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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by FNQLivin » Mon Dec 02, 2024 4:37 pm

Lovely update!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by UKDan » Tue Dec 03, 2024 4:15 am

What an incredible experience, sounds like an amazing, wild time. So happy for you both (although slightly jealous too πŸ˜‰).

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Dec 03, 2024 4:42 am

C followed up with us on how our weekend was on Sunday night and this is what my wife had to say to him πŸ˜‚πŸ€€. Poor guy knows what he missed! Haha

We played with our new partner for a few hours last night... was some time for a break of course :)

Lots of firsts! I sucked dick while getting pounded, went back and forth between them using my mouth, felt a new dick for the first time in 16 years and had someone watching me while J fucked me...

I would say those are the highlights ;)
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by UKDan » Tue Dec 03, 2024 4:54 am

citms2022 wrote: ↑
Tue Dec 03, 2024 4:42 am
C followed up with us on how our weekend was on Sunday night and this is what my wife had to say to him πŸ˜‚πŸ€€. Poor guy knows what he missed! Haha

We played with our new partner for a few hours last night... was some time for a break of course :)

Lots of firsts! I sucked dick while getting pounded, went back and forth between them using my mouth, felt a new dick for the first time in 16 years and had someone watching me while J fucked me...

I would say those are the highlights ;)
Nice response πŸ˜‚ Talk about missing out big time, he must be kicking himself!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Dec 03, 2024 7:34 am

Oh also, she threw this heater at me on Sunday morning!

Her: it was all really good, you're better than he is, you're still the best

Me: I don't need an ego boost, you can tell me if something else was better.

Her: Oh dont worry. When it's better I'm going to tell you.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Tryn » Tue Dec 03, 2024 2:02 pm

Great update!! Looking forward to your updates!

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by beachguy999 » Wed Dec 04, 2024 6:30 pm

citms2022 wrote: ↑
Tue Dec 03, 2024 4:42 am
C followed up with us on how our weekend was on Sunday night and this is what my wife had to say to him πŸ˜‚πŸ€€. Poor guy knows what he missed! Haha

We played with our new partner for a few hours last night... was some time for a break of course :)

Lots of firsts! I sucked dick while getting pounded, went back and forth between them using my mouth, felt a new dick for the first time in 16 years and had someone watching me while J fucked me...

I would say those are the highlights ;)
Now that you've broken the seal, I should be your second ; )

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Wed Dec 11, 2024 4:18 am

The train keeps on gaining steam.

While we very much enjoyed our two experiences with A, he's not really my wife's favorite, he's much older, has a couple habits that aren't her favorite and he's very sexually active (weekly sex club visits). Can't say it'll be out last time with him, but he's unlikely to be regular.

C never responded to the message B sent him with her favorite details of our weekend, so I'm guessing that ship has sailed. Even if it hasn't, we're going to let him lead on anything in the future/show that he's interested.

Wife connected with another guy on Feeld, V, a few weeks ago and began chatting him up pretty much the moment we got home from our night with A πŸ˜…πŸ€£. He's tall, athletic, and has a great smile (her #1 feature of interest). Seems like a cool guy so far. We're going to brunch with him on Thursday and if it goes well we'll try and set something up for next week. They don't know it yet, but if it goes well I'll try and get one or both of them to tease the other a bit before we depart too haha 😈

In other news, B's interests are definitely growing, evolving. She's slowly opening up to the idea of a sex club or adult resort, she's talked about trying to pick someone up on a night out (risky, but exciting, if you'll recall risk has been the biggest thing slowing us down), she's seriously trying to get me to pursue a woman to join us (something that I'm not comfortable with because when we first started this she said that was off limits/she was not interested), and she seems more interested by the day in having something/someone regular that we can grow some comfort with to really explore our kinks (vs being in new situations regularly).

I've been trying not to obsess with her on this subject, in the past that was really off-putting to her, so I'm trying not to bring it up daily, but says when I don't she does. We're having sex almost every day. And there's a spark in her eyes that I can't get enough of. We embrace more, there's more tenderness, but also more raw-rough flow of sexual energy. She's been making naughty, teasing jokes to try and see how they'll land constantly.

We dipped our toes in the water and it felt great. Right now it feels like we're putting on our bathing suits (or maybe taking them off is more appropriate haha) to get ready to dive in head first!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:43 am

So we got stood up on Thursday last week, which was fine. We turned it into a date for the two of us and we had a great time. This thing only works with a strong relationship and we definitely have that. We each had some very mild disappointment, but nothing beyond that.

