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[Sara_MTL]

Hello all, My Stag has been doing a wonderful job describing our journey into this new chapter of our life. I am still nervous and super excited were the next step will be. I do feel that it will happen soon. I am thankful for my stag and this new forum for your support in all this. We will keep you posted. To all, happy new year and can’t wait for the coming new year

[armyguyot1]

Glad to see you on the site and enjoying it. Wouldn't New Years be a great time to pop your married cherry? A party and a few drinks and blame the booze for what happens. That gives you deniability if either of you don't like it.

[armyguyot1]

Glad to see you on the site and enjoying it. Wouldn't New Years be a great time to pop your married cherry? A party and a few drinks and blame the booze for what happens. That gives you deniability if either of you don't like it.

[Saras_Stag]

Glad to see you on the site and enjoying it. Wouldn't New Years be a great time to pop your married cherry? A party and a few drinks and blame the booze for what happens. That gives you deniability if either of you don't like it.

Ha, it would be fun but we have kids and Sara’s mom is coming over for the next couple of days so she already told her interests it would need to wait until after… but it definitely feels like it’s close.

Even A reached out to ask if Sara wanted to continue chatting online or maybe wanted to meet for a coffee or date, so her first woman might not be far off either, though Sara is focusing on her big young buck J right now.

Happy New Year, everyone, may 2025 be as fun and fulfilling as I suspect ours will be!!

[rvplace]

Thank you both for sharing your adventure!!!

The adventure has just began. Keep you posted.

Reading your story brings back the memories (about 20 years ago) since my wife and I explored our adventures...I wish you the very best!

[Lookingforadventure]

Thank you so much for the welcome. It’s nice to meet a fellow hotwife so close to home. Loved you cute Christmas outfit. You are inspiring me

Thanks. And best wishes on 2025. Sounds like it might be the year you officially become a hot wife. You haven't asked for advice, but I'll offer one tip anyway. When you have your first encounter, have a code word with your husband. Either of you can say it and you'll stop what's happening and check in. You never know what feelings might come up in the moment and this gives you a way to address them.

Other than that, sounds like you've got some great guys you've been chatting too. I hope at least one of them works out.

[Sara_MTL]

When you have your first encounter, have a code word with your husband. Either of you can say it and you'll stop what's happening and check in. You never know what feelings might come up in the moment and this gives you a way to address them.

Thank you. I welcome advice for sure. I love that idea of a safe word and we will definitely be using one.

[Saras_Stag]

When you have your first encounter, have a code word with your husband. Either of you can say it and you'll stop what's happening and check in. You never know what feelings might come up in the moment and this gives you a way to address them.

Thank you. I welcome advice for sure. I love that idea of a safe word and we will definitely be using one.

+100!

Thanks LFA, I know Sara has sent Army a PM asking to get verified so she can ask Qs in the Ladies’ Lounge, as it is getting closer and closer with J. At this point is a question of Sara’s deciding the timing because he’s made it extremely clear he’s ready when she is. (!!)

[Lookingforadventure]

+100!

Thanks LFA, I know Sara has sent Army a PM asking to get verified so she can ask Qs in the Ladies’ Lounge, as it is getting closer and closer with J. At this point is a question of Sara’s deciding the timing because he’s made it extremely clear he’s ready when she is. (!!)

We look forward to welcoming her there. The ladies in blue are amazing, and I really appreciate the private forum for asking questions and getting support. In the meantime, feel free to send a private message if I can be of assistance.

[Saras_Stag]

We look forward to welcoming her there. The ladies in blue are amazing, and I really appreciate the private forum for asking questions and getting support. In the meantime, feel free to send a private message if I can be of assistance.

Thanks so much! I believe Sara is sending you one now as things have gotten very real, in terms of a date being set for a drink at J’s place Sunday. Holy cow.

