My wife introduces me to hotwifing.

[coastalkid]

I just read your thread from start to finish. Sometimes it's easier to get a better understanding when a thread has been around a while. I've seen some of your responses in other threads and it took me a while to find yours. I understand this is a sort reflection from the past. I can't recall you mentioning if you and Linda were ever married? You also said that you're old now so are your wild days all behind you now? Did you think age took you out of the game? What ultimately made you decide to give it up?

[coastalkid]

I'm very interested in your posts. Sorry for being late to the game!

[isinlarsa]

I just read your thread from start to finish. Sometimes it's easier to get a better understanding when a thread has been around a while. I've seen some of your responses in other threads and it took me a while to find yours. I understand this is a sort reflection from the past. I can't recall you mentioning if you and Linda were ever married? You also said that you're old now so are your wild days all behind you now? Did you think age took you out of the game? What ultimately made you decide to give it up?

Thank you for commenting. No. Linda and I never married. Linda was Jewish, and her family would not accept her marrying a non-Jew. I did very much want to marry her, and would have desired for her to continue to have sex with other men.

Except for my second wife, all the hotwife activities were back in the 70's and 80s, which should give you some idea of my age.

I've have pretty much aged out of the game. More to the point, my wife feels she too old now for hotwife activities. So, I didn't give it up. My wife did. I would love to have her try "getting back on the horse".

[isinlarsa]

One last story about Frank. Once Linda and I, together with Frank and Carol, hosted a pool party at their condo pool deck. We invited a mixture of our work colleagues and vanilla friends, together with a few of our swinger friends.

Linda went over early to help them set up for the party. I came over later in the afternoon after the party had already started. Given the theme of the party, everyone was in bathing suits, with a lot of the women sporting bikinis. When I arrived Linda was sitting in a pool recliner. I took a seat across from her. A group of us talked for a while, when I notice a wet spot appearing at the crotch of Linda's bikini. It took me a minute to realize it, but Linda was leaking cum.

I thought to myself, "son-of-a-bitch, Frank must have shagged her while they were setting up for the party. Most likely, Carol had taken some party supplies down from their condo to the pool deck leaving Linda and Frank alone. As always, Frank couldn't be left alone with Linda without moving to fuck her.

The spot grew larger, and I thought about doing something to alert Linda to what was being exposed. Everyone knew I had just arrived, so the cum leaking out of hers couldn't have been mine. But it was obvious to anyone sitting opposite Linda that she was leaking cum.

Finally, one of her girlfriends suggested that they get into the hot tub. I watched, as Linda stepped into the hot tub, and slowly lowered herself into the tub. As her bikini bottom sank into the water of the hot tub, the visible evidence of her indiscretion was erased by the hot tub's waters.

After the party I told Linda about what happened, and she was chagrined. I found that I had a certain thrill that Linda's debauchery was revealed to anyone who might have observed it.

[skoot1958]

Nice story thanks for your thread, not a lot you can say, just nice to read about your life

[Happyjohnson]

You certainly have had a very interesting life!

Have you ever had any regrets about having been in the H/W Life style?

I can only presume at some stages there must have been some reservations about other men being safe and not infecting your partner, especially with the advent of AIDS, and at the time it reared its ugly head!

I have had a fascination with the L/S for a long time, but the good lady would never show any interest, I was all she ever wanted!

I am also not too sure, in my own mind, that I could have handled it anyway, so never pushed for it!

[TheMysterian]

Just read this entire thread over the last couple of days and want to thank you for being so forthcoming and detailed in recounting your experiences.

[isinlarsa]

You certainly have had a very interesting life!

Have you ever had any regrets about having been in the H/W Life style?

I can only presume at some stages there must have been some reservations about other men being safe and not infecting your partner, especially with the advent of AIDS, and at the time it reared its ugly head!

I have had a fascination with the L/S for a long time, but the good lady would never show any interest, I was all she ever wanted!

I am also not too sure, in my own mind, that I could have handled it anyway, so never pushed for it!

No regrets. I'm older now, so the memories are precious to me, and I'm glad for the experiences. I'm glad I didn't go through my life without sharing my woman with other men.

With my first wife and Linda, it was back before AIDS made us realize the dangers STDs. We were living in a golden time after the pill and before the realization of the dangers of unprotected sex. Fortunately we dodged the bullet.

