How many, is too many?

[Gulfcpl]

Sometimes my wife has more than normal because some are one and dones. There aren’t too many really good ones out there and by the time she finds out that they’re duds, the deed is done. A lot of guys talk a big game but have nothing to back it up. Also, scheduling can be difficult with her regulars so she’ll meet new ones to fill the gap, so to speak.

[JamesandAmie]

She should talk with a sexual health nurse, I think that's excessive for two years. But health is key to our life style. It would be hard on your wife to have an STD from it, but she could pass it onto you when you did everything right (staying monogamous) to avoid catching one.

I fully agree. We are going through the STD process right now and it's not nice. In particular the HIV portion. HIV Test
at initial exposure, PEP for 28 days, HIV retest, then another HIV retest at 6 weeks which is where we are now. We have another HIV retest at month 3 which is some time away, then the final HIV retest at the six months period. She had unprotected sex with a first time lover in July and the clinic told us yesterday that the last test is in March 2025. It was not worth it and the lover is living his life as if nothing happened.

Better set boundaries and red lines and agree to them before starting hotwifing and cuckolding is my strong advice.

[JamesandAmie]

She should talk with a sexual health nurse, I think that's excessive for two years. But health is key to our life style. It would be hard on your wife to have an STD from it, but she could pass it onto you when you did everything right (staying monogamous) to avoid catching one.

I fully agree. We are going through the STD process right now and it's not nice. In particular the HIV portion. HIV Test
at initial exposure, PEP for 28 days, HIV retest, then another HIV retest at 6 weeks which is where we are now. We have another HIV retest at month 3 which is some time away, then the final HIV retest at the six months period. She had unprotected sex with a first time lover in July and the clinic told us yesterday that the last test is in March 2025. It was not worth it and the lover is living his life as if nothing happened.

Better set boundaries and red lines and agree to them before starting hotwifing and cuckolding is my strong advice.

[JamesandAmie]

She should talk with a sexual health nurse, I think that's excessive for two years. But health is key to our life style. It would be hard on your wife to have an STD from it, but she could pass it onto you when you did everything right (staying monogamous) to avoid catching one.

I fully agree. We are going through the STD process right now and it's not nice. In particular the HIV portion. HIV Test
at initial exposure, PEP for 28 days, HIV retest, then another HIV retest at 6 weeks which is where we are now. We have another HIV retest at month 3 which is some time away, then the final HIV retest at the six months period. She had unprotected sex with a first time lover in July and the clinic told us yesterday that the last test is in March 2025. It was not worth it and the lover is living his life as if nothing happened.

Better set boundaries and red lines and agree to them before starting hotwifing and cuckolding is my strong advice.

[hando]

When my wife was single, she was fucking a different guy every night for 10 years. Her sisters confirmed that before we got married. My brother in law was laughing at me because he knew she fucked everybody, including him.

[little sissy Benita]

Maybe you should talk with your wife - that you have concerns or that it hurts you or so.
Talking is the best way to resolve difficulties/concerns.

little Benita

[isinlarsa]

When my wife was single, she was fucking a different guy every night for 10 years. Her sisters confirmed that before we got married. My brother in law was laughing at me because he knew she fucked everybody, including him.

When did you find out about her promiscuity? You married her in spite of it, so were you turned on?

[LongTermHubby]

For the first year or two, my wife was like a kid in a candy store and saw a lot of different men. Over time, she settled down and became what she called serially monogamous. She has been with the same lover for the last four and a half years.

[hando]

When my wife was single, she was fucking a different guy every night for 10 years. Her sisters confirmed that before we got married. My brother in law was laughing at me because he knew she fucked everybody, including him.

When did you find out about her promiscuity? You married her in spite of it, so were you turned on?

I had several girlfriends that were very promiscuous, literally having sex with anybody that asked, including 3 that were professional sex workers, when I found that I was getting more turned on the more they fucked other guys. The day after our first date, my soon to be wife slept with 2 other guys. How could I go wrong with her already making me a cuckold, even though I had already been one for almost 10 years? So yes, I married her in spite of the fact that she had already fucked well over 2000 men, and wasn't showing any signs of slowing down.

[stonemtncouple]

When my wife was single, she was fucking a different guy every night for 10 years. Her sisters confirmed that before we got married. My brother in law was laughing at me because he knew she fucked everybody, including him.