We also decided to pause until after the new year. We're both a bit overwhelmed with holiday season and life demands. We had been covering some of our anxiety with the fun we were having, but can only run from it for so long. So gonna shut it down for a month or so to catch up on life and then circle back.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by UKDan » Mon Dec 16, 2024 11:04 pm

citms2022 wrote: ↑
Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:43 am
So we got stood up on Thursday last week, which was fine. We turned it into a date for the two of us and we had a great time. This thing only works with a strong relationship and we definitely have that. We each had some very mild disappointment, but nothing beyond that.

We also decided to pause until after the new year. We're both a bit overwhelmed with holiday season and life demands. We had been covering some of our anxiety with the fun we were having, but can only run from it for so long. So gonna shut it down for a month or so to catch up on life and then circle back.
Very healthy attitude πŸ‘πŸ» Enjoy the festive season, and good luck for an adventurous new year πŸ˜‰

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Mon Dec 30, 2024 9:34 am

So speaking of an adventurous new year! We ended up unexpectedly getting coverage to go out on New Year's (first time in five years) and the moment we did B immediately brought up seeing someone new. So we went back to Feeld, connected with a few people, met someone last night and are gonna ring in the new year with him tomorrow!

We connected with multiple people (to make sure we could find someone for NYE haha) and we're actually going on a second meetup next Sunday and hoping to have a fun night with him the following Tuesday.

So from nothing to lots of something!

This has kinda served as a journal for me and I have always enjoyed and wanted to take up writing as a hobby. Since we might not fit into the Wannabe's anymore, I was thinking of starting a thread in the stories section detailing our history (as best as I can remember, with details I don't remember filled in as I think they could have happened) and tracking our future exploits. Is stories the best place for that, or somewhere else a better fit? Would enjoy some engagement, but not really thinking of doing it for that. More just as something fun to pass the time, document our history, and flex my creative juices.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Gearup » Wed Jan 01, 2025 5:50 pm

I have no clue but wherever you go please leave a trail so we can find you

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Wed Jan 01, 2025 8:55 pm

Fireworks! Wow.....not enough time to recount the evening, just going to hit some high points.

We met S on Feeld and met him on Sunday. Had a perfectly good time with him and the wife green lighted going to his place Tuesday night for new year's. Had this gem of a conversation via text on NYE morning:
Me: You're getting naughtier with each passing day it seems. Wondering if/when it's gonna start to concern me 😘
Her: Time will tell i suppose ;)

You knew i was slutty before...maybe you woke the beast again ;)
Me: If you could only feel how hard I got after reading that.

You said your slutty phase before was nothing to write home about. Hopefully this one will be 😘
Her: I'm sure it will be! ;)
Me: I don't know if I can explain how sexy it is to hear and see you own it the way you are too. I know that wasn't always the case, but as we've grown and my trust in and love for you has evolved from somewhat conditional to absolute, giving you freedom to explore what you might desire and seeing your confidence grow from that is just unspeakably sexy and intoxicating.

As for the evening, it was wonderful! We got warmed up, then we fucked on and off for FIVE HOURS. Some high points:
- we spit roasted her again and again. One of the times I made her cum and we came together. At the beginning of this I was worried about post nut clarity, but it hasn't been an issue in our two outings. About as soon as I came in her I went down on her and ate myself from her.
- he came on her face while I was going down on her and then she signaled to him with her finger to kiss him and pulled him in and gave him a sloppy cum kiss. I had no idea this was something he'd be ok with, still don't haha, but it was incredibly sexy! After they finished their kiss he went to go get a new drink and I licked some of the cum off her face and kissed her with it.
- he came four times in total, I twice. Her, who knows how many, more than the two of us together.

To close out this saga, the following morning we had an amazing, tender session of sex and conversation. While I was as deep in her as I could get, I called her insatiable. She said "you created this monster", to which I whispered tenderly into her ear "do you want to be this monster?". She whispered "yes.". I took her by the throat and said to her "don't whisper it, do you want to be this monster?" To which she confidently and calmly responded "Yes."

Not too long after that we talked about the dynamics. She is submissive and really gets off on being taken control of. I'm a bit of a switch, having dominant and submissive moods. However, my submissive moods are not often met with anything, unfulfilled. We talked about that a little bit and agreed that a "bull" type situation might really work for us. We left it at that for the moment.

