Hi everyone..
Mature wannabe here, wife is still petite and pretty and have been trying to share her for over 40 years now and accepted some years ago that it will never happen.
However I’m lucky to have had some experience as a dom Bull for another UK couple when I was in my 40’s…they lived in Kent and only stopped when the hubby was injured in a road accident, very sad all round. It started gently but by the end I used to rope his wife to a beam in their front room and strip and spank her…he never thought she’d let me do that when we started.
I am/was quite well endowed and highly sexed but ended up being sissified by another male and am still made to dress and get spanked, often quite severely…… I would post a picture taken by my master when he had finished with me last Monday but can’t see how to do that yet…! So while I’m dom with women I am a total submissive with men and happy to worship cocks.
Let me know if you want to know more about my past and experiences…
Subjames
New UK member from Southeast.
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Great to welcome another UK member (we’re under-represented) 
you’ll be made very welcome here. I think you have to reply/comment on a certain number of posts before you’re able to post a photo. Enjoy.
you’ll be made very welcome here. I think you have to reply/comment on a certain number of posts before you’re able to post a photo. Enjoy.Re: New UK member from Southeast.
Thank you for the welcome Dan, and the explanation.
I was hopeful when we first married as 3 of my male friends talked her into playing strip pontoon, after a lot to drink…I was the banker ! And I was amazed that with a fair amount of pressure they got her stripped down to some very skimpy see through underwear…. I think the thing was that she was the only girl and they clearly wanted her too….they just didn’t know that I would have been delighted to see them convince her to go further..!!
I was hopeful when we first married as 3 of my male friends talked her into playing strip pontoon, after a lot to drink…I was the banker ! And I was amazed that with a fair amount of pressure they got her stripped down to some very skimpy see through underwear…. I think the thing was that she was the only girl and they clearly wanted her too….they just didn’t know that I would have been delighted to see them convince her to go further..!!
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Hi Subjsmes8, and welcome to the forum, from one UK'er to another.
Sounds like you've had a good bit of experience on both sides of the fence (Dom & sub). Would love to hear more about your time as a bull/Dom to a couple.
Would be a good idea if you could make some quick responses here, to push your post count up a bit, then you can post freely and post pics.
Sounds like you've had a good bit of experience on both sides of the fence (Dom & sub). Would love to hear more about your time as a bull/Dom to a couple.
Would be a good idea if you could make some quick responses here, to push your post count up a bit, then you can post freely and post pics.
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Hello Trecital and thanks for the welcome…I have posted a reply to UKDAN but it hasn’t appeared yet.
I used to get very frustrated (still do in some ways! ) and admit to having had one or two affairs…..I used to commute to London, not everyday but quite regularly and fortunately not on peak trains, I commuted from Haywards Heath in Sussex and the train I was on was quite quiet. As I was looking around I saw what looked like a magazine which had been stuffed down the side of the cushion opposite, so I leaned across and pulled it out……and what a surprise and find that proved to be. It was more of a booklet than a magazine and was called ‘Experience’ . It was quite glossy and had some soft porn style photos but mainly it had adverts from working girls and a classified section with ads from swingers seeking sex partners. I confess I had never seen anything like it and didn’t know such mags existed.
Anyway there was an advert from a couple in Deal where the husband was looking for a single male to play with his wife while he just watched and a box no. to reply to.
Getting box numbers in London was pretty easy in those days so I visited a newsagent who offered them, and paid for one for 6 months.
I replied to the box number and was honest about my experience and ‘qualities’ but assumed that it was probably a scam so didn’t expect a reply.
But 2 or 3 weeks later there was one, from Chris and Maggie in Deal. It suggested I phone and gave a window to phone in, so nothing ventured nothing gained, and I phoned as soon as the first opportunity presented itself…. No mobiles/cell phones in those days of course !
Anyway it was Chris who answered and we got on very well quite quickly, I have always been fairly self confident and open and find it easy to talk.
He explained that the fact that I hadn’t had any experience as a swinger was one of the things that appealed about my response, plus the fact that I was married but had had some affairs.
