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Hoping my fiancé can get a serious relationship going with a nice guy

Unread post by helloguysmywife » Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:08 pm

Hey, I am a cuckold engaged to my fiancé for several years. I am hoping to find a guy that could get into a romantic long term relationship with her. She has been dating one guy for a short while. I am actually hoping that the other guy can talk my fiancé into breaking off her engagement with me, so that She can focus more on him, and I can feel a nice amount of humiliation.
We are working toward me being pussy free as well.
I would like her new boyfriend to have a higher standing with her than I do. I love being her cuckold.
Any advice of how to move this along.

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Re: Hoping my fiancé can get a serious relationship going with a nice guy

Unread post by trecital » Mon Dec 09, 2024 11:53 pm

Just tell her to dump you.

That way you'd be pussy free, which is one of your wishes.

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Unread post by Ready2StartAgain » Tue Dec 10, 2024 2:06 am

helloguysmywife wrote:
Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:08 pm
Hey, I am a cuckold engaged to my fiancé for several years. I am hoping to find a guy that could get into a romantic long term relationship with her. She has been dating one guy for a short while. I am actually hoping that the other guy can talk my fiancé into breaking off her engagement with me, so that She can focus more on him, and I can feel a nice amount of humiliation.
We are working toward me being pussy free as well.
I would like her new boyfriend to have a higher standing with her than I do. I love being her cuckold.
Any advice of how to move this along.
Don't fuck her as much as he does... ensuring she sees him as her "go to" for a good fucking. The rest will happen naturally.

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Unread post by helloguysmywife » Tue Dec 10, 2024 3:48 am

Thanks, I am hoping that she will fuck him much more than me.
That would be so nice if the rest happened naturally.
Such sweet humiliation for a cuckold.

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Unread post by helloguysmywife » Tue Dec 10, 2024 5:16 am

I am thinking of giving my fiancé and her boyfriend a nice gift for their two month anniversary together. I was thinking of giving them a romantic weekend getaway for two, at one of the hotels that do that. I’m not sure if I should tell him or not, that my goal is for her to break off her engagement to me,
for my ultimate cuckold humiliation.
Right now, they are seeing each other weekly. Sometimes he just comes over to our place and takes her to bed, sometimes I’m allowed to watch and sometimes I’m not.
Once in a while they go to dinner first,
and then come home and have sex. My fiancé and I have agreed that no matter what happens, I will always be a servant to
her and her boyfriend. Very excited here.

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Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Tue Dec 10, 2024 7:14 am

helloguysmywife wrote:
Tue Dec 10, 2024 3:48 am
Thanks, I am hoping that she will fuck him much more than me.
That would be so nice if the rest happened naturally.
Such sweet humiliation for a cuckold.
HGMW
- So does your GF publicly go on dates with these guys? If you like humiliation, her going around with other guys for friends and family to see is a sure fire way to receive some.
- You should check out "ucaneffher"s thread. I think you have similar tastes.

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Unread post by helloguysmywife » Tue Dec 10, 2024 8:16 am

Thank you so much, I will definitely check out those threads.
Yes, my girlfriend publicly goes on dates with her boyfriend.
It is one of the things that we really enjoy.
She will show lots of affection at the dinner table out on a date, kissing her boyfriend openly with me there, and with me not there. It is just so exciting.

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Unread post by Island » Tue Dec 10, 2024 2:24 pm

Does he know everything? What is his position in all of this?

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Unread post by WSCuck » Tue Dec 10, 2024 4:34 pm

Trust me you don’t want him to be too nice. She might actually leave him for you. You have to find a balance where he gives her the good seeing to she needs but she still leans on you for emotional support. Once you lose that emotional support she’s gone forever.

I love going out with my wife and her ‘boyfriend’. When they sit and act as a couple, whispering and touching each other in public, leaving me to be the 3rd wheel. I find that more arousing and hotter than watching the actual sex nowadays.

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Unread post by joel68 » Tue Dec 10, 2024 6:30 pm

I believe there was a very similar story a number of years ago ob the board. Anyone remember it?

