My year long pussy free commitment (on going)

[inivisibletwin]

I'm creating this thread as an on going thread to track my commitment to a full year of pussy denial.

quick back story, my wife Jen and I just had our 1 year anniversary date, yesterday (today is the actual day of our anniversary, but we celebrated yesterday since todays a Monday.) Jen's boyfriend, Chris, who lives with us, owns her pussy and controls what does and doesn't happen to it. Jen and I have been doing pussy denial to various degrees since we first stated in this life style. (more details on that at the link in my signature).

for the past few years Chris has utilized his ownership of Jen's pussy to deny my access to it. That has taken the form of a full year of denial.


the rule is: I am not allowed to touch my wife's pussy at all, and I'm only allowed to see it when another man is also seeing it. otherwise I am not allowed to see it.


with the exception of our wedding anniversary. thats the one day a year I'm allowed access to it.

The whole "I can only see it when another man is seeing it" thing is because she is an exhibitionist and a nympho. She likes to be naked, especially around fully clothed people. She likes to show off her body. She has a boyfriend, and she also sleep with other guys. so if and when we find ourselves in a position where she is naked and trying to show off for another man but I am also there, she can still show off to the other man without worrying about preventing me from see it.

its a matter of convenience for her to show off to the other guy, whether its chris or someone else. if another guy is seeing it, I can also see it. by the "letter" of the rule I am allowed to look.


yesterday was the one day a year I had access to it, as of today I am back to being denied... for a whole year...

during my last year of denial I found myself accepting the denial and not looking, even when I was allowed to. I would either look away, or maintain eye contact.

I found myself wanting to adhere to the "spirit" of the rule, which was to prevent me from seeing it, and just not looking at it... I found that I was enjoying it and I also found it was turning her on that I was doing that... which of course made her have more fun with whom ever she was showing off to...




now that we are caught up...



since I'm starting a new year of denial, today, I have decided to commit to it!

I am making it my own personal new years resolution to not touch or see my wife's pussy at all, not even when I'm allowed to, for a whole year!

Jen and Chris wont have to enforce my denial, I am going to enforce it on myself!

I'm going to actively avoid looking!



This thread is was created to track my progress on this commitment for the year!

I really want to do this! ...I love my wife's vagina, it's beautiful! I do miss it! it's my favorite vagina! but thats what makes this so hot! thats what makes this something I want to do so badly!

because of that, I am hoping this thread will keep me accountable, and help me adhere to this commitment! ...so I'll need you guys to help with that!


I'm going to keep this thread up, and post about any time I avoided looking, anytime I could have but didnt. and track my progress!

I'm excited to go on this adventure, and share it with you guys!



and I excited to not even see my wife's vagina again, at all, for an entire year!!

[inivisibletwin]

I told Jen about this commitment just now, after she woke up. she has the day off and was resting after our long day, yesterday (story at the link in my signature)

She was excited by it! She smiled and asked if I was sure. I told her I was. She said if I was able to keep this commitment it would turn her on! She liked the idea that It's been off limits to me for so long that I'm accepting it and leaning into it.

she said if I was sure then she was going to stop worrying about enforcing the denial and let me enforce it on myself, to see if I actually mean it. I accepted and told her not to worry. I'm going to go out of my way to not see or touch her pussy again for a whole year! ...while chris and whomever else gets it all they want!

she said if I follow through on this it would turn her on, and probly make her have hotter sex with chris. That,alone was good enough incentive for me to agree!

It's official! I am committed!

[inivisibletwin]

I do have a question, for anyone who's following along and interested in contributing...

Chris' rule of my denial also says I'm allowed to see pictures, but only pictures I already had before they started dating. I'm not allowed to take or see any new pictures.

I do have a small collection of pictures of her. someone comment on another post asking me to post more pictures of her, which I could do, but it would be older pictures...

so my question is, should my denial include these old pictures?

or are these pictures okay, so I can post them on here?


to be clear, I am loyal to Jen, I dont look at other pussy, so since I'm not looking at hers for a year, that means I wont see pussy AT ALL, for the next year... other than potentially these old pictures.