They had got in to wife sharing by accident when a friend of his had started flirting with Maggie and he realised how much they both enjoyed it…I told him that I understood completely as I would love to watch my wife with other men so knew what he felt and what he wanted to see.
The relationship with the friend had lasted 6 months but he had emigrated and they were missing the excitement. Chris really did just want to watch and needed reassuring that I wouldn’t be self conscious..which I knew I wouldn’t be. So we progressed to agreeing that I would come to Deal and meet him for a drink at a pub for my ‘interview’…I wouldn’t get to meet Maggie unless/until he approved me !…..
I used to get very frustrated (still do in some ways! ) and admit to having had one or two affairs…..I used to commute to London, not everyday but quite regularly and fortunately not on peak trains, I commuted from Haywards Heath in Sussex and the train I was on was quite quiet. As I was looking around I saw what looked like a magazine which had been stuffed down the side of the cushion opposite, so I leaned across and pulled it out……and what a surprise and find that proved to be. It was more of a booklet than a magazine and was called ‘Experience’ . It was quite glossy and had some soft porn style photos but mainly it had adverts from working girls and a classified section with ads from swingers seeking sex partners. I confess I had never seen anything like it and didn’t know such mags existed.
Anyway there was an advert from a couple in Deal where the husband was looking for a single male to play with his wife while he just watched and a box no. to reply to.
Getting box numbers in London was pretty easy in those days so I visited a newsagent who offered them, and paid for one for 6 months.
I replied to the box number and was honest about my experience and ‘qualities’ but assumed that it was probably a scam so didn’t expect a reply.
But 2 or 3 weeks later there was one, from Chris and Maggie in Deal. It suggested I phone and gave a window to phone in, so nothing ventured nothing gained, and I phoned as soon as the first opportunity presented itself…. No mobiles/cell phones in those days of course !
Anyway it was Chris who answered and we got on very well quite quickly, I have always been fairly self confident and open and find it easy to talk.
He explained that the fact that I hadn’t had any experience as a swinger was one of the things that appealed about my response, plus the fact that I was married but had had some affairs.
They had got in to wife sharing by accident when a friend of his had started flirting with Maggie and he realised how much they both enjoyed it…I told him that I understood completely as I would love to watch my wife with other men so knew what he felt and what he wanted to see.
The relationship with the friend had lasted 6 months but he had emigrated and they were missing the excitement. Chris really did just want to watch and needed reassuring that I wouldn’t be self conscious..which I knew I wouldn’t be. So we progressed to agreeing that I would come to Deal and meet him for a drink at a pub for my ‘interview’…I wouldn’t get to meet Maggie unless/until he approved me !…..
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My job gave me a lot of freedom and Anita was used to me often being away and occasionally having to stay away overnight so I soon came up with a date to meet Chris….he warned me when I phoned not to be put off by his size, that he was a builder and quite big but that he was a gentle giant.
We arranged to meet at 20.00 so he would have time to shower and change and have some supper and so I had booked into a Travelodge and got ready myself.
I was still a little sceptical as to whether Maggie existed and he hadn’t said when I might meet her but I thought that if I met his approval he might get her over to the pub……
I was on time when I entered the pub on Deal seafront and was immediately aware that I had found Dave….he was sat alone at a table in a corner but with a view of the door, and he was a bit of a small man mountain. That and the way he was watching me intently as I came through the door.
He stood up as I walked towards him and put his hand out asking if I was James and then went to the bar to get me a drink….We chatted a little about why we were there and then asked if I would like to see some pics of Maggie.
He passed me a few photos of a slim attractive woman in her mid 40’s I would guess though I’m terrible at guessing women’s ages, with shoulder length light brown hair..
They were everyday pics of her in normal clothes taken at family functions plus one of her in a bikini on a beach and I assured Chris that I thought she looked lovely, had exactly the figure I loved and hoped I would get to meet her.
With that he said he said he was pleased and that he was sure Maggie would like me and asked what were my plans for the rest of the evening.
