Fellas, have you made any progress with your wife this week?

[KevKev]

Tell us what kind of progress you made this week. Did you finally work up the nerve to tell her? Or did you tell her and now you're role playing or she's texting another man?

I told my wife a few years ago. She's been hot and cold about the whole thing. She's not opposed to the idea, but she only sees it happening organically or not at all, so online dating is probably not going to work. This past weekend we were going at it and dirty talking the whole time and she stopped for a minute and said that we needed to put some condoms in our vacation bag in case we met someone while we were on vacation. That made me really happy, because it means she's been thinking about it more seriously than before.

[hornedhubby]

Good for you, KevKev. That is progress.

So buy her some condoms for purse and luggage and enjoy the rush that you will likely get when you buy them and hand them to your wife.

Tell her you are following her instructions, as well as the Boy Scout motto: Be prepared.

[Cosmic]

I've been sharing MMF fantasies with my wife for some time and, while she hasn't reacted particularly negatively, she hasn't gone crazy about them either. That changed a bit this weekend.

We play a game sometimes where she dresses up in some dominant outfit, eg. corset and boots or "boss lady" office attire (crisp blouse, tight skirt, stockings and heels), while I am naked and shackled in collar, handcuffs and ankle restraints. I have to perform duties around the house and whenever I am clumsy or slow, which is inevitable in my restrained state, I must bend over to be punished with a paddle or cane. The game ends with me performing more personal services for her.

This weekend I upped it a notch by relating my fantasy that there was another man involved in the game. He would be also be naked and shackled and put to work on chores alongside me, but younger and very well-endowed with an athletic build. When the chores are done, we withdraw to the living room and she sits down showing a bit of stocking top, then commands us to kneel in front of her. She expains that she is horny from supervising us and needs us to satisfy her, but she will not release us from our shackles until we do one last thing. She wants to watch us suck each other's dicks so that we are extra hard for her.

My wife got very turned on by this and was keen to discuss the fantasy further. The bi/homoerotic part really seemed to push her buttons.

[Bsod83]

Some small progress. We went on a trip without the children.. alcohol, music, hotell just by the bar. She danced with a few guys..and a few guys hit on her as soon as I left her side (when I went to the bar / to the bathroom). I had brought condoms (she noticed them) and let her know that a mfm threesome would be good fun before we went away. Joked a bit "what happends in [small town name] stays in [small town name]"

She have talked alot about a man that is a supplier to her job. They meet about 15min per week..i dirty talked a bit about him in bed, and she got very horny, admitting that she wanted to fuck him.

He have asked her out 4 times already, and is very interested..I think he is kind of a fuckboy, not really the relationship guy, fairly poor/low status job, 15 years older. I think he could be a candidate for a mfm.

A little progress, but I dont expect much to happen any time soon. Maybe when the children move out.

[VwatchesK92]

I’ve posted a few times and have a thread of my own going. There’s been some development.

So, we had a little fight before thanksgiving. Essentially, one of the issues we were having was she says things in the moment she doesn’t necessarily mean. There was a moment where we were apologizing and getting back to normal and in so many words, she said that she she does mean it when she says she will sleep with another man.

So I guess now it’s a waiting game! Better than no, better than maybe, it’s a yes!

[leggysman]

Ha!

At the end of an argument, she says "she will sleep with another man"

For most guys: relationship status: terminating.

For us guys: 🥳

Right on brother

[Marksmall5]

Nice post.
Try to make some progress or think through a set of ideas each week. I make sure the home environment is fully suitable and I’m encouraging and tolerate anything.

[BBCfan]

Lately for me it's more like have we made any progress this year!
I'm actually gonna try to use my cock sheath on her this weekend. Maybe a long massage, which she loves and usually goes into a blissful slumber during it...and then maybe sneak in with the sheath.

[Drakebelg]

My just started making her Bumble profiel. Once the kids are in bed she might finish it.

The main thing now is that I don't get pushy and let her make it anyway she wants. If she asks for advice okay, but otherwise I'll keep my mouth shut .