Not sure if I'm in the right place..

[54321]

Our communication ability has increased exponentially throughout the process so far. We're happier together than we've ever been and affirm our love and devotion to each other daily.

Wonderful! <3

54321

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Five days until we leave and L has two dates setup with two different men. She is very excited and has been talking to them almost nonstop for the last week.

Looks there is no stopping this train now

[David52]

I've been following your story quietly from the beginning. It is upon you now. Can you fill us in on plans for the two dates?

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

I've been following your story quietly from the beginning. It is upon you now. Can you fill us in on plans for the two dates?

Of course. Thanks for sticking with us, it's been a long slow burn to get here.

Date 1 - French Pierre has survived the last few months and keeping L interested. I find him to be a little arrogant, but whatever she is down. He has not been sending lots of pictures of his huge cock. I believe we will all meet at a bar somewhere then they will go back to our Air BnB, while I figure out a way to entertain myself for however long it takes them.

Date 2 - A very handsome and fit fireman. He seems like a really chilled and cool guy, very friendly. Been very conscious to take things at L's pace. The man is an Adonis. Again I assume we will meet somewhere public until they decide to take it further or not, at which point I'll be ejected from the date and have to make my own way for the evening.

I have no idea what will await me when I'm called back by L. Whether they will still be there, or will have left. I suspect I may spend some time on here trying to keep myself somewhat sane, while I try not to think about all the things they will be doing together.

L is nervous but also buzzing with excitement. I told her that even at this stage, if she doesn't want to go through with it then she can pull the plug whenever she wants. She looked at me grinning and said "Nah. I'm going to go for it!"

We will see if the cocky attitude lasts. I'm getting a little nervous though. From time to time I think "Am I really OK with this? Do I want this to happen?" But it's take us so long to get to this point that pulling the rug out from under L would not be fair. I will have some rollercoaster emotions, I've read all about that. Now I just need to manage them, not make them L's problem, and get through to the other side.

I hope the experiences will be amazing for her.

[sandy691196]

I've been following your story quietly from the beginning. It is upon you now. Can you fill us in on plans for the two dates?

Of course. Thanks for sticking with us, it's been a long slow burn to get here.

Date 1 - French Pierre has survived the last few months and keeping L interested. I find him to be a little arrogant, but whatever she is down. He has not been sending lots of pictures of his huge cock. I believe we will all meet at a bar somewhere then they will go back to our Air BnB, while I figure out a way to entertain myself for however long it takes them.

Date 2 - A very handsome and fit fireman. He seems like a really chilled and cool guy, very friendly. Been very conscious to take things at L's pace. The man is an Adonis. Again I assume we will meet somewhere public until they decide to take it further or not, at which point I'll be ejected from the date and have to make my own way for the evening.

I have no idea what will await me when I'm called back by L. Whether they will still be there, or will have left. I suspect I may spend some time on here trying to keep myself somewhat sane, while I try not to think about all the things they will be doing together.

L is nervous but also buzzing with excitement. I told her that even at this stage, if she doesn't want to go through with it then she can pull the plug whenever she wants. She looked at me grinning and said "Nah. I'm going to go for it!"

We will see if the cocky attitude lasts. I'm getting a little nervous though. From time to time I think "Am I really OK with this? Do I want this to happen?" But it's take us so long to get to this point that pulling the rug out from under L would not be fair. I will have some rollercoaster emotions, I've read all about that. Now I just need to manage them, not make them L's problem, and get through to the other side.

I hope the experiences will be amazing for her.

We will see if the cocky attitude lasts. I'm getting a little nervous though. From time to time I think "Am I really OK with this? Do I want this to happen?" But it's take us so long to get to this point that pulling the rug out from under L would not be fair. I will have some rollercoaster emotions, I've read all about that. Now I just need to manage them, not make them L's problem, and get through to the other side.


Wise perspective.

One doesn't really know how things will go down on the mental /emotional plane, till one has gone through the first experience with another man, in reality.

Being open to all reasonable options after the first episode, is the way to go.

My wife had freaked out after the 2nd session. The first one was an MFM 3some with the hubby of this couple.
That 1st session made us cling to each other emotionally, a lot.
The second session was basically for me to fuck the other wife. My wife had her panties on the while time, feigning "periods"!

