Another get-together for New Years

[FNQLivin]

There is something more though. You talked about the thrill, chasing a high and he knew what buttons to push. What did he do exactly ?

[nostringsorworries]

There was no need to chase any thrills at this point. The thrills found both of us.

They'd already had sex after his employer's Christmas party when they came back to our place. I didn't get to watch and just stayed downstairs other than sneaking up the stairs and kind of listening outside the door. But he left fairly quickly after that and it was more of an ice breaker session I think.

This time he invited us to see his house, have dinner, and plan on staying over on New Years Eve rather than having to drive home. We didn't quite know what to expect. But he was an amazing host. He'd prepared a great meal. He said he likes to cook but rarely has the opportunity. It was great. He's also into wines and had a great selection and one of those fancy refrigerators that keep the wines at the proper temperature. He was so elegant with his knowledge and I'm clueless, which seemed to play somehow into his air of being an alpha, and he would find small opportunities to demonstrate that as we visited.

He's told me in the past that he has a big ego and it really turns him on to have somebody's wife. He'd said he can come multiple times if the husband is around to witness it, in his words.

He has a great, enclosed porch with a small swimming pool and a hot tub. It opens into the living room, and it also has french doors that open from the master bedroom to the porch/hot tub. After dinner he suggested we all take our wine and get in the hot tub. Since he hadn't mentioned it, we of course had no swimsuits, which in hindsight I'm pretty sure was intentional on his part. He was good at getting us relaxed at dinner and then urging us to try it out.

Even though she'd slept with him once before, she's still kind of inhibited with the whole idea, and wasn't anxious to undress and get in the tub. I know I was even more reluctant and intimidated by the thought of undressing in front of him, but he must have sensed that and said for us not to be shy and he'd go clean up the kitchen while we got in and he'd join us in a few minutes with some more wine.

So we both kind of looked at each other and went along with it, undressed quickly and tossed our clothes on a chair and hopped into the water. He came out in a few minutes with more wine. He undressed in front of us without a hint of inhibition, then knelt down to fill our glasses, his junk on full display. He is definitely fit, zero body fat and clearly proud of it. I'm not in that kind of shape.

We all relaxed again pretty much and once again I got to watch him start kissing my wife in front of me. That is possibly the most intense thing, more than the thought of actual sex. The way they look at each other, and use their tongues while they kiss, sometimes he kind of bites her lower lip and it's like they forget I'm even there.

Later on he suggested we rinse off in his shower in the master bath and let my wife get out and go first. He'd set out a stack of those big fluffy white towels and she wrapped herself in one quickly and went in to the shower. The 2 of us just chatted for a while and then he kind of casually asked me if I wanted him to fuck my wife again, and if I wanted him to cum in her again. He knew how to get into my head and my conflicted feelings, which was it's own turn on. He seems very good at playing both angles with us. Super charming with her and kind of arrogant with me. He got up to join her but said to me that he advises for me not to jerk off right away because it will be a long night and I'll enjoy it more if I resist.

I won't ramble on any more for now, but I will say they definitely had a lot of sex and I was able to watch it more or less thru the french door windows from the hot tub/porch area without feeling like a fool being in the room with them. It was all dimly lit, but I definitely could see most of what went on and he seemed very aware of my viewing them.

The whole event was insanely hot with intense, conflicting feelings. The rush was incredible. I just wonder if it can continue at that level easily, or do you have to keep going deeper into the lifestyle to find the same thrills?

He knew several things sexually that I'd never heard of, and he certainly got to her and was in both of our heads in various ways. I'm feeling out of my depth a bit. Jealousy is a surprising turn on too.

[fraktastic]

That never happened to me, there was enough going on that I never felt like I had to get more extreme. At the very beginning I made a list of things I thought would be hot, talked about it with my wife, and we checked off about half of them and that was amazing.

The key for us was to keep talking about it. "It was really hot when..." Or "I felt a bit disconnected from you when..."

[mundyman]

There was no need to chase any thrills at this point. The thrills found both of us.

They'd already had sex after his employer's Christmas party when they came back to our place. I didn't get to watch and just stayed downstairs other than sneaking up the stairs and kind of listening outside the door. But he left fairly quickly after that and it was more of an ice breaker session I think.

This time he invited us to see his house, have dinner, and plan on staying over on New Years Eve rather than having to drive home. We didn't quite know what to expect. But he was an amazing host. He'd prepared a great meal. He said he likes to cook but rarely has the opportunity. It was great. He's also into wines and had a great selection and one of those fancy refrigerators that keep the wines at the proper temperature. He was so elegant with his knowledge and I'm clueless, which seemed to play somehow into his air of being an alpha, and he would find small opportunities to demonstrate that as we visited.

