Young married guy here

[RunDannyRun]

They kinda sorta ended up talking to each other about the stuff they are doing “behind my back” only because they had a fight.

My wife didn’t describe things very clearly and I didn’t ask her to elaborate as I didn’t want to get kicked onto the couch.

I left yesterday to visit a friend and hoping that they get some alone time. I came home a bit late to find Lauren already in the bed and Adam in his room downstairs. I went into our bedroom and Lauren was just on her phone in the bed. I asked her if she was okay and after some “I am okays” she said,

L: This whole thing is so stupid

Me: What happened.

L: Your brother is on a dating app.

Me: What do you mean?

L: We were kissing and I saw the notification on his phone about some matches. I just got off him and just went to our room.

I didn’t ask any more questions and just hugged her. I am not sure if she cried but she looked disappointed. I asked her if she ate any food and she said no. I went down and asked Adam if he ate anything and he told me that he went to McDonalds. I told him that Lauren didn’t eat anything and I am making some pasta and if he wanted to eat. He said just a little.

I made some pasta and took it up stairs while Adam ate his portion in the kitchen.

She was hungry and didn’t take a lot of coaxing to get her to eat. Her mood improved after the dinner and I was able to talk to her.

Me: You know that he is probably wondering what is happening, right? You guys didn’t talk to each other yet about this and there were no boundaries.

Lauren stayed silent for sometime and then agreed that she was being irrational. I asked her to talk to him today.

But God had different plans. Lauren’s high school friend (she also ran track) broke up with her boyfriend and wants to have a slumber party. So Lauren is leaving today evening and will be back on Saturday. I think she is avoiding the problem. She will be working from her friends home tomorrow. She told me that she will talk to Adam on Saturday. So no more juicy updates for a few days. Sorry!

[edgedndenied]

Thanks for the update.
Why don't you three sit down and discuss what you all are looking for. Get it out in the open. The cat and mouse game of cheating does not seem to be working. Since he is living with you if out in open there relationship could progress very rapidly.

[wannabecUKold]

Thanks for the update
You must have looked like the go-between, Lauren obviously upset and not having eaten, and you telling Adam. Must have been on the tip of your tongue to ask if they’d had a fight, and on the tip of his to ask if she was alright.
While Lauren is away, obliquely encourage Adam, by referring to her needs and your ED, and how she likes him as the macho male. Remind him she looked upset today etc.
Be prepared for him to confess to you that they have been kissing. What would say? Rather than acting dumb, you might as well tell him you know and explain - that she had fancied him for a long time and, given your ED, you said it would be a good idea. But tell him to close his dating app when they are kissing.

[trecital]

Hmm, seems like Adam is not the sharpest knife in the drawer. Fancy keeping a dating app open when he's supposed to be seducing her. This doesn't sound promising.

[Gulfcpl]

I simply can’t understand the the cat and mouse game they are playing. Why can’t they just be honest and get the cards on the table? People go to such great lengths to be disingenuous. Adam, for obvious reasons, is being cautious. He does, after all, live in his former step brother’s home. He doesn’t sound like he has a lot of scruples but maybe he has a little bit of a conscious. All this game playing is strange to me. This is just my opinion. To me, honestly is always best.

[Midnight Joker]

At first I was worried that she was upset that Adam was on a dating app because of an emotional connection, but I think it is about him not desiring her as much as expected. Too bad about the weekend, I was hoping for the jackpot.

[dadah]

2 things from an experienced hotwife hubby: it seems to me if adam has any inkling as to why lauren stopped kidding, got off him and went to her room to sulk, he should be addressing the issue (and there are numerous sides to this issue,imo) by cell call or txt message. surely they have exchanged numbers! next, lauren needs to stop acting like some highly sought after pussy princess. where does she get off being pissed because adam might be looking for pussy elsewhere. she hasn't given him any and there is no understanding between them as to what exactly their 'kissing' means. ok, i know she's only 23 but grow up !!

[dadah]

kissing, not kidding !

[RunDannyRun]

Hey folks, I have some updates.

Lauren came home early today morning. I made breakfast for the three of us and I decided to get out of the house for a couple of hours.

I mouthed Lauren to talk to Adam before I kissed her goodbye.

I came to the house sometime ago and Lauren was just alone reading a book. My heart felt a mixture of emotions - anxiety, lust, worry, excitement all combined made my heart beat fast and slow at the same time.

