Resources?

[Notreallysure135]

Any good resources on here or anyone used to really start into this lifestyle? Like how to know which category i fall into more/whats the difference between them. Some good baby steps to introduce to start taking with my partner? Appreciate any and all help given

[Swanilla]

Sometimes just starting the conversation can be tough. Something that works for some (and is fun) is to have both of you take the mojoupgrade.com quiz (it's free). It may open up so areas that you both agree on and can start to explore.

[Notreallysure135]

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[Notreallysure135]

Oh that was full of interesting options! I think that would a good way to start exploring!

[Shadnaster]

Ask her about past lovers. Any weird places she's had sex? Any funny encounters? Start it off light like that. Then, get into more personal stuff like, what was her hottest most intense sex?

[BBCfan]

Ask her about past lovers. Any weird places she's had sex? Any funny encounters? Start it off light like that. Then, get into more personal stuff like, what was her hottest most intense sex?

Those questions certainly brought me down this road when I heard my partners answers. Great idea for a starting point.

[wulfenus]

agree with other posters, lots of fun to get the conversation going, but it's sometimes challenging to get it going. Mainstream Tv has enough sex in it to easily bring up, gee did you ever do something like that? or do you like that? My wife likes talking about it when it starts that way. Maybe it's the fact that it's 'ok' as someone is doing it in a show.

Past lovers is great too, with all of it though it's getting her in the mood for it. You pick your times.

Good one for us was, what was the naughtiest thing ? I was expecting a replay of a great story when she was at a party
and told me something else about a pool adventure, so that was a double bonus points night.

Also ask who was the best? of course you say I know I'm the best, but you know if you didn't meet me.

[Notreallysure135]

All great tips, thank you! Heading back home from a business trip tonight and will try this weekend.