He's told me in the past that he has a big ego and it really turns him on to have somebody's wife. He'd said he can come multiple times if the husband is around to witness it, in his words.

He has a great, enclosed porch with a small swimming pool and a hot tub. It opens into the living room, and it also has french doors that open from the master bedroom to the porch/hot tub. After dinner he suggested we all take our wine and get in the hot tub. Since he hadn't mentioned it, we of course had no swimsuits, which in hindsight I'm pretty sure was intentional on his part. He was good at getting us relaxed at dinner and then urging us to try it out.

Even though she'd slept with him once before, she's still kind of inhibited with the whole idea, and wasn't anxious to undress and get in the tub. I know I was even more reluctant and intimidated by the thought of undressing in front of him, but he must have sensed that and said for us not to be shy and he'd go clean up the kitchen while we got in and he'd join us in a few minutes with some more wine.

So we both kind of looked at each other and went along with it, undressed quickly and tossed our clothes on a chair and hopped into the water. He came out in a few minutes with more wine. He undressed in front of us without a hint of inhibition, then knelt down to fill our glasses, his junk on full display. He is definitely fit, zero body fat and clearly proud of it. I'm not in that kind of shape.

We all relaxed again pretty much and once again I got to watch him start kissing my wife in front of me. That is possibly the most intense thing, more than the thought of actual sex. The way they look at each other, and use their tongues while they kiss, sometimes he kind of bites her lower lip and it's like they forget I'm even there.

Later on he suggested we rinse off in his shower in the master bath and let my wife get out and go first. He'd set out a stack of those big fluffy white towels and she wrapped herself in one quickly and went in to the shower. The 2 of us just chatted for a while and then he kind of casually asked me if I wanted him to fuck my wife again, and if I wanted him to cum in her again. He knew how to get into my head and my conflicted feelings, which was it's own turn on. He seems very good at playing both angles with us. Super charming with her and kind of arrogant with me. He got up to join her but said to me that he advises for me not to jerk off right away because it will be a long night and I'll enjoy it more if I resist.

I won't ramble on any more for now, but I will say they definitely had a lot of sex and I was able to watch it more or less thru the french door windows from the hot tub/porch area without feeling like a fool being in the room with them. It was all dimly lit, but I definitely could see most of what went on and he seemed very aware of my viewing them.

The whole event was insanely hot with intense, conflicting feelings. The rush was incredible. I just wonder if it can continue at that level easily, or do you have to keep going deeper into the lifestyle to find the same thrills?

He knew several things sexually that I'd never heard of, and he certainly got to her and was in both of our heads in various ways. I'm feeling out of my depth a bit. Jealousy is a surprising turn on too.

What things did he do to her, or get her to do that she has not before doesn’t do very often???

[nostringsorworries]

I guess the main thing is he knew she was self-conscious about receiving oral sex, but also has a difficult time climaxing with straight intercourse. And I've tried to do it to get her off, but she brushes me off. What he did was interesting. He was kissing her then her boobs and slowly worked his way south. He was between her legs and she tried to kind of close them when he got down there, so he stopped and took her hand and started sucking on her fingers, which was kind of bizarre but she said later it was sexy. And then he took her hand and put it between her legs and said to her to show him how she liked to climax by herself. She went along with it and rubbed herself and he started kissing the back of her hand down there while she got into it. He put his tongue in and out between her fingers and added his own spin on things until she couldn't stand it anymore and took her hand and put it on the back of his head and let him have her. I could tell she was a little embarrassed because she turned her head and covered her eyes with her other arm, but she didn't stop him and the way her pelvis was moving she didn't seem to want to stop. She eventually came like that.

Later on he had her get on top of him, which is another thing she kind of likes but doesn't do often. She was really getting into though and I asked her what was different. I didn't see that he'd put his fist down there with his thumb sticking up so that she was not just on top, but rubbing herself against his thumb. She came like that too. I asked her what was better about that versus just using his fingers on her and said it was hot to have a cock inside her while she squirmed around on his thumb. Weird, but effective I guess. At least I'd never heard of that technique.

So he got her off at least twice. I don't think when they just did plain missionary she finished, but she was happy. And that position is the one that was really hot to watch too. I don't know why.

[FNQLivin]

Excellent retelling and it explains a lot more. Thank you.

[David52]

You mentioned some regret when you returned homw. Can you please finish the story with how you slept, what happened in the morning and how the two of you processed the events?

Take your time with this and don't allow things to escalate faster than you can consent. But this lifestyle tends to be leb by the wife not the husband.

[David52]

You mentioned some regret when you returned homw. Can you please finish the story with how you slept, what happened in the morning and how the two of you processed the events?

