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YorkFriends
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Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by YorkFriends » Sun Nov 17, 2024 2:52 am

Good Morning,

I'm in a relationship with an amazing man who is also my Dominant. One of his fantasies is to be in charge whilst another man has sex with me. Has anyone else experienced this? It's not something I've explored before, I am curious about it.
Thank you in Advance :)

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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by MartasBoy » Sun Nov 17, 2024 7:09 am

We have not had experience in that, but a couple we know plays that way. She likes playing the role of a submissive slut. They enjoy mild and playful humiliation play over her, directed by her husband.

He will pick play partners for them, but she always has veto power, if she becomes really uncomfortable. But they have been together for a while, and he knows what she likes, and what her hard limits are. They have a good deal of trust built up, where she trusts that he will pick people who respect safety and her husband's direction.

They both enjoy her being treated like a cum slut, being ordered to give guys blowjobs, and to receive cum facials. They have talked about the fantasy of him pimping her out through one of the escort listing sites like Tryst dot com or SkipTheGames dot com. But so far they have only arranged that fantasy as a role play with guys that the husband has vetted and gotten to know.

They have occasionally set it up where the husband will deliver his wife to the hotel room of a chosen play partner, with her covered in the husbands long coat, but dressed only in her bra and panties, garter belt and stockings, and high heels, with a collar and leash, and the husband ordering her to serve the "customer."

The husband has told me, that he would like to set up a scenario, where he arranges in advance with a play partner he has vetted, to drive up and pick her up off the street, where the husband would have her walking dressed like a real streetwalker. Then he would follow the guy to the hotel. He plans to not let her in on the secret, that it is set up in advance, so she believes she is being picked up by a real John who was just passing by.

They are also hoping to someday travel to one of the big cities that has a nice strip club, where he can put her on stage on amateur night, as a stripper. They have thought of going on a trip to Seattle or Tacoma to one of the Dream Girl strip clubs, or someplace like that.

What kind of things are you interested in? What kind of things is he interested in? Do you have many areas in which you have matching interest? What kind of things have the two of you discussed about trying?

I'd be curious to know how your adventure unfolds.

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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by Her number1 » Sun Nov 17, 2024 5:39 pm

YorkFriends wrote:
Sun Nov 17, 2024 2:52 am
Good Morning,

I'm in a relationship with an amazing man who is also my Dominant. One of his fantasies is to be in charge whilst another man has sex with me. Has anyone else experienced this? It's not something I've explored before, I am curious about it.
Thank you in Advance :)

Yes. I have and it was enjoyable for all of us. The main "rule" is that while there is a submissive, the submissive is really the one in charge. That keeps it safe and enjoyable. If the Dom/Domme doesn't know that, they're not a Dom/Domme. Just someone playing a game, and not a safe game.

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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by trecital » Thu Nov 21, 2024 9:43 am

Hi York friends, and welcome to the forum.

Might be worth asking the same question in maybe the Hotwife forum. It gets a lot more views there.

YorkFriends
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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by YorkFriends » Sat Nov 23, 2024 11:24 am

Thanks I will post in the Hotwife Forum

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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sun Nov 24, 2024 10:02 am

YorkFriends wrote:
Sun Nov 17, 2024 2:52 am
Good Morning,

I'm in a relationship with an amazing man who is also my Dominant. One of his fantasies is to be in charge whilst another man has sex with me. Has anyone else experienced this? It's not something I've explored before, I am curious about it.
Thank you in Advance :)
The advice that you've been given is really sound advice. Remember to have a code word so that you can indicate when it's going too far especially early on as you are still testing the waters.

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Re: Chat to Others for Advice

Unread post by Wife4Guys » Mon Nov 25, 2024 2:44 am

I have played this way with a sub in the past, just make sure the scenario is going to be fun for you too.

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