[xucked]

No, pussyfree is pussyfree

Not pussyfree with some caveats

[inivisibletwin]

No, pussyfree is pussyfree

Not pussyfree with some caveats

true! and I'm down to not even have the pictures... but then I couldn't post the pictures on here...

though there are already pictures of her pussy on here, so...

[Jujube]

I think you can argue for an exception, as you are providing a service to your followers, by showing her pussy to all of us. I think they both may allow that. What do you think? Do they allow you to masturbate, or are you locked up? I haven’t checked in on you for a while.

[Long Lurker 34]

I'm creating this thread as an on going thread to track my commitment to a full year of pussy denial.

quick back story, my wife Jen and I just had our 1 year anniversary date, yesterday (today is the actual day of our anniversary, but we celebrated yesterday since todays a Monday.) Jen's boyfriend, Chris, who lives with us, owns her pussy and controls what does and doesn't happen to it. Jen and I have been doing pussy denial to various degrees since we first stated in this life style. (more details on that at the link in my signature).

for the past few years Chris has utilized his ownership of Jen's pussy to deny my access to it. That has taken the form of a full year of denial.


the rule is: I am not allowed to touch my wife's pussy at all, and I'm only allowed to see it when another man is also seeing it. otherwise I am not allowed to see it.


with the exception of our wedding anniversary. thats the one day a year I'm allowed access to it.

The whole "I can only see it when another man is seeing it" thing is because she is an exhibitionist and a nympho. She likes to be naked, especially around fully clothed people. She likes to show off her body. She has a boyfriend, and she also sleep with other guys. so if and when we find ourselves in a position where she is naked and trying to show off for another man but I am also there, she can still show off to the other man without worrying about preventing me from see it.

its a matter of convenience for her to show off to the other guy, whether its chris or someone else. if another guy is seeing it, I can also see it. by the "letter" of the rule I am allowed to look.


yesterday was the one day a year I had access to it, as of today I am back to being denied... for a whole year...

during my last year of denial I found myself accepting the denial and not looking, even when I was allowed to. I would either look away, or maintain eye contact.

I found myself wanting to adhere to the "spirit" of the rule, which was to prevent me from seeing it, and just not looking at it... I found that I was enjoying it and I also found it was turning her on that I was doing that... which of course made her have more fun with whom ever she was showing off to...




now that we are caught up...



since I'm starting a new year of denial, today, I have decided to commit to it!

I am making it my own personal new years resolution to not touch or see my wife's pussy at all, not even when I'm allowed to, for a whole year!

Jen and Chris wont have to enforce my denial, I am going to enforce it on myself!

I'm going to actively avoid looking!



This thread is was created to track my progress on this commitment for the year!

I really want to do this! ...I love my wife's vagina, it's beautiful! I do miss it! it's my favorite vagina! but thats what makes this so hot! thats what makes this something I want to do so badly!

because of that, I am hoping this thread will keep me accountable, and help me adhere to this commitment! ...so I'll need you guys to help with that!


I'm going to keep this thread up, and post about any time I avoided looking, anytime I could have but didnt. and track my progress!

I'm excited to go on this adventure, and share it with you guys!



and I excited to not even see my wife's vagina again, at all, for an entire year!!

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- Having been an avid follower of yours, I think with your self declared challenge could easily have another layer added. This being that any time another guy is having a helping of your wife's pussy you MUST have a hard on. Unless you are at work.

[MartasBoy]

I do have a question, for anyone who's following along and interested in contributing...

so my question is, should my denial include these old pictures?

or are these pictures okay, so I can post them on here?

I would say that true ownership of her pussy means that he owns it completely. He is her man, and she is his woman. She's just your wife. Most men who possess their woman's pussy, would not consider letting another man have photos of it.
That's just one thought I have on the subject.

[venus-can99]

Doesn’t have to be nekkid pics of Jenn. E.g. it would be great to see a pic the way she was dressed for your anniversary date.

[olive2a]

Congratulations for your commitment.
I think like many that a cuckold should not see his wife's pussy because it belongs to the boyfriend. (this happened to me with my ex-wife and I didn't understand the beauty of it. a cuckold does much more than fuck his wife, he worships her, he serves her, he is the pillar of the couple and he feeds himself denial).
you are doing well not to want to see her. You have so much more, you have a fulfilled wife! this is the most important.
You made a magnificent wish by letting your wife be taken by someone else without giving you the right to take her.

