Outed

[Rogueuser1]

I have written about this before so will keep it short.
When we first started out and were on AFF our discrete photos showed enough for someone to join the dots
When we ended up meeting them they were my wife’s best friends parents and really good friends with her parents
Thankfully they were experienced and we had a great time with them for several years. He shared Kelly with a few of her dads friends.
So I guess we were outed but only in a positive way.

That is hot! Hopefully the search function lets me find where you talked about it before. Does the best friend have any idea that your wife fucked her dad? Do you think she even knows her parents are in the lifestyle or have they managed to keep her completely in the dark?

[DebsHub]

I've written before on here about this.

Many years ago, my wife was the mayor of a small town in New England. She was having an affair (which I and several of our acquaintances knew about) with another person on the town council. About a year later, another councilperson resigned and in the resignation letter mentioned the "inappropriate relationship" of two members in town government as one of the many reasons for the resignation. Writing about the story, a young reporter (who had heard the gossip) for the local weekly paper identified my wife and her lover by name. I was outed as a cuck to the entire town.

[canadianwittol]

That's about a humiliating as it gets. You were the butt of jokes that you never even heard; and probably the butt of some others that you did.

I don't think I could deal with being the town laughingstock, I certainly do commend your abilities of perseverance to get through a situation like that.

I've written before on here about this.

Many years ago, my wife was the mayor of a small town in New England. She was having an affair (which I and several of our acquaintances knew about) with another person on the town council. About a year later, another councilperson resigned and in the resignation letter mentioned the "inappropriate relationship" of two members in town government as one of the many reasons for the resignation. Writing about the story, a young reporter (who had heard the gossip) for the local weekly paper identified my wife and her lover by name. I was outed as a cuck to the entire town.

[Long Lurker 34]

I actually outed myself due to a technical error on my PC. Was chatting with my wife about her new Fuck buddy, and we were discussing the cock cage, when whatsapp did an update and took the focus. I didn't notice and kept typing and hit send. This went to family friend, a very nice lady. Before I was able to realize what had happened she replied with "This is very interesting, I want to know more". The message was intended to my wife and mentioned how I had booked the hotel for them that afternoon and that I had already locked the cage.

VMB69
- Like your family friend we too want to know more. What happened with this family friend, speaking with your wife, asking about your cage and other related things. Did anything ever come of it?

She told me she always knew my wife was in charge and that the message confirmed it. I told her to please delete the message and to please not say anything to anyone. This was a year ago. Since then she asked me a lot of questions, and at this point knows everything. The good thing is that she also has friends that were swinger's so wasn't shocked by it and she also goes to nudist theme places. She did ask me if she could see the cage, so I sent her Pic of the cage itself and then she said no I want to seenin use. So I sent her a Pic of it on me. She laughed and said she had guessed my wife needed more but never thought it was that small.

VMB69
- Gee i think when your HW goes out on a date she should have your FF come over and keep an eye on you.

[Dream Weaver]

I was outed as a cuck wannabe and as submissive to my wife, N, when she was on a work trip in 2010.

This was a slice of time where we were both embracing the Queen/subby aspect of our marriage. She and two other close friends and co-workers were drinking wine and talking in N's hotel room. One of them, S, who happened to be the nosiest and snoopiest person ever, picked up N's open lap top and began looking at it, even dropping out of the conversation for 30 minutes or so. N thought S was just scrolling her Facebook page.

But when the two friends left for the night, N realized she had left her e-mail inbox open, including a long, meant-to-be encouraging and entertaining message from me, both celebrating my subservience to my wife and urging her to get an awesome, big cock fucking while she was on the road. Detailed and kinky. Please do him again in the morning before you take the plane home. Bring me the creampie! Hope he balls your brains out. Can't wait to eat your royal pussy!

S had almost certainly read that entire message and perhaps several others (the themes were in the subject titles) from me in her inbox. And chances were nearly 100 percent that she would share these outrageous contents with the other friend who had been present when they flew home together the next day. They were nearly best friends, and there was no way S was going to sit on a secret like this.

N came home and told me what happened. She also was nonchalant and said she didn't give a shit if they knew about our dynamic.

Frankly, being outed excited the hell out of me. I'd had many interactions with both of them prior to this. Even cooked a girl's night dinner for the three of them a couple times. Thought they liked me. Hearing what happened I fantasized about N ordering me to serve them in kinky submissive fashion the next time. And N seemed open to that.

