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[RHotwife1981]

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[magnus]

This is all so very exciting and based on the one pic in the Hotties section, it's no surprise Sarah has a line up of potential suitors. I can't wait to hear who gets to be the lucky man for her first hotwife experience. Thanks for sharing your super hot adventure.

[pixmangurn]

Welcome you two! This is moving along at a rapid pace, good luck on Sunday!

[Sara_MTL]

Thank you everyone for your comments. Hubby and I are super excited about Sunday that we ended up going shopping for several cute lingerie outfits. A little pricey because I have a hard time finding bras that fit me (can range from a 32G to 32I). I just posted a couple of pics of one of the first lingerie outfits that he got me a few days ago on the hotties forum. Check it out

[Saras_Stag]

The calling and letting him listen will drive him wild. Also will still want more details when he gets home. Best play is wife telling you about her play with a new or existing playmate while hubby was not present. Giving him a very slow sensual hand job as you tell him is great, or have him lick you as you describe the details. It is sometimes difficult for wives to understand more detail is always better, also don't just say " we fucked" draw is out. I absolutely loved hearing from. From first touches and kisses all the way to finished, more is better when you tell.
Makes great excitement in the bedroom for many nights to come after date, and anticipation of next date.

Have fun and good luck!!!!!!!

Ha, this speaks to me so well. Sara often says I get caught up in the narrative a little too much at times when we’re having sex, so you’re right I (and I guess all men) love getting lost in the details a bit. Her taking her time describing what she did would be amazing.

[Saras_Stag]

Last night Sara and I were having a good time in bed when J sent a pic of his large cock in a very attractive young woman in the missionary position (she holding her legs up) wishing Sara good night. Sara responded quickly and soon enough he asked her for a pic of her pussy.

He loved that and then sent another of his cock in the same girl, but this time in her ass as he write that she loved anal. Sara said “wow, not for me though” - she isn’t big on the idea. He then told her to have me take a pic of her in doggy style or missionary position. I took a couple of sexy shots of her from behind which he loved (she looked incredible and erotic!) and then be asked for me to take one of her in the same missionary position as the girl in his pics.

You can imagine how hot that pic was. J replied with an appropriate number of fire emojis and again made it clear he could not wait for his cock to be in Sara as soon as possible. Sara reminded him that Sunday wasn’t far away!

The sex we’re having has been incredible the last couple of nights; she’s so turned on and so am I. I can only imagine how incredibly hot it’s going to be to actually see Sara and J together. Two days!

[Wantsomefunto]

I bet you are walking around all day have erect imagine what is going to happen Sunday. When she comes home I suggest some type of rebonding for you two

[54321]

When a polite person wishes you, "Have a nice weekend", they will have no idea how nice it's actually going to be!

54321

[Saras_Stag]

I bet you are walking around all day have erect imagine what is going to happen Sunday. When she comes home I suggest some type of rebonding for you two

I am actually going Sunday too! Still unclear what or even where I’ll be as Sara isn’t sure yet, though last night she liked the idea of me watching as J and her enjoyed themselves. I’m giving her full control if she tells me she wants to go to the bedroom with J alone first or even if she asks me to leave for a while. I’m good with anything as long as she’s safe and secure, of course.

I just keep stressing that Sunday is about her and her focus should be on enjoying the experience and not at all about me as I’ll be ok, plus we’ll have some fun afterward when we get home for sure.

[Saras_Stag]

So as we get closer to Sunday and the anticipation builds for J, Sara got a great text from A, that sexy half of a gorgeous couple. It wishes her a Happy New Year, that Sara’s fantasies become reality this year, and with a little luck it will involve them. So damned hot. Sara was already thinking of reaching out to A and just texted me that she’s going to go ahead and text A later so they can meet up soon. And she’s also thinking about M. M, if you may recall, was the fit guy with a great vibe that offered to host us if we wanted to after some great flirting, and Sara is thinking he might be next after J.

She’s definitely plunging into this! So exciting and heartwarming seeing her embrace her sexual self so completely.

[Saras_Stag]

Anyone following this curious about what outfit (and lingerie!) Sara is wearing for J on Sunday, check out the hotties pics thread (link in sig!)

