Did your Girlfriend or wife pick a guy who you did not like. Maybe he did not treat her right and she could not see it. Maybe he was the opposite of you?
Maybe he treated you rude even after your wife ask him not too.
How did you handle it?
My friends wife was this way. She would make excuses for his rude behavior. She finally stopped seeing him. She hasn't had another lover since.
What if you did not like her lover
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little sissy Benita
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Re: What if you did not like her lover
A wife/hotwife should take all bf/lovers what she like - the cuck have in this case nothing to say.
My mommy /former wife don´t need permission from her little daughter and baby wich lover she take - i have to accept it and have to be a good behaved baby(little daughter
little Benita
My mommy /former wife don´t need permission from her little daughter and baby wich lover she take - i have to accept it and have to be a good behaved baby(little daughter
little Benita
Re: What if you did not like her lover
I agree about not having any power in the marriage. I love it. My wife will correct me on the spot in public or private. She will ask me to explain myself. She will listen, then state her decision. This makes her decision law.little sissy Benita wrote: ↑Thu Dec 12, 2024 3:58 amA wife/hotwife should take all bf/lovers what she like - the cuck have in this case nothing to say.
My mommy /former wife don´t need permission from her little daughter and baby wich lover she take - i have to accept it and have to be a good behaved baby(little daughter
little Benita
If I do not like a certain act I will not say anything. It took years for my wife to be OK with being the leader in our marriage. She say's I am a better husband now. I was messing up as a husband, but I did not know I needed guidance. A therapist suggested I would never be mature enough to lead.
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little sissy Benita
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Re: What if you did not like her lover
I agree about not having any power in the marriage. I love it. My wife will correct me on the spot in public or private. She will ask me to explain myself. She will listen, then state her decision. This makes her decision law.
If I do not like a certain act I will not say anything. It took years for my wife to be OK with being the leader in our marriage. She say's I am a better husband now. I was messing up as a husband, but I did not know I needed guidance. A therapist suggested I would never be mature enough to lead.
I failed as husband and father - and i am very happy and grateful that she is living with an superior african man as married couple in the house. As her husband he has the right to penetrate her and inseminate her - and made her pregnant how often he like - as good behaved little daugher and baby i beg him for more black siblings.
It is absolutely right that the kids call him daddy and not me - they see that I am a little girl and a little baby - they see that I need Pampers and get infant formula from baby bottles - and i have to share the baby room with the black babies and also sleep in a baby bed - I obey mommy's husband, my daddy and the African ladies in everything they say - I don't backtalk
They said that I have to be a little girl and a baby and I accept it - they said that I would be anti potty trained and I did well and now I wear Pampers 24/7 - they said that I am not allowed to stay in the bedroom and have to move to the baby room and I did - they said that I belong in a baby bed and since then I have slept in a baby bed, which was difficult at first - they said that I can only wear baby hairstyles and I have only worn baby hairstyles since then - they said that i must use pacifiers and i did - of couse also on the go. They say, it give no reason to hide it from neigbors or others - it is absolute ok when they see that you failed as husband and father and that you are demoted and replaced - and see waht you really are - a very little girl - a little daughter and a baby
He is the head of the family now
The ladies of his family take care of the black babies, toddlers and me - and i have learned to obey them in any case
When they say, take your changing mat, panty diaper and so on and come back into living room . i run into baby room and do it.
I know that i get now diapered in front of all - but i know too that this is nessersary. So great that there is no way back for me
little Benita
If I do not like a certain act I will not say anything. It took years for my wife to be OK with being the leader in our marriage. She say's I am a better husband now. I was messing up as a husband, but I did not know I needed guidance. A therapist suggested I would never be mature enough to lead.
I failed as husband and father - and i am very happy and grateful that she is living with an superior african man as married couple in the house. As her husband he has the right to penetrate her and inseminate her - and made her pregnant how often he like - as good behaved little daugher and baby i beg him for more black siblings.
