At least she's playing along...

[dulceandleche]

Its great she's indulging with you in the story play, sounds super hot (and so does she). Definitely sounds like she is enjoying with you in a great way Id LOVE for my wife to even mention other guys or actively teaase back about it!

[PlayboyFan]

The baby steps are indeed noteworthy, important and fun. However, if you want to actually see this happen….and by reading your thread I believe you do….but you should concentrate and be creative in getting your wife in a far more likely scenario to encounter another man and establish a connection….online.

Singles bars and girls trips are great fantasy fodder, and certainly that has done the trick plenty in the past….however, if you read the successful threads, anonymously meeting interesting men online and chatting, then agreeing to meet for coffee, etc. is vastly more common these days.

It sounds like you have robust bedroom discussions and playtime….how about establishing an anonymous online profile at one of the many online dating/hookup sites. Give her a screen name, post a few headless (anonymous) photos that are otherwise fetching….and the two of you review the interested messages together. Its harmless, can be done together and, for most women quite flattering.

Sure, she may simply regard it as a lark….but its fun nevertheless. And, trust me, the flattery is tough for most anyone to ignore. If you are lucky, some fella may strike her fancy and engage her in a continuing conversation…..

Thats my two cents. Increase your odds of her meeting someone she finds interesting and attractive by a tremendous amount.

Good luck,

PBF

[Dream Weaver]

On a personal level I get the impression she'll do it for you, but it has to come natural, so it might be a while. I think the girls night out rape attempt almost certainly nuked any warm/fuzzy feelings about doing it in that manner. On a side note, I know of somebody who got roofie-raped in Vegas. The place is horrible, IMO, crawling with scumbags. Humans want to do cool and nice things but the monsters take advantage.

Anyway, my wife knew my fantasy for 15 years before the opportunity happened in such a way that it was a success. Not that she didn't try earlier, she did, but got rejected although circumstances that didn't really bother us - work colleagues. Hey wait... I was once her work colleague. Hmm, a pattern.

[54321]

She asked me what I thought about her kissing another man and I said that's innocent fun as well, to which she eagerly agreed. She said next time she should go on a solo trip since it would be weird kissing another man in the presence of her friends who all know me very well

Amazing progress! You two have agreed that she can have a passionate, hot, wet make out session with another man when the opportunity arises. How exciting for both of you. This is a major step. Please keep us informed!

54321

[zenmaster]

The baby steps are indeed noteworthy, important and fun. However, if you want to actually see this happen….and by reading your thread I believe you do….but you should concentrate and be creative in getting your wife in a far more likely scenario to encounter another man and establish a connection….online.

Singles bars and girls trips are great fantasy fodder, and certainly that has done the trick plenty in the past….however, if you read the successful threads, anonymously meeting interesting men online and chatting, then agreeing to meet for coffee, etc. is vastly more common these days.

It sounds like you have robust bedroom discussions and playtime….how about establishing an anonymous online profile at one of the many online dating/hookup sites. Give her a screen name, post a few headless (anonymous) photos that are otherwise fetching….and the two of you review the interested messages together. Its harmless, can be done together and, for most women quite flattering.

Sure, she may simply regard it as a lark….but its fun nevertheless. And, trust me, the flattery is tough for most anyone to ignore. If you are lucky, some fella may strike her fancy and engage her in a continuing conversation…..

Thats my two cents. Increase your odds of her meeting someone she finds interesting and attractive by a tremendous amount.

Good luck,

PBF

Thanks this is an interesting idea. Will definitely look into this and bring it up next time we go out drinking or she’s in the mood.

Any recommendations for sites that are good for anonymity?

[zenmaster]

On a personal level I get the impression she'll do it for you, but it has to come natural, so it might be a while. I think the girls night out rape attempt almost certainly nuked any warm/fuzzy feelings about doing it in that manner. On a side note, I know of somebody who got roofie-raped in Vegas. The place is horrible, IMO, crawling with scumbags. Humans want to do cool and nice things but the monsters take advantage.

Anyway, my wife knew my fantasy for 15 years before the opportunity happened in such a way that it was a success. Not that she didn't try earlier, she did, but got rejected although circumstances that didn't really bother us - work colleagues. Hey wait... I was once her work colleague. Hmm, a pattern.

Congrats on it working out for you. Must have been worth the 15 year wait!!

At one time I thought there was a 67% chance of it happening but now placing the odds at 20%. That said, 20% is higher than zero, so there’s always a chance!!

[zenmaster]

She asked me what I thought about her kissing another man and I said that's innocent fun as well, to which she eagerly agreed. She said next time she should go on a solo trip since it would be weird kissing another man in the presence of her friends who all know me very well

Amazing progress! You two have agreed that she can have a passionate, hot, wet make out session with another man when the opportunity arises. How exciting for both of you. This is a major step. Please keep us informed!

54321

Yes, will definitely y’all informed. No solo trips on the docket yet as the Vegas experience from last year has led her to be more cautious when out and about. That said, she knows she has my full permission if she ever gets the urge!!!