[CuriousHusband91941]

This is an exciting thread.
Thank you for sharing.

[CuriousHusband91941]

This is an exciting thread.
Thank you for sharing.

[Trvlman7]

NOTHING is as exciting and erotic as watching your wife engage with another male, hopefully for your pleasure as well, kissing underdressing each other and finally when he enters her (hopefully missionary style. If so make sure you are positioned to look up between their thighs. The view of her guiding him in and then fully in her is extremely sexual and amazing, but actually better yet is as the "drive" toward orgasm and both become totally consumed with their orgasms. To see you lady's eyes "roll back" and hear her sounds and effectively "loose control " of everything but her orgasm is utterly fulfilling for the hubby to see.
Lastly the best view of all, is when he pulls out, and hopefully (if he is good and thick) her pussy is all red and gaping so you can see in her and if bareback, his load seeping out as she lays there. Such an exhilarating thing to see.
Then the best sex you will ever have, reclaiming her after he is done. That is truly the best pussy on earth and you are lucky enough to be married to that woman and her "magic" pussy.
You are certainly in for a wonderful experience and such an erotic view.
ENJOY!!!!!!!

BUT ALSO THE MOST IMPORTANT THING, afterwards you MUST totally shower your lady with praise, love, and affection. And also show her you are beyond waiting, you MUST have her right away.
If you have properly waited (hard for new husbands to do, but most essential, edge yourself as you watch is cool, bit DO NOT CUM until you are reclaiming her) you give the chance to see you are TOTALLY consumed by her and she is the center of your world especially at that post playmate cuddle and love making between you. Even though she is embracing the play beforehand, women tend to need and desire affirmation and affection from hubby after the playmate.

Sorry this got so long, but the remembering first times just makes these thoughts pour out, and the advice to ONLY edge yourself.

[Saras_Stag]

NOTHING is as exciting and erotic as watching your wife engage with another male, hopefully for your pleasure as well, kissing underdressing each other and finally when he enters her (hopefully missionary style. If so make sure you are positioned to look up between their thighs. The view of her guiding him in and then fully in her is extremely sexual and amazing, but actually better yet is as the "drive" toward orgasm and both become totally consumed with their orgasms. To see you lady's eyes "roll back" and hear her sounds and effectively "loose control " of everything but her orgasm is utterly fulfilling for the hubby to see.
Lastly the best view of all, is when he pulls out, and hopefully (if he is good and thick) her pussy is all red and gaping so you can see in her and if bareback, his load seeping out as she lays there. Such an exhilarating thing to see.
Then the best sex you will ever have, reclaiming her after he is done. That is truly the best pussy on earth and you are lucky enough to be married to that woman and her "magic" pussy.
You are certainly in for a wonderful experience and such an erotic view.
ENJOY!!!!!!!

BUT ALSO THE MOST IMPORTANT THING, afterwards you MUST totally shower your lady with praise, love, and affection. And also show her you are beyond waiting, you MUST have her right away.
If you have properly waited (hard for new husbands to do, but most essential, edge yourself as you watch is cool, bit DO NOT CUM until you are reclaiming her) you give the chance to see you are TOTALLY consumed by her and she is the center of your world especially at that post playmate cuddle and love making between you. Even though she is embracing the play beforehand, women tend to need and desire affirmation and affection from hubby after the playmate.

Sorry this got so long, but the remembering first times just makes these thoughts pour out, and the advice to ONLY edge yourself.

Thanks again Travelman, you definitely gave us a lot to think about! Sara loved the idea of me holding back until I have a chance to properly reclaim her, and it excited me too to be honest.

I really enjoy reading your perspective, it feels like we have a lot of similarities in how we view our amazing partners and why we’re doing this in the first place - maximizing her sexual energy and pleasure for her happiness above and behind everything else, as partners who love and cherish each other.

Sara always checks to make sure I’m ok, that I’m not having second thoughts, that this crazy erotic adventure we’re embarking on is the right thing to do. I always reassure her because I really am ok and I’ve never been more aroused just by the possibility, as I know she’s asking because she wants it.

