Young married guy here

[playwifeplease]

RDR, so I actually was thinking about your situation as I went to bed last night. Kept me up for a bit. Some of it was worry and some went back to the eroticism of sharing your wife. I'm probably not saying anything you don't already know, but it would seem that Adam is seeing this as more than just sex. As if he really is winning her over. His 'heartfelt' chat about being a changed man and a dad is his attempt to wiggle is way into her heart and not just her pants. So, I guess the question is if Lauren sees this as just sex too. She has been honest with you so far, so I hope she is honest about any feelings developing as well on her side. That whole situation yesterday was just odd, but it was good that you saw it happening before she even left.

One thing I've learned it that communication is key. While being cuckold means her sexual needs are the priority, she really needs to set a boundary with Adam. Nothing short of that. Reconnecting with your wife won't be enough. Adam has to know that this can't be anything more than a FWB relationship and you have to insist up on that as well. No more "family" outings or other semi-romantic situations.

Not telling you want to do of course. Everyone has an opinion on this site, but in the end it is your choices. I'd love for you to have your cake and eat it too! Hope all is going well.

Good points and very well put MJ, we don't want to see this escapade turn into another painful & sad 'Curious Dave' story!

Of course, 'risk of losing your partner to another' is a very strong kink for some, but otherwise, probably a more frequent turn on, is that the relationship is more than just a 'fuck session' but more intimate, so there is that. As you inferred, 'is Lauren becoming bonded and emotionally involved with Adam'?

As others have said, this thread is very addictive, and who knows what may happen next?

[trecital]

…makes reading your posts very difficult.

oh. ok. easy fix: stop reading my posts.

Not a problem. They were unreadable anyway.

So what is the point of you writing in this way?

Easier fix.....write in the way that everyone else does.

[Midnight Joker]

…makes reading your posts very difficult.

oh. ok. easy fix: stop reading my posts.

Not a problem. They were unreadable anyway.

So what is the point of you writing in this way?

Easier fix.....write in the way that everyone else does.

Respectfully ask that you two flame yourselves via private DMs. Thank you.

[RunDannyRun]

2. Lauren knew that Adam won't be home on Sunday.. so she won't be getting big dick sex if she ducked the house showing binge. Still she decided to make an excuse about work at home and beg off. Why?
Was she generally tired and wanted to stay home and rest? But she didn't after all. She went on a cute family outing with the big dick guy who has been giving her big Os of late. A guy who is showing her a new side of life. Big Os and vaginal Os are not important in life? Sometimes they are.

3. Did she know about this trip beforehand? Had he told her during their time in bed cuddling, in between fucking? He didn't know about your house hunting beforehand. Yes. Neither did she.. true. But the input on A's family outing was in her mind from before? She decided to be available for that, in a spur of the moment decision when the house hunting suggestion came up?

Just wanted to pop in and clear some stuff. Lauren didn't want to hangout with them on Sunday because she only knows them through me and they can be a bit insufferable. I won't go deep into our friend group dynamics but Lauren is not a huge fan of them. This is not to point fingers at Lauren. I know some other friends of mine who get along super well with Lauren and she is excited to hangout with them. These two not so much.

Adam did invite us a couple of times to hangout with his kids before (a few months ago) but we always had plans and could never make it. I am not naive enough to think that Adam wanted me to come along with them yesterday. I think things just lined up right for him with me being busy and Lauren being free.

[Luigical1931]

Where you at with things now Danny (as in your head space)?

Hope you and Lauren have had a chance to reconnect

[Midnight Joker]

Just wanted to pop in and clear some stuff. Lauren didn't want to hangout with them on Sunday because she only knows them through me and they can be a bit insufferable. I won't go deep into our friend group dynamics but Lauren is not a huge fan of them. This is not to point fingers at Lauren. I know some other friends of mine who get along super well with Lauren and she is excited to hangout with them. These two not so much.

Adam did invite us a couple of times to hangout with his kids before (a few months ago) but we always had plans and could never make it. I am not naive enough to think that Adam wanted me to come along with them yesterday. I think things just lined up right for him with me being busy and Lauren being free.

Thanks for popping in. We're on the edge here! I like to go down rabbit holes too, but Lauren (per you) has always been honest. If she wanted to hang out with Adam she would have told you so ahead of time.

How's your reconnecting going? Anything special...chats, romance, sex?

[sandy691196]

Ok Danny.. so Sunday was not a "plan"..
But them hanging out outside the home space ain't cool..

[Jujube]

I can see a scenario where this thing gets a lot more open in the new year. The cheating angle is hot, but I think they will find it exponentially hotter if Adam knew what’s going on and he could take her whenever he wants. The possibilities are endless, from PDA to just Lauren and Adam retiring from the couch and going back into his bedroom.
To keep his sanity and dignity, Danny needs to get Lauren to make it clear to Adam that he (Danny) is number 1.