[inivisibletwin]

I think you can argue for an exception, as you are providing a service to your followers, by showing her pussy to all of us. I think they both may allow that. What do you think? Do they allow you to masturbate, or are you locked up? I haven’t checked in on you for a while.

i am allowed to masturbate, yes. and I am not caged. the only thing I am denied is access to her pussy. they had already said what they allow as far as pictures. I can have and look at pictures I already had from before her and Chris started dating, I just can't have any new pictures. Since Jen and Chris started dating, if any nudes have been taken of her I haven't seen them.

so, really its up to me if I choose to look at the pictures I have or not. They won't even know if I do or not. So the only person it really effects is me (and, well, you guys) ... so should I deny myself the pictures?

[inivisibletwin]

Doesn’t have to be nekkid pics of Jenn. E.g. it would be great to see a pic the way she was dressed for your anniversary date.

oh thats a good point! I now wish I had taken a picture of her on our date haha

[inivisibletwin]

update:

so, last night after Chris got home, the three of us got together to talk about the new rules.

Jen likes to hang out naked at home. (or, really, when ever possible). If her and I are alone she'll wear panties, if anyone else is present she'll be fully naked. The three of us were together, so she was fully naked. Chris and I were fully clothed... this is normal for us...

however, usually, if its just her, me, and Chris, yes she'll be naked, be she'll be relaxed and comfortable. not necessarily trying to put herself on display, just sorta relaxing... but this was after I had told her I was committing to not looking at her pussy... so she decided to tempt, and test me!

We talked for probly a half hour or so, i dunno, I wasn't keeping track of time, and then just hung out till bed time... she spent the entire time leaning back with her legs spread, and her pussy aimed at me, while watching me to see if I looked at it!!

Chris even asked what she was doing and she told him about my commitment, and said she was testing my resolve.

I went out of my way to do everything i could to just not look at it!! and I'm proud to say I succeeded! I did not see it once, save for in my peripheral vision while maintaining eye contact!

at the end of the night, before she went to bed with Chris, she said she was impressed. she was watching me closely and did not see me look at all... because I didnt! She said she's gonna enjoy this, and take advantage of it!

I'm proud of myself! and actually, it wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be... it was a little more difficult than it had been prior to our anniversary date, on sunday, only because I had spent that day not being denied... but it was still pretty easy to just not look! I just felt compelled to not look!



I'm going to try to keep this thread just about my denial, so I'll post about the new rules and everything in the thread linked in my signature. thats sorta my main on going thread.

[Jujube]

So you can’t watch them fuck? You don’t get any creampies? I would think they would like that, to show you how much more of a man Chris is than you. Show us some pre-Chris pics of her pussy on her hotties page!

[false-abroad]

I guess asking someone to post it for you would be out of the question?

How about posting it and then next anniversary you would fuck it, but not look at it? For example make the deed in complete darkness.

[MartasBoy]

......the rule is: I am not allowed to touch my wife's pussy at all, ....


......with the exception of our wedding anniversary. thats the one day a year I'm allowed access to it.

I think it could add to your feeling of being excluded, and feeling his ownership and possession of it, if you were only allowed your once a year anniversary intercourse, using a condom.

It would add to that sense of his ownership, that even when you are allowed your once a year access. You don't get to actually have skin on skin contact, you would feel diminished sensation and pleasure, and you will never ever come inside of her again.

[masculinecuck]

I"ve been denied her pussy for 5 years now ONLY allowed to clean.

[inivisibletwin]

I realize its not possible, because i mean, reality is reality... but i find myself fantasizing about my wife's pussy being censored just for me. like if i were to look at it all i'd see is a censored car, or blurry pixels, but everyone else can see it... just a thought that was in my head

[MartasBoy]

I realize its not possible, because i mean, reality is reality... but i find myself fantasizing about my wife's pussy being censored just for me. like if i were to look at it all i'd see is a censored car, or blurry pixels, but everyone else can see it... just a thought that was in my head

That is a very interesting fantasy. You have taken a sexual fantasy clearly into the realm of science fiction.