She gave a marathon BJ to the guy while I and the other wife had a wonderful, mutually orgasmic session. When my wife found me cuddling with the other lady, post orgasm, she threw a hissy fit!

[54321]

I will have some rollercoaster emotions, I've read all about that. Now I just need to manage them, not make them L's problem, and get through to the other side.

You are a star. Your wife is a lucky woman.

Every good wish,

54321

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Date #1 is in a couple of hours. L just had a shower and is shaving her pussy.

I feel oddly calm.

[sandy691196]

Yah. After all the wait, the planning, the anticipation..
What is she wearing btw?

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Yah. After all the wait, the planning, the anticipation..
What is she wearing btw?

L is wearing a one piece green dress, with lots of fabric missing and a thong.

I've just left them at a bar near our Air BnB and am going into Melbourne to watch the tennis at a bar. I need to take my mind off whats happening.

He seemed like a nice enough guy and L was comfortable with him, so she gave me the OK and I set off. Now I'm waiting for a tram and thinking if I am a mental case for letting this happen or not.

[FNQLivin]

Enjoy your wait in the bar.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Enjoy your wait in the bar.

The tennis is good. Trying not to think about what else might be happening, it's been an hour since I left them.

In a way, I hope they don't take too long as a don't want to pay for pounding beers all night. Does that make me selfish?

[sandy691196]

Yah. After all the wait, the planning, the anticipation..
What is she wearing btw?

L is wearing a one piece green dress, with lots of fabric missing and a thong.

I've just left them at a bar near our Air BnB and am going into Melbourne to watch the tennis at a bar. I need to take my mind off whats happening.

He seemed like a nice enough guy and L was comfortable with him, so she gave me the OK and I set off. Now I'm waiting for a tram and thinking if I am a mental case for letting this happen or not.

The French connection!

Jezus! The way you describe it! No bra - huh?

Is your accommodation stocked with essential supplies? Lube? Asses may be fucked.. you know.. right? Large size condoms - XL / XXL?

Why should you be a mental case!?
It's just sex for Chrissake! And she has a #2 lined up already! So it's not some kinda exclusive love shacking she is doing with a romantic Alphonso!
Chill mate... Have fun!

[sandy691196]

Enjoy your wait in the bar.

The tennis is good. Trying not to think about what else might be happening, it's been an hour since I left them.

In a way, I hope they don't take too long as a don't want to pay for pounding beers all night. Does that make me selfish?

Not selfish. You are denying yourself the full blast of this fun of a lifetime..
The more time they spend, the more elaborate hot stories to tell when she is stroking your cock!

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Yah. After all the wait, the planning, the anticipation..
What is she wearing btw?

L is wearing a one piece green dress, with lots of fabric missing and a thong.

I've just left them at a bar near our Air BnB and am going into Melbourne to watch the tennis at a bar. I need to take my mind off whats happening.

He seemed like a nice enough guy and L was comfortable with him, so she gave me the OK and I set off. Now I'm waiting for a tram and thinking if I am a mental case for letting this happen or not.

The French connection!

Jezus! The way you describe it! No bra - huh?

Is your accommodation stocked with essential supplies? Lube? Asses may be fucked.. you know.. right? Large size condoms - XL / XXL?

Why should you be a mental case!?
It's just sex for Chrissake! And she has a #2 lined up already! So it's not some kinda exclusive love shacking she is doing with a romantic Alphonso!
Chill mate... Have fun!

This actually makes me feel a whole lot better.

Yep Pierre is probably going to score. Asses most definitely will not be getting fucked though, L doesn't like that at all and from what I've seen of his Penis, Pierre is far too large to put that on someone like L.

The next date is tomorrow night, with the Adonis fireman. I don't know if they have worked out the details yet, but I suspect it will follow the same pattern.

I hope it doesnt get expensive having to spend all my evenings at these bars. Although, it 29 degrees C, on the waterfront in Melbourne, 9pm at night and still light. On my 2nd pint and it's beautiful.

[sandy691196]

mix a shandy.. if you wanna go easy on the number of pints. It's warm enough for a shandy..

[54321]

Tonic water and ice?

I'm dying to know what happened.

54321

[sandy691196]

Deep semen..
Just like the negative is "deep shit"..
Here it's super positive- hence "deep semen"?