[Saras_Stag]

So as we've been discussing J's offer and the direct way he's made it clear he wants Sara - they exchanged several intimate pics last couple of nights and he has been very detailed in how and what he'd like to do to her. I loved that when he said he was looking forward to rubbing his cock on her tits, Sara replied that she had a better idea of what to do with his cock. She's so incredibly skilled at sexting and flirting - she currently has a few chats going and she is amazing at tailoring each one to the personality. We've realized that his directness at moving things along (but in a respectful manner, to be clear) has helped encourage her to take these steps.

We had several sanity checks as well - and Sara did PM Lookingforadventure and LFA was amazing (THANK YOU!) at giving her a great rundown of what to do to best prepare for a first experience. Sara was starting to have second thoughts when I suggested that instead of her putting a stop to it if she felt unready/uncomfortable, she could use a code phrase and then I would take the blame of putting a stop to it because I wasn't ready and got cold feet. She realized she wasn't sure she if she felt unready/unsure but not totally against it, she might go ahead just because, but if I could step in, it would be easier because it would possibly leave the door open for a future attempt with J. Sara was immediately on board again, because she knows of course that she is in control each and every step from our front door to J's bed.

Another incredible development - Sara seems to be capturing the attention of a lot of very attractive couples (like the aforementioned A, who is with C) and saw in their profiles they were often looking for unicorns. She didn't know what that meant before but LOVES the idea of being a unicorn, just like she LOVES the idea of being a hotwife.

I mean, how lucky can a guy be, seriously? What an amazing woman you are, Sara. I love you so damn much.

[Sara_MTL]

Thank you my love. I love you so much and could not ask for a more supportive loving husband.

[venus-can99]

Looking forward to hearing about your adventure with J.
Perhaps you could share some pics of Sara in the Hotties section if you feel comfortable?

[Seekingmore12]

Glad to see you on the site and enjoying it. Wouldn't New Years be a great time to pop your married cherry? A party and a few drinks and blame the booze for what happens. That gives you deniability if either of you don't like it.

Ha, it would be fun but we have kids and Sara’s mom is coming over for the next couple of days so she already told her interests it would need to wait until after… but it definitely feels like it’s close.

Even A reached out to ask if Sara wanted to continue chatting online or maybe wanted to meet for a coffee or date, so her first woman might not be far off either, though Sara is focusing on her big young buck J right now.

Happy New Year, everyone, may 2025 be as fun and fulfilling as I suspect ours will be!!

Just catching up on this thread, welcome and very glad to read you connected with LFA she is amazing and yes I am biased ..looks like things are coming along very well, I did read about you two finding out what a unicorn is, very rare and very desired by couples, another term is wife poaching that you should be aware of and discuss.

G

[Saras_Stag]

Looking forward to hearing about your adventure with J.
Perhaps you could share some pics of Sara in the Hotties section if you feel comfortable?

Sara, that’s totally up to you, but I can definitely think of a few that would be amazing to post!

[Saras_Stag]

Just catching up on this thread, welcome and very glad to read you connected with LFA she is amazing and yes I am biased ..looks like things are coming along very well, I did read about you two finding out what a unicorn is, very rare and very desired by couples, another term is wife poaching that you should be aware of and discuss.

G

Thanks G. Sara is definitely excited by the idea of being a unicorn but only with my full support. I’ve already told her I’m ok if she plays solo with others, even couples, but the poaching by another couple trying to pull one over on her (and me!) would never fly. I trust her completely and can’t imagine doing something like this without that trust to be honest.

But definitely thanks for the heads up, I’m sure that would be possibly what’s in mind on the other end even though they haven’t seen me yet given how hot Sara is.

[Saras_Stag]

Sara just ordered a very sexy winter dress that will hug her curves and thigh high boots for her first date Sunday. And she told me she’ll wear stockings too, which is a huge turn on of mine. I can’t wait to see her in it and then out of it!!

[Sara_MTL]

Looking forward to hearing about your adventure with J.
Perhaps you could share some pics of Sara in the Hotties section if you feel comfortable?

