Is anyone else a dominant cuckold?

[Smallcock74]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

[trecital]

In what ways would you say you are dominant?

[The Owl]

Does it matter that you fit a label? What matters is that you and your wife have figured out a sexual balance between you that works for both of you. You can call it cuckold, wittol, compersive, or a very sensitive dominant. Who cares as long as you both enjoy the relationship you have created between you both?

Keep enjoying. Tell us more a out your relationship history, current circumstances, activities and plans.

[Smallcock74]

In what ways would you say you are dominant?

It's me that arranges the men that she sees. I usually tell her what to wear and what I want her to do. I film all meets.

[Smallcock74]

Does it matter that you fit a label? What matters is that you and your wife have figured out a sexual balance between you that works for both of you. You can call it cuckold, wittol, compersive, or a very sensitive dominant. Who cares as long as you both enjoy the relationship you have created between you both?

Keep enjoying. Tell us more a out your relationship history, current circumstances, activities and plans.

It's not that I need to fit a label. It's more that I like to discuss meetings and plan ideas with other like minded men, but I feel that most men on here are the opposite to me in that the wife controls the situation. I can't satisfy my wife but I do enjoy having the control.

[hubudig2]

Do you still feel dominant while she's actually having sex with other men?
Or do you like to feel like you're not in control in the actual moment?

If the former, is there anything that makes you think you're not stag&vixen?

[Smallcock74]

Do you still feel dominant while she's actually having sex with other men?
Or do you like to feel like you're not in control in the actual moment?

If the former, is there anything that makes you think you're not stag&vixen?

Occasionally I have felt that I am the alpha male when another man is having sex with her and so retain control, but generally the bull takes over and becomes the dominant one.

[Thebestdays1]

When I used to have threesomes with my SIL and her partner, I guess he was the cuckold.
As I was trying to get her to agree to a foursome with my wife during our hook ups, I did everything I was told, mostly by her. However, although he wasn't so verbal with his commands, he'd often just shove his penis down my throat or tell me whether to speed up or slow down after getting me to stroke him or tell me if he wanted me to fondle his balls. I sucked him off quite a few times during these threesomes and sometimes he'd let me do the work but on some occasions he'd hold my head and fuck my mouth quite enthusiastically, especially if I was fucking her at the same time.
Once he'd discovered my fetish for swallowing her pee he'd always get me to follow her into the bathroom when she needed to go and enjoyed watching me lie down in the bath so that I could drink it all. Once, he was so turned on that he stood at the edge of the bath, masturbating as she crouched over my mouth and he managed to land a couple of spurts of his cum on my face, then I had to lick up the last droplets from him. Although he never peed in my mouth, he'd get me to suck him clean when he'd been to the toilet.
These threesomes were usually quite tiring for me as he was constantly encouraging me to do something with her, or him and I'd leave with a tender penis and a stretched mouth (he was about 8.5 inches and very girthy).

[cuckoldreal80]

Maybe instead of being a cuckold+hotwife relationship it is a stag+vixen relationship.

[stubbyhubby]

I don't see myself as dominant, but more as a guard dog. We live out in the country, so if shit goes bad at my house (trespasser, etc) then I am the dangerous one. I maintain security cameras and am sufficiently capable of defending us, considering a 911 call means at least a 20+ minute wait for police to arrive. So again, I am more of a guard dog.

On the flip side, I have a tiny dick and am 100% sub cuckold to her and any guy she is with. Their pleasure is my pleasure. If I was given the opportunity to have a big cock and not be a cuck I would turn it down. I love being a sub cuck.

[Gearup]

Small

Sounds like you and I are similar. know that a small cock is not the end of the world - just a challenge for you. be creative and OWN your wife.

I am dominant with my wife - love her submitting to me - I Initiate everything - love to fuck her, tie her up, love to choke her during sex, stuff her with toys and tell her what to wear. I make her wear things that turn me on - sexy lingerie, high heels, a collar and leash.

She is a total prude and would never fuck another guy but I love fantasizing about it, role playing that she gets dominated and fucked by others as I command. It would be fun to watch & participate but the closest she ever comes to fucking a BBC is when I fuck her with her black dildo.

you want to discuss ideas and thoughts about your wife - fire away. I am sure many of us would be happy to give you ideas about how to dominate your wife. Honestly, it will be a pleasure to help.

[Ghalilaeus]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

The term is Candaulist

[bltn1966]

Dominant cuckold? Maybe that’s me. Some guys find a 6’3” 235 lbs well endowed black man intimidating. That’s one of the reasons my wife prefer not to have sex in front of me. One guy told her he was afraid I might kick his ass if he was terrible in bed. He also was afraid of what I might do if was too damn good.