[inivisibletwin]

I realize its not possible, because i mean, reality is reality... but i find myself fantasizing about my wife's pussy being censored just for me. like if i were to look at it all i'd see is a censored car, or blurry pixels, but everyone else can see it... just a thought that was in my head

That is a very interesting fantasy. You have taken a sexual fantasy clearly into the realm of science fiction.

yeah, totally... but it illustrates how committed i am to this

[inivisibletwin]

i have to say i am pretty proud of myself on this one...

Usually, when Jen sleeps in my bed with me she wears panties, because im not allowed under the panties. (when she sleeps in chris' bed she sleeps completely naked, because he IS allowed under the panties)

last night Jen slept in my bed with me, fully naked. she said she wanted to test my resolve not to look.

she had us go to bed early. We also keep the heater on when it's cold because she likes to just be naked, that way she doesnt have to cover up.

she put the heater a few degrees warmer, so she would not need a blanket

and just before she crawled into bed with me, she took her panties off. "I want to see if you really wont look." she said. as she pulled her panties off, i quickly looked away.

she put her panties on the nightstand next to the bed, and said "dont make me put these back on!"

I usually have a dim nightlight on, so my room isnt completely dark. she laid in bed next to me, completely naked, and not covered, and we talked for a while. the light was dim, but I could see her face and tits in just enough detail to know that if I were to just look down I'd see her pussy... yet i did not look down...

we talked for a while, about a lot of things... we do still have a strong marriage... but one of the things she said was that if i keep my word and just dont look, it would turn her on a lot, so she's really excited to see if i keep my word.

eventually, she fell asleep... I did not... I laid there awake for a while... unable to sleep...

while my wife laid next to me, fully naked, and un covered. tempting me...

the door was closed, she was asleep, there was no one to be accountable to but myself... if I'd have looked no one would have even known.

I did not look

I could have... I resisted...

I feel like I laid there, awake, for several hours, the whole time just resisting the temptation to look.

in the morning she asked me if i looked, i told her i did not. she knows i would not lie to her. I could easily have looked and told her that i didn't, but that would have been a lie. she knows i want to be loyal to her and that includes complete honesty.

she even said, "you could've looked, you know? I was giving you the perfect opportunity to look without getting caught."

I promised her that I did not look, which is true.

she said, "okay, I have no way of knowing if you did or not, so I'm taking you at your word. you'd only be accountable to yourself."

I told her not to worry, I'm being honest. I did not look.

she smiled, kissed me passionately, and said, "good. this is gonna be fun"

then she got out of bed, stood next to the bed, facing me, with her pussy basicaly at eye level with me... at which point I literally turned my head away quickly, and she put on her panties.

"ok, my panties are on. you can look now" she said. I turned back and looked at her, and saw her panties on, covering up what I'm not allowed to see.

thats just the way i like it!

I'm feeling really good about this!

[edgedndenied]

I know you have said you still have sex with your wife. Does she give you blowjobs or hand jobs? Can you eat her if you are blindfolded?

[inivisibletwin]

I know you have said you still have sex with your wife. Does she give you blowjobs or hand jobs? Can you eat her if you are blindfolded?

Jen and I still have a sex-life, yes. I can have all the blow jobs, hand jobs, and tits that I want. I don't wear a cage (although I have entertained the idea, but if I got one it would be me imposing it on myself, and thats less fun. Jen has no interest in caging me) ...It's just her pussy that is off limits to me (well, and her ass, but thats off limits to everyone, she does not like anal.)

I am not allowed to see OR touch her pussy at all, except for once a year, on our wedding anniversary, other than that one day a year, we have a sex-life, but dont have actual PiV sex.

[kaskap79]

If you want it to be even more challenging, you could ask Jen or Chris to upload pictures into your thread in the Hotties section.

[inivisibletwin]

If you want it to be even more challenging, you could ask Jen or Chris to upload pictures into your thread in the Hotties section.

hmm, that would make it more challenging, in deed. I could ask them... though they havent wanted to be involved on this forum in the past... we'll see... they may just end up letting me post some of the pics i already have...

but yeah, if they posted a new pic of her pussy in that thread, that would mean I could no longer look at that thread!