So, before their next work trip together, about a month later, I encouraged N to try bragging a little about having a submissive and permissive cuck hubby. In an effort, first, to confirm that S had definitely read her messages.

N tried that probe. Unfortunately, S responded to N's vague query with an angry, jealous rage about her own horseshit marriage. This response made N feel guity and angry with herself and with me for pushing her to get confirmation. I got a lecture - an unpleasant lecture - about it that night.

So the outing, for me, was a complete backfire. Didn't really mess up N's friendship with S and P. It's still on-going.

But, honestly, since this incident, S has treated me like a perverted creep and P not as warmly as she once did.

And it blunted the momentum and high-water mark I'd nurtured in encouraging my wife to embrace her natural dominance and explore her sexual boundaries.

A bummer. Careful what you wish for, I guess.

It's funny how on the one hand you think and hope that everybody can be on the same wavelength, only to find out her friend is a self absorbed dipshit who makes it all about her. What a twat.

In my case I'd be a fool to think only my wife, the guy and nobody else in our circle knows. People talk. But nobody ever made it obvious they knew.

[hornedhubby]

Thanks for your empathy, dream.

Even worse, N had helped promote S out of the approver ranks into the tech section, mentored and taught her configuration, all of which led to S basically quadrupling her salary over the ensuing decade. And befriended her, as well.

It sure seemed insensitive and ungrateful to me at the time. I usually get people right. I fucked up that one. Disappointing because I felt I was really making progress on the adventure front.

Still trying.

[vmb69]

I actually outed myself due to a technical error on my PC. Was chatting with my wife about her new Fuck buddy, and we were discussing the cock cage, when whatsapp did an update and took the focus. I didn't notice and kept typing and hit send. This went to family friend, a very nice lady. Before I was able to realize what had happened she replied with "This is very interesting, I want to know more". The message was intended to my wife and mentioned how I had booked the hotel for them that afternoon and that I had already locked the cage.

VMB69
- Like your family friend we too want to know more. What happened with this family friend, speaking with your wife, asking about your cage and other related things. Did anything ever come of it?

She told me she always knew my wife was in charge and that the message confirmed it. I told her to please delete the message and to please not say anything to anyone. This was a year ago. Since then she asked me a lot of questions, and at this point knows everything. The good thing is that she also has friends that were swinger's so wasn't shocked by it and she also goes to nudist theme places. She did ask me if she could see the cage, so I sent her Pic of the cage itself and then she said no I want to seenin use. So I sent her a Pic of it on me. She laughed and said she had guessed my wife needed more but never thought it was that small.

VMB69
- Gee i think when your HW goes out on a date she should have your FF come over and keep an eye on you.

She did mention next time she need her computer fixed i should make sure to be locked up.

[thepen]

I have been outed on relatively small scales but which have felt impactful to me.

Your post made me think of this evocative verse from an old Leonard Cohen song, Everybody Knows.

Everybody knows that you love me baby
Everybody knows that you really do
Everybody knows that you've been faithful
Oh, give or take a night or two
Everybody knows you've been discreet
But there were so many people you just had to meet
Without your clothes
Everybody knows

(it's a great song btw)

[Mgcouplemn]

Family and friends have found out about us and we have invited the into the circle. One of our married couples found out and now the husband fucks my wife while his wife and I watch. My wife's younger married sister knows and wants her husband to fuck my wife, but she is afraid to tell him what she wants.

[sandy691196]

Family and friends have found out about us and we have invited the into the circle. One of our married couples found out and now the husband fucks my wife while his wife and I watch. My wife's younger married sister knows and wants her husband to fuck my wife, but she is afraid to tell him what she wants.

That would be mighty interesting. Cuck couple getting outed brings out Cuck Queen fetish in other women..
Your sis in law that it would be a safe adventure.. getting her hubby to fuck his elder sis in law.

[stubbyhubby]

Lisa essentially outed us herself. When she first started fucking other men she was really secretive and insisted on mostly fucking guys that would be discrete. We are from a small town community and she was afraid of getting a reputation. There were a few in there that definitely told, but her "secret" stayed quiet.

When we moved to NC we didn't know anybody and she let loose. She was 26, almost 27 years old and she wanted to fuck a lot and she did. She didn't care who they told because nobody knew us, so for nearly 2 years she fucked anyone and everyone that she wanted. Co-workers, the landlord, neighbors, the waiter at our favorite restaurant, the random guy who flirted at Walmart, the guy who hit on her at the gas pump...all of them.