That was a good idea. I posted on the hotties board. So you can check out my first pic on the forum

[Trvlman7]

Just read your thread a and welcome to the site. As the hubby of a long term hotwife/swinger couple, I want to say for couples that can handle it. Hotwifing can TRULY ENHANCE and ENRICH a marriage. It's like having newlywed sex all over again, to reclaim your wife after she has been with others.
Also while I absolutely LOVE to watch my lady play and can sit back and happily watch all evening ( I happen to prefer to wait and be last, when ot is just us), I also enjoy hearing all about if she plays alone. I used to travel weekly (airline pilot/military) and if she was entertaining, she would call me and put phone on speaker so I could listen in on the action. Truly exciting.
I offer these few ideas simply to say, there are so many ways to enjoy the wife's play. Add to this her confidence and increased self esteem is wonderful to see. We husbands can find nothing more important then a fully satisfied and happy wife. Add to that a wife who feels sexy and sexual is fantastic.
Good luck in your exploration and ALWAYS TALK to each other, never let any feelings or issues along the way fester.

[mundyman]

Welcome you two. It is so exciting to read your story of discovery.
But…Sunday date!!!
What did I miss??
Spill the tea please……

[playwifeplease]

Welcome you two. It is so exciting to read your story of discovery.
But…Sunday date!!!
What did I miss??
Spill the tea please……

Haha, me too mundyman, what did I miss? I read back thru the thread? This is a very exciting development, please share SS & SM

[Saras_Stag]

Just read your thread a and welcome to the site. As the hubby of a long term hotwife/swinger couple, I want to say for couples that can handle it. Hotwifing can TRULY ENHANCE and ENRICH a marriage. It's like having newlywed sex all over again, to reclaim your wife after she has been with others.
Also while I absolutely LOVE to watch my lady play and can sit back and happily watch all evening ( I happen to prefer to wait and be last, when ot is just us), I also enjoy hearing all about if she plays alone. I used to travel weekly (airline pilot/military) and if she was entertaining, she would call me and put phone on speaker so I could listen in on the action. Truly exciting.
I offer these few ideas simply to say, there are so many ways to enjoy the wife's play. Add to this her confidence and increased self esteem is wonderful to see. We husbands can find nothing more important then a fully satisfied and happy wife. Add to that a wife who feels sexy and sexual is fantastic.
Good luck in your exploration and ALWAYS TALK to each other, never let any feelings or issues along the way fester.

Thanks so much Travelman! You're hitting the nail on the head on how I'm feeling about the entire situation, and the sea change in Sara in terms of new newfound confidence (slowly building, though still filled with self-doubt) and refound sexuality that has long beer buried has been such a delight to witness.

We've never been more open throughout our relationship. It's been so amazing to feel, and this is only the beginning!

[Saras_Stag]

Welcome you two. It is so exciting to read your story of discovery.
But…Sunday date!!!
What did I miss??
Spill the tea please……

Apologies! I realize it's a bit scattered as J has been in the picture since she first started last week, but I didn't identify him as J initially as I was getting used to how to write up stories here. I've edited his initial into the first post. Here's a quick recap:

First post last Friday:

Her profile was simple but basically said she was a wife to me, that I had taken to calling her a hotwife and she was definitely new to this but wanted to explore. She set up a bunch of likes (including FF and MFF which surprised me!) and went live around midnight. The likes started coming in. Then the pings. Then pings with messages. It was like a flood. Some guys were not interesting but there were guys who were RIPPED, who were giving her compliments about her amazing smile. She has a great body too - talking 32FF, medium waist, curves in ALL the RIGHT places. She hit it off with two pings in particular - one who was ready to meet her basically right away, a younger guy with a what looks like an eight-pack becuase six-pack didn't do it justice (EDIT A WEEK LATER: THIS IS J!) and another guy more our age who had a great vibe and looked interesting to her (This is Y). To both she explained she was brand new to this and taking it slow, and both guys were gentlemen. The first suggested exchanging pics and she told me that maybe she could take a pic in a bra and panties to send him soon which was a great surprise to me. The second was far more suave, welcomed her to the lifestyle and offered to help guide her through her first steps. She seems more interested in him and I feel more at ease with him too, just looking over her shoulder at this point. I should also mention so far she wants me there, at least at first.

