Hello

[Novice1]

Hi Everyone,

Just joined the website.
My wife and I have done some soft swing in the past but nothing for a few years now.
We have discussed the idea of a cuckhold relationship and she is open to the idea.
She just needs to get her confidence up.
She doesnt like the idea of dating sites so the bar scene will have to do for now.

I hope this site will give us a bit of guidence.

J&A

[trecital]

Welcome to the forum.

Want to share any details about your soft swing episodes?

[MartasBoy]

Welcome.
We look forward to hearing how your adventure unfolds.

[leggysman]

Welcome!

I wonder whether giving her a little taste of a swinger dating site wouldn't change her mind. My wife called it the candy store. I was originally supposed to use it to find possible suitors for her to evaluate, but the first time I showed it to her, she practically elbowed me out of the way and dove right in. I haven't really logged into it since. Her only complaint is when there aren't enough new men regularly joining.

Finding guys in the wild is probably more erotic and exciting, but it's going to be very hit-or-miss. And those 'vanilla' guys are going to need some explaining to, if you're planning to let them know she's married and dating with permission. And especially if you want to be involved somehow. Plenty of guys won't be comfortable with hubby being around, and others who say it's fine might struggle with performance issues when the chips are down.

OTOH the guys on swinger sites need no explanation; she just has to say Hotwife and they'll get it. And they're much more likely to have related experience, and comfort around other men in sexual contexts.

Either way, I'm sure you'll find no shortage of templates and guidance on OHW!

Being courted by other men will certainly help her confidence. My wife actually pondered "who would want me?" which I found absurd and adorable, and to which she found out the answer pretty quickly: every man she's encountered.

[Jenky]

You could also try the Personals section on this site, putting yourselves out there for your local area and see who might respond.. you do an initial filtering and then when you know she might be in the mood to indulge your fantasies, you show her the responses from suitable applicants and see what she says..

This forum is not a dating site so hopefully you won't get the usual resistance that comes from some women (and men, myself included) at the thought of having to find a mating partner by swiping left or right

I am old school too and have met my wife walking up to her in a Central London bar (and still managed somehow to persuade her to leave me her email address after she told me to go away... lol) so I get where your wife is coming from with the reluctance towards dating sites

[snoogaloo82]

Hi Everyone,

Just joined the website.
My wife and I have done some soft swing in the past but nothing for a few years now.
We have discussed the idea of a cuckhold relationship and she is open to the idea.
She just needs to get her confidence up.
She doesnt like the idea of dating sites so the bar scene will have to do for now.

I hope this site will give us a bit of guidence.

J&A

It will give you a lot of guidance.
Also feel free to post as often as you like.
You'll encounter even more people if you post I've found.