Wife playing in her everyday comfortable clothes - hot or not?

[false-abroad]

Ky's thread made me curious about a hotwife's attire. A wife in her "mommy" clothes (jeans, sweater - all more for comfort than for looks, not that she looks bad in them) changes to something sexier, more revealing, puts on make up and transforms to a sexual being.

I have some switch tendencies and like to wonder how I would act as a bull/lover. As much as I like dress ups it is an erotic thought for me for the wife to be dressed in her everyday clothes. How would you feel if your wife would go just as she is to get fucked, maybe even gangbanged and then returned with more disheveled look, cum stains on her cozy sweater and ripped jeans on knees from sucking so much cock?

Would this invasion of everyday life and appearance be a problem for you? Do you prefer to have this separation clear? There is a play attire and there is family attire for example.

Oh and I fully understand that a wife can always be in sultry attire, but it is not about that.

[Thebestdays1]

My wife used to work as a cleaner and kitchen assistant in a hotel/restaurant. She would usually wear jeans and a baggy t-shirt and just about never wore a bra as it was too hot. I found out from one of her colleagues that all of the waiting and kitchen staff used to make a point of looking down her top when she was working and I loved that. She was never short of admirers when she worked there and often came home full of cum after fucking or sucking one of them or a guest.
She later changed jobs and worked in a warehouse on the night shift. She soon started seeing a married colleague and she used to suck him off in her car, after work. She had to wear blue trousers and a blue polo shirt and she would wear a bra at work. When she came home, after sucking her boyfriend off, her bra was always undone and lifted up above her breasts. I used to love that look as it meant she had 'cum in her tum', as she used to say.
She used to bring this man home to our place on a friday night as he'd tell his wife he was working overtime all night. They only worked for 3 hours so they'd come home and. as I was allowed to spy on them, I'd see her sit down with him and watch him gradually undress her. Beneath her work clothes, she always wore a see through bra and knickers and seeing the transformation as she was undressed seemed to please him as much as it did me.
She had quite a few items of sexy underwear and yet one of the looks I found sexiest was when she wore just jeans and was topless. That was so sexy!

[trecital]

If she goes to see her boyfriend in her normal everyday clothes, then that isn't particularly hot for me.
I prefer that she makes more of an effort when she goes to see him. It's sexier for me, and for him. And, I'm sure, for her too.

[parklife]

Anytime my wife goes to see her FWB, it makes meanly makes her attire sexy and sultry… even if it’s jeans and a t-shirt…

But really, my wife dresses to match the occasion. On dinners out to a restaurant, she may wear a new dress that hugs her body and shows off her curves. If she’s going to the driving range, she’s wearing golf attire, just a stop at his place or he’s stopping at ours? Depends on time of day… often that would be during the workday so she’s in work attire which is put together but not formal (she’s in outside sales) or, just everyday normal clothes if it’s not work time.

She doesn’t overthink attire…. It’s just always appropriate for whatever the situation is and the types of relationships she has (more long term FWB than random pickups or going out).

Regardless of what she wears, she’s sexy.

[surry]

My wife's lover had a key to our home. He would come in and fuck my wife no matter what she was wearing. My wife would tell him to wait because she needed to shower first. He did not care. He fucked her then left.

[MartasBoy]

Ky's thread made me curious about a hotwife's attire. A wife in her "mommy" clothes (jeans, sweater - all more for comfort than for looks, not that she looks bad in them) changes to something sexier, more revealing, puts on make up and transforms to a sexual being.

I have some switch tendencies and like to wonder how I would act as a bull/lover. As much as I like dress ups it is an erotic thought for me for the wife to be dressed in her everyday clothes. How would you feel if your wife would go just as she is to get fucked, maybe even gangbanged and then returned with more disheveled look, cum stains on her cozy sweater and ripped jeans on knees from sucking so much cock?

Would this invasion of everyday life and appearance be a problem for you? Do you prefer to have this separation clear? There is a play attire and there is family attire for example.

Oh and I fully understand that a wife can always be in sultry attire, but it is not about that.