Monday:

And now J comes back into the lead. Great sexy chat leading to an exchange of pics and confirmation he’s huge. Ok with me being there, no contact with him but I’m not into that anyway so no issues. Starting to talk details. Sara is excited that he might be her biggest ever and the idea of a 28 year physical specimen in his prime while she’s in her sexual prime is intoxicating her.

and then the post you saw yesterday.

Last night, after we turned off the lights we were both very excited and I started fingering her, which she loves. Her clit was pulsating like I've never felt it before, and soon she asked me to finger her harder. It was a hell of a workout for my hand as she came over and over again, until I couldn't take it anymore and got on top of her. I didn't last more than a few minutes and then came explosively thinking about her and J... and then she giggled and admitted that she had been thinking of him too - visualizing herself in the moment and then started moaning "J is fucking me... J is fucking me" over and over, and I realized this was going to happen and started saying "J is going to fuck you, OMG you're actually going to do this" and then she came explosively again and again. BTW, Sara is beside me right now as I'm writing this and said this was accurate

[Sara_MTL]

Just read your thread a and welcome to the site. As the hubby of a long term hotwife/swinger couple, I want to say for couples that can handle it. Hotwifing can TRULY ENHANCE and ENRICH a marriage. It's like having newlywed sex all over again, to reclaim your wife after she has been with others.
Also while I absolutely LOVE to watch my lady play and can sit back and happily watch all evening ( I happen to prefer to wait and be last, when ot is just us), I also enjoy hearing all about if she plays alone. I used to travel weekly (airline pilot/military) and if she was entertaining, she would call me and put phone on speaker so I could listen in on the action. Truly exciting.
I offer these few ideas simply to say, there are so many ways to enjoy the wife's play. Add to this her confidence and increased self esteem is wonderful to see. We husbands can find nothing more important then a fully satisfied and happy wife. Add to that a wife who feels sexy and sexual is fantastic.
Good luck in your exploration and ALWAYS TALK to each other, never let any feelings or issues along the way fester.

Hi,
I love that you wrote this because my hubby travels as well and he mentioned the same thing of me not going without and also telling him about it later, or like you said calling and having my hubby listen on speaker.

[Trvlman7]

Just read your thread a and welcome to the site. As the hubby of a long term hotwife/swinger couple, I want to say for couples that can handle it. Hotwifing can TRULY ENHANCE and ENRICH a marriage. It's like having newlywed sex all over again, to reclaim your wife after she has been with others.
Also while I absolutely LOVE to watch my lady play and can sit back and happily watch all evening ( I happen to prefer to wait and be last, when ot is just us), I also enjoy hearing all about if she plays alone. I used to travel weekly (airline pilot/military) and if she was entertaining, she would call me and put phone on speaker so I could listen in on the action. Truly exciting.
I offer these few ideas simply to say, there are so many ways to enjoy the wife's play. Add to this her confidence and increased self esteem is wonderful to see. We husbands can find nothing more important then a fully satisfied and happy wife. Add to that a wife who feels sexy and sexual is fantastic.
Good luck in your exploration and ALWAYS TALK to each other, never let any feelings or issues along the way fester.

Hi,
I love that you wrote this because my hubby travels as well and he mentioned the same thing of me not going without and also telling him about it later, or like you said calling and having my hubby listen on speaker.

The calling and letting him listen will drive him wild. Also will still want more details when he gets home. Best play is wife telling you about her play with a new or existing playmate while hubby was not present. Giving him a very slow sensual hand job as you tell him is great, or have him lick you as you describe the details. It is sometimes difficult for wives to understand more detail is always better, also don't just say " we fucked" draw is out. I absolutely loved hearing from. From first touches and kisses all the way to finished, more is better when you tell.
Makes great excitement in the bedroom for many nights to come after date, and anticipation of next date.

Have fun and good luck!!!!!!!