Doesn't quite feel real at this point. I didn't think she would let herself be this free and fall this deep, but here I am. We have another intro date on Sunday and I am thinking that if it goes well I'll try to get them to do something together on site, and at worst our last free day for January is next Tuesday, so if Sunday goes well we'll try and follow it up on Tuesday. Loving every moment and pinching myself occasionally.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by patw3268 » Thu Jan 02, 2025 7:19 am

A man giving my wife a cum shot in her face is my top fantasy. Congrats. I’m living vicariously through you.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Gearup » Thu Jan 02, 2025 8:50 am

WOW!!! your wife is going to get it good

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Gearup » Thu Jan 02, 2025 8:54 am

citms2022 wrote: ↑
Wed Jan 01, 2025 8:55 pm


To close out this saga, the following morning we had an amazing, tender session of sex and conversation. While I was as deep in her as I could get, I called her insatiable. She said "you created this monster", to which I whispered tenderly into her ear "do you want to be this monster?". She whispered "yes.". I took her by the throat and said to her "don't whisper it, do you want to be this monster?" To which she confidently and calmly responded "Yes."
This is fucking awesome! I regularly lightly choke my wife as she orgasms. The things she says whileI I have her by the throat are crazy. Some women just love this.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by Rip_isback » Thu Jan 02, 2025 7:02 pm

I loved reading about your adventures. It sounds like you're off to a great start. I'll look forward to seeing what's in store for you two next.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Fri Jan 17, 2025 8:51 pm

Been an unfortunate and rocky start to the year. After our escapades on NYE, we all three came down with the flu. No clue who brought it to the party, but we all left with it. Wife was better quick but took me a while to recover. However, she got a UTI, so her recovery from NYE got extended. And then just as I was getting better, I gave it to my son. And then just as he was getting better my daughter got noro-virus and gave it to my wife and I. What a welcome to 2025.

However, somehow, in the middle of all of that, we managed (probably irresponsibly) to arrange some light fun. We scheduled a date with a couple we were sure would flake on us (and they did), I met another OHW user for lunch and we chatted about our experiences in this LS, and my wife met a new guy for lunch. She really enjoyed his company and they ended their date with a "passionate kiss" (their words). Our illnesses prevented us from having any serious fun, but the train is still rolling forward.

In my literal and figurative downtime, I had some time to do some reflection.
- I think the most dramatic difference between my concerns and reality has been the phenomenon of post-nut clarity. In our solo sex life it is 100% a thing, I experience it regularly, and it often keeps me from doing the naughty things I plan for after sex. For that reason one of my primary boundaries in experiences with others has been I won't cum first, to avoid negative impacts of PNC. But in reality, I've had zero impacts from PNC at all in our three experiences. I feel like what's happening is that the room is so charged with sexual energy and I'm still so excited after I cum that I literally run right thru that wall of hormones that gets erected in the few moments of recovery right after finishing.
- With no PNC to contend with, my naughtiest self has been emerging. The wife and I are both orally fixated, and that includes with cum, and I'm both worried and excited about the things I'll do in the future haha.
- Similar to but different than PNC, we have both been concerned with "intimacy" in our experiences. In the early days, it was a boundary: kissing was off limits for her and for me I had no interest in seeing her in traditional missionary. As time went by, we came to the agreement that sex is inherently intimate. She dropped her prohibition against kissing (this is well before we did anything), but said she wouldn't want another man to choke her, and I maintained that I wasn't interested in seeing her full body covered in another man in missionary. Well, come our third experience, and all of those hesitations are gone. She (without my agreement, something we had a discussion about) put light choking on table, and then followed thru with asking for it in the bedroom. They also ended up in missionary, and not only was I not disinterested, I enjoyed it. And to round it out, towards the end of our evening on NYE we all ended up laying together in the bed cuddling and groping and grinding for what was probably a while. It was an inherently intimate period of time, and we don't regret it a bit. What I've found is contrary to our initial beliefs, that we wanted to avoid intimacy and maintain it for just us, the intimate moments have been some of our favorites.

I feel like I like to include some naughty conversations in these posts, so I'll close out with that this time haha.

Me: Not suggesting this at all, just exploring thoughts. If we went nuts this month and saw S tonight, AJ Sunday, and MM and/or C at some point later this month, is that something that would leave you with negative feelings?