[zenmaster]

Not much has happened this year but my wife just told me she wants to do a girls trip before the holidays kick in. Any recommendations? Current options she threw out are NYC, Austin and Vegas.

[lanceHarden25]

It’s definitely on her mind. Last night we had a few drinks and after we got in bed she asked me if I wanted to suck her titties. I immediately complied. She then asked me tell her my favorite fantasy (which she already knows well!), so I told her that I sometimes imagine her with the aspiring actor she met on her girls trip. My wife then told me to fuck her and said that she sometimes fantasizes about fucking another guy while I watch them. I immediately exploded inside her…

It’s definitely spicing up our sex life but at this point I still think it’s just fantasy play between the two of us. It does feel great that we can communicate freely here. She definitely knows what I want and while she’s still conservative she does have some fun with it.

I love this: she fantasizes about fucking another guy while you watch them

That’s hot!

No wonder you immediately exploded inside her

[whosbeensleeping]

Not much has happened this year but my wife just told me she wants to do a girls trip before the holidays kick in. Any recommendations? Current options she threw out are NYC, Austin and Vegas.

New Orleans?

[zenmaster]

Not much has happened this year but my wife just told me she wants to do a girls trip before the holidays kick in. Any recommendations? Current options she threw out are NYC, Austin and Vegas.

New Orleans?

Oh, New Orleans is a great idea. I will definitely suggest this...

Many years ago (before we met), my wife went on a girls trip to New Orleans where she met a ‘really really really good looking guy’ whom she made out with in his car after a night of fun at a bar. I think its the first and only time she made out with a guy she just met. When drunk and fantasizing, she likes retelling that story to me while also letting me that if it happened now she’d want to fuck him. It’s just dirty talk but a man can dream!

[zenmaster]

Alright, she’s set to go to NYC. Any recos on ‘fun’ places she can go with her girlfriends where she can be tempted by the company?

[zenmaster]

Man… these girl trips happen way too infrequently but when she does go on them, she definitely makes it worth the wait!

Last weekend my wife went on her girl’s trip to NYC. When she goes on these trips, I’m home with the kids but always wondering if anything fun will happen, letting my imagination run wild. The goals for the trip were simple: shop, eat and have great cocktails. Like her prior trips, she didn’t really tell me anything out of the ordinary about the trip until we went to bed to sleep after she returned.

Her last night in NYC, her and her friends went out to dinner and a cocktail bar after. At the bar there was a younger guy, in his mid-30s who came over to the lounge area her and her friends were sitting in and began talking to her. She didn’t describe him too much but said that he was definitely fit and good looking with a good sense of humor. Over the next hour they hit it off and him and his friends all hung out with my wife and her friends. Guess the fellas like the Asian ladies! She mentioned that while chatting he would conveniently brush her leg and discretely place his hand on her lower back. As she was telling me this, she remarked that he was ‘so hot’ and if I liked that. Of course I told her yes. She said that I’d like what happened next…

The guy told her he was going outside to take a smoke and she volunteered to go and join him. Now, she never smokes except for once every few years, if she’s out drinking and having a good time. It was a bit cool, so she said they stood outside, bodies touching each other for warmth, while smoking. After finishing their smoke, they walked back towards the bar with his hand placed on her lower back/upper ass. Before going in they shared a nice long kiss… she didn’t tell me much more except that he was a really good kisser. After they re-entered, her friends were ready to go so they parted ways and she left with her friends back to the hotel. She didn’t get his number but came back with only the story.

Anyways, after recounting the story she touched my penis and saw that it was rock hard an asked me to fuck her. I felt her pussy and it was soaking wet and as we fucked she whispered in my ear about how hot he was, how he was a good kisser and if her friends weren’t there, who knows what would have happened. Like usual, I came way too early and she asked me to finish her off with her vibrator.

A couple days later and I’m still buzzing thinking about it. We go months without the topic ever coming up but then she goes on these trips and always comes back with a story she’s excited to tell me. However, she’ll then tell me that there’s no way she’ll go all the way and tell me she’s so happy she hasn’t done it.

I still don’t think it’ll happen but man… she does a great job at keeping hope alive. I’m trying to encourage her to go on another girl’s trip soon but looks like that isn’t in the cards until at least another half year or so.

[BBCfan]

Hot update! You seem to be very supportive and encouraging. So no jealousy when you heard about her kiss?

[zenmaster]

Hot update! You seem to be very supportive and encouraging. So no jealousy when you heard about her kiss?

Good question. Honestly, there was a small punch to the stomach but smaller than expected. Perhaps because I wasn’t there and in some ways, its just a more intense dirty talk at night.

That said, I’ve been replaying the kiss over and over in my mind. It’s going to keep me going for awhile

[isinlarsa]

That's how it started with my wife. She had a job where she went on a lot of business trips. Most of the other people she traveled with were men. After one trip, she told me how one of the men had come back to her hotel with her. He kissed her and she let him. That was all that happened (unless there was more that she didn't tell me about). It was the first step on her becoming a hotwife. May it work out that way for you, too.