When did you find out about her promiscuity? You married her in spite of it, so were you turned on?

I had several girlfriends that were very promiscuous, literally having sex with anybody that asked, including 3 that were professional sex workers, when I found that I was getting more turned on the more they fucked other guys. The day after our first date, my soon to be wife slept with 2 other guys. How could I go wrong with her already making me a cuckold, even though I had already been one for almost 10 years? So yes, I married her in spite of the fact that she had already fucked well over 2000 men, and wasn't showing any signs of slowing down.

How has your marriage been? Wonderful and a dream come true for the both of you I hope!

[stonemtncouple]

I think 17 in two years is fine. Your wife may just want the excitement without any strings attached. Remember this is about her wishes, her wants, and her needs and you are there to support her.

When we first got into the lifestyle we would go to Club Trapeze twice a month, hotel takeovers, house parties and dates with ither couples and single men . She was easily fucking a new guy or two every month. So thats 24-30 in two years.
She just had plenty of opportunity to meet new men every month.
We used condoms always, no STI’s all good.
We have been in the ethical nonmonogamous lifestyle for 13 years now and her count is probably 70 now. Never caught any STI’s gets tested routinely. Over the past 7 years she has settled to just 3 stroutine FWB’s and the occasional new man on a lifestyle cruises or swinger resort vacations.

[hando]

When my wife was single, she was fucking a different guy every night for 10 years. Her sisters confirmed that before we got married. My brother in law was laughing at me because he knew she fucked everybody, including him.

When did you find out about her promiscuity? You married her in spite of it, so were you turned on?

I had several girlfriends that were very promiscuous, literally having sex with anybody that asked, including 3 that were professional sex workers, when I found that I was getting more turned on the more they fucked other guys. The day after our first date, my soon to be wife slept with 2 other guys. How could I go wrong with her already making me a cuckold, even though I had already been one for almost 10 years? So yes, I married her in spite of the fact that she had already fucked well over 2000 men, and wasn't showing any signs of slowing down.

How has your marriage been? Wonderful and a dream come true for the both of you I hope!

We have been married for 46 years now, and I've been pussy free for almost 8 years. I have wanted to be a cuckold since I was about 11 years old and under control of an older woman. In 1995 or so, I was suddenly cut back to having intercourse only 8 times a year from once or twice a day without any explanation, but it was probably a bull that wanted me to be totally denied. I also at that time
wanted to wear a chastity cage as soon as I found out that I could get one. I finally got my cage in 2015, and my longest lockup was 427 days so far, just when I went pussy free. I've got to the point that I don't remember what pussy feels like, and I don't even think about vaginal penetration anymore. I currently get about 15 hand jobs in a year. My wife has had other men to fuck her since the day after our first date and is still cuckolding me as we speak, but she's finally slowing down the last few years.

[stonemtncouple]

When did you find out about her promiscuity? You married her in spite of it, so were you turned on?

I had several girlfriends that were very promiscuous, literally having sex with anybody that asked, including 3 that were professional sex workers, when I found that I was getting more turned on the more they fucked other guys. The day after our first date, my soon to be wife slept with 2 other guys. How could I go wrong with her already making me a cuckold, even though I had already been one for almost 10 years? So yes, I married her in spite of the fact that she had already fucked well over 2000 men, and wasn't showing any signs of slowing down.

How has your marriage been? Wonderful and a dream come true for the both of you I hope!

We have been married for 46 years now, and I've been pussy free for almost 8 years. I have wanted to be a cuckold since I was about 11 years old and under control of an older woman. In 1995 or so, I was suddenly cut back to having intercourse only 8 times a year from once or twice a day without any explanation, but it was probably a bull that wanted me to be totally denied. I also at that time
wanted to wear a chastity cage as soon as I found out that I could get one. I finally got my cage in 2015, and my longest lockup was 427 days so far, just when I went pussy free. I've got to the point that I don't remember what pussy feels like, and I don't even think about vaginal penetration anymore. I currently get about 15 hand jobs in a year. My wife has had other men to fuck her since the day after our first date and is still cuckolding me as we speak, but she's finally slowing down the last few years.

Are you happy with bring in chastity? Dream come true for you?