Her: No i don't think so. I'm seeing this period as of us figuring out what we want in a partner in effort to find someone who could play with "regularly". That's going to take some testing of waters. We can consider this our slutty phase ;) everyone has them. How about you?

Me: Some have multiple πŸ˜‰. Kind of a turn on. Agree I prefer to find a regular or two, but the beginning of exploring has been fun, wouldn't mind if it lasted a little

Her: Haha don't be jealous! What makes it a turn on?

Me: The descent into sexuality, allowing it to lead us. Being wanted and available. The taboo.

Her: Those are all exciting things! We can make it last as long as we want really...
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by FNQLivin » Fri Jan 17, 2025 9:11 pm

What an update. Thank you.

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Unread post by citms2022 » Sat Jan 18, 2025 9:28 pm

So Monday morning I told B before I headed out for work, "plan something naughty for tonight". And she didn't disappoint. I got home just in time to put the kids to bed and she showed me a pile of index cards on the table and said "Figure out what you wanna drink tonight. We're gonna play a game. There's a series of truths and dares. You can do what the card says, or you can take a shot and pass it to the other." We got the kids down, had a quick dinner and launched into the game.

We started with a shot (tequila is our drink, btw), and then I drew my first card. It read '3 min blowjob'. Well, off with a bang! No way I'm passing up that card (B gives great head)! I don't remember the next couple cards.

The second card B drew was 'Pick where we finish tonight', meaning where I cum. Surprisingly, but confidently (as in she already had her answer picked out before we started playing), she said "on my face". I say surprisingly not because she doesn't enjoy facials, she does, they just aren't top 3 for her. So clearly this was an act of submission/performance.

The third card I drew read '3 min of taint licking'. "I see 3 minutes is the time we picked for everything!" I said. "Seems like a good amount of time but not enough to get too crazy" she responded with a shrug. I informed her I wouldn't be passing my card and she got up and walked to the sofa and removed her underwear. I clapped up her undercarriage hungrily, making sure my tongue strayed in every direction, and we both enjoyed those three minutes.

The next card she drew she gave to me and took a drink. It read 'pick a toy to use tonight'. "I picked where we'll finish, seems like you should pick what we play with" she grinned as she told me her rationale. I was fine with her decision and I set out about picking. I've been interested in seeing if/how she takes to well-endowed men (I'm no slouch, above average with a huge head, but not on the size queen spectrum), and so have been challenging her with large toys. We have a big dildo, but that's require me to use it with my hands, so I picked a toy we hadn't used in a while, an extender, which you slip on over yourself. With it on, I'm the total package is ~10 inches and where my head sits in it is incredibly thick. I told her my choice, and it had been so long since we used it she didn't even remember it.

Next card I drew was a simple 'Ask any question', just a simple "truth". It took me a moment, but I came up with a question. She's admitted recently that her imagination is getting more active but she doesn't do a great job at sharing. And so I ended up asking her "tell me something you've imagined or fantasized about that you haven't shared with me and you're not sure I'm ready to hear." Now, this is a bit of a loaded question, because we both pretty much knew what her answer was going to be. So when she said "you giving head to another man or vice versa while we're in a threesome", I was not surprised. She quickly followed up with "that's not something I'm actually interested in! But I've thought about it...". This has been a back and forth point for us for some time. She has regularly (every few months) brought up me being orally involved with another man. And most times I've asked her if she's serious about it and she always says no, definitely not. But she keeps bringing it up, so one can only surmise....that she is interested and just doesn't think I'm ready to hear it yet. We'll see where that goes...

As if planned, the final card she drew read '3 minute ride', as if perfectly planned for the finish. She did as the card said and we kissed passionately for those three minutes before heading upstairs, where the real fun began...
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by RuleEmAll » Sun Jan 19, 2025 6:18 am

I love where this is heading to! Thanks for the updates!
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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Tue Jan 21, 2025 6:01 am

So before I continue, I realized I haven't described either of us, in case you care πŸ€”πŸ˜‰. I'm a 5'11" mixed, athletic build, above average looking guy with a big smile and full compliment of body and facial hair. She's 5'3" white, thick and athletic, legs and ass for days and gorgeous B cups, blonde with a genuinely beautiful (and mischievous when she wants it to be) smile. So, as I was saying:

Upstairs the real fun began. Before I put on the extender I grabbed her by the back of the neck and pulled her in for a kiss. After I broke the kiss I told her "get on your knees and suck my dick." She loves this kind of dynamic, and she acknowledged as much by saying "I love when you tell me what to do" as she dropped to her knees. After I had my fill of her talented mouth I took her off of me and stood her back up. We made out with a little banter in between. I mentioned how much I enjoy watching her perform oral with other men and she dropped this gem that made me melt "I'll suck whatever dick you put in front of me." It was a reminder that while she needs some input, she really wants to submit as it relates to this adventure we're on. Of course she wants to receive pleasure in quantities previously unmatched, but for the mental aspect she wants to be an object of desire, she wants to please, and she wants to do it in the way that you want. And with that realization, I was ready to fuck!

