Young married guy here

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum fiyime5288.

[HCTSW17]

Good luck with everything! I am excited for you and excited to see how it all plays out!

[HCTSW17]

Good luck with everything! I am excited for you and excited to see how it all plays out!

[fiyime5288]

Hey folks. Adam is back at our house. He needs to stay for a few weeks again with us. Lauren was okay with the move.

What's it like with Adam at the house? Did anything interesting happen?

[RunDannyRun]

Hello,

It has been almost a week since Adam has moved in with us and like 3 days since my wife agreed to cuck me by sleeping with him. I know you are waiting for the big news but no, she didn’t sleep with him yet.

I think I am just using this forum as a blog to document my feelings and get some questions answered and some of the advice I got here and in DMs has been very valuable. So please bear with me.


The night that Lauren said that she is open to sleeping with Adam, I told her that I expected some resistance from her, upon bringing up Adam’s name as potential bull. She told me that Adam is actually a perfect option and I asked her to elaborate. She told me that Adam is completely opposite of me - he doesn’t have a clear direction in life. He moves from one job to the other, he has no interest in career growth. He has three kids with two different women. He doesn’t have a permeant place to live. He is a slob. He has no plans for future, no retirement, no savings. It might sound like my wife is being very elitist but she said these are the qualities that will prevent her from having deep feelings for him. She said she can view sex with Adam purely as a physical act without any feelings involved.
She also told me that Adam is also at our home and is a known quantity. So no surprises can crop up later. She also told me that Adam is into her. I asked her how she knows and she told me that a woman can always tell if she being hit on or being flirted with and told me Adam hit on her the day she met him and even when he was stayed with us last time, he flirted with her.


Coming to Adam, we had a boys night out a few nights ago. I asked him how he has been. He told me that he is feeling shitty. He had a fight with some people at his work sometime ago and left the job. He found a new one and is starting this Friday. But he told me that life is a bit crazy. He mentioned that he shacked up with a woman for the past couple of months but he said that (and I quote) she was a crazy bitch. He said that the sex was amazing but she constantly looked for any opportunity to fight. She apparently kept screaming at him for no reason and accused him of cheating on her. I asked him if he cheated on her and he did say only once and that too like weeks after she kept accusing him of cheating on her. I reserved my judgement. He joked that crazy good pussy attached to a crazy bitch will always destroy you. I am not a huge fan of his language but i don't want to dump on the poor guy.

He then told me that he is actually proud of Lauren and me. He told me that he loved how united we are and even when there are some issues between Lauren and I, we don’t go for each other’s throat but resolve things by talking. He told me that I escaped their family’s curse of having the worst relationships - Adam is divorced twice, his dad (my step-dad) is divorced thrice, his brother is dead and his half-brother is also divorced once and I probably escaped their shitty fate because I do not share any DNA with his family. He told me that he will take some break from chasing women for a few months as he is just bringing more chaos into is life. I told him that maybe he should choose better women and he laughed. He said that he is approaching his mid-30s with no college degree and three kids and living at his brother’s house. He is basically a trash commodity in the dating market and he will only attract other trash. I felt bad for him.

But some things do not change and he still hasn’t changed his old habits. He is still a slob and this time, I didn’t even bother telling him to clean up after himself. His clean clothes are in an open duffel bag in the middle of the room. His dirty underwear and used gym clothes are shoved into a corner. Half empty beer cans under the bed. It is not a huge deal to clean up after him and I won’t be satisfied with the way he will clean things up anyway.

Lauren has started to put her plan into the action. She gave me some details. She wants to take the spouse cheating route. She will let Adam think that she is cheating on me. In the regard, she started flirting with him a bit. Some lingering touches and laughing at his dad jokes. In mornings, he is again roaming in the kitchen in just his boxers but this time, I didn’t ask him to put his shirt on. Lauren is also wearing some clothes that show off her toned body. I did see him checking her out the first couple of days blatantly but he has reduced ogling at her.

Anyway things are definitely moving along and I will share more details as this journey progresses.

[Midnight Joker]

Great update. Can't wait to hear how this plays out.

[wannabecUKold]

I think I am just using this forum as a blog to document my feelings and get some questions answered and some of the advice I got here and in DMs has been very valuable. So please bear with me.

You are very welcome. This is exactly what this forum is for. Thank you for confiding in us.

The spouse cheating route should be a very easy route to take, and it allows Lauren to stop at any time. All it needs to be implemented is for you to be out of the way for a while, to create the opportunity, and for Lauren to be around in her nightwear when Adam is in his boxers.