It is absolutely right that the kids call him daddy and not me - they see that I am a little girl and a little baby - they see that I need Pampers and get infant formula from baby bottles - and i have to share the baby room with the black babies and also sleep in a baby bed - I obey mommy's husband, my daddy and the African ladies in everything they say - I don't backtalk
They said that I have to be a little girl and a baby and I accept it - they said that I would be anti potty trained and I did well and now I wear Pampers 24/7 - they said that I am not allowed to stay in the bedroom and have to move to the baby room and I did - they said that I belong in a baby bed and since then I have slept in a baby bed, which was difficult at first - they said that I can only wear baby hairstyles and I have only worn baby hairstyles since then - they said that i must use pacifiers and i did - of couse also on the go. They say, it give no reason to hide it from neigbors or others - it is absolute ok when they see that you failed as husband and father and that you are demoted and replaced - and see waht you really are - a very little girl - a little daughter and a baby
He is the head of the family now
The ladies of his family take care of the black babies, toddlers and me - and i have learned to obey them in any case
When they say, take your changing mat, panty diaper and so on and come back into living room . i run into baby room and do it.
I know that i get now diapered in front of all - but i know too that this is nessersary. So great that there is no way back for me
little Benita
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submissivedanny
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Re: What if you did not like her lover
I really have no say in her lovers. That being said my wife would never allow her lover to mistreat me. Her lover has spanked me but it was for being rude and it was with my wife's permission.
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Re: What if you did not like her lover
Incredibly, we haven't had a lot of low points or disagreements over a 15-year cuckold marriage.
The most notable one that we did have occurred after my wife joined a somewhat prestigious private club in town, which we started attending periodically for social events, dinners, etc. There was one man there, a very arrogant lawyer who even despite not knowing about the lifestyle we lived, pretty much openly hit on my wife anyway and made a number of "just joking" references to the fact that my wife's income is what got us into this club and not mine.
I could tell by how she was looking at him that she was attracted to him, and one night when we got home I did say, explicitly, that if there is one man I would not want her to sleep with, it was him, and please do not see him. She did not ever specifically reassure me that she wouldn't; she would say don't take him so seriously, he is just kidding you. I would reply that I just didn't like him and that I hoped she'd respect that one request.
She did start sleeping with him, which she did not tell me until after I'd found out. I expressed how hurt I was that she wouldn't just one time agree not to sleep with just one man out of all the men she'd seen. She pointed out that she'd never promised not to sleep with him, and that I was the one who had given her the freedom to sleep with whomever she wanted and that now I was trying to claw it back, make it conditional on who I approved of.
Our argument danced around two sides of the same coin: mine being you can sleep with whomever you want and I've never before laid down any restriction: why this guy? Her counterpoint: what you're saying is that no, I can't sleep with whomever I want, your approval may be required in certain cases. Besides, you've now been cuckolded (at this point) by approximately two dozen men in nearly a decade and yet it is just this one individual that is a problem?
We settled on a sort of impasse; she would continue to go out to see him, or come home late having been with him, and some nights we just wouldn't talk. It didn't feel right at all.
He ran his course with her relatively soon and in the end, she was somewhat sheepishly apologetic while I was likewise genuinely sorry that I'd picked this one guy to make an issue of.
Ironically, one of her current lovers is also a member of that club and it is also somewhat of an open secret that they have been having an affair for the past three years, although they did not meet there, they met online and recognized each other from the club: small world. I have a great relationship to this guy despite the fact that he has probably caused me more humiliation than the lawyer guy ever did.
I will add, that the heady cocktail of emotions that comes with your wife sleeping with someone over your objections, at least in my experience, made me feel as truly, classically cuckolded as I have ever felt. In retrospect and in some ways, I feel it was the most genuine, authentic cuckolding I have yet experienced.