[choowy54]

Of course you are a cuckold. If your wife is having sex with other men, well that's the only requirement to being a cuckold.

[Smallcock74]

Do you still feel dominant while she's actually having sex with other men?
Or do you like to feel like you're not in control in the actual moment?

If the former, is there anything that makes you think you're not stag&vixen?

I could be wrong, but my understanding of Stag and Vixen lifestyle is 'similar' to our situation. Where I think it differs, is at the point where she has sex with other men. I never take part, as in, we never have a mmf. I only ever watch, fully dressed. Also, in most cases the bull becomes more dominant than me at this stage, where as in the case of Stag and Vixen I would still be expected to be the alpha male or at least have equal control. I would also assume that the Vixen would have some form of assertiveness, but my wife doesn't.

[Smallcock74]

Maybe instead of being a cuckold+hotwife relationship it is a stag+vixen relationship.

A few people have suggested this. I would suggest
our situation is somewhere in between. I feel like a Stag, up until the point the bull enters the room, then I lose control, and feel similar to a cuckold, but will not allow any form of humiliation on my part, or participate in the sex. I kind if feel like both, but also feel like neither.

[Smallcock74]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

The term is Candaulist

I've never heard of this term. Is it another name for a combination of Stag and cuckold? E.g. A stagold.

[Smallcock74]

Dominant cuckold? Maybe that’s me. Some guys find a 6’3” 235 lbs well endowed black man intimidating. That’s one of the reasons my wife prefer not to have sex in front of me. One guy told her he was afraid I might kick his ass if he was terrible in bed. He also was afraid of what I might do if was too damn good.

I see your problem....but me being a white man with a very small penis, I have little sympathy for a black man who's more than likely hung like a horse.
Cuckolding is becoming more popular in England, but it's still not all that common. I've never heard of a black cuckold before. I thought you guys were the natural bulls and us white guys with tiny cocks were the natural cuckolds. Do you prefer to see your wife with other black guys or don't you mind? I actually prefer black guys, there just seems to be something more erotic about a black guy with a white woman. Unfortunately, we live in a part of the country where black men are few and far between, so she's only ever had one. I have to say, I loved it. I hope I haven't offended you, good luck in finding your ideal bull. He's out there somewhere.

[Ready2StartAgain]

I'm Dominant in every way of life and that's what makes e want to submit. I just need a sexy and strong minded female to do so. They're tuff to find

[Ready2StartAgain]

I'm Dominant in every way of life and that's what makes me want to submit. I just need a sexy and strong minded female to do so. They're tuff to find

[Ghalilaeus]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

The term is Candaulist

I've never heard of this term. Is it another name for a combination of Stag and cuckold? E.g. A stagold.

In cuckold parliance it refers to those who willingly push their wife to have sex with others for voyeuristic pleasure, without the element of submission. It comes from an ancient tale:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaules

[RandomCock2]

i think your description fits my best friend who is also my cuck perfectly ,
he is not submissive and eggs me to fuck his girl ,
for example when he eats my cum off of her, one day he said
"mf are you not eating properly? why the hell is it not as thick as it was?"

i mean he still is not allowed to fuck her bt he doesnt seem any less of a dominant person than i am in the bedroom

[MartasBoy]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

I would certainly step up and do whatever I could to protect my wife, if she was at risk of being harmed in any way.
My wife is a very smart and savvy person. She has lived many places around the country, has traveled a bit, and has been in positions of authority, where she supervised men. She usually has pretty good instincts, and takes good care of herself. But I always would step in to do whatever I could to protect her.

My wife likes lovers who take a dominant role with her. I have never been able to do that in bed with her.

I am medium height and very sleight of build. I am skinny, and have never been able to develop much muscle, even when I have worked out. I just have one of those kinds of bodies.
My wife sometimes meets her play partners at the gym. Some of them work out a lot, and lift weights. One of her lovers did Mixed Martial arts.

My wife likes to pick partners who can take a forceful role with her, and do things that I am unable to do. She likes to play a little hard to get, and taunt them to take her. She likes a lover who can carry her to the bedroom, toss her on the bed, pin her hands over her head, force her clenched legs open with his knees, and slide into her.

I have tried to play dominant with her. I can pin her arms over her head, but struggle to get her legs open, unless she gives me a break, and gives in a little.