Meanwhile, I always check on Sara to make sure she’s ok, that she’s not having second thoughts, that this is the right thing for us to do. And she reassures me that she’s ok (though often that alternates with nervousness and then excitement and then nervousness again, naturally); and I think she similarly gets excited by the possibility as she knows I’m asking because I want it.

So fucking hot.

[Saras_Stag]

Something that we’re learning as we go is Sara, while deeply in love with me and not looking for that, definitely needs feeling in terms of relationships. We knew that going in and I told her that would have the benefit of higher highs when it goes well, but lower lows when they don’t.

So after J reiterated his intentions yesterday afternoon Sara loved his comments, but was hoping for him to ping her late last night again, maybe with another pic request, but he hasn’t said anything since.

She also replied to A’s chat by saying how she’s never been with a woman and has no idea if she will actually like it, but she’s thought of kissing a woman and maybe doing more. Sara then said she imagined holding A’s hand and touching her leg and that made her giggle and blush. That Sara would like to maybe get a coffee and discuss these feelings, and also that her mind goes blank when she’s nervous and excited so it’s difficult to get out her thoughts in French (A speaks French, common language here in Montreal but Sara’s third language).

I thought that was super hot but A hasn’t responded yet. Totally normal, Friday nights can be busy, but Sara couldn’t help but feel a bit bummed. Thankfully this place has kept the great comments coming which has helped balance the emotions. I think it does show how much Sara is looking forward to this and how much this sort of emotion has been missing from her life, so it’s not all bad! Just a lot to handle of course. She’s such an amazing and inspiring woman, isn’t she?

[isinlarsa]

I think I started reading your posts at the right time. Can't wait for the next events.

[Saras_Stag]

Ok, Sara just sent J a message asking if tomorrow is still on and if 8PM would work, and asked where he lives. It’s getting very real! Hope he doesn’t flake.

[Rogueuser1]

Wow! Good luck - today is the day!!
I share your hope that he doesn't flake and it all goes well and smoothly but at least you are prepared for that if it does happen.
Thanks for sharing!

[Seekingmore12]

Ok, Sara just sent J a message asking if tomorrow is still on and if 8PM would work, and asked where he lives. It’s getting very real! Hope he doesn’t flake.

Best wishes for today and remember if he flakes out, it’s him and not you two.

J is being given an opportunity here, he should respect that and be humbled by you two choosing him.

While this journey is very exciting and sometimes excitement causes blinders, it sounds like you two communicate well over this topic and you are going in eyes wide open.

A first hot wife encounter should be a special moment for you two, hopefully J recognizes this.

G

[Saras_Stag]

Thanks everyone.

Looks like J is flaking. He’s gone dark just as we were getting to the good part.

Sara’s taking this tough. She appreciates my reassurance (and also all of yours!) and logically she understands J is the one missing out. But emotionally it’s harder, she really was looking forward to him.

She’s thinking a lot about whether she’s cut out for this, given how disappointed she is right now. She pivoted to M, who had offered to host, and even said she’d love to take M to bed tonight and send a pic to J showing him what he’s missing, but she went on the app and M is over 4000Km away on a trip. Damnit!

At the same time, my incredible Sara is now verified! Hopefully this J stuff will be but a pothole on the road to her claiming her right to be a hotwife.

[Lookingforadventure]

Ugggghhh. Im so sorry. I worried that this might happen, because it seems so common. The guys are all talk and then disappear at the last minute. Im really, really sorry.

It is totally his loss. And there are good guys out there, but finding them can be a journey. Hugs to you both.

[jane]

oh i'm so sorry . it is so difficult finding people. just think how difficult it is to find people to date, same thing in hotwifing

[Sara_MTL]

oh i'm so sorry . it is so difficult finding people. just think how difficult it is to find people to date, same thing in hotwifing

It’s ok. Hubby said the same thing to me. I’m still bummed, but trying to get back in that horse…or hopefully soon on one..

[Seekingmore12]

I am so sorry…..his loss…

What are your plans for the day now….perhaps take your husband toy shopping and have him pick out something just for you…..

Then of course come home and play with it…..

I am sure you will find the right guy eventually.

G