You can imagine how exciting I found this. I hadn’t really ever done anything like this before but knew I wouldn’t have any problems sexually. The whole situation was just hyper exciting, I never needed or need drink or drugs to heighten my senses , my sexual arousal just makes me feel as if I’m on drugs anyway and I’d had enough experience to know that I was considered well endowed.
So I told him I was free and he said great, why don’t you come and meet Maggie..!
We arranged to meet at 20.00 so he would have time to shower and change and have some supper and so I had booked into a Travelodge and got ready myself.
I was still a little sceptical as to whether Maggie existed and he hadn’t said when I might meet her but I thought that if I met his approval he might get her over to the pub……
I was on time when I entered the pub on Deal seafront and was immediately aware that I had found Dave….he was sat alone at a table in a corner but with a view of the door, and he was a bit of a small man mountain. That and the way he was watching me intently as I came through the door.
He stood up as I walked towards him and put his hand out asking if I was James and then went to the bar to get me a drink….We chatted a little about why we were there and then asked if I would like to see some pics of Maggie.
He passed me a few photos of a slim attractive woman in her mid 40’s I would guess though I’m terrible at guessing women’s ages, with shoulder length light brown hair..
They were everyday pics of her in normal clothes taken at family functions plus one of her in a bikini on a beach and I assured Chris that I thought she looked lovely, had exactly the figure I loved and hoped I would get to meet her.
With that he said he said he was pleased and that he was sure Maggie would like me and asked what were my plans for the rest of the evening.
You can imagine how exciting I found this. I hadn’t really ever done anything like this before but knew I wouldn’t have any problems sexually. The whole situation was just hyper exciting, I never needed or need drink or drugs to heighten my senses , my sexual arousal just makes me feel as if I’m on drugs anyway and I’d had enough experience to know that I was considered well endowed.
So I told him I was free and he said great, why don’t you come and meet Maggie..!
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Thanks Subjsmes8. Loving the story.
Can't wait to read more.
Can't wait to read more.
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We left the pub and it was a very short walk to where they lived. It was an old building one road back from the seafront. They had their own ground level front door but as soon as you entered there was a flight of stairs taking you up to their large first floor apartment. We walked past several closed doors and what was obviously a kitchen right to the front and a large lounge with views over the promenade and the sea.
Chris explained that Maggie would still be getting ready as they hadn’t been sure he would be bringing me back this first time so he offered me a drink and said he would go and see how long she was going to be…he was gone a good few minutes and I could only hear the vague sound of voices before he returned ans said she would be some while yet as she had only just got out of the bath where she had been relaxing and anticipating with a glass of wine. The anticipation was a big part of the thrill to them both but he felt sure she wouldn’t back out and so we sat and chatted as we waited.
I asked him if there were any dos and donts I should be aware of and he said I could do anything Maggie was comfortable but to take things slowly this first time and see how thing’s developed, but that nothing was off limits as far as he was concerned.
I also asked him if he really would just be sitting and watching or getting involved at all and told him that I had been to an all boys school and had some minor gay/bi experiences so didn’t mind being touched or touching him sexually and he said that it was something he had often wondered about but didn’t think Maggie would like so that was a no no really…..but he might get his cock out and masturbate if I didn’t mind although it was unlikely as he main pleasure really was just watching and making memories he would relive later…..also both he and Maggie had smoked a bit of weed to relax themselves and this made it difficult for him to maintain an erection.
He had popped out of the room a couple of times to check on Maggies progress and I must have been there almost an hour now and it was beginning to get dark. He said he would go and chase her again and was only gone a couple of minutes before I heard voices approaching. I stood up and faced the door as Maggie entered very closely followed by Chris. She looked just like her photographs, about 5 foot 4 or 5 with shoulder length hair that looked more blonde than brown and dressed very conservatively in a two piece skirt and small jacket over a white blouse, and not overly made up.
She looked as though she could have been going for dinner or to a show with friends and I was delighted that she was just the build I liked. Not overweight, quite trim with what looked to be fairly pert breasts but with a little heft to them.