It would be exciting for you to be openly cuckolded but this way should help to avoid Adam lording it over you.

I like the idea of you cleaning his room for him and doing his laundry. Has a nice submissiveness about it. He will note it when he is taking your wife.

Best of luck.

[RunDannyRun]

I think I am just using this forum as a blog to document my feelings and get some questions answered and some of the advice I got here and in DMs has been very valuable. So please bear with me.

I like the idea of you cleaning his room for him and doing his laundry. Has a nice submissiveness about it. He will note it when he is taking your wife.

Best of luck.

could be but it is probably me being neurotic. I don't even allow anyone to stand next to me while cooking. Lauren kind of gave up on helping me with cleaning as I always do it "my way". For what it's worth, I used to clean up after him while I was young too. He used to give me some money for doing his laundry and keeping his room clean. But I kind of agree that there is a submissive element to it.

[Rogueuser1]

Sounds like things are developing nicely. I think you need to start finding excuses to get out of the house though!

Thanks for keeping us up to date!

[joel68]

Rogueuser1,

I agree. Now that they have agreed to move forward, he should make a whole bunch of excuses to leave the house with the two of them alone. Also, it would be good to let them know how long he will be gone as well. Even though an errand will take less time, he should just drive around or delay it somehow to give them more time in the house alone. That way they will have the opportunity to fuck without worrying about him returning.

It sounds like things are progressing nicely. Let's hope it continues.

[Gulfcpl]

He sounds like a real class act. I can’t imagine what could possibly attract your wife to him. If he’s a slob, his personal hygiene probably reflects that. Where’s the win here? This is not meant to offend, just wondering how this is even a thought.

[trecital]

I hope that your wife is on some birth control, as it sounds like Adam might not be a very responsible person when he gets his dick into your wife. Or is that prospect (pregnancy) something that excites you?

[sandy691196]

I think I am just using this forum as a blog to document my feelings and get some questions answered and some of the advice I got here and in DMs has been very valuable. So please bear with me.

I like the idea of you cleaning his room for him and doing his laundry. Has a nice submissiveness about it. He will note it when he is taking your wife.

Best of luck.

could be but it is probably me being neurotic. I don't even allow anyone to stand next to me while cooking. Lauren kind of gave up on helping me with cleaning as I always do it "my way". For what it's worth, I used to clean up after him while I was young too. He used to give me some money for doing his laundry and keeping his room clean. But I kind of agree that there is a submissive element to it.

You will soon be cleaning up after him again... hopefully? You like cream pies and sloppy seconds.. right? Btw did you at any stage share a description of Lauren on this thread?

It might help us visualize stuff better if we knew what she looks like..
Adam is kinda big and rough and muscular.. right?
He being sloppy and kinda "not sophisticated", is likely to leave a lot of mess around after he has fucked her.
Since it's a cheating scenario and he is kinda hard up now.. he will be caught unprepared when it happens. He is likely to bang her hard and make himself scarce for sometime to organize his thoughts and see how things go with you.
He is also kinda jealous of you and your relationship with Lauren. So cucking you would tickle him pink. At the same time he needs a place to stay. So you might see a guy with the ways of an alley cat, the smug grin of a Cheshire cat and the crouch of a scared cat!

All in all Lauren's middle of the night "cheating" visits to his bed and returning to you with a full cunt, may certainly make it all worth it for you!

[Tap]

RDR: Man, get a grip on yourself. Get your kink under control. Stop trying to be submissive. Your wife doesn't want that.

She has already had one bad experience in trying to scratch your kink itch for you. That nearly destroyed your marriage. Now, you are back at it, planning more bad experiences for her. This time, it will destroy your marriage because she will blame you for the shame she will feel in lowering herself to have sex with a shiftless, useless slob who doesn't deserve to have sex with anybody.

Do you want your kink or do you want your marriage to the woman you love?

I recommend that you stop this now by telling her you don't want her to have sex with Adam, and, evicting Adam forthwith. If he doesn't have a place to go, let him sleep under a bridge, and, run a cardboard sign during the day for sandwich money.

If you go through with this, your wife will be fully justified when she ultimately leaves you

Your choice: Your kink or your wife?

[RunDannyRun]

I think I am just using this forum as a blog to document my feelings and get some questions answered and some of the advice I got here and in DMs has been very valuable. So please bear with me.