I asked her what happened. She just smiled and said everything is alright.
I gestured her to elaborate more

L: Immediately after you left, I was putting the dishes in the dishwasher and I was thinking about how to broach the subject. I just wanted to apologize for freaking out. I wanted to go to our room and just have a sketch of what I wanted to say. As I was about to go, I moved past him and he grabbed my wrist. I was a bit shocked and I think he also realized that he shouldn’t have grabbed my wrist and he let go of it immediately.

Adam: Can I talk to you? (Lauren didn’t move.)

Adam: Listen, I have no idea what is happening between us. I am confused and I am sure you are confused too. But I don’t want it to stop. I am sorry about Tinder. I should have uninstalled it long ago as it is just a waste of time and it’s mostly bots and scammers. I uninstalled it and I am not seeing anyone now. Can we fucking kiss now? (he paused, and added a please after a few seconds.)

Lauren told me that she was the one who initiated the kiss. But after that he took control. They were still in the kitchen when they started kissing and he picked Lauren up while continued to kiss her and carried her to the couch. She told me that she wrapped her legs around his torso and she told me that he lifted her as if she weighed nothing (She did put on a few pounds - she is around 112 lbs now). He placed her on the couch and momentarily broke the kiss and shucked his t-shirt off. While she saw him shirtless before, she told me that this was the first time she saw him shirtless this close and he was very hairy. He pounced on her and continues to kiss her. Lauren was wearing a tank top and told me that it felt very weird to feel his chest hair on her shoulders. They continued to kiss and he was massaging her butt. She said that they sometimes just kissed lightly like they are a couple in relationship for a long time and sometimes Adam kissed her with so much passion like he came out of a prison after spending 5 years in it. I asked her who was dictating the pace of the making out. She told me that Adam took complete control after she initiated the kiss. She told me that there was always some hesitation and doubt in his behavior previously which vanished this time. He was also very vocal this time. He kept telling her “You are so fucking hot” again and again between kisses. He also told her that “your butt cheeks are so tight! I could hold each of them in my palm” while squeezing her butt.

I was so hard when I heard all this and kissed Lauren afterwards. I could see some reddened skin on her hips probably the result of his mauling. They apparently kissed for some 40 minutes or so and Adam had to leave as he had to meet his kid. I don’t think there will be too many opportunities for them to be alone as we are gone today evening and tomorrow, he is meeting with his kids again the whole day. But it seems like they are on the same page now.


I know folks are a bit pissed off at the slow progress. I decided to not update anymore but a few folks in DMs told me to continue updating. So here is the update . You can probably expect the next update maybe on Tuesday. To the folks who are already pissed off about the slow progress, next week will be slow too. This year, we are hosting Thanksgiving at our place. My ex-stepdad(Adam’s dad) and Adam’s half-brother are coming to our home. They will be staying Wednesday through Friday. I don’t think they will get lot of opportunities for them to sneak around.

ETA: After they kissed, Adam picked up his T-shirt from the floor and Lauren was looking at him and she started at his tented boxers. She then saw Adam looking at her and tried to avert her gaze. He apparently smiled and said "you can look".

[dadah]

whatever you do danny don't stop updating!! i can't wait to see what happens once he gets his dick in her !

[ResponsibullCummings]

[wannabecUKold]

Wow wow wow! The bear is taking his girl. He's kissed her. He’s caressed her. He’s held her butt firmly. And he’s going at the right pace, unlike the previous guy who jumped her.
It must be very exciting for Lauren. She’s now been held close against him, felt his body hair, been carried in his strong arms. It’s making her feel very good, and without guilt because you are joining her in it.
Lots of questions: is she masturbating about it? Is there a handjob for you? Any concerns? eg is she falling for him or is she still just enjoying the sexual pleasure and the excitement? Is she holding anything back? Eg do you think he went further (doesn’t much sound as if he did)?**
Also doesn’t sound like he suspects that you know.
Do you think she’ll go faster now eg slip to his room? Seems like she is happy at this pace. But she will crave the feel of his body: She must want to whip off her tank top too.
Take it easy. This pace is fine. No pressure on her but assure her you’re happy for her to progress beyond. She will work out what she’s comfortable with, and that will help prevent a future blow-up.

** Your added comment about Lauren staring at Adam’s tent, and his response that she may look, is indicative: they’re both now acknowledging that she has a sexual interest in him.

[RunDannyRun]

Lots of questions: is she masturbating about it? Is there a handjob for you? Any concerns? eg is she falling for him or is she still just enjoying the sexual pleasure and the excitement? Is she holding anything back? Eg do you think he went further (doesn’t much sound as if he did)?
Also doesn’t sound like he suspects that you know.
Do you think she’ll go faster now eg slip to his room? Seems like she is happy at this pace. But she will crave the feel of his body: She must want to whip off her tank top too.