When we moved back home she told me she couldn't go back to being that secretive girl that only occasionally fucked someone who would keep a secret. She couldn't go from fucking different guys every day to the same one or two guys a few times a month. It didn't take long for a few friends to warn me they heard my wife was having an affair and I admitted that she wasn't cheating because I knew and approved, which of course led to them fucking her and telling others. It didn't take long for our lifestyle to become public knowledge after that.

[Colliercuck]

My wife instructed me to inform my father and sister when I told her I wanted to be a cuckold and caught me wearing her thong panties (I had already brought the subject up several times prior)
She said if I was serious about this, I would have no problem sharing my desires with them (they were very open and non judgmental, our family has always been open minded sexually………turned out my dad used to wear my moms panties, which I shared with my wife)
She told her friends about my cuckold desires wearing her panties and my desire to be denied.
My family said my wife would never cheat or see another man.
Both my father and sister, a few of my friends and our children know that she had an 8 month long affair (that only ended because he moved out of the area)
I assume some of her friends knew also

[isinlarsa]

To my knowledge I might have been outed three times.

The first was to her brother, who I needed to help me cover for her with the rest of her family.

The second was her best friend, who she told. Interestingly, after her best friend knew, she wanted for me to tell her how I felt about other men fucking my wife. She also came on to me. Even though I was attracted to her, I thought it was not a good idea to fuck my wife's best friend.

The third might have been through the first man who made me a cuckold. She had told me that she wanted to date, but hadn't been able to connect with another man. I guess she got impatient, so she invited her co-worker to make her a hotwife. He had a reputation as a lady's man -- she called him The Player. At work he was known to have seduced a number of the married women in the office. Because he was known to brag about his conquests it is likely he bragged about laying my wife. She and I worked for the same organization, but not in the same office. We were well-known as a married couple. Although it is likely a lot of people knew he had cuckold me, no one ever said anything.

[sandy691196]

To my knowledge I might have been outed three times.

The first was to her brother, who I needed to help me cover for her with the rest of her family.

The second was her best friend, who she told. Interestingly, after her best friend knew, she wanted for me to tell her how I felt about other men fucking my wife. She also came on to me. Even though I was attracted to her, I thought it was not a good idea to fuck my wife's best friend.

The third might have been through the first man who made me a cuckold. She had told me that she wanted to date, but hadn't been able to connect with another man. I guess she got impatient, so she invited her co-worker to make her a hotwife. He had a reputation as a lady's man -- she called him The Player. At work he was known to have seduced a number of the married women in the office. Because he was known to brag about his conquests it is likely he bragged about laying my wife. She and I worked for the same organization, but not in the same office. We were well-known as a married couple. Although it is likely a lot of people knew he had cuckold me, no one ever said anything.

This is so hot isinlarsa!
But since you have narrated your experiences in different SO relationships over the years, with various women.. I would now have to revisit your old posts to remind myself on how it all happened with your wife..

[surry]

I worked for a small Sheriff Department, four people per shift. I always talked about my wife's body and one guy asked to fuck her. I said yes. She rode with me on night shift and she would get in his car. After that everyone knew I loved them fucking my wife. She would get fucked on night shift in their cars. She loved taking care of her "Boys."

[isinlarsa]

To my knowledge I might have been outed three times.

The first was to her brother, who I needed to help me cover for her with the rest of her family.

The second was her best friend, who she told. Interestingly, after her best friend knew, she wanted for me to tell her how I felt about other men fucking my wife. She also came on to me. Even though I was attracted to her, I thought it was not a good idea to fuck my wife's best friend.

The third might have been through the first man who made me a cuckold. She had told me that she wanted to date, but hadn't been able to connect with another man. I guess she got impatient, so she invited her co-worker to make her a hotwife. He had a reputation as a lady's man -- she called him The Player. At work he was known to have seduced a number of the married women in the office. Because he was known to brag about his conquests it is likely he bragged about laying my wife. She and I worked for the same organization, but not in the same office. We were well-known as a married couple. Although it is likely a lot of people knew he had cuckold me, no one ever said anything.

This is so hot isinlarsa!
But since you have narrated your experiences in different SO relationships over the years, with various women.. I would now have to revisit your old posts to remind myself on how it all happened with your wife..

I have described my experiences with my first wife. These experiences happened with my second wife, who I have yet to write about.