I like the idea of you cleaning his room for him and doing his laundry. Has a nice submissiveness about it. He will note it when he is taking your wife.

Best of luck.

could be but it is probably me being neurotic. I don't even allow anyone to stand next to me while cooking. Lauren kind of gave up on helping me with cleaning as I always do it "my way". For what it's worth, I used to clean up after him while I was young too. He used to give me some money for doing his laundry and keeping his room clean. But I kind of agree that there is a submissive element to it.

You will soon be cleaning up after him again... hopefully? You like cream pies and sloppy seconds.. right? Btw did you at any stage share a description of Lauren on this thread?

It might help us visualize stuff better if we knew what she looks like..
Adam is kinda big and rough and muscular.. right?

You described yourself a little.

Can you describe Lauren? Like Ht., wt., eye and hair color, and possibly measurements if you know them.

And Adam too.

Thxs.

Sure thing.

Dan (i.e. me): Height 5'9" and weight around 145 lbs. I have blondish wavy hair and blue eyes.

Lauren (my wife): Height 5'4" and she weighs around 107-108 lbs. Straight blond hair and blue eyes. i am not 100% sure about the measurements but she is also a long distance runner. She doesn't have big tits or ass. but she barely has any bodyfat lol. And her breasts are fairly small and she doesn't even need a bra. Her nips are small and jut out straight out of her breasts. (sorry I am not the best at describing things)

Adam( my stepbrother): Height: 6'2" and i think he weighs around 235-240 lbs. He has thinning reddish-brown hair, brown eyes and some tattoos. He also keeps a beard. He worked as a personal trainer in some gyms and he is fairly muscular.


Edit: I texted Adam to get his height and weight and had to lie that I am getting this info to see if the bed in the guest room fits him or not.

[RunDannyRun]

RDR: Man, get a grip on yourself. Get your kink under control. Stop trying to be submissive. Your wife doesn't want that.

She has already had one bad experience in trying to scratch your kink itch for you. That nearly destroyed your marriage. Now, you are back at it, planning more bad experiences for her. This time, it will destroy your marriage because she will blame you for the shame she will feel in lowering herself to have sex with a shiftless, useless slob who doesn't deserve to have sex with anybody.

Do you want your kink or do you want your marriage to the woman you love?

I recommend that you stop this now by telling her you don't want her to have sex with Adam, and, evicting Adam forthwith. If he doesn't have a place to go, let him sleep under a bridge, and, run a cardboard sign during the day for sandwich money.

If you go through with this, your wife will be fully justified when she ultimately leaves you

Your choice: Your kink or your wife?

I want her to be happy. If that involves leaving me, then i am okay with her choice.

[ResponsibullCummings]

The cheating angle might be easier for your wife but unless your brother is a real douche bag I would hope he would be uncomfortable about doing this behind your back. However maybe that's part of the thrill for her to see if she can get him to do that.

[trecital]

I want her to be happy. If that involves leaving me, then i am okay with her choice.

I thought this was mainly about your desire, and presumably your happiness, to become a cuckold.
It didn't strike me, up to now, that you were really prioritising your wife's happiness.

[fiyime5288]

Coming to Adam, we had a boys night out a few nights ago. I asked him how he has been. He told me that he is feeling shitty. He had a fight with some people at his work sometime ago and left the job. He found a new one and is starting this Friday. But he told me that life is a bit crazy. He mentioned that he shacked up with a woman for the past couple of months but he said that (and I quote) she was a crazy bitch. He said that the sex was amazing but she constantly looked for any opportunity to fight. She apparently kept screaming at him for no reason and accused him of cheating on her. I asked him if he cheated on her and he did say only once and that too like weeks after she kept accusing him of cheating on her. I reserved my judgement. He joked that crazy good pussy attached to a crazy bitch will always destroy you. I am not a huge fan of his language but i don't want to dump on the poor guy.

He then told me that he is actually proud of Lauren and me. He told me that he loved how united we are and even when there are some issues between Lauren and I, we don’t go for each other’s throat but resolve things by talking. He told me that I escaped their family’s curse of having the worst relationships - Adam is divorced twice, his dad (my step-dad) is divorced thrice, his brother is dead and his half-brother is also divorced once and I probably escaped their shitty fate because I do not share any DNA with his family. He told me that he will take some break from chasing women for a few months as he is just bringing more chaos into is life. I told him that maybe he should choose better women and he laughed. He said that he is approaching his mid-30s with no college degree and three kids and living at his brother’s house. He is basically a trash commodity in the dating market and he will only attract other trash. I felt bad for him.