Take your time with this and don't allow things to escalate faster than you can consent. But this lifestyle tends to be leb by the wife not the husband.

[nostringsorworries]

You mentioned some regret when you returned homw. Can you please finish the story with how you slept, what happened in the morning and how the two of you processed the events?

Take your time with this and don't allow things to escalate faster than you can consent. But this lifestyle tends to be leb by the wife not the husband.

Well we spent the night at his place. I eventually went off to a guest bedroom and sort of dozed off, but not really I guess. He made breakfast in the morning and then we headed home. We were both pretty wiped out, so that's part of it. I don't know that regret was the right word. Just that kind of hangover feeling when you've induldged in something and now trying to get back to normal I guess.

For her, I think she's trying to walk the line between being a classy woman indulging herself without becoming trashy or whatever negative description women might use. For me there's concern in that she has always been a little out of my league and I don't want to somehow screw up a great thing. But seeing her with a guy that is definitely in her league was thrilling, and I can't even explain why. And knowing she had a pussy full of another guy's jizz was so hot the next day, even though I was exhausted, was all I thought about.

We haven't talked about it too much though. She says she really likes his looks, being so trim, with just a reasonable amount of hair on his chest and a great ass.

I asked her this morning what she was thinking about things and she said she can't really get him out of her head, so she's pretty infatuated I guess.

[superb101]

Did she have any problems with you watching?

[FNQLivin]

I can see why you’re concerned.

[nostringsorworries]

Did she have any problems with you watching?

No, she was ok with it. I was able to see them thru the french doors but wasn't in the room, so she didn't have to think about it too much.

[superb101]

Is there another get together planned?

[FNQLivin]

You mentioned some regret when you returned homw. Can you please finish the story with how you slept, what happened in the morning and how the two of you processed the events?

Take your time with this and don't allow things to escalate faster than you can consent. But this lifestyle tends to be leb by the wife not the husband.

For her, I think she's trying to walk the line between being a classy woman indulging herself without becoming trashy or whatever negative description women might use. For me there's concern in that she has always been a little out of my league and I don't want to somehow screw up a great thing. But seeing her with a guy that is definitely in her league was thrilling, and I can't even explain why.

I asked her this morning what she was thinking about things and she said she can't really get him out of her head, so she's pretty infatuated I guess.

I've read of men like this, who love the thrill of the chase, who are really, really good at it and get pleasure out of proving that they are the best. And to hell with the consequences of what is left behind. They also know what buttons to press in you, so he's probably already worked you out and sensed your insecurities.

That he's in her head at this point is both exciting and scary.

[nostringsorworries]

Is there another get together planned?

There isn't anything planned for now. He's extremely busy, which is one reason he's sought out a couple versus just a girlfriend. But we've all put so much into it I'm sure we will meet again. The holidays kind of dictated things up until now, so I don't know how it will proceed. It's probably more up to the two of them what happens next, which is a little scary I have to admit.

[nostringsorworries]

You mentioned some regret when you returned homw. Can you please finish the story with how you slept, what happened in the morning and how the two of you processed the events?

Take your time with this and don't allow things to escalate faster than you can consent. But this lifestyle tends to be leb by the wife not the husband.

For her, I think she's trying to walk the line between being a classy woman indulging herself without becoming trashy or whatever negative description women might use. For me there's concern in that she has always been a little out of my league and I don't want to somehow screw up a great thing. But seeing her with a guy that is definitely in her league was thrilling, and I can't even explain why.

I asked her this morning what she was thinking about things and she said she can't really get him out of her head, so she's pretty infatuated I guess.

I've read of men like this, who love the thrill of the chase, who are really, really good at it and get pleasure out of proving that they are the best. And to hell with the consequences of what is left behind. They also know what buttons to press in you, so he's probably already worked you out and sensed your insecurities.

That he's in her head at this point is both exciting and scary.

Well, I can't speak for her exactly, but he's definitely "worked me out" as you put it, and knows how to discreetly push my buttons without losing his focus on her. I think he knows me better than I know myself at this point, which would makes sense since he's been down this road before and it's new for us.

[Long Lurker 34]

I guess the main thing is he knew she was self-conscious about receiving oral sex, but also has a difficult time climaxing with straight intercourse. And I've tried to do it to get her off, but she brushes me off. What he did was interesting. He was kissing her then her boobs and slowly worked his way south. He was between her legs and she tried to kind of close them when he got down there, so he stopped and took her hand and started sucking on her fingers, which was kind of bizarre but she said later it was sexy. And then he took her hand and put it between her legs and said to her to show him how she liked to climax by herself. She went along with it and rubbed herself and he started kissing the back of her hand down there while she got into it. He put his tongue in and out between her fingers and added his own spin on things until she couldn't stand it anymore and took her hand and put it on the back of his head and let him have her. I could tell she was a little embarrassed because she turned her head and covered her eyes with her other arm, but she didn't stop him and the way her pelvis was moving she didn't seem to want to stop. She eventually came like that.

