Do you ever feel ashamed of a cuckold thought? Do you get turned on by that feeling of shame?

[Cuck4Life]

As I have posted many times on the forum my exwife was openly sexually active while we dated and also during our marriage. She screwed many of my fiends and coworkers and some of her coworkers. I never felt ashamed about being cuckolded and I cherished the emotions I experienced by her being so open about her sexual play. I do recall a few times when I would be alittle embarrassed being around a guy the first time after they had had sex.

[1_chammer]

I feel ashamed after I jack off with other cucks…. But I NEED that thrill… It’s a secret life of mine. Anyone in my boat?

[Thebestdays1]

When I was married, my wife's family knew about our open marriage. If my wife wanted to go away for a weekend with her boyfriend she'd always choose a weekend that I was working so she'd ask her mum if our children could stay with her.
I'd drop them off on the Saturday morning and pick them up on the Sunday afternoon. When I'd arrive to pick them up there'd be a few hours before my wife would be due home so I'd stay at the MIL's house and the rest of her family would be there to. When I walked through the door, everyone would look at me and they all knew that my wife would still be having sex with her boyfriend at that moment.
Even though I'd been involved with the eldest sister for all of my marriage and I'd recently started playing with the younger sister, I always felt a sense of shame as I met her family. Then the innuendo's would start and my embarrassment would grow, especially when the MIL made comments. For some reason I found the whole experience hugely arousing, especially when I was teased about wanting to hear what she'd been up to and being able to wank myself off after going without for so long.

[Beardedweirdo]

Read this thread with interest because I do not feel shame. No, I have not told anyone outside of us two but it's not shame that holds me back. Just don't think it's anyone else's business and I can't be bothered with the reactions. But I don't feel shame. I think thats because in the two long term relationships of my life (4 years and 21 years and counting), both women have treated my desires with respect. I know it's a common place fetish and it's my normal.

What turns me on is more the erotification of fears of being cheated on. Early on in both long term relationships I had deep insecurity and paranoia that I would be cheated on and hurt and turned that into an erotic desire to be cuckolded. I think, maybe, there are different reasons for different people that drives us to want to be cuckolded.

[marine20]

i'm not ashamed of anything sexual. i'm not ashamed of sucking cock , getting my ass fucked , or letting my wife act like a fucking whore , getting all three holes fucked. we should get as much pleasure as we can while we are here.

[stonemtncouple]

Never felt shame.
I think it's absurd how some in USA society look down on ethical nonmonogamy.
My wife owns herself. She owns her pussy. She does not belong to me like property. If fucking another man brings her joy then Im all for it! Plus I just love watching her enjoy sex! Love it !

[discreetlys husband]

I agree with Stonemtncouple.

[hornedhubby]

For me the answers are: no, but I used to, and no, never.

When I was in my 20's I was already deploying some of my kinkiest fantasies when I masturbated. All involved a pretty slutty version of my lovely wife fucking other guys and/or dominating me. Back then, I would feel a twinge of shame and guilt after ejaculating. I figured they came from my upbringing, our marriage vows and from knowing that my wife might not appreciate the edgy stuff I imagined her enjoying in my alternative universe.

Gradually, even those twinges faded in intensity and were entirely gone before I turned 30. After that, no guilt and no shame. Instead, I was all but certain I wanted to play these games in real life.

[AZPainter]

I'm amazed at how many "out" cuckolds there must be. So you guys are saying that you have no shame, but there is some other reason why you are closeted. It's been my experience that most cucks are extremely ashamed, and will only open up in private or when they feel their anonymity is being protected.

Oh, yeah, I guess I could mention that I do have shame associated with cuckolding. I don't think it's the shame that turns me on at all, as a matter of fact that shame has always been a turn off for me. I find the turn on comes when I am able to get past shame and just be in the moment.

I clicked on the feel no shame and I don't, that said maybe it was because of the way I became a cuckold. My wife was very sexually active before we married and while we dated and I was aware of it to some extent, but once we married I felt she would stop playing the field and settle down, rather naive on my part I learned after about a year into our marriage when I found out she was still doing it. I have told this story here in other threads, so I won't go into everything. When I found out I was upset. This was some anger for being lied to, some hurt and maybe a little jealousy all at the same time. But a strange thing happened while we were having our talks about her cheating. Not so strange I know now, but back then in the late 1960's and early 70's it was strange to me. What happened as we talked I was also becoming aroused to the point I felt what seemed like an iron bar for a cock in my pants. I kept wanting to hear more details of what she did with other men.

The more I heard the more excited I became. It really turned me on and I think this is what allowed us to come to an agreement to let her continue having sex with other men, but I wanted to stay informed with details. This agreement worked for roughly 12 years before her drinking and getting into drugs fairly heavy became to much for me and we divorced. The extramarital sex had nothing to do with the divorce, but it was the drugs and alcohol that just to much.

As for the feelings when our agreement was working I felt all the same excitement and emotions others have expressed when the wife was with others or even when allowed to watch and in some cases, like ours, participate some. But shame was not in the mix of emotions. I can only add that if it was, it was confused for being what caused some of the other emotions I felt Not being a psychologist I can't say, other than if there I did not recognize it as shame.