She smiled at me as Chris made the introductions and looked understandably nervous but also not in a particularly shy way, she seemed comfortable with me and turned to Chis and nodded. Chris told us to ignore him and to get to know each other, then went and sat in an armchair, leaving us stood looking at each other in the centre of the lounge. I told Maggie how delighted I was to meet her and how lovely she looked. That I was very pleased to find that she and this situation were real and asked if I could kiss her. She held my gaze and walked into my arms and we started to kiss in a gentle exploratory way. She tasted of fresh toothpaste and was wearing an intoxicating perfume and I just got lost in the wonderful sensual excitement and naughtiness of it all. I behaved as if there were only the 2 of us there and could feel my very hard erection pressed between us as we kissed more and more passionately and unhibitedly.
Chris explained that Maggie would still be getting ready as they hadn’t been sure he would be bringing me back this first time so he offered me a drink and said he would go and see how long she was going to be…he was gone a good few minutes and I could only hear the vague sound of voices before he returned ans said she would be some while yet as she had only just got out of the bath where she had been relaxing and anticipating with a glass of wine. The anticipation was a big part of the thrill to them both but he felt sure she wouldn’t back out and so we sat and chatted as we waited.
I asked him if there were any dos and donts I should be aware of and he said I could do anything Maggie was comfortable but to take things slowly this first time and see how thing’s developed, but that nothing was off limits as far as he was concerned.
I also asked him if he really would just be sitting and watching or getting involved at all and told him that I had been to an all boys school and had some minor gay/bi experiences so didn’t mind being touched or touching him sexually and he said that it was something he had often wondered about but didn’t think Maggie would like so that was a no no really…..but he might get his cock out and masturbate if I didn’t mind although it was unlikely as he main pleasure really was just watching and making memories he would relive later…..also both he and Maggie had smoked a bit of weed to relax themselves and this made it difficult for him to maintain an erection.
He had popped out of the room a couple of times to check on Maggies progress and I must have been there almost an hour now and it was beginning to get dark. He said he would go and chase her again and was only gone a couple of minutes before I heard voices approaching. I stood up and faced the door as Maggie entered very closely followed by Chris. She looked just like her photographs, about 5 foot 4 or 5 with shoulder length hair that looked more blonde than brown and dressed very conservatively in a two piece skirt and small jacket over a white blouse, and not overly made up.
She looked as though she could have been going for dinner or to a show with friends and I was delighted that she was just the build I liked. Not overweight, quite trim with what looked to be fairly pert breasts but with a little heft to them.
She smiled at me as Chris made the introductions and looked understandably nervous but also not in a particularly shy way, she seemed comfortable with me and turned to Chis and nodded. Chris told us to ignore him and to get to know each other, then went and sat in an armchair, leaving us stood looking at each other in the centre of the lounge. I told Maggie how delighted I was to meet her and how lovely she looked. That I was very pleased to find that she and this situation were real and asked if I could kiss her. She held my gaze and walked into my arms and we started to kiss in a gentle exploratory way. She tasted of fresh toothpaste and was wearing an intoxicating perfume and I just got lost in the wonderful sensual excitement and naughtiness of it all. I behaved as if there were only the 2 of us there and could feel my very hard erection pressed between us as we kissed more and more passionately and unhibitedly.
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Ok, this is too good not to be replicated in either the Hotwife forum, Cuckold forum or Stag/Vixen forum.
Bit of a pain for you, but would you be prepared to copy paste into a new thread? Then maybe just put a redirect in here?
The situation is hot, and your writing style is perfect. Can't wait to read more. Phew!
Bit of a pain for you, but would you be prepared to copy paste into a new thread? Then maybe just put a redirect in here?
The situation is hot, and your writing style is perfect. Can't wait to read more. Phew!
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Thank you trecital, I am glad you are enjoying my memories. In a way it’s easy to write as I am just recalling events and trying to leave out detail that isn’t strictly relevant, it’s just the time it takes to write….having spent a life with P.A.’s and secretaries.!
I’m quite happy to have it posted in other threads if someone else wants to do it…it is just the time it would take me.
I know that I am very fortunate to have had the experiences I have had, but am still immensely jealous and envious of men whose wives and girlfriends do cuckold them while they watch….With apologies to Maggie I would have given them all up for just one experience of that..!