You could’ve told him about your performance issues in the bedroom. That would encourage him to be more aggressive in his advances, and it would also make him less inclined to mistake her sexual interest as something emotional.

[fiyime5288]

The night that Lauren said that she is open to sleeping with Adam, I told her that I expected some resistance from her, upon bringing up Adam’s name as potential bull. She told me that Adam is actually a perfect option and I asked her to elaborate. She told me that Adam is completely opposite of me - he doesn’t have a clear direction in life. He moves from one job to the other, he has no interest in career growth. He has three kids with two different women. He doesn’t have a permeant place to live. He is a slob. He has no plans for future, no retirement, no savings. It might sound like my wife is being very elitist but she said these are the qualities that will prevent her from having deep feelings for him. She said she can view sex with Adam purely as a physical act without any feelings involved.
She also told me that Adam is also at our home and is a known quantity. So no surprises can crop up later. She also told me that Adam is into her. I asked her how she knows and she told me that a woman can always tell if she being hit on or being flirted with and told me Adam hit on her the day she met him and even when he was stayed with us last time, he flirted with her.

He must have quite the audacity to flirt with Lauren right next to you.
But it fits into a pattern. Walking around in his boxers (despite you asking him not to). Calling you "little man". Bragging about his sexual conquests. Making you clean after him. And such.
Do you think Lauren finds his attitude arousing (while hating it at the same time)? Maybe that's another factor that makes him a "perfect option".

For what it's worth, I know for a fact that she masturbated a couple of times in the middle of the night past week. I am a fairly light sleeper and I got woken up by her movements. I never experienced this before (well maybe once but it was so long ago) and honestly I should have asked if she wanted to have sex but I was too tired and sleepy. But during the day she was her usual self.

Now that you know he was hitting on her during his last visit: do you think she was masturbating to the idea of getting fucked by him back then?

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like this is way too close to home ... You seem to enjoy the danger of courting disaster.

[Midnight Joker]

Sounds like this is way too close to home ... You seem to enjoy the danger of courting disaster.

She's going to cuck him with the alpha brother and he'll love every second of it.

[sandy691196]

RDR: Man, get a grip on yourself. Get your kink under control. Stop trying to be submissive. Your wife doesn't want that.

She has already had one bad experience in trying to scratch your kink itch for you. That nearly destroyed your marriage. Now, you are back at it, planning more bad experiences for her. This time, it will destroy your marriage because she will blame you for the shame she will feel in lowering herself to have sex with a shiftless, useless slob who doesn't deserve to have sex with anybody.

Do you want your kink or do you want your marriage to the woman you love?

I recommend that you stop this now by telling her you don't want her to have sex with Adam, and, evicting Adam forthwith. If he doesn't have a place to go, let him sleep under a bridge, and, run a cardboard sign during the day for sandwich money.

If you go through with this, your wife will be fully justified when she ultimately leaves you

Your choice: Your kink or your wife?

I want her to be happy. If that involves leaving me, then i am okay with her choice.

Jezus man! You don't mean that!?
If she quits some day over this and its fall out.. then she won't be quitting in order to seek "happiness". She would be quiting out of sheer disgust and loss of respect for men as romantic partners!

When it went south last time y'll had a go at it.. it was touch and go for your marriage, for a while.
It came back on rails because you didn't push stuff and perhaps because she actually loves you.

This time round, the way you describe stuff.. she seems to have accepted that you are a classical cuck and your marriage is a cuck marriage. She seems to have read up stuff seriously.

But then we only know what you tell us. And you see things through your prism. It may be a little different the way she sees it? Like one poster expressed his apprehensions here? Is she losing respect for you big time?

After sleeping with that big tacky slob will she start hating herself, you, your relationship and her fate?
You best check with her soon while you 2 are not in a sex mood. Assure her you are good either way. It's not that she HAS to do someone out of some kinda- cuck marriage obligation!

Best of luck mate.

[Midnight Joker]

Hope thing are moving along for you. Looking forward to your updates!

[joel68]

Yeah, Midnight , me too. From what he last posted about her already starting to flirt with him and about the last time he stayed that he hadn’t mentioned, I thought we could possibly hear something from him by now.

But she told him basically that it’s her show. So he should sit back and let her take over. But I do believe that once it happens it could open the floodgates. Whenever it does he’s gonna love it.