RunDannyRun wrote: ↑Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:04 am
I know folks will probably micro analyze this but she actually refused to have sex with me on Wednesday and told me that she is saving herself up for Adam that night. She told me that we can have sex next day. I didn't really care that much but it was amusing to notice her hesitation and how tried to let me down without hurting my feelings. I think she is scheduling her nights with us to have least impact on her work.
Danny you know my views on this part. Nothing new to "analyse".. She is in love with Adam as her primary mate. You are her best friend and husband and "habit" and "routine"..
And of course "security, trust and comfort".
But you are not her passion, you are not her romance or even any strong emotion in the normal course of things.
She had no reason to deny you on Wednesday. You don't anyways pound her or mess up her pussy. You have done your mild, routine thing on her in the past after going to bed and she has had no problems going down to him later in the night.
It's different now. After his explicit promise of monogamy, she is much more committed to him now..She feels responsible to him, as his woman in life.
Saving her pussy for him (from you) is part of that transition
You had said earlier in the thread that you are definitely not gonna put up with emasculation! But bro- that's exactly where you have arrived!
You two were supposed to be the main deal and he was supposed to be the convenient side show. She had asked you to give her the word, the moment you had any discomfort about the way things are going.
From there to denial? To nicely telling you - the supposed love of her life- to fuck off?.Because her other man- the actual man- deserves a fresh pussy that night?
Really?
Btw- do you check her texts in her presence?