Wife feeling old

[Benvaz2731]

We are about to celebrate 40 years of marriage in 2025 and I made a list today of the men I absolutely know my wife has fucked and there are 27 men on that list 4 of them fucked her in front of me but my wife preferred to fuck then in a hotel and then tell me about when we fucked. Those are just the ones I know about as my wife loved to go clubbing without me and she’d fuck random strangers in her car in the parking lot I swear that’s true I can’t tell you how many times she’s come home with no bra or panties that she was wearing when she left so I’m guessing she’s actually fucked or sucked closer to 50 men. Anyway as she got closer to 50 years old she started losing her desire to fuck other men because she feels that she’s not as hot as she was when she was younger. Now she’s dead wrong my wife is definitely a milf and just 2 years ago while on a cruise she got drunk and disappeared for a few hours and I found out later she got picked up by a 20 something year old kid and he fucked her for like 90 minutes she was so turned he became only the third guy she let fuck her ass (me of course and a guy she had a 12 year affair with she only does that with guys she cares about but that day she said was so horny that when he asked she said yes) so based on that I know it still turns her on but she’s suddenly become very conscious of her age and doesn’t think men find her desirable anymore. I suggested we go in a cruise with the guy she had the affair with and trust me he’s all in but she’s hesitant since they haven’t fucked in almost 10 years she’s worried about getting naked in front of him. I love my wife but her getting fucked by other men is a huge turn on and although retelling of old war stories is great there’s nothing like having her come and say to me “babe I got fucked today and he came on my face” as she’s leading me into the bedroom. Other than that cruise it hasn’t happened in over 5 years. Miss my slut wife but hopefully I can convince her to go on this cruise. Wish me luck. I have pics and videos I’d like to share with some of you she never let me video any of the cuck sessions but I’ve taped myself fucking with her a few times.

[RkeCpl4-Explor]

Good luck. I hope you guys go on the cruise. I am sure she is still hot, but women need reassurance. When they play and it goes good, that is usually the best reassurance.

[zorro]

And, as you mention, alcohol dissolves inhibitions that likely helped her feel free enough to fuck and ass fuck.

From all you say about your beautiful wife, she seems to have a self-confidence problem. When she was ready, as she demonstrated, she sure found a guy who desired to take her.

It is always hard for the husband to convince a woman who has become disappointed in her maturing body. Sure, it is good for you to reassure her how desirable she is, but in the end (so to speak) she will likely need experiences when men come on to her. Your loving and sexual response to her is about the best you can do. But you are, as I bet she would say, "biased," so she can easily discount your praise.

Any possible settings like this? Like the dance floor? Because she can get drunk, I wouldn't recommend a bar, especially if she is on her own.

I would love to hear from some of the HWs here. As the years have gone by, how have you dealt with the inevitable aging process so you can still keep sexually enjoying other men?

[Aussiem]

I know how you feel. My wife was a player for 40 years, but stopped when she was 66. I so enjoy thinking back on those times and wishing she would do it again. A happy life is a cum filled wife.

[hornedhubby]

I'm going thru a similar situation with my Mary Poppins wife (practically perfect in every way). She's a grandmother now, and that's the most important thing and part of her identity. She also still works fulltime, albeit conveniently from a home office.

I suppose it's asking and expecting too much. But I'd also like her to wake up her naughty side and be playful again. Celebrate what we still have, which is a lot.

I'll be watching what others suggest for you.

One thing I think you might consider is a simpler reunion with her hot and younger cruse hook up. Is he close enough just to visit for dinner and dessert at your place? A one night special event. Easier for her to plan for. Less anxiety than feeling she has to give him hot sex constantly for three or four nights.

And, if not that guy, maybe someone closer by that she recalls fondly and would be an easy and simple chance to play and reenter the game.