Later on he had her get on top of him, which is another thing she kind of likes but doesn't do often. She was really getting into though and I asked her what was different. I didn't see that he'd put his fist down there with his thumb sticking up so that she was not just on top, but rubbing herself against his thumb. She came like that too. I asked her what was better about that versus just using his fingers on her and said it was hot to have a cock inside her while she squirmed around on his thumb. Weird, but effective I guess. At least I'd never heard of that technique.

So he got her off at least twice. I don't think when they just did plain missionary she finished, but she was happy. And that position is the one that was really hot to watch too. I don't know why.

NSW
- Works well for a woman who has a small clit and normally can't get off with penetration at any time.
- Though I'm sure a woman with a larger clit would also find it useful or fun.

[FNQLivin]

It will be interesting to see where he takes you both. The power trip for him must be a real high inducing feeling. If I was in his place I’d want to really push your buttons to see how far you want to go.

[David52]

Is she sharing their communications with you? He seems to understand that you can't be left out.

[nostringsorworries]

It will be interesting to see where he takes you both. The power trip for him must be a real high inducing feeling. If I was in his place I’d want to really push your buttons to see how far you want to go.

How far I want to go, or my wife?

[nostringsorworries]

Is she sharing their communications with you? He seems to understand that you can't be left out.

Definitely communicates openly. He treats us a couple and is into us as a couple. It's a little unusual I guess, but he wants me as involved as possible, if only as an observer. That is his kink, I suppose.

It wasn't what I was expecting in my fantasies. But I think it's probably better than what I was imagining. I was thinking more of one night stands, occasionally, with uninvolved men. But I think that came from watching too much porn. It's not realistic and probably not wise if it were.

[FNQLivin]

It will be interesting to see where he takes you both. The power trip for him must be a real high inducing feeling. If I was in his place I’d want to really push your buttons to see how far you want to go.

How far I want to go, or my wife?

That’s the question isn’t?

There have been tales here where the bull either makes or breaks the couple. Be careful what you wish for and be mindful that even the most solid couple can be broken.

[nostringsorworries]

It will be interesting to see where he takes you both. The power trip for him must be a real high inducing feeling. If I was in his place I’d want to really push your buttons to see how far you want to go.

How far I want to go, or my wife?

That’s the question isn’t?

There have been tales here where the bull either makes or breaks the couple. Be careful what you wish for and be mindful that even the most solid couple can be broken.

Interesting, but I'm not sure what you mean by acquiese to his wants. I'd probably already do anything he wanted, but that is mostly on her and were she's willing to go.

[FNQLivin]

Yeah, I am not doing a good job.

I am reading a hotwife/cuckold book where the husband definitely wanted to see his wife take a lover and be a Hotwife, but the bull is so good at working out what buttons to press on the husband, that it goes far further than either of them expected. The bull is an expert lover and is skilled at giving the wife pleasure she's not really experienced before and so what started out as a Hotwife adventure moved rapidly into the cuckold dynamic. Ostensibly all the initiatives were coming from the bull, but all being relayed via the wife as she realised what an amazing lover he was. The husband understands this, but by the time he does, they're just a little too deep in. Still to finish, so I am waiting for the ending.

There was a couple of here a few years ago and I have no idea as to the veracity of their story, but their bull took it upon himself to break their sexual connection, so all intimacy was at his discretion. Again, an expert and skilled love maker, with no desire to take the wife for himself, but got pleasure at seeing what she would do to keep seeing the bull, who she was infatuated with.

[nostringsorworries]

Yeah, I am not doing a good job.

I am reading a hotwife/cuckold book where the husband definitely wanted to see his wife take a lover and be a Hotwife, but the bull is so good at working out what buttons to press on the husband, that it goes far further than either of them expected. The bull is an expert lover and is skilled at giving the wife pleasure she's not really experienced before and so what started out as a Hotwife adventure moved rapidly into the cuckold dynamic. Ostensibly all the initiatives were coming from the bull, but all being relayed via the wife as she realised what an amazing lover he was. The husband understands this, but by the time he does, they're just a little too deep in. Still to finish, so I am waiting for the ending.

There was a couple of here a few years ago and I have no idea as to the veracity of their story, but their bull took it upon himself to break their sexual connection, so all intimacy was at his discretion. Again, an expert and skilled love maker, with no desire to take the wife for himself, but got pleasure at seeing what she would do to keep seeing the bull, who she was infatuated with.

Ah, that makes sense. What is the book? It sounds hot!