The most notable one that we did have occurred after my wife joined a somewhat prestigious private club in town, which we started attending periodically for social events, dinners, etc. There was one man there, a very arrogant lawyer who even despite not knowing about the lifestyle we lived, pretty much openly hit on my wife anyway and made a number of "just joking" references to the fact that my wife's income is what got us into this club and not mine.
I could tell by how she was looking at him that she was attracted to him, and one night when we got home I did say, explicitly, that if there is one man I would not want her to sleep with, it was him, and please do not see him. She did not ever specifically reassure me that she wouldn't; she would say don't take him so seriously, he is just kidding you. I would reply that I just didn't like him and that I hoped she'd respect that one request.
She did start sleeping with him, which she did not tell me until after I'd found out. I expressed how hurt I was that she wouldn't just one time agree not to sleep with just one man out of all the men she'd seen. She pointed out that she'd never promised not to sleep with him, and that I was the one who had given her the freedom to sleep with whomever she wanted and that now I was trying to claw it back, make it conditional on who I approved of.
Our argument danced around two sides of the same coin: mine being you can sleep with whomever you want and I've never before laid down any restriction: why this guy? Her counterpoint: what you're saying is that no, I can't sleep with whomever I want, your approval may be required in certain cases. Besides, you've now been cuckolded (at this point) by approximately two dozen men in nearly a decade and yet it is just this one individual that is a problem?
We settled on a sort of impasse; she would continue to go out to see him, or come home late having been with him, and some nights we just wouldn't talk. It didn't feel right at all.
He ran his course with her relatively soon and in the end, she was somewhat sheepishly apologetic while I was likewise genuinely sorry that I'd picked this one guy to make an issue of.
Ironically, one of her current lovers is also a member of that club and it is also somewhat of an open secret that they have been having an affair for the past three years, although they did not meet there, they met online and recognized each other from the club: small world. I have a great relationship to this guy despite the fact that he has probably caused me more humiliation than the lawyer guy ever did.
I will add, that the heady cocktail of emotions that comes with your wife sleeping with someone over your objections, at least in my experience, made me feel as truly, classically cuckolded as I have ever felt. In retrospect and in some ways, I feel it was the most genuine, authentic cuckolding I have yet experienced.
Wearing the cuckold's horns since 2009
Re: What if you did not like her lover
It would be a super hot fantasy for a cuckold like me to have to deal with a disagreeable guy who moves in and charms my wife. She would make excuses for him and try to mediate but ultimately side with him. She might pressure me to compromise and conform to his wishes. And then one fine day she would get strict and tell me that I will be punished if I don’t start accepting his authority as the man of the house. And failing that, she would have to proceed with punishing me. No doubt she would get her lover to give me a sound ass whipping and then lock me up in chastity for disrespecting her lover. I might have to suck his cock as a way of showing my submission and respect.
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And following the scenario above, my wife would make me dress in panties and stand facing the corner while her lover has his way with her. And afterwards she might call me over to lick her clean and apologize to her lover and promise to respect him as the man of the house.
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I wouldn’t care. As long as she is satisfied that’s all that matters. If he’s rough and treats her like shit it can be even more enthralling. You have to sit back and watch this dickhead fuck her when he wants, whilst you treat her like a princess and you get the scraps. If you’re lucky. That’s all part of being a cuck.
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Re: What if you did not like her lover
Our playing is for the two of us, not the guy we chose to fuck her, we call them toys. If either of us has a problem with a guy we just drop them. I enjoy watching and masturbating when my wife has sex with another guy. She love the sight of me watching, she says it adds so much excitement to look over at me masturbating while I watch.
Husband enjoys masturbating, wife enjoys giving him a good show to masturbate to, whether it's watching the wife having sex with other men or just playing with the many toys in the playroom.
Re: What if you did not like her lover
My wife decides on her lovers. I have 2 options, like it or lump it. I've found a few I wasn't drawn to but she fucked them anyway. I got along with the rest and some have become good friends. Any that have been rude she dismissed immediately.