My wife is a highly placed managerial professional. She is just the third administrative level away from the CEO of a large organization. She dresses in very nice skirt suits. She is generally dressed very elegantly, in a professional style: designer power skirt suits, stockings and heels. She likes expensive lingerie.

When she sits at the bar, in some of the very nice hotels where she stays, when she is on business trips, she gets hit on by some pretty upscale gentlemen. They are usually very pleasantly surprised, and excited, when they find out that she is married, but willing to play.

They really enjoy ravaging her. There is something about a beautiful, successful looking, very well put together woman of her stature, that makes it fun for some guys to leave her completely disheveled and ravaged. I have been invited on her business trips a few times, and have watched from a distant table in the cocktail lounge at the hotel. I love seeing her following some guy into the elevator, walking in looking like a million bucks, and then showing up back at our hotel room, hair a mess, blouse half unbuttoned and wrinkled, skirt wrinkled, stockings ripped, with her heels in her hands, and often no longer in possession of her panties.

It's not the same when she's in casual clothes.

[Ghalilaeus]

I don't like at all Ladies in casual attire. I just feel no desire if She's not wearing make up and heels. I have always been lucky enough to find women who played with my extreme vulnerability to feminine charms.

[Andrew]

My wife should do whatever she is comfortable with. It has happened that she went to her lover in normal, everyday clothing although she will still change her panties for a thong. But for their weekly play dates, she will wear lingerie, a nice dress or skirt, heels, and makeup and perfume. That way she feels more ready for it.

[canadianwittol]

I think there's another dimension to this lifestyle that comes in the "post-honeymoon" phase of cuckolding, if you will.

What I'm talking about is this: maybe when you first start out with her seeing a lover and in the beginning, much like dating in a conventional relationship, she spends an hour (or more) on hair and make-up, dresses in her finest lingerie, her sexiest outfit and is very much setting out on a mission to make you a cuckold. And for the first while this is how her dates progress.

But in time, once she "settles in" with a lover with whom she's built some rapport if not deeper feelings of affection, their get togethers can become slightly more routine. Sometimes the natural time constraints of life lend themselves to this, and they can only see each other at a specific time, for a short time, and the luxury of having the preparation time to put your best foot forward is sacrificed for the chance to get together.

That other dimension I'm talking about, and which I think you're referring to, is the first time you are "casually cuckolded" - if you will allow the term. This next dimension hits you with a really unexpected wave of humiliation: the knowledge that this is now NORMAL for you. She was going out shopping anyway, and her lover had a couple of hours in the afternoon while his kids were at a movie or something and so she swung by for a quickie.

It's a perfectly logical thing for her to do, you accept it if not encourage it of course, but you've now realized that the rituals which preceded the ceremony of the event are no longer necessary, because being cuckolded is now a normal part of your everyday lives.

A wife whose relationship to her lover is close enough that she's comfortable hooking up with him in her jeans and t-shirt speaks perfectly to that.

[DavaoMike]

Since my wife, Maricel’s, longtime boyfriend Adam lives with us, Maricel’s attire is the same whether she’s around me, Adam, or both of us. It’s arousing to me that Adam is, in effect, Maricel’s second husband.

DM

[windymiller]

My cuckoldress is a 6ft, slim and a fine wearer of jeans, she used to dress to meet her lovers but then said one day, i dont see the point as i am soon naked anyway. True.

Therefore she settled in the main to arriving in her semi normal attire, nice fitting tight jeans, suspenders under them wearing knee high boots. Kinky but not sluty nice especially if meeting in a public place first.

One of her long term lovers prefered normal clothes anyway as he would bring with him some of his BDSM leather, PVC clothing belonging to his wife and enjoy his mistress wearing this.

After she commenced my semi feminization she can take longer dressing me than her, allocating my knickers, suspenders, replacement cage if she wants a change, repainting my toe nails, swopping my permanent day collar for a "sub" one doing the clips on the rear on my suspenders and assessing my skin tight female jeans.

She loves this, even though i dont get undressed and am allocated this even if i am staying at home anyway.