Linda did come down with some mild sort of vagina inflection that required antibiotics. Because of the potential that her sex partner might re-infect her, she was told she needed a prescription for him too. Somewhat embarrassed, she told the nurse she needed two prescriptions. This was during the time both Gary and I were her boyfriends.

[magnus]

I somehow missed this thread and just found it today. I have to say I really enjoyed the retelling of your adventures with your Linda and it sounds like they are wonderful memories for you.
If you decide to share more adventures, you can consider me a fan and I will certainly be reading them.
Thanks for sharing.

[Happyjohnson]

isinlarsa, I think you and I are of the same age bracket, but from different continents, mine was Africa!
During my teenage and early 20-30's Penthouse and Playboy were the thing, but had to be imported as were considered banned in our country.

AIDS had not reared its ugly head at that stage, the pill was widely used as were IUD's!

I did manage a swop with a friend of mine and our wives - a 1 time only experience as he was very small and did nothing for my wife - I had no knowledge of his size, (who goes looking! of no interest to me) but his wife and I got along just fine, never had any negative feedback, we still keep in contact! I would have loved a repeat with her, to no avail!

I am unsure if I could have handled my wife being a hotwife, while I was a stay at home dad, I have had many thoughts about it, but the good wife is NOT INTERESTED AT ALL!

[isinlarsa]

isinlarsa, I think you and I are of the same age bracket, but from different continents, mine was Africa!
During my teenage and early 20-30's Penthouse and Playboy were the thing, but had to be imported as were considered banned in our country.

AIDS had not reared its ugly head at that stage, the pill was widely used as were IUD's!

I did manage a swop with a friend of mine and our wives - a 1 time only experience as he was very small and did nothing for my wife - I had no knowledge of his size, (who goes looking! of no interest to me) but his wife and I got along just fine, never had any negative feedback, we still keep in contact! I would have loved a repeat with her, to no avail!

I am unsure if I could have handled my wife being a hotwife, while I was a stay at home dad, I have had many thoughts about it, but the good wife is NOT INTERESTED AT ALL!

It's jumping ahead in my story, but with my second wife I was the stay-at-home dad, and it was a real trip to be staying home taking care of our daughter while my wife was out getting laid. There was something special about enabling my wife's hotwife activities.

[isinlarsa]

Both before and during our time with Frank and Carol Linda would also have solo dates with men she met at sex parties. I guess you could say she took control.

One of my hottest vicarious experiences was to watch her get ready for a date — seeing her trying on different outfits, checking herself out in the mirror, and observing the lingerie she selected. I would imagine that later in the evening another man would be removing her clothing and enjoy seeing her in the sexy lingerie.

I’ll end this chapter with a vignette. She had met a man at a sex party who she enjoyed. He was kind of the male equivalent of a “dumb blonde”. Big, with a good body, but not the sharpest knife in the drawer. But he knew what he was doing in bed.

She didn’t want to waste too much time conversing with him, so she would go over to his house near bedtime and stay overnight. She would get her outfit for the next day together and go to work from his house. Watching her prepare and leave the house always left me with an erection.

One time she got to his house and he was hanging out with some of his buddies. She went through the room where they were hanging out and up to his bedroom.

After she got ready for bed, she got into bed to wait for him. However, he was still gabbing with his friends. So she called down the stairs, “Come up and fuck me.” He quickly ushered his friends out.

When she told me this story it made me laugh and hard at the same time. She did talk about sex graphically, and it was very much in character for her to refer to herself being fucked.

[Hawthorne34]

Just read the whole thread. I love it! I would love to hear more.

[Parsifal]

My thread of commonality with this way of introduction is in having a priori capacity for compersion. Very early in my mid 20s, when I was a History TA, I met a woman, a student of mine, married, 5 years older, trying to seduce me unto her hotwife watching games with her even older husband. For years after that, her story was my go-to thought for the perfect orgasm, solo or with anyone. Gradually I came to teach my wife to find her inner Venus.

[isinlarsa]

My thread of commonality with this way of introduction is in having a priori capacity for compersion. Very early in my mid 20s, when I was a History TA, I met a woman, a student of mine, married, 5 years older, trying to seduce me unto her hotwife watching games with her even older husband. For years after that, her story was my go-to thought for the perfect orgasm, solo or with anyone. Gradually I came to teach my wife to find her inner Venus.

