definitely into the idea. During our honeymoon in Italy she was checking out the men. Later on, there were a number of occasions thereafter that it could have happened. She and I had regular sex but it wasn't great sex. I felt that she was incredibly fussy in bed. It was really hard work to make her reach and she seemed so inexperienced. She'd often mentally switched off and let me have a body. I don't know, we just weren't a great match in bed.
Two years after our wedding she was getting serious about seeing her former fb again. She had set it all up with him and he knew she was after. They nearly got together but the plan fell through because he didn't show. She was disappointed but for me, our reclaiming her was almost like the real thing. I was super hot though she was just lying there underneath me waiting. Like in a normal setting, close to my orgasm, I asked her if she wanted me to cum in her. I was expecting her to say yes but to my surprise she said no. I was too far to argue with her and I did what she asked, pulled out and came on her, not in her. The following day, same thing. We didn't talk about it (I lost interest after coming) but something had really changed.
Four months later she sat me down for a talk. She told me that she really did not enjoy our sexlife. "It doesn't do it for me" she said several times. I was this, that... She gave me two options. "Either we go in therapy or, if not, I would prefer not to have penetrative sex for the time being". Beng!! It was up to me. Wow! And yes, I had a hardon. So weird. Up to that moment she had already denied me over four months. She added another four months to set a goal post, which was quite a bit longer than what I had expected.
It was quite fun to explore how things would proceed from there on. She thought about seeing someone else but she preferred to just play by herself in my presence and otherwise. We would occasionally still try to do it but when we do it is often only very briefly. At first she would ask me to stop but later on I did that before she would tell me. Coming in her is a big No No for us. Of course, she has had her moments that she wanted to revert back, but when it really came down to it, she didn't. There were also some moments that I really couldn't hold it any longer and had to have her, something that I sometimes ended up regretting. It's all a bit out of the ordinary I know but we have a wonderful relationship.
The only thing may i can add is that I am full time caged and pussy free for 5 years.