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Unread post by elina » Tue Dec 10, 2024 11:43 pm

helloguysmywife wrote:
Tue Dec 10, 2024 5:16 am
I am thinking of giving my fiancé and her boyfriend a nice gift for their two month anniversary together. I was thinking of giving them a romantic weekend getaway for two, at one of the hotels that do that. I’m not sure if I should tell him or not, that my goal is for her to break off her engagement to me,
for my ultimate cuckold humiliation.
Right now, they are seeing each other weekly. Sometimes he just comes over to our place and takes her to bed, sometimes I’m allowed to watch and sometimes I’m not.
Once in a while they go to dinner first,
and then come home and have sex. My fiancé and I have agreed that no matter what happens, I will always be a servant to
her and her boyfriend. Very excited here.
I struggle to understand why you want Her to break off the engagement.
I would suggest you should instead make Her understand that you will always love Her and that you accept that She will completely control you sex-life, lock you up in long term chastity and make you Her cuckold-submissive, always there to please Her and whoever She decides to keep as Her bull at any given time.

Why do you want Her to break off the engagement?

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

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Unread post by helloguysmywife » Wed Dec 11, 2024 8:47 am

It is very important to me that my fiancé‘s boyfriend knows that she is completely and totally available to him. I would like him to always comes first, when it comes to my fiancé’s sexuality.
Even if he ends up wanting to get engaged to my fiancé,
it would be just so wonderful for the both of us.
I am ready to become the live-in servant, housemaid, and Butler for the two of them. I am already denied any penetration with my fiancé, so that would just continue. And I would enjoy doing all of their chores for them. I would alsstill be allowed to kiss my fiancé‘s feet while I jerk off.

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Unread post by helloguysmywife » Wed Dec 11, 2024 9:04 am

It is very important to me that my fiancé‘s boyfriend knows that she is 100 percent completely, romantically and totally available to him.
I would like him to always comes first, when it comes to my fiancé’s sexuality.
Even if he ends up wanting to get engaged to my fiancé,
it would be just so wonderful for the both of us.
I am ready to become the live-in servant, housemaid, and Butler for the two of them.
I am already denied any penetration with my fiancé, so that would just continue. And I would enjoy doing all of their chores for them. I would also still be allowed to kiss my fiancé‘s feet while I jerk off.
It would also be very nice for me to get on my knees each day, and kiss my fiancé‘s hand,
with her new engagement ring from her boyfriend.

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Unread post by ucaneffher » Wed Dec 11, 2024 11:24 pm

helloguysmywife wrote:
Mon Dec 09, 2024 2:08 pm
Hey, I am a cuckold engaged to my fiancé for several years. I am hoping to find a guy that could get into a romantic long term relationship with her.

Like lurker34 mention, I also share this fantasy or lifestyle "goal" if you want to call it that. I had an ex who became a hot GF and after many years of fooling around with many men, she finally told me that she was ready for the next step and wanted a boyfriend to connect deeper with and date long term. At that time I was open to it but didn't know it would become my fantasy. It was so incredibly erotic seeing her emotionally and physically completely connected to another man while she was my girlfriend.


She has been dating one guy for a short while. I am actually hoping that the other guy can talk my fiancé into breaking off her engagement with me, so that She can focus more on him, and I can feel a nice amount of humiliation.

It's nice that she is doing exactly what you both want and that is dating another man. While I would not want my girlfriend/fiance to break off a relationship or engagement with me, I admit that I want to see her focus on a relationship with another man. After seeing my ex connecting so deeply with her boyfriend, prioritizing him, and becoming exclusive to him, I admit that my brain was indirectly rewired by her. Despite not having initially wanted that, as a result of my experience of seeing her belong to another man, I want to find myself again with a woman who is my girlfriend or wife but deep down both her and I know that she belongs to the other man.. I still want her to be mine in many ways so breaking up or breaking an engagement would not be an option for me.

There is just something bittersweet yet erotic when you come to realization and acceptance that the woman you love is not only in love with another man who she is in a relationship with but he physically has priority and exclusivity. While you have basically turned into get best friend who loves her and supports her relationship with someone else. It was intense listening to my gf about her relationship and giving her advice just like a friend and not a jealous boyfriend
.

We are working toward me being pussy free as well.

"We" as in your and her idea or your idea that was suggested to her?

My ex made me pussy free twice when she was in two different serious relationships. I never asked nor expressed wanting it but she one night told me her pussy was officially for her boyfriends and the rest was history. I hated it, I bitched and complained for weeks/months. I would deliberately initiate foreplay to get her soaking wet and horny would try to penetrate her. in 12 months of being exclusive to 2 men, she never gave in and enforced the rule 100%. I never managed to penetrate her despite hundreds of attempts.