I strapped on the extender. She hates watching me put on extenders and cock rings; she swears they're gonna hurt me, and I get it, they are a bit scary! We started slow, in missionary. I was bottoming out well before she could take all of it, and I could tell it was both a bit uncomfortable and enjoyable. She started to warm up to it and I got into a rhythm. We were kissing and she broke the kiss to share a thought. "Fuck!" She moaned. "I wish I had another dick to suck." All I could do was moan back "mmmmmm" and continue stroking her. I don't remember exactly how or why, but S (who we spent new years with) was brought up and she ended up dropping this second gem that made me melt all over again "fuck, his cum tastes so good." Something about this fetish brings cum to the forefront, especially others', and whenever she goes there it just pushes my buttons. Ive always had a thing for cum, but when I found this fetish it went totally next level.

Shortly after that gem, I pulled out and climbed off the bed. I pulled her to the edge of the bed, flipped her onto her stomach and put her legs on the ground so she was standing bent over the bed in front of me. Her ass bent over is a sight to behold, something I'll never tire of. I took it in for a moment, then I put a little extra lube on the extender and entered her from behind. For some reason I was able to get a little deeper from behind, and I also didn't have to be as slow. Before long she was taking the full length of the extender and with each stroke I was reaching her ass with my groin. And before long after that I had picked up the pace, fucking her with the full 10+ inches and clapping into her beautiful ass. She was LOVING it, and thru heavy moans the first words she said in that position were "ahhhhh, fuck! Ahhhh, maybe I am a size queen. This feels amazing!" Those were the only words she said, she went back to moaning heavily and before long she was cumming on the extender.

This extender is very heavy and very thick and you feel almost nothing inside of it, but I swear when she said that I got so much harder and the tiny bit of sensation I did feel through that massive toy was intense. Size is less strange than cum in my mind. I am a fan of compersion, I want to see her satisfied, with me and in ways I can't, and I want to believe out relationship is secure enough that it's not a big deal. That said, nobody has done her better than I have and I am both nervous and excited for the soon to come day when I watch somebody give her body something I'm not physically capable of.
Having gotten hers it was my turn. I removed the extender and took her in the same position. I hadn't gotten much physical stimulation (the mental stimulation was amazing!) and so it wasn't an instant ending. She was loose and wet and it was amazing. I gave it to her roughly from behind until I was ready. I didn't have to say anything, when I pulled out she knew it was time for the finish she had chosen in the card game and she dropped down, looked up at me and smiled. I stroked it a few times and at the last moment I told her to close her eyes (apparently too late lol) and I painted her face with my cum. She stood up and I immediately kissed her, starting the kind of sloppy cum kiss that always elicits moans from her.

We finished and moved to cleanup. Years ago I got into the habit of asking her to look into my eyes when she was on her knees for a facial, vs looking at my dick or closing her eyes. That apparently really sunk in at some point because she hates cum in her eyes but she looks up at me with her beautiful blue eyes and gives me a devilish grin as she waits for her reward. I thanked her for always sacrificing herself to make sure us men get the best possible facial/orgasm experience she has to offer. I remarked that she's starting to get really good at pushing my buttons with her talking (she dropped three lines during sex that made me absolutely melt). This is significant because she's always maintained that she's not good at or comfortable with dirty talk, and it's a place I've consistently encouraged her to grow, and she seems to be coming into her own.
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Fri Feb 21, 2025 7:18 am

Once you get the ball rolling it sure is hard to stop!

Lots of day by day incremental progress towards a normal and recurring move into the lifestyle, but given that this is a hotwife and cuckold-centered website, I wanted to share a recent development related to that.