The French lover fucked all doubts and second thoughts out of her pussy!
And she in turn took hubby into deep bliss through a loving retelling!

[Long Lurker 34]

Yah. After all the wait, the planning, the anticipation..
What is she wearing btw?

L is wearing a one piece green dress, with lots of fabric missing and a thong.

I've just left them at a bar near our Air BnB and am going into Melbourne to watch the tennis at a bar. I need to take my mind off whats happening.

He seemed like a nice enough guy and L was comfortable with him, so she gave me the OK and I set off. Now I'm waiting for a tram and thinking if I am a mental case for letting this happen or not.

MLO
- You just can't get good quality these days. Shocking.

[trecital]

Nope, sorry Sandy, once again that doesn't make any sense.
Bit too much wine at lunchtime perhaps?

[whosbeensleeping]

On the edge of my seat!

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Well it happened. After my last message here I got the phone call and rushed off back to the apartment.

So they did the deed. He was huge according to L. We talked through the details, it was a little emotional but we got there.

L didn't cum, turns out she isn't a size queen. He went slow it was a bit uncomfortable, she took his whole length but it didn't get her off.

She asked him to use a condom, he didn't. He put it in bare and when she realised that he wasn't using one she didn't push the issue. I reacted strongly to this, mostly about the lack of respect he showed her and her wishes. He didn't cum inside her though, she said he pulled out for that.

I am pissed about it, though not with L. She doesn't have the experience or confidence to insist on the condom, so this is her lesson in why that is important. As for her not sticking to the one rule we set out with, use protection, I don't see any reason in holding on to it. He next period is due very soon though and I won't breath easy until it arrives.

He has asked to meet L again before we leave, I don't feel that he deserves to. But it's her decision, not mine. I have considered reaching out to him when we are back and telling him that L is pregnant and we will be seeking a paternity test and child support payments, or going to the police with sexual assualt claims. The man is married, so I thought this would put the fear of God into him and teach the little shit a lesson in manners.

Probably wont do that though, L considers the night mostly a success and is happy that it happened. No need to ruin that for her, just accept our lessons and move on to the next man.

Speaking of the next man, L is currently on a date with him and I'm doing the same as last night. Giving them space and having a beer and enjoying the beautiful evening and tennis.

How do I feel about L fucking Pierre? I honestly feel very little has changed. L and I interacted as normal today, even when chatting about it. Our relationship dynamic is the same. Logically I know it happened, but emotionally it may not have sunk in yet.

We had reclaim sex this morning and that was nice. L said she much preferred sex with me, which I appreciate. Maybe things will change after round #2 with the fireman?

[FNQLivin]

Thanks for the update. Won’t labour the point, but in Victoria, what he did is a crime and has been for over 2 years. Don’t push it, but perhaps remind him that what he did could get him a criminal record and a sexual assault history, which would render him ineligible to ever work with kids.

[sandy691196]

Well it happened. After my last message here I got the phone call and rushed off back to the apartment.

So they did the deed. He was huge according to L. We talked through the details, it was a little emotional but we got there.

L didn't cum, turns out she isn't a size queen. He went slow it was a bit uncomfortable, she took his whole length but it didn't get her off.

She asked him to use a condom, he didn't. He put it in bare and when she realised that he wasn't using one she didn't push the issue. I reacted strongly to this, mostly about the lack of respect he showed her and her wishes. He didn't cum inside her though, she said he pulled out for that.

I am pissed about it, though not with L. She doesn't have the experience or confidence to insist on the condom, so this is her lesson in why that is important. As for her not sticking to the one rule we set out with, use protection, I don't see any reason in holding on to it. He next period is due very soon though and I won't breath easy until it arrives.

He has asked to meet L again before we leave, I don't feel that he deserves to. But it's her decision, not mine. I have considered reaching out to him when we are back and telling him that L is pregnant and we will be seeking a paternity test and child support payments, or going to the police with sexual assualt claims. The man is married, so I thought this would put the fear of God into him and teach the little shit a lesson in manners.

Probably wont do that though, L considers the night mostly a success and is happy that it happened. No need to ruin that for her, just accept our lessons and move on to the next man.

Speaking of the next man, L is currently on a date with him and I'm doing the same as last night. Giving them space and having a beer and enjoying the beautiful evening and tennis.

