Understanding Hot Wives and cuckolds

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

A lot of good stuff in your description, and as even you said, some will and will not apply to various situations. Depending on whether the husband or wife initiates is a big determinant of how it will go. Also, if a husband awakens something the wife has repressed, watch out.. (my case). The preliminary conditions can be physical (small dick, ED), psychological (super high sex drive, Dom/sub, past hurt, repressed desire), or a combination that makes the path to hotwife/cuckold more likely, and in the end more enjoyable than the traditional married sex life, because in many cases, there may not even be a married sex life if the hotwife/cuckold choice is taken off the table.

[mrs_hotwifecplsa]

I find it intensely exciting to have a man come to my house when my husband is at work. Any time of the day, not just after a long day at work, and for me housework, or right before bed. I really like to feel sexually used, something I do not feel with my husband of course, and I find myself dropping anything else I have to do in my house to make myself available for a man with that same desire to use me sexually. My husband likes the results

[discreetlys husband]

Interesting. We may get there, not sure. But, she works all day too and comes home exhausted. So, it may stay as a fantasy for now.

[bradisalpha]

A lot of good stuff in your description, and as even you said, some will and will not apply to various situations. Depending on whether the husband or wife initiates is a big determinant of how it will go. Also, if a husband awakens something the wife has repressed, watch out.. (my case). The preliminary conditions can be physical (small dick, ED), psychological (super high sex drive, Dom/sub, past hurt, repressed desire), or a combination that makes the path to hotwife/cuckold more likely, and in the end more enjoyable than the traditional married sex life, because in many cases, there may not even be a married sex life if the hotwife/cuckold choice is taken off the table.

mrs_hotwifecplsa,

You made a very strong, and true, statement .. “if a husband awakens something the wife has repressed, watch out” !!

That awakening, as you know, allows a wife to embrace and appreciate this lifestyle very quickly.. which will amaze a husband. For some reason, it seems that a husband has no clue what a woman has repressed deep inside her as a marriage progresses but her sex life goes bland and stagnant. You read in these posts all the time about a husband being afraid to discuss or suggest a hotwife/cuckold arrangement because “they know she will not like it” or “she isn’t like that” or “I don’t want upset her or make her mad”. They really have no idea how sexual a woman is inside. How she longs to be “taken” by an Alpha Dominant man. And how it will arouse her to cuckold her husband and enjoy the sexual experiences she dreams of, and still have her home and family intact. It unleashes her sexual being.. mentally and physically !!

Yet, so many of these wives that they think “Will not like it” or “are not like that” are cheating on them with a man who has awaken their repressed sexual desires and they never know it !!

From my experience with hotwife/cuckold couples, very few husbands understand how a wife thinks and feels sexually, and what desires are hidden inside her waiting to be awaken. What a shame !!

Brad

[Sanman]

It's a given that BFs fuck my wife better than I can and do things for her sexually I can't do. There's a level of physicality her lovers give her that I can't match. She craves that, needs it, has always been very open about it and that's why wifey favors blue collar guys because she says they fuck her better. I'm not one so they satisfy her needs in bed better. I came to realize she married me for security, income stability, nurturing love and comfort, and to clean her up after BF sex. When we do make love, it's glorious, and I love serving her in any way I can.

[shadowtantra]

A lot of good stuff in your description, and as even you said, some will and will not apply to various situations. Depending on whether the husband or wife initiates is a big determinant of how it will go. Also, if a husband awakens something the wife has repressed, watch out.. (my case). The preliminary conditions can be physical (small dick, ED), psychological (super high sex drive, Dom/sub, past hurt, repressed desire), or a combination that makes the path to hotwife/cuckold more likely, and in the end more enjoyable than the traditional married sex life, because in many cases, there may not even be a married sex life if the hotwife/cuckold choice is taken off the table.

mrs_hotwifecplsa,

You made a very strong, and true, statement .. “if a husband awakens something the wife has repressed, watch out” !!

That awakening, as you know, allows a wife to embrace and appreciate this lifestyle very quickly.. which will amaze a husband. For some reason, it seems that a husband has no clue what a woman has repressed deep inside her as a marriage progresses but her sex life goes bland and stagnant. You read in these posts all the time about a husband being afraid to discuss or suggest a hotwife/cuckold arrangement because “they know she will not like it” or “she isn’t like that” or “I don’t want upset her or make her mad”. They really have no idea how sexual a woman is inside. How she longs to be “taken” by an Alpha Dominant man. And how it will arouse her to cuckold her husband and enjoy the sexual experiences she dreams of, and still have her home and family intact. It unleashes her sexual being.. mentally and physically !!

Yet, so many of these wives that they think “Will not like it” or “are not like that” are cheating on them with a man who has awaken their repressed sexual desires and they never know it !!

From my experience with hotwife/cuckold couples, very few husbands understand how a wife thinks and feels sexually, and what desires are hidden inside her waiting to be awaken. What a shame !!

Brad

Well said Brad! This really resonated: For some reason, it seems that a husband has no clue what a woman has repressed deep inside her as a marriage progresses but her sex life goes bland and stagnant. You read in these posts all the time about a husband being afraid to discuss or suggest a hotwife/cuckold arrangement because “they know she will not like it” or “she isn’t like that” or “I don’t want upset her or make her mad”. They really have no idea how sexual a woman is inside. How she longs to be “taken” by an Alpha Dominant man. And how it will arouse her to cuckold her husband and enjoy the sexual experiences she dreams of, and still have her home and family intact. It unleashes her sexual being.. mentally and physically !!

Speaking from my experience, I would also add that many women don't know what they want or are unwilling let themselves think in that way because of social programming and fear of losing their husband. It is hard work....

[Carrienlarry]

Our situation is mutual. Hubby picks the guys and tells me and them what to do. I get to do the same with girls. We never play alone. Always together and we both enjoy it and are truly in love with each other and having sex with others seems to strengthen our bond