[Angela Plays]

I just have one piece of advice. When I consider all that I’ve read of your story, that advice would be, if you continue on, do not ever allow them to use your marriage bed. You and Lauren need to open discuss this and be in lock step on this issue. If you two agree to “fun fucks” in his guest room that’s up to you, but keep the marriage bed undefiled. That will be a reminder to all that this is fucking, not an emotional relationship.

(Personally believe you should kick his ass out because he’s a pos to do this to his brother, but it’s your life.)

[Luigical1931]

Agree that you need to speak to Lauren and decide what is a hard no.

That will be different for different people. Some people will get off on the cheating aspect of sneaking around, some will want them to fuck in their marital bed.

The important thing is that you agree to things now and if either of you do want to change those rules, you speak about it and not just do it.

[Dream Weaver]

This Adam guy is definitely a dope with a dick. "I shouldn't have cheated on my wife" says the guy fucking his step-brother's wife. I mean, seriously, does his IQ crack 100? I doubt it.

[Angela Plays]

This Adam guy is definitely a dope with a dick. "I shouldn't have cheated on my wife" says the guy fucking his step-brother's wife. I mean, seriously, does his IQ crack 100? I doubt it.

EXACTLY!!!! Dream Weaver….spot on! Uugghh!!!!

[Luigical1931]

Remember though, that’s the reason Lauren thinks he’s the perfect match for her. She thinks he’s a dick and won’t be getting emotionally attached to him.

Lauren’s not stupid. She might get a bit dick drunk, but that’s all it is

[Angela Plays]

Remember though, that’s the reason Lauren thinks he’s the perfect match for her. She thinks he’s a dick and won’t be getting emotionally attached to him.

Lauren’s not stupid. She might get a bit dick drunk, but that’s all it is

Hope you’re right!

[Luigical1931]

Remember though, that’s the reason Lauren thinks he’s the perfect match for her. She thinks he’s a dick and won’t be getting emotionally attached to him.

Lauren’s not stupid. She might get a bit dick drunk, but that’s all it is

Hope you’re right!

So do I. For their relationship and also because this has been one of the hottest topics on this board. It’s gone from 0-100 the past couple of weeks

[Coolcalm]

Yes at FIRST he was the perfect dick to fuck because of all those reasons of him being somewhat of a, for lack of a better term, loser. But then she started seeing a different, more sensitive and contemplative, side to him. Seeing him with his kids in a more intimate setting. Plus NRE and great fucking? She could fall for him and just might if she keeps being encouraged to get into more intimate and thoughtful situations with him. “Angela Plays” is right about the marital bed too.
Also agree with some of the other responders who say he is a huge asshole for fucking the wife of his “brother” who has done nothing but be GREAT to him! Also him bemoaning how he always fucked up by cheating and how he is learning his lesson while telling this to the woman he is CHEATING with on his brother who has been his savior?!?! What a fucking douche!
Danny, cuckolding can be great but things seems like it can spiral.
All my best thoughts to you!

[ColoCuck75]

2. Lauren knew that Adam won't be home on Sunday.. so she won't be getting big dick sex if she ducked the house showing binge. Still she decided to make an excuse about work at home and beg off. Why?
Was she generally tired and wanted to stay home and rest? But she didn't after all. She went on a cute family outing with the big dick guy who has been giving her big Os of late. A guy who is showing her a new side of life. Big Os and vaginal Os are not important in life? Sometimes they are.

3. Did she know about this trip beforehand? Had he told her during their time in bed cuddling, in between fucking? He didn't know about your house hunting beforehand. Yes. Neither did she.. true. But the input on A's family outing was in her mind from before? She decided to be available for that, in a spur of the moment decision when the house hunting suggestion came up?

Just wanted to pop in and clear some stuff. Lauren didn't want to hangout with them on Sunday because she only knows them through me and they can be a bit insufferable. I won't go deep into our friend group dynamics but Lauren is not a huge fan of them. This is not to point fingers at Lauren. I know some other friends of mine who get along super well with Lauren and she is excited to hangout with them. These two not so much.

Adam did invite us a couple of times to hangout with his kids before (a few months ago) but we always had plans and could never make it. I am not naive enough to think that Adam wanted me to come along with them yesterday. I think things just lined up right for him with me being busy and Lauren being free.

The whole situation is very hot and sexy! Just relax and enjoy the fun while it lasts my friend.

I wanted to ask some questions a few others kinda asked but didn't see a response.
How often since this started are you two having sex or her giving you a handjob? Is it days later after he's made her cum from his bigger cock before you get to touch her?
What are you going to do if she decides to let him cum inside her soon instead of using the condoms?

Again, try to remember it sounds like you've gotten hard and jacked off more since they started playing around and having sex with each other.