[sandy691196]

That's what I gathered. I went through that other thread of yours.. There was not much about this marriage.
If this office cucking is about the 2nd wife.. it's mighty hot.

[cuckhus715]

I got outed

[carolinacuck]

We responded to a CL ad from a guy in a nearby city. He described himself as a well hung guy looking to help satisfy a married woman in a threesome scenario. As a cuck couple we decided to respond and see where it led. We emailed our interest along with a couple of nude pics of C. He was VERY interested and returned a pic of his impressive thick cock. Now C was very interested as well, and we sent a face pic of her which he returned with one of his. Well I immediately recognized him as someone I had worked with on occasion. I told C and she was still interested saying what could be better....we knew he was safe and she was attracted to him. My concern was he was a very cocky guy who liked to brag about how the ladies were interested in him (he was married). I did not want to be outed as a cuckold by him, so she decided to meet him and pretended that I was "out of town." I was secretly hoping she wouldn't be interested in him and my dilemma would be solved.

They met and she invited him back to our place where he mounted her very successfully to a couple of thunderous orgasms. They met a couple of weeks later when he was in our town on business. He invited her to his hotel, when after kicking out his roommate, he fucked her even better than the first time. She told me all the details, and also said she wanted to have a regular relationship with him. She sent him some very hot texts the next day letting him know how much she enjoyed fucking him, and couldn't wait feel his big dick inside her again. At that point, I had no choice but to come clean and admit to him that I was C's husband. The first time I watched them fuck was incredibly erotic...his thick cock sent her into orbit quickly and often. They enjoyed a regular sexual relationship for several months, including her meeting him in another town for a few days while he worked ....by that time lots of people knew about their relationship and my cuckold status. As I expected, he was unable to resist bragging about bedding my sexy wife to other guys, and the word slowly leaked out to the point where neither off them really tried to hide things any longer.

[isinlarsa]

That's what I gathered. I went through that other thread of yours.. There was not much about this marriage.
If this office cucking is about the 2nd wife.. it's mighty hot.

The office cucking was about my second and current wife. It was her initiation into being a hotwife. She wasn't as wild or have so many experiences as Linda, but there were some very enjoyable experiences.

[sandy691196]

Right. This office binge in particular! The way you have narrated it, in all it's dimensions..

[Colliercuck]

We responded to a CL ad from a guy in a nearby city. He described himself as a well hung guy looking to help satisfy a married woman in a threesome scenario. As a cuck couple we decided to respond and see where it led. We emailed our interest along with a couple of nude pics of C. He was VERY interested and returned a pic of his impressive thick cock. Now C was very interested as well, and we sent a face pic of her which he returned with one of his. Well I immediately recognized him as someone I had worked with on occasion. I told C and she was still interested saying what could be better....we knew he was safe and she was attracted to him. My concern was he was a very cocky guy who liked to brag about how the ladies were interested in him (he was married). I did not want to be outed as a cuckold by him, so she decided to meet him and pretended that I was "out of town." I was secretly hoping she wouldn't be interested in him and my dilemma would be solved.

They met and she invited him back to our place where he mounted her very successfully to a couple of thunderous orgasms. They met a couple of weeks later when he was in our town on business. He invited her to his hotel, when after kicking out his roommate, he fucked her even better than the first time. She told me all the details, and also said she wanted to have a regular relationship with him. She sent him some very hot texts the next day letting him know how much she enjoyed fucking him, and couldn't wait feel his big dick inside her again. At that point, I had no choice but to come clean and admit to him that I was C's husband. The first time I watched them fuck was incredibly erotic...his thick cock sent her into orbit quickly and often. They enjoyed a regular sexual relationship for several months, including her meeting him in another town for a few days while he worked ....by that time lots of people knew about their relationship and my cuckold status. As I expected, he was unable to resist bragging about bedding my sexy wife to other guys, and the word slowly leaked out to the point where neither off them really tried to hide things any longer.

That is super hot!!!! Any particular experiences you had that caused angst……..comments from others

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

Outed? Yes…..sort of.

My wife has had two long-term relationships.

The first was with a guy whose sister and brother-in-law owned a sports bar in a very popular and posh part of the city where we live. Occasionally they would invite their brothers and sisters down to watch “the big game” in their bar….maybe get a few pitchers, sliders/wings, appetizers, etc. sitting at the best table in the place. He was expected to bring his girlfriend.