Are you saying she succeeded in seducing you into fucking her while her husband watched? If so, I wish we knew each other in real life. It would be fantastic to have a stud who wanted the husband to watch while he fucked the wife.

Tell me more about teaching your wife to find her inner Venus? Did that involve her liking for you to watch her fucked by other men?

[Parsifal]

My thread of commonality with this way of introduction is in having a priori capacity for compersion. Very early in my mid 20s, when I was a History TA, I met a woman, a student of mine, married, 5 years older, trying to seduce me unto her hotwife watching games with her even older husband. For years after that, her story was my go-to thought for the perfect orgasm, solo or with anyone. Gradually I came to teach my wife to find her inner Venus.

Are you saying she succeeded in seducing you into fucking her while her husband watched? If so, I wish we knew each other in real life. It would be fantastic to have a stud who wanted the husband to watch while he fucked the wife.

My life is full of regrets, this being one. She did not. There's more to the story. She was Meg Ryan cute. She was a paralegal for a big downtown law firm, working toward a BA degree. We were teacher-student and fell hard for each other. The way she presented it doomed it with me because I wasn't ready how to internalize what was coming at me. She acted as if she was in love with me and had an abusive, overcontrolling husband, whose name was John. She - her name was Karla - told me about how on New Year's Eve of the prior year, when she and John fine dining and she in a compromised state of intoxication, John proposed a wife watching experience, to which she claims they toasted in the New Year but later "regretted" and felt trapped. I was so naive I swallowed it hook, line, and sinker. I was too young and stupid to see the whole thing as a ruse to feel me out on being their playmate but present it so as to allow her plausible deniability in case I found the whole situation deplorable, which I did, but not because I was necessarily offended by open marriage but by what appeared to be John's corercive manipulation of this married woman I had fallen for. My impulse then was to rescue her from the fiend. If only then I had the perspective on life and marriage that I do today, decades later, would I have taken an entirely different tack and played along by allowing myself to be "used" in a way to allow her to fulfill her New Year's pact with that devil she had married.

Tell me more about teaching your wife to find her inner Venus? Did that involve her liking for you to watch her fucked by other men?

PM me.

[isinlarsa]

Linda had a number of hot experiences without me. On those occasions she would come back and tell me about them, as we lay in bed. Sometimes they involved a creampie she brought home to me, and sometimes it was while she returned from one of her trips.

One time she went to New York for the weekend with a gay friend of hers (this was before AIDS). On a lark, they went to the New York swingers club. In the club, they both got naked, and she started giving him a blow job in a public room. He might have been gay, but he could enjoy a female mouth. She was down on the floor, between his legs sucking on his cock. She was on her knees with her ass in the air. It must of been too inviting, because a stranger knelt behind her and slide his cock into her. She didn't resist, and actually thought the anonymous sex was hot. So, while she sucked her gay friend, the guy took hold of her hips and fucked her. Over her body, he spoke to her gay friend, saying "She's really tight". (In telling me about this later, she said she felt really proud that he thought her cunt was tight.) it didn't take long before her gay friend came in her mouth, as the stranger came into her unprotected cunt.

After all three disengaged, the stranger introduced himself to her and her gay friend. (Linda said she liked that she could add to her list of sexual exploits that she had been fucked by a man she didn't even see.) The stranger's wife joined them and after a little conversation, they went for round two. This time he fucked Linda missionary style, so they were kissing for the first time, even though this was the second time he had fucked her. Her gay friend rose to the occasion and "took one for the team." He fucked the stranger's wife.

I always thought it was hot to hear about Linda's exploits, the slutty the better.

This was before the fear of AIDS and SDTs, and luckily the unprotected sex had no adverse consequences. It's not something we would do today.

[skoot1958]

Well. You would not get way with that today LOL how the world has changed

[isinlarsa]

Well. You would not get way with that today LOL how the world has changed

For sure. But I'm glad I was there in that time of a lot of bareback sex with a lot of people. It was a golden age, between the advent of the birth control pill and the fear of STDs. Women in particular were able to let themselves go sexually.