[Angela Plays]

Yes at FIRST he was the perfect dick to fuck because of all those reasons of him being somewhat of a, for lack of a better term, loser. But then she started seeing a different, more sensitive and contemplative, side to him. Seeing him with his kids in a more intimate setting. Plus NRE and great fucking? She could fall for him and just might if she keeps being encouraged to get I to more intimate and thoughtful situations with him. “Angela Plays” is right about the marital bed too.
Also agree with some of the other responders who say he is a huge asshole for fucking the wife of his “brother” who has done nothing but be GREAT to him! Also him bemoaning how he always fucked by cheating and how he is learning his lesson while telling this to the woman he is CHEATING with on his brother who has been his savior?!?! What a fucking douche!
Danny, cuckolding can be great but things seems like it can spiral.
All my best thoughts to you!

Preach!!!

[Coolcalm]

Thank you Angela!

[wannabecUKold]

A: Do you feel guilty about what we are doing?

(Lauren didn’t say anything. She was just silent)

A: I love Danny. He is a great kid. I am ashamed to admit that I kept asking him for money since he turned 16 and never once he asked me to give it back. I feel like shit every time I look at him the next day after we fuck. I took so much from him and now even his wife.

L: Can we talk about something else please?

This exchange suggests that Adam has some feeling of feels guilt about fucking the wife of his generous young brother. I doubt it is enough to stop him doing so. Like his biblical namesake, I suspect he blames the woman for seducing him. Even if he found out that Danny was onside, he would blame Lauren for trampling on Danny.

Lauren: clearly saw Adam's indirect accusation of her being a slut. Hence her agreeing to Danny's suggestion of a moratorium.

I doubt this is enough to get them to desist. Guilt vs lust - lust usually wins. 'Just one more time.' Lust is only stopped by one party exiting on a permanent basis and the other party becoming indifferent to them: ie to get this to stop, Adam should leave.

But of course this is a consensual arrangement (as between L&D), if Adam only knew. However it still carries risk of an emotional attachment. I doubt whether Lauren will fall in love with Adam. But Danny should make most use of the moratorium to draw her back from that risk. Adam's protestations of being a changed man are empty, but she may believe them.

[Midnight Joker]

Remember though, that’s the reason Lauren thinks he’s the perfect match for her. She thinks he’s a dick and won’t be getting emotionally attached to him.

Lauren’s not stupid. She might get a bit dick drunk, but that’s all it is

Good points. Adam might be good at fucking her, but he's still nothing compared to RDR outside of the bedroom. I'm hoping this is nothing more than a bit of (understandable) cuck angst on RDR's part. She's enjoying the cock and RDR got a bit spooked by the photo. Some reconnection time will be good for both of them.

[joel68]

Midnight,

I totally agree. Dan's experience on Saturday was something he thought he was ready for but had no idea of what he would experience. Having Lauren tell him about her first fuck session with Adam the next morning while stroking his cock was one thing. Standing outside the door and listening in real time while his hot young wife got a thorough working over by Adam twice and loving it to the max was bit much for him.

Hopefully they can resolve all of their issues and continue at some point.

[Luigical1931]

Midnight,

I totally agree. Dan's experience on Saturday was something he thought he was ready for but had no idea of what he would experience. Having Lauren tell him about her first fuck session with Adam the next morning while stroking hit cock was one thing. Standing outside the door and listening in real time while his hot young wife got a thorough working over by Adam twice and loving it to the max was bit much for him.

Hopefully they can resolve all of their issues and continue at some point.

I agree. Danny was ready to hear about everything, but actually hearing it was something different. Couple that with them not reclaiming and her spending the day with him doing ‘normal’ stuff, I can see why anybody would have a problem there.

If you still want to continue with this Danny, maybe you need to take it back to where she comes back into bed after doing something and whispers ‘I’ve been bad’ to you as she wanks you off. You can slowly build up to other things from there.

I think you’ve just gone from nothing to a million miles an hour too soon for anybody to be able to handle

[trecital]

If you still want to continue with this Danny, maybe you need to take it back to where she comes back into bed after doing something and whispers ‘I’ve been bad’ to you as she wanks you off. You can slowly build up to other things from there.

I think you’ve just gone from nothing to a million miles an hour too soon for anybody to be able to handle

Danny needs to be getting something out of this for it to work long term.

"nothing to a million miles an hour"..... There lies the problem.

[Luigical1931]

Exactly.

Really do think they need to set up some rules around all this. Not so much what she can do in the bedroom, but more from an emotional side of it. When will they reconnect, what is a hard no to see them doing (eg. Walking in and they’re holding hands, acting like a couple etc.). The same applies to Lauren as well, what does she want out of this? If they can’t agree on what they want out of it (and I’m not saying they can’t, I’m saying they need to discuss it), then it needs to stop.

There’s too many dynamics in this and it will get messy really quickly if they’re not on board with what each other wants.

My opinion - Use Adam for a bit while it’s still hot, then go and find her a real bull with a bigger, thicker cock that will make her forget about Adam and means the dynamics will be a lot less messy.