Oh…He brought her……with me in tow! I was introduced as her husband, but she was certainly more affectionate toward him, celebrating every touchdown in typical boisterous fashion, throwing her arms around him as everyone cheered all at once for the 80-yard catch. (I’m sure you all know what sports bars look and sound like. Oh, brother! Definitely not my scene! I’d much rather be taking in a PBS documentary than watching a bunch of NFL alpha-jocks competing for a stupid ball!)

I was definitely seen as “the luggage,” like I had to come along with them but was sort of inconvenient.

It was obvious to everyone, I feel. I was her husband, but every time the team made a big play, she jumped with joy with everyone else and came down smiling with her arms around his neck…doing shots and laughing with his sisters….me, to the side of the table just staring at my phone.

It might have been my imagination, but I felt like they (his whole family) looked at me and treated me differently……the pathetic husband whose wife is obviously getting a good dick-lashing from their little brother. Nobody said anything, but you just knew they were imagining how the whole arrangement must play out sexually. They seemed rather proud of their little brother, too, I remember, like he was some kind of pussy-tamer…which he was, but it was really none of their business!

That relationship lasted almost 17 years. He tamed her pussy well for all of those years. His family knew me as his girlfriend’s husband, but just didn’t say anything to my face about it. She finally came to a point where she wanted to move on. So she did.

Now, let me tell you how the second (current) boyfriend is doing. I think I’m soon-to-be outed with her “new” boyfriend, too…..

I think this only because I feel like I can see it coming (pun intended)!

Before I get into the details, let me first say that my wife and I have a 23-year old son.

Anyone of you who has a Gen-Z kid will immediately recognize what’s going to happen. Gen-Zs are incredibly lazy and entitled.

Her current boyfriend (3 years this week) has a 22-year-old daughter, also a Gen-Zer, who’s living in California with her mother, his ex-wife.

Like nearly all Gen-Zs, she seems incapable of holding a job for more than 6 to 12 months. She just quits when her employer’s demands don’t suit her. She’s flailing! (People who know Gen-Zs know exactly what I’m talking about.)

Lately, there has been talk between him and his daughter of her moving here, to a new city, to plant some roots and get on her feet. A fresh start!

If she moves out here, though, there is just about no way her dad is going to be able to keep a lid on what’s happening.

There will be nights when my wife spends the night at his place…sex all night and all morning long. (My wife expects it! She’s not going to suddenly demure because his 22-year-old daughter moved in.) (Unlike her first boyfriend, this one has no interest in my involvement in their intimacy…..and my wife is unfortunately going along with it, for now. I hope to change that, so we can all experience the thrill of cucking me properly…face-to-face, balls deep in my wife, the way her first boyfriend did pretty much weekly, but it’s a work in progress.)

It’s something we’re going to have to confront if she moves in!

It’ll either be sorted out, or it will be the end of him.

[Thebestdays1]

Shortly after my wife lost her virginity to a married couple who had an open marriage, she told her mum about it and asked her what she thought of open marriages. Sex was never a taboo subject in her family so she had no problem discussing such things with her mum.
When I first met her family, she had her sister sit on my lap when there weren't enough chairs and this happened every weekend everyone was around. When she told me she wanted an open marriage, she suggested that I could go with her older sister if I wanted.
A few years after our marriage, she was staying with her mum and sister while I was overseas, waiting for our apartment to come free and she had an affair with the son of her mum's neighbour. She told her mum she was seeing him and she even went out with him some evenings and her mum knew that I knew. It was around this time she was really pushing me and her sister together, to the extent of us showering together when we all went away in our caravan, as there wasn't enough change for the hot water for us all, individually. One morning, her mum caught me leaving the SIL's room, naked and returning to my wife. By this time, my MIL was well aware that we had an open marriage.
About 10 years later, my MIL would look after our kids when my wife was spending a weekend with her boyfriend and the MIL used to enjoy teasing me about my wife enjoying her boyfriend's larger penis whilst I was working and how she'd been instructed by my wife not to let me leave too soon as she wanted to spend as much time with him as possible. I have to admit that whilst I, in no way, found my MIL attractive, I did enjoy her teasing me.
I also found out that a female colleague of mine, who everyone thought was cheating on her husband, was actually cuckolding him and that he knew everything that she did. I admitted that my wife and I were also in a similar relationship and after that, we started rearranging our shifts at work to help each other out.

[Dwightdalwood]

I want to be outed the the wife's girlfriends so badly. They are all quite sweet girls. I do wish she had a couple bad girl man hating type girlfriends.