Eventually I accepted her decision to save herself for her boyfriend. It took adjustment but I got used to it. Fast forward to tonight, I would very willingly give up sex with my girlfriend if she told me she was going to start dating other men and wanted to save herself. Funny how life changes...



I would like her new boyfriend to have a higher standing with her than I do. I love being her cuckold.

Just like you, I want exactly this. In the beginning I was just letting my girlfriend have a boyfriend but overtime he became the primary man. He became the main man that she spent her time with, only one she had sex with, the only one she made love to, the one she went out with on weekends with friends, the one she went away on vacation with.

I wasn't very much into it in the beginning and would complain to her and demanded to also get a piece of her as well. She would always tell me that we would have our time but she was still working on establishing her relationship with her boyfriend and asked me to be patient. For years I watched their relationship grow. I learned to accept and like and after all those years.

Now, I feel like just sexually sharing her doesn't give me that complete feeling of cuckold and have since evolved into the man I am today. Thanks to my ex making me patiently and slowly watch her transition completely to another man, I find myself wanting to repeat the story but at the next level.

Once my girlfriend becomes a fiancée or officially my wife, I would like for us/her to begin the famous transition. Meaning that I'd love to watch her actively dating and searching for my replacement in our bedroom and overall replacement as her main partner. She obviously disclose our arrangement of her being a shared woman. Once her ideal man is found, they date and eventually get serious and become boyfriend/girlfriend. .

After being together for a while to make sure they want something serious, the official transition begins when he moves in with us. She has me move out of our bedroom and into my own bedroom and he moves into her bedroom. It becomes officially their room, they sleep together at night, and at this point they are probably sexually exclusive. In our home, their relationship is primary. They are a couple in our home and they don't hold back around me.

Sex for me is on my birthday and our anniversary. She still sleeps with me in my bedroom where we still talk like best friends, cuddle, and have all forms of sex except penetration. This is done to preserve our intimacy and our connection as husband and wife, although the following night I resume masturbating alone in the dark while I hear them in the middle of the night. The extreme cuckold inside me wants the pain of hearing my wife riding her boyfriend and having an explosive orgasm as she tells him that she loves him, all while knowing I'm in the next room able to hear everything and knowing that she doesn't have to hide anything. She doesn't hide or try to hide that she is his. If anything she brags about being his.

It's a crazy scenario but having already lived seeing my GF belonging to another man for years. It's the next natural progression except that I want to be up close and included in their relationship while it is happening. I felt too excluded in the first one but feel that this arrangement would be more manageable as long as all 3 are on board.


Any advice of how to move this along.
In summary... originally I only wanted my gf to sleep around but after years of that, she wanted more. We discussed and I was supportive and gave her my blessing. I was also turned on by it so I continued being supportive and encouraging her to have a relationship with another man.

Several years with her boyfriend turned into him becoming the main man and making me the side guy or secondary man. Initially I objected when I didn't get priority or sex but she would sweet talk me or seduce/tease into being patient.

I believe that seeing my girlfriend belong to another man and seeing her doing everything with him while having me on-call for when she had downtime/free time while he was not available- I think that did something to me. I feel like it reprogrammed me and left me with that desire for that arrangement. It wasn't overnight, it took several years of seeing them in love and being public with their relationship. I'm not so sure that I would like in the future for my partner to publicly belong to another man but I am certainly up for it behind closed doors in our home.

In my past relationship it became almost normal for her to be his and I think if my current partner and I somehow landed in this type of arrangement, I would also want it to be become normal. The 3 of us being on the same page and in our home behind closed doors it's totally normal for him to be her primary partner and the 3 of us agree with it and want it.

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Re: Hoping my fiancé can get a serious relationship going with a nice guy

Unread post by helloguysmywife » Sat Dec 14, 2024 4:29 am

Has anyone had an engagement broken off, or gotten a divorce for the sake of the hotwife and her bull?

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Unread post by PANTIES » Sat Dec 14, 2024 8:55 am

We are not divorced, however she moved in with this past July a month before she gave birth to his baby. She’s pregnant a second time by him, she has no intent to return .

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