[little sissy Benita]

Age is only a word - no reason to take fun away

little Benita

[usmcdoc50]

what your missing is the " change " that happen in the age around 53" desire fryness n a mind that goes fuzzy

[beachguy999]

We are about to celebrate 40 years of marriage in 2025 and I made a list today of the men I absolutely know my wife has fucked and there are 27 men on that list 4 of them fucked her in front of me but my wife preferred to fuck then in a hotel and then tell me about when we fucked. Those are just the ones I know about as my wife loved to go clubbing without me and she’d fuck random strangers in her car in the parking lot I swear that’s true I can’t tell you how many times she’s come home with no bra or panties that she was wearing when she left so I’m guessing she’s actually fucked or sucked closer to 50 men. Anyway as she got closer to 50 years old she started losing her desire to fuck other men because she feels that she’s not as hot as she was when she was younger. Now she’s dead wrong my wife is definitely a milf and just 2 years ago while on a cruise she got drunk and disappeared for a few hours and I found out later she got picked up by a 20 something year old kid and he fucked her for like 90 minutes she was so turned he became only the third guy she let fuck her ass (me of course and a guy she had a 12 year affair with she only does that with guys she cares about but that day she said was so horny that when he asked she said yes) so based on that I know it still turns her on but she’s suddenly become very conscious of her age and doesn’t think men find her desirable anymore. I suggested we go in a cruise with the guy she had the affair with and trust me he’s all in but she’s hesitant since they haven’t fucked in almost 10 years she’s worried about getting naked in front of him. I love my wife but her getting fucked by other men is a huge turn on and although retelling of old war stories is great there’s nothing like having her come and say to me “babe I got fucked today and he came on my face” as she’s leading me into the bedroom. Other than that cruise it hasn’t happened in over 5 years. Miss my slut wife but hopefully I can convince her to go on this cruise. Wish me luck. I have pics and videos I’d like to share with some of you she never let me video any of the cuck sessions but I’ve taped myself fucking with her a few times.

You got to get get her with someone younger. If someone younger is aroused by her and fucks her she'll feel validated. I offer myself as tribute ha

[Natatude]

I went through a 2 year period feeling like that, I just answered this same thing in
Another post. I felt like I was getting old, it took some talking from my lover and husband to not give up, I’m still hot and can fuck like no tomorrow! So I started up again. I hope she goes on the cruise. In Oct 25’ we are taking a cruise for a week with my lover for our 31st anniversary together! 🥰

[mwc33]

I went through a 2 year period feeling like that, I just answered this same thing in
Another post. I felt like I was getting old, it took some talking from my lover and husband to not give up, I’m still hot and can fuck like no tomorrow! So I started up again. I hope she goes on the cruise. In Oct 25’ we are taking a cruise for a week with my lover for our 31st anniversary together! 🥰

[SCBlknNsty]

We are about to celebrate 40 years of marriage in 2025 and I made a list today of the men I absolutely know my wife has fucked and there are 27 men on that list 4 of them fucked her in front of me but my wife preferred to fuck then in a hotel and then tell me about when we fucked. Those are just the ones I know about as my wife loved to go clubbing without me and she’d fuck random strangers in her car in the parking lot I swear that’s true I can’t tell you how many times she’s come home with no bra or panties that she was wearing when she left so I’m guessing she’s actually fucked or sucked closer to 50 men. Anyway as she got closer to 50 years old she started losing her desire to fuck other men because she feels that she’s not as hot as she was when she was younger. Now she’s dead wrong my wife is definitely a milf and just 2 years ago while on a cruise she got drunk and disappeared for a few hours and I found out later she got picked up by a 20 something year old kid and he fucked her for like 90 minutes she was so turned he became only the third guy she let fuck her ass (me of course and a guy she had a 12 year affair with she only does that with guys she cares about but that day she said was so horny that when he asked she said yes) so based on that I know it still turns her on but she’s suddenly become very conscious of her age and doesn’t think men find her desirable anymore. I suggested we go in a cruise with the guy she had the affair with and trust me he’s all in but she’s hesitant since they haven’t fucked in almost 10 years she’s worried about getting naked in front of him. I love my wife but her getting fucked by other men is a huge turn on and although retelling of old war stories is great there’s nothing like having her come and say to me “babe I got fucked today and he came on my face” as she’s leading me into the bedroom. Other than that cruise it hasn’t happened in over 5 years. Miss my slut wife but hopefully I can convince her to go on this cruise. Wish me luck. I have pics and videos I’d like to share with some of you she never let me video any of the cuck sessions but I’ve taped myself fucking with her a few times.

When's the last time you gave her a wolf whistle?
Called her babygirl?
Referred to her as your sweet young thing?