Usually when I have tried this, I start by rubbing on myself to get myself hard. When I go to insert myself in her, I go limp. It sort of destroys the excitement for her, when I have to stop, and let go of her hands, so she can help me get hard again, and guide me in.

One time there was a guy who wanted to know why she wanted someone else for sex, rather than me. She offered to show him. She announced that she was going to pick one of us to be her studly man of the house, and the other to serve as her house boy. He invited me to go first. I pinned her on the bed with one hand, and rubbed on myself to get myself hard, using the other hand. When I was hard, I tried to insert, but lost my erection and went limp. As I was trying to get hard again she brought up one knee and forced me off of her.

She said to the Bull, who had a raging hard on from watching my feeble attempt, "How about you? Do you have trouble sealing the deal?"

He said, "No way!" and climbed on top of her and easily entered her. She told me, "I found my studly man of the house. You're my house boy now. Go make us some lunch."

I guess I just don't have it in me, to be dominant.

[Smallcock74]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

I would certainly step up and do whatever I could to protect my wife, if she was at risk of being harmed in any way.
My wife is a very smart and savvy person. She has lived many places around the country, has traveled a bit, and has been in positions of authority, where she supervised men. She usually has pretty good instincts, and dicks good care of herself. But I always would step in to do whatever I could to protect her.

My wife likes lovers you take a dominant role with her. I have never been able to do that in bed with her.

I am medium height and very sleight of build. I am skinny, and have never been able to develop much muscle, even when I have worked out. I just have one of those kinds of bodies.
My wife sometimes meets her play partners at the gym. Some of them work out a lot, and lift weights. One of her lovers did Mixed Martial arts.

My wife likes to pick partners who can take a forceful role with her, and do things that I am unable to do. She likes to play a little hard to get, and taunt them to take her. She likes a lover who can carry her to the bedroom, toss her on the bed, in her hands over her head, force her clenched legs open with his knees, and slide into her.

I have tried to play dominant with her. I can pin her arms over her head, but struggle to get her legs open, unless she gives me a break, and gives in a little.

Usually when I have tried this, I start by rubbing on myself to get myself hard. When I go to insert myself in her, I go limp. It sort of destroys the excitement for her, when I have to stop, and let go of her hands, so she can help me get hard again, and guide me in.

One time there was a guy who wanted to know why she wanted someone else for sex, rather than me. He offered to show him. She announced that she was going to pick one of us to be her studly man of the house, and the other to serve as her house boy. He invited me to go first. I Pinder on the bed with one hand, and rubbed on myself to get myself hard, using the other hand. What I was hard I tried to insert, but lost my erection and went limp. As I was trying to get hard again she brought up one knee and forced me off of her.

She said to the Bull, who had a raging hard on from watching my feeble attempt, "How about you? Do you have trouble sealing the deal?"
He said, "No way!" and climbed on top of her and easily entered her. She told me, "I found my studly man of the house. You're my house boy now. Go make us some lunch."

I guess I just don't have it in me, to be dominant.

I'd never let the bull treat me like that. Next thing you know you'll be fluffing him before he starts on your wife.

[MartasBoy]

I read lots of posts and am not sure if I quite fit the title of cuckold. My wife is very submissive and enjoys sex with other men. I'm not very well endowed and cum extremely quickly, but I too enjoy watching her have sex with other men. I suppose I'm more of a voyeur.

I would certainly step up and do whatever I could to protect my wife, if she was at risk of being harmed in any way.....

.....My wife likes lovers you take a dominant role with her. I have never been able to do that in bed with her......

.....My wife likes to pick partners who can take a forceful role with her, and do things that I am unable to do. She likes to play a little hard to get, and taunt them to take her. She likes a lover who can carry her to the bedroom, toss her on the bed, in her hands over her head, force her clenched legs open with his knees, and slide into her.....

.....She said to the Bull, who had a raging hard on from watching my feeble attempt, "How about you? Do you have trouble sealing the deal?"
He said, "No way!" and climbed on top of her and easily entered her. She told me, "I found my studly man of the house. You're my house boy now. Go make us some lunch."

I guess I just don't have it in me, to be dominant.

I'd never let the bull treat me like that. Next thing you know you'll be fluffing him before he starts on your wife.

It really wasn't anything that he did to me. My wife orchestrated all of this, and invited him to play, in her little competition.
It's something that really turns my wife on, and excites her. I don't want to get in the way of that for her.

Next thing you know you'll be fluffing him before he starts on your wife.

I think that will soon be coming next. My wife has hinted about that before, and said that it would really turn her on. I don't think it's really something I can do much about, if my wife really wants it.