So I had mentioned that B and I are both looking for and interested in finding someone who fits the bull roll. We've talked about it and we both have our motivations. For her, I think she wants to be truly dominated. Owned and controlled physically and to a degree (I don't think she knows to what degree yet) mentally as well. Someone confident, strong and in control. For me, I love that for her. Compersion is a huge draw to the lifestyle, and seeing her engaged in sex, pleased and pleasing are all massive turn ons. What is drawing me to a bull situation, and consequently a cuckold role, is a bit internal to me. I am a very thoughtful, contemplative individual. Everything I do, I've considered exhaustively. It's my biggest strength and a great weakness. The attraction to a bull who can control us both is just that, I don't have to think or plan. I can just be, for her and for him. I have no interest in being demeaned, no interest in severely limiting my sexual activity, but letting someone else be in control sounds exciting and liberating.

So fast forward, yesterday morning, found the perfect sounding guy on Feeld. He's dark, handsome and muscular, my wife's type. His profile is simple, it says: "I'm going to tell you what to do and you're going to do it.
Adventurous.
Self-reflective.
Emotionally intelligent.
Observant."

Simple and elegantly hitting everything I'm looking for. I connected with him and he immediately started giving me what I wanted. It surprised and gave my wife some pause because we have never interacted with someone so straight to the point about a bull role/relationship. I encouraged her to consider that her discomfort might actually be a good sign. We've been looking for someone dominant and direct, and we haven't found it yet but have gotten used to a certain communication style from the guys we're interacting with that aren't it. And so here comes this new guy being very forward and direct and it put her off a bit but turned me on immediately. He asked about our kinks, shared his (he's a sadist Dom, often focusing on punishment/reward), and started establishing the grounds to build our relationship.

I'm excited. We have other irons in the fire, but power transfer play (ala cuckolding) is and has been one of my biggest turn ons and it looks like we have a viable, experienced option to pursue.

Anyways! We're going out tonight to have a play session with another guy we've been talking to for a few weeks. He has a vasectomy, so B will probably have someone else cum inside her for the first time since we started dating. She's as/more excited about that than I am about our potential new bull, and she should be! Wish us luck!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by citms2022 » Fri Feb 21, 2025 7:48 am

So rapid fire posts now, maybe. I'm traveling so on a different IP and the spam filter doesn't hate me for the moment. Really wish they could get that fixed! But probably a good thing to keep me from writing here too much. But anyways....

January finished like the mother fucker it began as. In January we had: Flu, stomach flu, debilitating allergies, cold and Bs first adult migraine. We had two or three dates or play dates cancelled because of all the illness. We started joking that the universe was telling us we shouldn't be doing this! Universe's warnings be damned, we pushed ahead.

We've had two dates and a play date recently.

The first date was with a single woman. B has been pushing me to have a woman join us on one way or another, either as part of a couple or a single. I'll have to do another post on this another time as the subject of bringing a woman into the fold has been a bit of a point of contention. But, it seems like it's happening. Anyways, the date was wonderful. I hadn't been on a date with someone new in 17 years, so was a bit nervous, but given that I'm incredibly happily married, the nerves were very manageable.

My date was a wonderful little half White/Puerto Rican woman our age. Very similar body type to B, great bottom half, slim thick. A bit of a butterface but I still found her very pleasant. Our time together was wonderful, she was easy to talk to and has been in the lifestyle in various forms her entire adult life, so we had some fascinating conversations.

At the end of the date we shared a kiss, and what an odd but satisfying experience that was. Having not kissed another person in sixteen years, all of my context is in how I kids my wife and vice versa. We're orally fixated and kisses usually feature a strong dose of tongue. Well much to my surprise, when I kissed her there was no tongue offered or to be found! Haha I guess she saves that for second dates! Anyways, since I could find a tongue I bit her lip and she really enjoyed that! It was a reminder that if I venture out that there'll be a learning curve adapting to new styles and techniques and bodies. Anyways, a couple weeks later she shared that she's had some job and living situation shake ups and she's pulling back from lifestyle stuff for a moment to get herself steady again amidst her changing situation.

