Wives: What did your husband do well in raising this topic?

[albs19922]

I am working up the courage to bring up hotwifing and cuckolding with my fiancée some time soon. For those wives whose husbands brought up the lifestyle, what did he do well that you think others can learn from?

[luvwives999]

I was 23 my wife 21 when we got married. A few months before the wedding, I told my then fiancé that I did not expect to be the last man she slept with, and that I was ok with it as long as she didn't do it behind my back, and was honest with me. Also, I would hope she didn't do something with someone else that she hadn't done with me first, for example FFM or MMF. A few weeks after that, I asked her if I was out of the picture, which of my friends does she think she'd be sleeping with, and she told me without hesitation. After that pillow talk would be me asking her while she was naked if said friend walked in right now would you cover up? As the days passed, the answer to that question went from yes, to maybe, to no I want him to see. When I asked what would happen if he walked in and saw her naked, she said, he'd probably fuck me. Didn't take long after that for us to have a threesome, and when she saw no negative results from her having another man, she took full advantage, to my delight.