I will see if I can write a bit more this evening…..and in the highly unlikely event that Maggie ever sees this thread can I tell her how sorry I am that I didn’t immediately recognise who it was trying to attract my attention, in a subtle way, in that restaurant in rural East Sussex a few years ago….I only realised it was you 2 days later !
I’m quite happy to have it posted in other threads if someone else wants to do it…it is just the time it would take me.
I know that I am very fortunate to have had the experiences I have had, but am still immensely jealous and envious of men whose wives and girlfriends do cuckold them while they watch….With apologies to Maggie I would have given them all up for just one experience of that..!
I will see if I can write a bit more this evening…..and in the highly unlikely event that Maggie ever sees this thread can I tell her how sorry I am that I didn’t immediately recognise who it was trying to attract my attention, in a subtle way, in that restaurant in rural East Sussex a few years ago….I only realised it was you 2 days later !
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I had dropped one hand to fondle and caress her bottom as we kissed and then ran it down further hoping to feel a suspender strap and I was not disappointed, she was wearing stockings and suspenders. I was becoming slightly uncomfortable as my erection, as well as leaking a lot of pre cum, was pushing hard against the waistband of my underwear and I needed to do something to try and move it. I moved my other hand down between us to try and manoeuvre my erection a bit to the side but as I did this Maggie broke the kiss and looking me straight in the face and with a huge smile, got down on her knees and started unbuckling my belt. She had her back to her husband which meant I now had a clear view of him and was wondering if things were moving a bit fast for him. It was clear I had no need to worry . He was watching us intently and as I caught his eye he gave me a huge thumbs up.
Having unbuckled my belt Maggie was now unzipping my fly . I have never been comfortable in boxers and as usual was wearing white designer briefs, which had a very evident white patch up around the waistband. Maggie just let my trousers fall open and pulled the waistband of my briefs out with one hand while reaching in with the other and curling her fingers around my very hard erection and freeing it from constriction. It felt marvellous and wonderfully exhibitionistic.
She was focussing purely on my cock, kissing, licking and sucking it with such enthusiasm that it became quite painful. I didn’t want to complain or put her off but I needed to slow her down and I wanted to see her naked body. She was again applying just a little too much pressure with what felt like her teeth to my sensitive glans so I put my hands either side of her face and encouraged her to rise from her knees. As she did so I quickly removed my trousers and briefs completely and kicked them aside so I was now clad in just a long sleeve casual shirt but she was still fully dressed and Chris was watching us as intently as ever while rubbing himself outside his trousers.
I spoke softly to Maggie and told her what I had previously told Chris, that I would love to watch my wife Anita being seduced by another confident male or even males and therefore I knew what I would like to see myself and therefore what Chris might like to see too, and that I was going to slowly strip her.
Having unbuckled my belt Maggie was now unzipping my fly . I have never been comfortable in boxers and as usual was wearing white designer briefs, which had a very evident white patch up around the waistband. Maggie just let my trousers fall open and pulled the waistband of my briefs out with one hand while reaching in with the other and curling her fingers around my very hard erection and freeing it from constriction. It felt marvellous and wonderfully exhibitionistic.
She was focussing purely on my cock, kissing, licking and sucking it with such enthusiasm that it became quite painful. I didn’t want to complain or put her off but I needed to slow her down and I wanted to see her naked body. She was again applying just a little too much pressure with what felt like her teeth to my sensitive glans so I put my hands either side of her face and encouraged her to rise from her knees. As she did so I quickly removed my trousers and briefs completely and kicked them aside so I was now clad in just a long sleeve casual shirt but she was still fully dressed and Chris was watching us as intently as ever while rubbing himself outside his trousers.
I spoke softly to Maggie and told her what I had previously told Chris, that I would love to watch my wife Anita being seduced by another confident male or even males and therefore I knew what I would like to see myself and therefore what Chris might like to see too, and that I was going to slowly strip her.
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Following Trecitals suggestion and help, this story has been moved to the cuckold forum and I will continue in it there if there is any interest….otherwise I will just share it with Trecital .