[WillsRebecca2025]

Hello. Older gal here. I’m in my 50’s. I used to be quite an active hot wife. But when I got older my body began to change and my desire also began to change. Most likely due to hormones. It’s so hard watching your figure begin to age as well as your face. Wrinkles, fat that appears in places it once was not. It’s quite discouraging and it really plays mind games with some women. It has with me.
I have a hard time believing a man would find me sexy as I don’t even find myself the least bit sexy.
My husband says I am attractive but I need to find that within myself to be able to let go and let someone see me in the nude.
Society does not do a good job of honoring aging women. If anything it makes us feel not enough and that our best days have passed us by. Interestingly enough we have so much knowledge about life now and so much to give to others.
I hope I can get to a place where I feel good enough to share myself again. I keep telling myself if I lose a little weight etc… But I know that it is really up to me to love myself and all that I am in order to be able to feel comfortable being an older hot wife.
I understand all that your wife is experiencing. I too have other interests in my life that I didn’t have prior. Such as grandchildren. Who are a joy for me.
The only advice I could give is to not pressure her. My husband doesn’t pressure me but has always told me I can do whatever I want. So I know I can choose to if I please. But he also knows I may never and he will just have to remember the times in the past. Best to you and your sweet wife.

[kaskap79]

Through all my 60 years or at least the years since I began to look at women, I have always thought the women around my age was the sexiest ones.
Yes, the body changes but so does the mens. And the personality is much more important than the body.
So, cheer up, a lot of men are still looking out for you lovely Ladies.

[Thebestdays1]

One of the sexiest and most sexually fulfilling women my ex wife and I have ever been with was in her late 60's, when we we in our mid thirties. We never had a threesome together as my wife was too shy to let me see her with a woman. My wife did have a threesome with her, although I don't know many details. I've also had one threesome with her and her boss' au pair and she had as much energy as the younger woman.
She was a colleague of my wife's and they became lovers six months before this lady seduced me at a staff party. My wife was never able to spend a long time with her friend but I did. My wife used to spend her Mondays with her boyfriend and I used to arrange my shifts so that I'd spend the day with her friend. This woman was insatiable and gave me some of the best sex of my life. She'd even use a vibrator on herself to help me recover after I'd just cum. I could call in on her on my way to work and she'd give me a blowjob in her hallway. My wife could call in on her briefly and have a 69 and be back in time to cook the kid's dinner and they'd occasionally get the opportunity for a quickie at work. She wasn't slim and although my ex wife and I are both into small tits, her large, braless tits were a huge turn on for both of us.
She was in her 70's when she moved away to be closer to her daughter but 30 years later, my wife and I still masturbate over the memories of our times with this incredible woman.

[sc7557]

We are about to celebrate 40 years of marriage in 2025 and I made a list today of the men I absolutely know my wife has fucked and there are 27 men on that list 4 of them fucked her in front of me but my wife preferred to fuck then in a hotel and then tell me about when we fucked. Those are just the ones I know about as my wife loved to go clubbing without me and she’d fuck random strangers in her car in the parking lot I swear that’s true I can’t tell you how many times she’s come home with no bra or panties that she was wearing when she left so I’m guessing she’s actually fucked or sucked closer to 50 men. Anyway as she got closer to 50 years old she started losing her desire to fuck other men because she feels that she’s not as hot as she was when she was younger. Now she’s dead wrong my wife is definitely a milf and just 2 years ago while on a cruise she got drunk and disappeared for a few hours and I found out later she got picked up by a 20 something year old kid and he fucked her for like 90 minutes she was so turned he became only the third guy she let fuck her ass (me of course and a guy she had a 12 year affair with she only does that with guys she cares about but that day she said was so horny that when he asked she said yes) so based on that I know it still turns her on but she’s suddenly become very conscious of her age and doesn’t think men find her desirable anymore. I suggested we go in a cruise with the guy she had the affair with and trust me he’s all in but she’s hesitant since they haven’t fucked in almost 10 years she’s worried about getting naked in front of him. I love my wife but her getting fucked by other men is a huge turn on and although retelling of old war stories is great there’s nothing like having her come and say to me “babe I got fucked today and he came on my face” as she’s leading me into the bedroom. Other than that cruise it hasn’t happened in over 5 years. Miss my slut wife but hopefully I can convince her to go on this cruise. Wish me luck. I have pics and videos I’d like to share with some of you she never let me video any of the cuck sessions but I’ve taped myself fucking with her a few times.

I'm younger, I'll give her a go for you