I am not sure if she masturbating and if she is doing it, then I am asleep. I know Adam jerks off a lot as his boxers are mostly cum covered.

I do not think she is falling for him. After this sneaking around, we seem to be closer than ever. We actually started some of our old hobbies again (mostly reading a book simultaneously and discussing it afterwards, legos (yes, we are that nerdy) and more running obviously). I think she sees him a sex on legs. I am fairly certain he didn't do anything that Lauren didn't tell me. I think he understands the position that Lauren is in (cheating on her husband) I don't think he is foolish enough to mess this up. I kind of asked her what next and she said that she doesn't know. She just wants to take things at her pace and just see how things go. I think she is still a bit conflicted about taking the big step but those shackles are breaking fast.

[fiyime5288]

I am not sure if she masturbating and if she is doing it, then I am asleep. I know Adam jerks off a lot as his boxers are mostly cum covered.

Does he have access to any pics of Lauren that he can use as masturbation material? Is he still blocked from her social media?

After this sneaking around, we seem to be closer than ever. We actually started some of our old hobbies again (mostly reading a book simultaneously and discussing it afterwards, legos (yes, we are that nerdy) and more running obviously).

And how’s your sex life going?

[RunDannyRun]

Does he have access to any pics of Lauren that he can use as masturbation material? Is he still blocked from her social media?

And how’s your sex life going?

she doesn't have any social media except for LinkedIn. She deactivated everything recently.

our sex life is fine. Mostly handjobs for now. I do eat her out 3-4 times a week.

[joel68]

So does she cum when you eat her? Looking forward to her return home so she can pick up where she left off with Adam. I think it probably won't be too long before he fucks her.

What do you think?

[sandy691196]

I personally feel that under these circumstances, continuing with the cheating angle is the best.
He knowing that this is a cuck deal, will bring out the worst in him.
Now he is cautious and there are brakes. If he knows you are a cuck, an aggressive guy like him may lose all restraint.
The loss of respect and regard for you may have unforeseeable effects on him.
It's safest and best that they do it supposedly "behind your back".

[sandy691196]

Just had a thought. If her complex about boob size is affecting her pace and actions.. you might consider the following confidence building thing for her.
You might casually tell her that you saw a porn clip where the woman had small shapely boobs and her partner(s) were loving 'em!
Or you might find some internet forum on guys who love small boobs aand discuss that with her..

[wannabecUKold]

Reddit r/smallboobs

Very sexy small-boobed girls on there.

[RunDannyRun]

So does she cum when you eat her? Looking forward to her return home so she can pick up where she left off with Adam. I think it probably won't be too long before he fucks her.

What do you think?

Yes. I try to get her to cum atleast once.

I think they will have sex soon.

[RunDannyRun]

Just had a thought. If her complex about boob size is affecting her pace and actions.. you might consider the following confidence building thing for her.
You might casually tell her that you saw a porn clip where the woman had small shapely boobs and her partner(s) were loving 'em!
Or you might find some internet forum on guys who love small boobs aand discuss that with her..

That could be the case. I think I only saw her boobs for the first time a few weeks after we had sex (my memory is hazy but I remember her being a bit uncomfortable about it in the beginning. I did tell her early in our relationship that she has nothing to worry about and of course, she doesn't care that much around me but with Adam.. i think she is reverting to her old insecurities.

[wannabecUKold]

You of course have now entered the period of greatest anticipation. The starting gun has been fired. A couple of hurdles have been jumped. You can see what lies ahead through to the winning post, where his cock enters your wife. It will happen. At no other time will you ever have such intense desire as during this period.

[dadah]

wow!! exciting stuff!! i'm sure you are anxiously anticipating her 'deflowering' more than the rest of us here, but it is hard for me to imagine you are any more ecxited that i am. and i really am looking forward to what adam getting his dick in her and fucking her silly does to lauren's perception of her sexual power and her propensity to just fucking all the time!! i'm really looking forward to see if she just slips off 'after you're asleep' and sleeps naked with his dick in in her continuously. don't stop reporting !!!

[dadah]

oh and one other thing danny...........have you thought about any concern that she and adam might get emotionally closer than you are comfortable with after he starts making her come regularly, and the notion that you should encourage her to find multiple guys to regularly fuck her ??

[sandy691196]

OP says that he and L are emotionally closer now than before.. after she accepted the cuck dynamic and started off with the slob.