How do I feel about L fucking Pierre? I honestly feel very little has changed. L and I interacted as normal today, even when chatting about it. Our relationship dynamic is the same. Logically I know it happened, but emotionally it may not have sunk in yet.

We had reclaim sex this morning and that was nice. L said she much preferred sex with me, which I appreciate. Maybe things will change after round #2 with the fireman?

Congratulations to both of you. The first time has unpredictable fallouts. You have navigated it well.

"L said she much preferred sex with me, which I appreciate. Maybe things will change after round #2 with the fireman?"
Why do you want "things to change"? Are you sure you want L to prefer sex with others over sex with you? This was an itch you two needed to scratch, it is being scratched now. So why does your wife really need to feel that you are second best? Why cant you still be the best for her and let these side shows remain just variations and a change of cuisine for kicks sake?

You say that you had powerful emotions first when she was narrating the tale. But you do realise that it was just sex? Nothing special between them. She is already with another guy .. its just another male body!

That thing about him going bareback. You were not present hence you don't know what exactly transpired. Many wives are wary of sounding too "satisfied" or too enthusiastic about their first time sex outside marriage when narrating the stuff to their husbands. Particularly a caring and emotionally possessive husband like you. She is your partner. She knows all about your angst and sentiments.

She wouldn't want to make it difficult for you to emotionally process by sounding too happy about another man. She didnt object to his going bareback.. maybe she was OK with it? You did note from her narrative that it was he who pulled out, on his own, to cum on her rather than in her? It wasnt L who made him do it. That means she would have been ok with him cumming inside too? This is no one's fault. Sex, that too first time adventures, are passionate stuff and driven by powerful, overwhelming feelings of pleasure. She is not a veteran in this things or a pro.. Giving in to the powerful feelings in the moment is normal the first few times.

Imagine you going to the cops with a sexual assault charge, for a consensual encounter which you had arranged in a way! Imagine L having to explain to the cops exactly what happened and how! Any normal wife may freak out and go into depression, having to go through that degrading experience and NEVER ever think of playing again!

More so because this wasn't real rape or assault! Imagine her resentment towards you for first having encouraged her and then making a public mess of it due to your "first time emotional jitters"! This reaction of yours maybe an expression of your powerful angst deep inside on your wife being taken intimately by another male? Fantasising is one thing - the reality is another.

I feel its perfectly OK to have second thoughts and perfectly fine to realise that this is not for you in reality. This is not a slave labour camp! See how you feel after tonight's binge and then think it through all over again. Your wife is a stake holder and would have her side of it too. Maybe you 2 discover that this is exciting and fulfilling after all? Maybe the French guy wasnt the right kinda guy?
Or maybe you 2 feel that there is something not right about this whole thing.

After the initial angst dies down. Please have a heart to heart chat with her and re-evaluate everything. All said and done, you 2 are living out a long time fantasy. Otherwise you would have wondered for ever and regretted not having done it when the time is gone.

Best of luck.

[FNQLivin]

I think we know where you stand on consent Sandy. Luckily, the World has moved on from a period where women were seen as objects. Even so, men still take advantage of situations. Forget pregnancy, for all we know he’s been barebacking someone with an infectious disease and is merrily spreading it around. She didn’t consent to him going BB and not insisting is not consenting. He clearly made a choice before coming out to not use a condom despite it being requested.

I don’t know where you live, but Australia, for all its faults and issues with dealing with sexual violence towards women is making progress with defining consent. Stealthing is a specific offence and is regarded as serious sexual assault. Women have been conditioned to just let stuff pass and until they are taken seriously, every time, then they’ll just continue to be assaulted (and worse).

For her first time, all he had to do to make it epic was not enter her unprotected.

[sandy691196]

I call BS on that law. Thats my choice as an adult. There are 2 adult parties involved in sex. This logic of the man seeing the woman as an object is nonsensical since the woman is CHOOSING to continue with the action WITHOUT any coercion or without being in any disadvantage in the power equation (as in this case)..
THIS kind of a thing is leading to a hike in REAL rapes and assaults as deep seated resentments rise on the total unfairness of it all. And more and more women fall into the trap of being TOLD by political interests that what they went through was a crime! The power of suggestion!

Anyways, I would like to leave it at that. This is not a thread for such things. Lets not muck it up with politics.
Lets stand with the OP with empathy and support..