So our second date! We met a couple on Feeld, Jay and Tanya. They're the type looking for connection, longer term relationships. They're experienced, have been easy to talk to and fun, so we've stuck it out. We worked thru a couple of cancellations (fucking January) and finally got a date scheduled in early February, only to have Tanya cancel because she fell ill the morning of our date. Jay decided to stick it out and meet us solo anyways. Our date with him was great! They've been in the lifestyle 5 years. They're stag/vixen and a bit poly, with each of them at times maintaining boyfriends/girlfriends separately. They're also fans of the lifestyle party scene and introduced us to a private group that throws lifestyle parties. No big takeaways from that date. It was a fun time with a cool guy. We made lots of fun jokes on our group chat at his wife's expense and we are looking forward to maintaining a relationship with them and seeing if it heads anywhere. B has defined her current interest in women (kissing and touching/being touched), and it seems like Tanya could be a really good fit to help break her in and see if that's anything she wants to go anywhere with.

And finally!, we had our play date with our snipped guy, Cee. He checked a lot of boxes for B: tall, muscular, ethnically ambiguous, lightly tatted and snipped. We joked that he seemed like a bit of a fuck boy (in hindsight, he is! haha), but given that's kinda what we're looking for we didn't let it deter us.

We had a meetup date with him several weeks ago to make sure everyone was comfortable and he passed. We had scheduled a play date for not long after that meeting, but January happened. Anyways, funny start to the story, he texts us early afternoon the night we're planning to meet and says "so what's the plan for tonight, where we meeting?". We both thought we were heading to his place! But nobody had confirmed anything and his place wasn't available that night, so we split a hotel in between us and met there.

The night had several fun moments, but a few stood out. He was definitely the most forward, confident of the guys we've been with. Getting started didn't take long, after some light conversation he sat down on the bed next to B and began touching and kissing her. I gave them some space, cracking a new drink and getting comfortable.

Before I knew it he had put her down on her back and dived head first between her legs. I joined her on the bed and we made out as he introduced himself to her with his tongue. She said his technique was interesting, not her favorite but enjoyable in its own right. He didn't give her clit a lot of attention but instead spent most of his time tonguing her, licking around, over and inside of her.

When he'd had his fill he popped up and commented on/complimented her taste (she does taste great!). He kissed her some more briefly and then pulled her from the bed to her knees. He let her get a few sucks in, but quickly took hold of her, grasping her head below her chin and behind her head and fucked her pretty little face.

Christ, what a deliciously naughty scenario. Some guy we've just barely met has the audacity to grasp my wife by the head and fuck her face right in front of me not ten mins after walking into our room!

Anyways, the rest of the time progressed fairly normally, a lot of fun, but not super eventful. Cee and I each did have moments of..... performance issues. So there was a little less two on one time and a little more back and forth one on one time. For me, that's actually been a thing in each of our experiences, short periods where my excitement and enjoyment of the situation doesn't translate to performance. It's not been an issue, I've enjoyed stepping back and taking in B in action and rejoining when I'm ready. Hoping it's much ado about nothing, some nerves related to the situations. Hoping as we continue down the road we'll all get more comfortable and that issue will resolve, but if it doesn't, again, part of the draw is watching her and I've loved every moment of that and will continue to!

The end of the playdate really stuck out for both of us. I was sitting to the side, in the stereotypical hotel chair 😝, and Cee was pounding B in missionary. I could see and hear him building, like watching a roller coaster train climb up the tracks. He made it to the top, slowed, and then his body tightened as he rode the rush of the drop, filling B up on his way down.

They laid together for a moment before he rolled off, I joined them on the bed, all three of us laying together. We talked like that for some time. The sexuality of the scene kept me excited and I began to get us back into the mood and the flow, kissing her neck, sucking her nipples, putting my fingers in her mess as we laid and talked.

She gave me a look, and I asked her if she wanted me to go down on her. She nodded and I told her to turn your body. She turned, spread her legs and bared her well fucked pussy to me. I hesitated a little, but not much. I started with her clit, not ready to dive right into the mess. As I warmed up, I allowed my tongue to occasionally wander south, catching a taste and a feel of the mess, and eventually I dove in. By that time I was hard as a rock and I quickly joined her back up on the bed. Cee saw I was ready and he grabbed B by the arms and restrained her. I took her aggressively in missionary while he held her down until I couldn't hold it anymore and added another mess to between her thighs.

We haven't heard from Cee since, so might be a one and done. That's a bummer because we both love the freedom to play without condoms safely, but is what it is. There'll be another 😈 haha.

More to come!
Fantasy began in ~2018, told my wife Oct 2021, lurked here beginning Feb 2023, journey started Jun 2024. She's a monster (her words) in the making.

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Re: We're almost there!

Unread post by leggysman » Fri Feb 21, 2025 8:25 am

Great updates, thanks for those!
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